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foolinlove:
Because I am a woman... why do you think I am a man? I hate men...

WHO CARES IF YOU HATE MEN!!! NEWS FLASH, I HATE WOMEN WHO SAY THEY HATE MEN BUT DEEP INSIDE THEM, THEY KNOW THEY CAN'T DO WITHOUT A MAN AND YOU HAPPEN TO FALL UNDER THIS CATEGORY.

Pelon:
Their is this girl I am dating and we have been at it for weeks now she text me today and asked if I love her and I told her I do and she told me that their is this guy she was dating before she met me and she doesn't trust him that's why she decided to give me a chance and also that she love me and doesn't want me to get hurt if I eventually find out,and she also asked if I am okay with it...Pls guys advice me

REBOUND GUY, THAT'S WHO YOU ARE..IF YOU ASK ME, I WOULD SAY YOU SHOULD MAKE HER YOUR SIDE CHICK WITH NO EMOTIONS WHAT SO EVER ATTACHED..THAT WAY IT WILL BE A WIN WIN FOR YOU AND HER WHICH US BETTER THAN A FRIEND ZONE SHIT

WHAT MAKES YOU THINK THE WOMAN JUJU HAVE NOT STARTED TAKING EFFECT, I PITY YOU...
YOU BETTER START A SEVEN DAYS PRAYER AND FASTING.

NA WA O WEYTIN PERSON NO GO SEE FOR NAIRALAND...
YOU KNOW WHAT OP, TELL HER TO COME AND HUG ME TOO IF NOT SEUN WILL HEAR THIS

IF ONLY IT WAS REAL

Taiyescott:
Am A Guy Of 20 Years Of Age And A 400 Lvl Student.. I Asked A 200 Lvl Student Out, She Said She Likes Me But Aint Ready 4 A Relationship Yet.. I Told Her Nt 2 Worry That I Was Going To Wait Till She Was Ready.. We Have Been Just Friends For Over Six Months Now And Am Having Second Thoughts. Should I Keep Waiting Or Just Find Love Elsewhere? Am Really Confused Cause I Really Love Her And Actually Have Plans Of Settling Down With Her..

1.find love elsewhere
2.if u insist on still loving her, get yourself a side chick
3.concentrate more on your school n nysc service
4.get a job or something doing when you are done.
5.after the two yrs u v left with school n service, then u can come back n talk about settling down with her that's if she is still in the picture but for now enjoy your youthful life n focus more on success..THE BEAUTIFUL ONES ARE NOT YET BORN

OP IF YOU REALLY REALLY LOVE YOUR PRECIOUS HEART, JUST MOVE ON BUT STILL COMMUNICATE, THE POSSIBILITY OF HER NOT FINDING SOMEONE THERE BEFORE SHE COMES BACK OR HER COMING BACK TO YOU WHEN SHE COMEW BACK AFTER TWO YEARS IS 70-30%, SO THINK WITH YOUR HEAD NOT YOUR HEART..BY THE WAY DO YOU PLAN ON BEIN.G FAITHFUL TO HER FOR TWO YEARS TILL SHE COMES BACK?

Blackberrybabes:
I wonder what this world is turning into. How can someone wear his trousers under the buttocks and then showing to the world his dirty boxers. And it is unfortunate the guy feels so much comfortable in that. too bad!!!!

To make the matter worse, those ladies are even so delighted to be in his presence. See the way that one dey shine teeth like morning star. It is well

http://www.blackberrybabes.com/2016/06/what-kind-of-sagging-is-this.html

lalasticlala

FORGET ALL THIS THINGS YOU ARE SAYING, THAT'S HOW GIRLS WILL SCREAM AND SHOUT HOW THEY CAN'T DATE A GUY THAT SMOKES, HEAVY DRINKER, CULTIST, SAGS, BODY PIERCING, TATTOOS AND THE REST BUT WHEN THEY FALL IN LOVE WITH ONE WHO DOES ONE OF THE ABOVE MENTION, THEY WILL COME OUT AND SAY I WILL CHANGE HIM OR HE WILL CHANGE CUS OF ME ( WHO IS DECEIVING WHO).

SPACE BOOKED, I WILL COME BACK

TRUE LOVE DOESN'T EXIST BECAUSE IS JUST A THING OF THE MIND WHICH IS NOT PRACTICED IN REALITY.THE ONLY TRUE LOVE THAT EXISTED AND STILL EXIST IS CHRIST LOVE FOR US

kenkenny55:
Good morning nairalanders. Plssss guys am troubled since yesterday. My instincts is what I believe have never lied to me... My gurl yesterday as I left for work sent me a message via whatsapp. That she wants to hang out with one of her friends and he is a guy. And am the kinda guy who doesn't restrickt women from doing what they want to do. Especially when am dating someone, believe since I am not married to them. So I don't have the full right to control her.



I said okay to her request. Told her if she wants to go she is free. I didn't taught any bad thing would happen buh what made me think she had sex with the guy is that her attitude changed after abt Four hours later. She called me and became so romantic unlike her before.. Asking me if I have had somtin to eat at work and I should make sure I eat cus I am her baby puting up an unusual attitude I have not seen in a while. Even after the call she said I love you which she haven't done in two to three weeks now. I was like in my mind is she for real. Unlike her. I said okay? Later in that same day. She came up with a question wether I have cheated or slept with another girl since I met her. And to me all this new attitude she brought might be that she have had sex with the guy and she is feeling guilt. Becos when someone had sex she becomes more happier dan usual according to research

Plssssssss friends. From her attitude did she had sex with him. Cus my instincts keep telling me that she did. Sorry for the long write up and grammer that is not good. Advice plssss

my brother sorry to say this but SHE HAD SEX WITH THE GUY , is hard to swallow but she did..

play some mind games on her and you will get your answer

amaraedec:
thanks Bro

don't thank me yet till you come back and tell me you have gotten another lady..incase you don't know, ladies r 3x if not more than the guys around..

Florblu:
Swerve jor.....Na who you wan dey lie for here?

as in eh i thought I was the only one o

AniemaEniye:
Hello Nairalanders,

I hope this script find you all well. I'll try as much as I can to be brief.

I met this guy around April 2015 and we attend the same Church here in PH. First we became friends and along the line, it became emotional. The guy is 8 years older than me. At first I thought he's one of those bandwagon of "eat and run" guys, but what keep me wandering till date is that this guy have not for once ask of sex from me (despite the fact that we are always together alone). He's just too nice to me as well, he always try to meet my needs (even when I don't ask). He seem to be concern most about the future and how we both can make a family together. I've asked severally why he's this nice to me, he said he can't really explain how I won his heart. I'm kind of worried and disturbed about this, don't you think he might be up to something fishy? I need your advise pls.

Mod please help me move to FP

no one can please a lady in this life, seriously ladies don't know what they want.

if he is not nice, problem
if he is nice, problem
he ask for sex, problem
he doesn't ask for sex, problem
if he shows concern about your future, problem
if he doesn't show concern about your future, problem

what do ladies want?

LADIES=PROBLEM

amaraedec:
I have not spoken to anyone about my ordeal but I sincerely hope your advice will go a long way towards healing me and restoring back my sanity.

I started dating this lady whom I still love so much February 2013, few months before I lost my mummy. I was so cautious of the affair at first, knowing that it was the first time I am getting so emotionally entangled to a lady, but after I lost my mum, I was so hurt and the fact that she was the only person very close to me then, I threw caution to the wind and fell helplessly in love with her, hoping that it would help alleviate the pains of losing My mum and praying deep inside my heart that the relationship will lead to marriage. It did to a reasonable extent alleviated the pains of losing my mum.

Even while I was in school, I gave her everything that I somehow lived in deprivation. Her friends were complaining to me that I spend a lot on her and it might backfire one day. I ignored their advice. I buy her handouts, clothes, Mobile gadgets and even give her certain amount of money on monthly basis to add up to her feeding money, I made sure she lived above her peers in school .

The whole problem started late 2014, when I was about leaving for my NYSC. she started acting quite strange, I respected her privacy that I don't even touch her phones, even though I give her the freedom to handle my phones and answer my calls. I noticed she wouldn't pick up her calls while with me. Like I said, I respected her privacy that I never gave so much thoughts into her actions, I loved and gave her my all believing that she will never cheat on me. Then on her birthday, I had got lots of surprising gifts for her and even arranged a little get together without her knowledge. To my greatest surprise, she surfaced at the venue of the party with the excuse that she was going on an errand for her parents. I handed over to her the gifts I got for her, she collected them and left the venue. Little did I know she had gone to see her erstwhile lover. Depression had started creeping in and I was losing my sanity apparently.

To cut the whole story short, when her girlfriend opened up to me that my girl was having affairs elsewhere, I never believed her at first, but after I confronted her, then I was looking so sick and pale, completely lost in thoughts and pains. She eventually opened up and was really sorry to the best of my knowledge . I couldn't help the pains, I. Started taking anti depressants, I have already vowed never to cheat in my life, knowing that prosperity has a way of rewarding Fidelity.

After I was mobilized for NYSC, I left for my Camp, but the ghost of a failed relationship was already hunting me, I had lost interest in living. Shortly after I returned back from my Orientation camp, everyone knew something was wrong with me, I only told them that it was the stress from Camp. Well, I was battered emotionally, that on 31st December 2014, I hit the rock button and decided to end my life and end the pains, I took insecticides and collection of anti depressants in over dose and battery acid, I cheated on death as I was in Coma for 4 days, I was referred to a psychologist for rehabilitation after I was discharged on the 12th of January 2015. I spent 6 months in rehabilitation Center here in Lagos State, where I was also serving then.

After the whole incident, I made up my mind to forgive her and give her a second chance since she was really sorry. The whole scenario started replaying itself, that she started acting strange again, already my friend had told me that she was seeing someone else. My family knew I was slipping into depression again and had wanted to fly me out of the country, but I was denied Visa when I least expected it. I had to leave Enugu for Lagos so as to keep away from her and the environment. but she still calls me on phone, saying that she still loves me, I truly love her so much. Am totally lost of words, lost of ideas. Am terrified to say the least. Am losing my sanity again. Please friends, depression is getting better of me at the moment.. I need a sincere advise

OP YOU ARE A VERY BIG FOOL FOR TRYING TO TAKE YOUR LIFE BECAUSE OF A LADY...can one imagine the rubbish he is saying..gosh to think is a whor that is driving you nuts is an embarrasment to manhood..is either you cut of those balls of yours or you grab them and get yourself another lady, this time around make sure you have side chicks(lots of them)..i wish i was your bro bro, I would knock some sense into you.

LadyAimy:
You like?

naaa not my type, team boobs

jonaifame22:
me!

then bro do the needful

very simple they should wait till when the lions fall asleep

confess to the family ke, is like op is high o after 6years is now you want to open up...my advice is for you to confess to your pastor and ask for forgiveness that's all. forget family cus the wound this story of yours will open, you would wish you kept your mouth shut.

jonaifame22:
well it's jus that,there's a good side to living wth them although it's not mch, buh I kind of enjoy some things like dem sitting on my laps some times and that makes me feel warm,maybe one day I'll fvck one of dem,I'm hopeful sha!

who is older, you or your sis?

JESU, THE gODS MUST ME BE CRAZY IN HER VILLAGE FOR THEM TO BLESS HER WITH ALL THAT

smoking joe

hahhaha this guy is funny, but op is it hard for you to ask them to leave or better still call a meeting, seat them down and talk to all of them.

smoking joe if you doubt me ask Mohammed Ali

nikkyharry:
u cnt av a no sex relationship , fine ! Buh u can actually let go of d person u luv cos of sex?

what is love without sex? both go together my dear

gbese re i will come back and give you advice, right now le me think

you concentrated more on the bo*bs yet you couldn't get the ni*ples right

rummeh:
Abeg too many words.. Somebody summarize for me abeg

hey how did you beat me to that spot

booked

Berlyn:
it was'nt intentional, probably i did'nt see your mentions

lmao na wa o mtn person no go see for nairaland, so they beg people to reply mentions agains lol...first time seeing this one...

Gflat:
I have some questions as a young man who has a vision and goals for himself. There are some questions which I will love to seek opinions of others on and I will like the ladies to make some impact In this conversation too.
My questions goes as follows.
1. Can I ask a guy who doesn't have a stable job go into a relationship with a lady at 25?

2. Will the lady stay with me, considering the fact that i am still struggling?

3. Though I have a job I do at the moment but will that be enough to keep a lady at 25? Because it is very obvious at that stage she is suppose to be serious with me

4. To the ladies, do you think love is enough in a relationship? Even though you realise the guy is struggling really well to make things work but it hasn't "clicked" yet

welcome but too much photo effect