₦airaland Forum

Babyvet:
Yes and housekeepers are millionaires

Housekeepers could be millionaires depending on how much they worked and how much they saved.
You could a be nurse and still be penniless.
It all depends on what is left after your expenses

Babyvet:
Lol, or a fraudster lol. No wonder Nigerians have bad image outside , too much dubious behavior .

Lol if you are willing to work here you should be fine.
BE Willing To Work


I know a Nigerian guy. He has a family of 2 kids and wife. Yet he saves not less than 4000$ after tax after family expenses.
Be willing to work is all
Only lazy people do scamming

onibokun10:
I intended starting up a plastic recycling company here in naija. But reading from cannie guys is making me want to try this abroad stuff... local man is confused �

Good goal. It pays.

GOFRONT:
GIRLCHILD?? Na wao


If true, then it's far better than that barren witch Adesua Etomi wey don use her womb take play Cashew when she was a teenager......

Or could the fault be from that bald headed weakling Bankole who also wants to be counted where they are taking counts of able Men??

Congrats Bambam, I hope the baby wasn't delivered in tha Toilet??

Thumbs up Teddy A......Na man you be jare, but hey, not until you give us a BOYCHILD!!!

Few are roaming but mad people full here no be small

Officialgarri:
May God remember the family of Banky Ws..

They are doing just fine! Not everyone must have a baby

aminusodiq:
Just 2k ma... With 3d view

Get paid after work?

aminusodiq:
I love ladies without makeup!!! Look pure and natural but I admire ladies who makesup occasionally .... It makes me see beauty in a glamorous form

Check my siggy for classy logo design/ portraiture!!!

Price 4 logo?

marshalcarter:
FCMB is a useless bank...where other banks are looking for customers to hit target...these ones are reporting their client...

FCMB is a useless bank

It’s what banks do in sane climates

machiavelli95:
How can a woman abort a foetus and rob it of h chance to experience life?

What is your point exactly?
I do not support abortion at all

Evercurious:
Madam being unnecessarily emotional won't and can't help here. Op simply doesnt have the capacity to absolve what you want him to.. HE DOESNT WANT THIS BATTLE AND ITS NOT HIS FAULT.. We might say it's his WEAKNESS People are wired different..

So let's just respect that.. After all the child's biological father and relatives are very much alive cos the lady never said they were.dead

He doesn’t have to then. I am emotional since I a human. I guess

SocialJustice:
Are you depressed, what exactly is your problem? I don't even care.

Your problem is that you are a sexist!
Depressed ko!

SocialJustice:
Lol, if the victim was a guy, I would have blamed him too. If she went to Germany having a job or independent source of income, nobody can abuse her. You better learn to take responsibility when bad things happen even though it's not your fault, by taking responsibility, you give yourself power to control future reoccurrence.

We both know you wouldn’t
You would have found a way to dump it on the woman too. That’s how Nigerian men are

Dpaulie:
You don’t have what it takes to marry a single mother that’s tolerance and understanding, you are pissed off because the innocent boy plays around? Continue beating him until you kill him with your nonsense beating, you sef pass beating? Come to my house and she how troublesome my five years old son is, yet he’s my best friend and I love him that way.. are u saying there’s nothing good about that little angel (the boy) with you? For me my “troublesome “ lil Em is the best thing that has ever happened to my life, and I’m very sure that ur girlfriend boy can never as troublesome as my lil Em

It’s cos it’s not his son
Humans truly are monsters we see
How can someone hate a kid!!

daddytime:
Wow.....

I'm sitting here and just wondering how you'd handle your own blood if he or she turns out to be more hyper than your babe's son.

You mentioned how you hate noise of any sort, let's just say you definitely ain't prepared to have any kids of your own.

It is obvious you have zero love for this kid and I'm afraid to tell you that, you can't love a momma and hate her toddler kid. From the woman's side, that'd be a no-no.

It's best to "die" this relationship and bury whatever it is you feel for this woman because e no go work.

It's a good thing you are letting it out on how you truly feel instead of to go dey use shame chop winch.

Meat wey person dey forbid e no dey use teeth share am.

If you can't love a kid no matter the circumstance, you'd have same problems with yours for sure and you'd be venting out your frustrations on your spouse and before you'd say Buha....you don open another thread here say your one year marriage don get k-leg.

A child will always return the vibe given. In his innocence, he's able to pick up on your hatred for him which of course won't help him love you in return and the subtle tantrums is what you'll get as his way of protesting/rebelling. Show him some love and you'll be amazed how calm he'd become.

I pray you grow up fast and find a way to handle this pretty well.

Let her go bro....

You are so wise

LOGOBELT:
I can't believe this comment is from a woman

She is so stupid.

ubunja:
I wonder how her life was before the kid slowed her down. Lmfao.

Are you just negative or stupid?
Cos she had a child at a young age and so?

SocialJustice:
Should I blame the predator instead? She set the ground for the calamity that came her way. I hate adults in their prime who decide to be lazy and choose to depend on another for their livelihood. It is the very recipe for exploitation and disaster.

Blame her because she is a woman and easy to blame shikina!

SocialJustice:
Typical poverty stricken Black woman. You thought oyibo German was your Moses. You deserve the treatment you got.

Instead of working to earn her money and be in control of her life, all the typical poverty stricken Black girl wants is a man that will shoulder her poverty and that of her family.

Blame her. Easy eh

True though. My plan is to be able to shuttle in between 9ja and Canny now. I miss home like crazeeee

Mandelus:
Never believe you did wrong by reading your hubby chat... Both of you are one and there is no 2 .
Secondly don't mind this quote up here.
Thirdly all the things you desire him to do for you do it for him with time he will reciprocate it...
Fix a date with him
Cook his favorite.
Play with him... Ask him to please you if not he will not get his phone do it laughing.
Tell him you miss him if he is outside late (call or text).
Tell him you missed those moments you cherished while you where dating.
Secondly dress nice, mannered not like a LovePeddler but in modesty..
Kia he will see you as a mother if you will treat him as your grown up son.
Never take advice from a divorcees or widow ...

Lastly be his slave

gabicon:
A better option will be to apply for the Canadian skilled worker, get a permanent residence in Canada. You can then start a business in Nigeria and shuttle to Canada at will, that way you wont be testing the waters with both feet.

Best advice so far.
My goal!

Whatever you are doing that gave you 20m at 25years old, keep doing it. Start slowly, and do it in a large way.

Your siblings can travel abroad as long as you have money no matter where you reside. You can always send your parents to vacation abroad

Psalme91:
thank you very much to all for your advice, would just like to clarify something as it seems some are getting me wrong , I am so happy with my daughters, I love them with all my heart, I was frustrated because the attitudes my husband had displayed at the hospital thats was why I spoke like an ungrateful person but after reading most helpful comments here it made me cry as I came to realise that I’m very lucky to be blessed with my daughters , when some people has none and would love to be in my shoes , I’m very sorry if I offended some people that are looking for fruit womb, I didn’t meant to be ungrateful , my pray is that God should bless you all with your heart Desiree. Have stopped crying and I’m so happy for my daughters even if their dad ( my husband) has left the house and he has given up his responsibilities. I would be strong and hard working so that my girls would become valuable women in the society with good education and jobs . thank you again, may the good lord bless you all.

God bless you.
You will have daughters worth more than 7 sons
The only Nigerian professor and Scientist I know here right now are both women.

Give your kids a good life. They will make you proud

henryobinna:
Are you dumb?

Didn't you see the message I quoted?

If you can't read, aunty pleade shift and continue facing front

Ana akogheri

3rd world countries una problem plenty haba!

henryobinna:
it seems to insult people from the Eastern region is a hubby for you. You must ne very stupid sha

What is your problem?

Righteousness89:
Do you believe in Miracles!

If you do believe like I do believe..

Them hold on to this little prayer.,


FATHER In The Name of JESUS, Tonight I Change the Baby in Psalme91 to a baby Boy. Amen..

Record today's date!
I will Hear your Testimony!

Nwokem
God does not discriminate against gender abeg

freecocoahubby:
Like I said, Nigeria is full of backward apes... and you must be one of them

Aswear
Imagine the clown!

rex444:
he can be coming back early na ...like 1am or 2am sef.... madam keep quiet ,no use children as your excuse . what do you want him to be doing at home with a boring lady that cannot come up with a healthy conversation but nags.... let him be

Maybe he should try getting a job?
How old are you?

fairy88:
Sorry I don't need millions to leave here

If I could get someone to take me there first, I don't mind sweeping all the street of uk for a living.
Here's killing

Haha

Phew! Don’t Nigerians dream of having a million dollars?


@lalasticlala @justwise
If possible Can you make this visible?

ojun50:
What is the grantee dat where you are going is safe?

So would you rather shuttle inbetween countries?