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proxillin:
Girls nowadays dont fck a single guy. Thats why I kept mute and played along. I am not her parents to question her on how many guys she fcking.

am asking if you continued having sex with hee without a cd cus am surprise she said u got hwr pregnant

funny how your mum told you love don't pay the bills..is either you were in a haste to leave her presence or she forgot to tell you this, "if you work hard and make your own money, you won't need any man to pay your bills neither will you be dependent on any guy".

Luckymay:
Don't mind them nne... I'm done debating on this stale argument a long time ago. I suggest you do so.... Nairaland guys are from another planet and not worth dating.
Their reasoning Is out of this world.
The best thing to do is to stop indulging them in this kinda stupid threads.
You'd see some of them trooping In to attack me with stale tags of being a hungry lady... But I don't care as I'm not hungry like them.

the only reason any one will come at you is because you lack intellect cus I don't see any reason why you should generalize every male on nl, next time learn to say SOME not ALL cus who knows, you might have a male relative or a male loved ones as nl members n you just insulted him indirectly. is a small world after all.

so next time don't generalize and I hope you will take correction..have a good day.

herbie27:
To clear your doubt @ the bolded, there're ladies who don't give a fucck about your money, n will never ask a man for a penny, they are rather given.
Comfortable guys don't complain while spending on "boo", broke once do.

really, it clearly shows your kind of person and if a guy doesn't give a lady money, she will tag him stingy n not caring, meanwhile there are hardworking independent ladies out there that pay their own bills..

sensible girls don't complain when the mood to make love with their bf sets in cus they want it as well but the hypocrites will complain.

misspicy:
Yes YOU can but outside Romance section.

really

Sugarladypleaser:
I am in training with one of the paramilitary departments, one my first day in camp during documentation, this lady approached me, she is in her 30s, we started talking and we just clicked.... we exchanged phone nos and from there, we always stick together in camp, talking, laughing and going out together. Even when we went home on break, we are always talking by phone calls, whatsapp for long hours.

I am married with a kid and I told her on that first day we met, she seems disappointed by it, but decided not to show it. we have become very close and apart from the fact that I like her, I have developed feelings for her, and I believe she has developed feelings for me too. Her brother is also always in touch with me.

We met just a little over 3 months ago. We will be commissioned with same rank, she is from Awka but based in Abuja, I am from Ibadan but based in both Lagos and Ibadan.

presently, I am fighting hard to bring down the lovely feelings I have for her, but I discover she is always telling me stuffs like, she is not moved by trivials, she doesnt fall in love easily, she is mean, etc..... is she trying to fight the feeling?

Is it that she doesnt have feelings for me or she is trying to pretend or she is put off by the fact that I am married?

Is she pretending?


Matured comments alone pls

Mr man you better face your family and give that lady a breathing space to find her own husband or you hit her and give us a breathing space of stories that touch when you get exposed.

this guy should be given the award for the most useless sperm in Nigeria

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this is more confusing than Nigeria recession itself

kindredspirit:
Hello guys,

Sometime ago, on this thread :

https://www.nairaland.com/2883246/she-chronic-liar-madness/3#42229704

..... I contributed my experience with my ex-fiancee.

Today, I just got an invite to the wedding of a friend who is a mutual friend of my ex-fiancee and I. She, the friend, told me that my ex-fiancee would be coming to the wedding also. Now here is the thing :

Recall that I had gotten a beautiful Ring of 45k with which I went down on bended knee to propose to this girl then. She'd happily accepted the Ring with tears in her eyes and kisses on my face. However, she would later go on to accept a proposal from some other dude in her base who called me one night (see story on link above).

Now, a little Gremlin on my shoulder is suggesting that I confront her, if she shows up at the upcoming wedding, and demand that she returns my Ring.

For the avoidance of doubt, this isn't about demanding the return of stuff that one bought for his ex or something infantile. The ring wasn't a gift but was supposed to be an emblem of our engagement before she blew it. Even though I'd let it go for two years, I still feel scammed sometimes as she never came clean all these years despite having been found out to be a liar although we never saw or spoke again since then. Now, I'm beginning to seriously mull over asking her about that beautiful ring of mine when we meet.

Not sure if it would make me feel any less flim-flammed, but it sure would be nice if she returned it as it could fetch me a tidy 50k plus, give or take, at the Gold merchants in my city. Hehehe.

What do you think, people? Should I confront her or not? Who has a similar experience to share?

are you for real, like seriously you want to ask her for the engagement ring, it will only make you look like you have not moved on and still wants her in your life.

my advice, make sure you look really stunning that day and go with a very sexy lady that will make heads turn( if you like you fit borrow person babe wey fine die )...

let me price this land

reading all that felt like eternity but am glad i did n my favorite part is the part you found out the truth but kept shut and played along..

come to think of it OP, you knew she was having sex with other guys and you still went ahead skin diving cus am surprise she said you are the father of her child?

anyway if you are sure is not your liquid in there, then you don't have to be scared.just go for paternity test when the baby comes out.

misspicy:
Happy to see you too

Did you get my mention on the most handsome thread?

lol yeah but there are so many handsome guys in here as well

misspicy:
He has always wanted to die.....

good to have you back

asuo27:
Stated the obvious.
Why will the guy do all that for a girl he's dating, i don't expect both sex to be mugus while dating.
Just see how is hurting him she cheated, and you men are hypocrites.
When you cheat is OK, when a woman cheats you will wish for her death.

is a MAN'S world

am sure they must have read too much p square story on the net and decided to pull their own stunt

asuo27:
She force am?, no be him carry e hand carry load.

defender of the universe

nma24:
Lol. Its better to have a gay son than a dead one though

my dear both are the same o cus he can't reproduce so he is as good as dead

nma24:
.......

give me this space

nma24:
How

the day any of my future son will open their mouth or show signs of being gay wahlia, god in heaven knows there will be two people visiting him that day.

nma24:
All I see is a guy posing like a model.... Posing with a fellow guy doesn't make him gay.

really and if he is your brother or son to be will you still be bold to type this?

na person born this ones so or they got them from a shrine

nma24:
Why Sex someone that you are not even sure of?

as in the thing tire me, like seriously i couldn't stop laughing..am very sure if he was a naija guy she will play the 90 days rule before sex but because my guy is from jand. first date n sex is all over the place, some naija girls can fall hand.

Aderola15:
Looool, long story ...... So you wouldn't mind your girlfriend lying for 7-8months?

everyone lies the most important thing is for you not to get caught...mind you, ladies are the ones who can lie the most n are good in covering up their tracks.

Aderola15:
I did once , still regretting it till date . And no, I haven't seen a perfect relationship but a relationship built on lies........ Kolewerk

well most are built on lies either before the relationship started or along the line....why are you regretting yours

Aderola15:
Have you ever being lied too? They dated for 7 to 8 months, and she didn't think of telling him the truth after the lies. She didn't tell him until he got to the punna and discovered it has been tampered with. I don't know how people deal with lies but when I'm in a relationship, I can't stand it. No one will have your head for saying the truth

n i asked a ?, haven't you lied to your partner before and have you seen any perfect person before in any relationship?

Aderola15:
Not being a V isn't the problem, lying is.

you think, is he perfect or does he want to tell me he has not lied to her before?

am not in support of her lying but all am saying is this, he should forget about it and move on or better still break up with her, if that will make him happy or resolve the issue.

nma24:
Error

meaning

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EWAagoyin:
please bear with any blunders im nt myself currently thanks.
we started dating early this year and everything was going on well between us, well i planned making her my wife and i asked about her, she told me about many attempts of rape towards her because she lives in a house with many relative boys but told me non of the attempts was sucessful which she said she is still a virgin, fast forward yesterday i discovered she wasnt a virgin but was now telling that one of the guy succeded in penetrating her bt nt for long, i feel used and disgusted your advices is needed please.
cc: ilegend , obotami , toks2008 , lalaticlala , sinaj , rokiatu , lola024 , brymo , lavenda , ladyf

what is so special about her v that you are so interested in it or are you one?

Kenya n fake bloggers with no concrete proof are like mourinho n free 3points this season

Amazingcidpro:
is it that she loves me nd she wants attention, time nd fun nd maybe the distance is fucking everything up. Or she doesn't want me any more or she has gotten. someone else

hahaha I had to laugh cus i noticed three things while reading your thread.
1.love: it doesn't exist among humans except for selfish reasons after which it dies of..how can she say she is in love with someone and attached to another whom she will eventually fall in love with later on(it doesn't make sense or add up well)

2.reality: bro the reality of life just set in, she is far from you and in the uni, do you know the amount of peer pressure that comes into the picture, from her female friends to every guy that will be asking her out(dept,faculty,hostel,church, even strangers)..she is only human n exhibiting the attitude of not wanting to b alone or feel lonely while her other friends have their bf close to them, reason y she is attached to another guy, just to feel in the gap..mind you she still LOVES you lol

3.sex: i don't know if you both have had sex, if no pls do cus that's the only thing that can keep her mind sane a bit or make her realise she can get it from u, so no need searching elsewhere..if yes then bear in mind that a week before a lady sees her period she tends to b Hot n if she is not in control of her body can end up having it with another guy who she is attracted to or feels comfortable with..there is a point in a lady's life, were she will b emotional unstable n easily vulnerable. any guy she is attracted to or having feelings for at that moment might end up having sex with her, more reason y they come up with the excuse of not knowing what came over them or give a very good reason y they cheated.

in all bro what I will say to u is this, que sera sera(what ever will b will b) ..if you like cry, show anger, love, care, go as far as traveling each month to visit her n relief her of sexual need or play all the bf role needed, what ever that will happen will happen.

just play your game tight n don't expect her to b perfect or holy cus no one is, do what makes you happy and if the relatioship is no longer healthy, walk away with your head up high than stay n get heart broken.