Family / Re: Is It Wrong To Show Gratitude? by Sarang(f): 4:32am On Jun 25, 2020 |
Ishilove: My God, what a warped worldview. Yes, all thanks belongs to God but will He come down from his throne to assist you? Is it not through human beings He will send you help? My sister was complaining about the same thing with her pastor's wife. She said when she sends gifts, recharge cards and sows seeds the woman never acknowledges them. We kuku advised her to borrow herself brain.
Me, the way I was raised, when someone gives you something, no matter how small, you MUST thank them even if they tell you there is no need for thanks. Op, those people in your experiences have a very bad upbringing. Since they have discountenanced the role of human beings, they should ask God to send them help through heavenly angels.
Once I see that you have the spirit of useless pride, ingratitude and a nauseating sense of entitlement, you will never get help from me, and this is why some people don't find favour because their character is so bad. I concur I can NEVER stand this kind of personality. Only once and that’s it. Who are you that you cannot say thank you but want help? Some people also have the hardest time saying I’m sorry I don’t understand it at all. Like you will wrong someone and expect them to apologized?! Op you have your answer The kids are learning from their parents They are not being taught gratitude. Deserve?! Nobody deserve sh*t If you can’t say thank you, go get it yourself. I can’t do it. 1 Like |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: At What Age Did You Make Your First N100,000? by Sarang(f): 9:47pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Alero3Arubi: Well not to be proud but i saved up to go to school and by 19 i had over 200k. You should be proud. I am proud of you. 1 Like |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: At What Age Did You Make Your First N100,000? by Sarang(f): 7:15am On Jun 22, 2020 |
joshuaidibia:
2-3 after my graduation I wasn't a kid. I'm not ashamed of it. I'm super happy where I am now. Most of the big boys in my department then are nothing to write about now, I learned from their mistakes including mistakes made by my dad. When you get 3 million just have that mindset it's nothing, it's not called greed or not satisfied, it's called not being in a comfort zone. By the time you say you want rest small, next morning you'll be broke. Learn from Cr7 and Messi.
#Never despise the days of little beginnings Thank you. 2 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Davido Performing Live Show For Kids At A Beach by Sarang(f): 7:04pm On Jun 21, 2020 |
He’s a very humble and kind human
Drama aside |
Celebrities / Re: Bewaji Folashade Buys A New Car. Her First Major Achievement In 2020 by Sarang(f): 12:44pm On Jun 20, 2020 |
slimfit1:
Envious of what sir a car please. Yes a car. And yes envious of a CAR. |
Celebrities / Re: Bewaji Folashade Buys A New Car. Her First Major Achievement In 2020 by Sarang(f): 12:44pm On Jun 20, 2020 |
cray91: yes i don't have and thanks for your horrible assumption! You are welcome |
Celebrities / Re: Bewaji Folashade Buys A New Car. Her First Major Achievement In 2020 by Sarang(f): 8:40am On Jun 20, 2020 |
ajimotoke: Congrats dear, I hope your body is not included if you know you know. Shut the Bleep up!!! |
Celebrities / Re: Bewaji Folashade Buys A New Car. Her First Major Achievement In 2020 by Sarang(f): 8:40am On Jun 20, 2020 |
cray91: I'm telling you! imagine someone calling a car purchase an achievement. Poverty mentality!
Mtchewww Whatever she calls achievement for her is ACHIEVEMENT But I’m sure you don't have bicycle wheel |
Celebrities / Re: Bewaji Folashade Buys A New Car. Her First Major Achievement In 2020 by Sarang(f): 8:38am On Jun 20, 2020 |
Kido90: This is a refurbished Nigerian used car. The rear lights are faded whereas the headlights have been polished. Congratulations all the same. We still drive refurbished. Car nah car!!! |
Celebrities / Re: Bewaji Folashade Buys A New Car. Her First Major Achievement In 2020 by Sarang(f): 8:36am On Jun 20, 2020 |
slimfit1: Poverty is a curse. By the way, I met a retired footballer today we talked for 30 minutes. He said to me you don't judge prosperity by the car you drive. He still rides a hybrid in Liverpool. We need sense in this Nigeria. Why are some Nigerians so envious?! Tufia! |
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Romance / Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Sarang(f): 7:05am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Nairaland is the worst place to ever ask for advice
E be like say Na only kids full this space.. haba! |
Romance / Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Sarang(f): 7:42am On Jun 10, 2020 |
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Travel / Re: Fraudsters: STOP Asking Your Kins Abroad To Help You Aid Your Selfish Interests! by Sarang(f): 2:14am On Jun 10, 2020 |
One closed hommie asked me to help him pick up 2500 recently, I unfriended him immediately.
If you like be my brother, you can get lost with your yahoo! |
Romance / Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Sarang(f): 2:06am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Courtesy demands information
But I wouldn’t mind if someone am dating come calling 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by Sarang(f): 3:19pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Happy989:
I still love my boyfriend. Lmao wanna eat your cake and have it? It’s called greediness |
Crime / Re: Cubana Chief Priest On Rape: Don’t Wait For Rapist To Be Rich Before Reporting by Sarang(f): 8:59pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
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Crime / Re: Cubana Chief Priest On Rape: Don’t Wait For Rapist To Be Rich Before Reporting by Sarang(f): 6:04pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
DonBenny77: Word! Dont mind them hoes. So I invited my new catch and she showed up putting on a mini skirt we were on the bed and she was like "I don't want to do anything oh" with legs wide open revealing panties and crotch" I fingered and we did the does. Later I asked her what's up with the hesitation earlier she was like " so you didn't want to struggle for it" These girls don craze finish Sometimes "no" means they don't wanna feel too cheap. I know when I'm governor tomorrow even the "Mr sweet" ashawo wey I apply small pressure Bleep far back 2006 go call me out..... No be only d banj and perruzi, call out my broke ass now Bitches!!! You are a fool 1 Like |
Health / Re: I Am AS And I Am Getting Married To AS by Sarang(f): 7:54pm On Jun 04, 2020 |
bigmodo: I am an As and I am getting married to an As. I love this girl so much that I am moving forward to marry her.
We have done our introduction and our traditional marriage is next month. I know the complications of an As marrying As in the issues of children they might give birth to. But I have no choice. I want to marry the love of my life. Don’t have babies Adopt one or more |
Romance / Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by Sarang(f): 1:43pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
uboma:
Wow!!!
You probably haven't tasted a 'good one' yet.....
Do you use Dildos? Nor do I wanna taste I don’t like Love Machine as well I don’t like anything pricky |
Romance / Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by Sarang(f): 12:35pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
uboma:
Really! Are you speaking from experience?
Something must have killed their love for a 'good dick'. Yea. Never liked dick to begin with Good or bad It disgusts me And I am just one person |
Health / Re: I Forget Things Easily: Should I Be Worried About This Condition? by Sarang(f): 12:29pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
Poloyanabo1:
I've tried severally bro, imagine i can sit on a plastic chair and sleep for straight 3 hours without waking up.
You need to train your mind on it I know for a FACT it is not spiritual I can sleep 8hours without waking not even to pee But when I have something important at a certain time I must wake up at that time |
Health / Re: I Forget Things Easily: Should I Be Worried About This Condition? by Sarang(f): 12:24pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
eRay200: I think this is called antero-grade amnesia and it has to do with short term memory ie. you forget things that happened in your immediate past but remember things that happened a long time ago. I think the best you can do is to pay more attention to details, be more conscious of whatever you do. This helps to reinforce your short term memory. The opposite is retrograde amnesia, where you forget things in the distant past but remember everything that happened a few weeks ago down to the smallest details. I don’t remember anything I don’t wanna remember. What do you call this? For example when am hurt. Really hurt. I stopped remembering it. And that’s that. I forget it completely |
Health / Re: I Forget Things Easily: Should I Be Worried About This Condition? by Sarang(f): 12:22pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
Poloyanabo1:
Am on that table now, and am afraid its a spiritual attack. I also sleep without being aware of my environment, as in very deep sleep ,could the two be related? It’s not spiritual anything. I sleep deeply too when my mind is free When I wanna wake at a certain time I wake at that time aswell because I tell my mind that I wanna wake at that time For a long time I never used alarm. Still I am deep sleeper |
Health / Re: I Forget Things Easily: Should I Be Worried About This Condition? by Sarang(f): 12:20pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
Mine’s even worst
I don’t remember anything from my childhood, about a year ago I realize that I am becoming seriously forgetful. All of a sudden all the lyrics I knew I didn’t know again. This is how I knew this is no longer a joke I write down everything.. my phone is filled with notes
But I do well in school I remember names too At a time I remembered more than 50 names while working at the gym last year Yesterday I was singing and all of a sudden I was singing the lyrics right.. I was even startled
I believe mine’s repression As a child it was my defence mechanism I believe I repressed so much that I can’t remember anything from my childhood I think it’s affecting me now Thankfully it’s getting better although am still gonna see a doctor I saw a counsellor who confirmed this 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by Sarang(f): 12:08pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
uboma:
What are you trying to say? They just do. |
Romance / Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by Sarang(f): 9:03am On Jun 03, 2020 |
uboma:
I am not here to argue either. Do you mind telling us why some ladies detest dicks? I will like to read your views on it. Just cos |
Romance / Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by Sarang(f): 12:23pm On Jun 02, 2020 |
uboma:
I beg to disagree that no man can take you to cloud 9? Because of your sexually orientation, all a dude, who is skillful, needs is patience when working on you. WRONG ASSUMPTION Not here for argument Just wanna point it to you some people detest d**ks |
Family / Re: Why Your Diasporan Friends And Family Do Not Send You Money When You Ask. by Sarang(f): 12:31am On Jun 02, 2020 |
bizme: mostly properties and shares.
Nice one Thanks |
Family / Re: Why Your Diasporan Friends And Family Do Not Send You Money When You Ask. by Sarang(f): 9:46am On Jun 01, 2020 |
NoToPile: The poster is even taking it too far abroad loun loun
Even here in naija once it is presumed you live a 'good life' - have a good job (God help you its one of those popular organization that 'pays well' ) drive a decent car, just normal things you seem to have the request starts pouring in and every body feels you are rich.
-family members
-Church members ( they will tell you to donate a huge amount)
-Even the vegetable seller on your street if you price too much she ll say madam na wa ooo you carry jeep come dey price my vegetable like that
-Everybody starts begging you for one thing or the other.
If you finally want to nail yourself go and flaunt on Facebook whether you are in abroad or naija the requests will be extended to friends acquaintances distant family.
We have this entitlement mentality.
My cousin , he should be older than me with nothing less than 20years asked my retired mum for 50k to add to house rent about 2years back, mumsie came up with 25k the dude came to her house collected the money and didn't open mouth to say thank you, mumsie didn't believe it. She told me I just laughed, she couldn't bear it she had to tell his younger sister that one said Iro ooo it's not possible, she called him and said egbon is it true somebody dashed you 25k you just collected it and left he was blabbing.
He now called mumsie and was trying to apologise, last year he got married, its family that still contributed, mumsie sponsored the food part of the wedding.
This same cousin refused to tell another cousin of mine he was getting married simply because he asked that one for money and the other cousin said he's not really boxed up presently because his daughter got admission to college of medicine and he has paid huge amount as fees, my guy lock up stopped calling the other cousin despite all he has helped him with in the past.
After this my cousin got married I sha told mumsie to be ready too, she will pay hospital bills and train pikin. Wifely gave birth this year during lockdown, they say called to rejoice I was watching, the next day it was ermm no money to discharge , its was a normal delivery ooo no complications mumsie was like what you no get money you go private hospital . You didnt know the amount they charge before ni .He now said his wife said general hospital wahala is too much she can't go through that stress. Issorait.
Mumsie vex me sef I vex join even me I didn't use private as I know quality private hospitals are pricey its General hopsitaly I jejely went for antenatal as they will have specialists too and price will not be too much.
After about one week he now called and said he was expecting that mumsie would have sent him some money, that's how mumsie para wella and started listing the amount of money she spent on medicines for that month that she too has expenses that who will she tell.
I was just looking at the both of them. The annoying part is that he's working.
If people can still try to collect money from a retired old woman who is now free.
The entitlement sha.
Was funny |
Family / Re: Why Your Diasporan Friends And Family Do Not Send You Money When You Ask. by Sarang(f): 9:44am On Jun 01, 2020 |
canDy4eva:
Please loud it ooooo...
Abroad abroad abroad, oya make una go oooo...
Guys trust me, there's NO PLACE LIKE HOME.
We may not have it all here but we have all the freedom and abundance we seek. Nigeria is the most blessed land in the universe. If the energy most people that travel abroad try and put it in here, not only would there be wealthy people here, Nigeria would also look better than it is now.
Pray for NIGERIA, put in your little effort and someday NIGERIA would be a reality of our dreams.
And to our leaders, it's either you SERVE the people or you step aside.
WE SAY NO TO BAD GOVERNANCE! “Nigeria is the MOST blessed land in the universe” Says the person who have never been overseas 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Why Your Diasporan Friends And Family Do Not Send You Money When You Ask. by Sarang(f): 9:43am On Jun 01, 2020 |
KevinDein:
Your cousin is very much useful to himself and probably to those he thinks deserve something from him. You, on the other hand, are the useless one who sits his lazy assss here in Naija waiting for cousin, friend, brother etc to send you their hard earned pounds or dollars.
Go out there and make money yourself if you think it's that easy. No one fvcking owes your entitled asss anything. I for vex if no one replied that guy aswear |