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Francis95:
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The money never settle down... exercise patience ...Am gonna share it amongst all Romancelanders

at least get new wares now..tell me thank you cus my comment attracted more likes on your page lol..good luck in you exam

smileysmiley:
you are shining 32 cause you've been blessed, may this blessing never pass me by

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I'm not a trouble maker, you can make enquiries, my head is very leveled o...

leave him alone na or better still go n snap in shoprite and i will help you get it to page 13 lol

foolinlove:
It's beyond me why anyone wear underwear. Just another thing you have to put in laundry. No one sees under my clothes anyway.
I say every day is no underwear day.

you are the boss

question of the century

Pheals:
So am a problem to u

yup yup

foolinlove:
I never made the claim that ladies are saints. i dont date ladies so dont know. I just know that men are awful.

hmm well is a two way thing we all have our share of what we v been through as a matter of fact the reason for my signature lol...just take it easy n have fun

foolinlove:
It's not my choice they cheat - it's theirs. How can I control another's actions? It aint mu fault. They lied, they cheated. Not me. I didn't drive them to their action, they chose to lie. Of they don wanna be wit me or respect me, they could have droppd me first?

i get your point though but drawing into such conclusions is wrong cus i, for one, don't believe that ladies are saint either talk more of trusting them.

where is misspicy,hallfricandy and pheals let me take your you to my pastor as well lol

foolinlove:
Never in my life.

ahhh why do I find it hard to believe you...okay let's assume you are saying the truth(hard to believe), indirectly you are saying you have been cheated upon most times right based on your conclusion..
my question is this, what is it you are not doing right that makes this guys cheat on you? sincere answer

sincerely some guys are funny..
you will have money to take a girl out and spend on her but common 700 to buy durex na wahala..okay you finish every every, Oya buy pills for her( lai Lai they won't) instead they will prefer to wait for buhari to sign budget..okay finally she done get belle, now bring money for d and c(they won't).
tell me how is he going to take care of the baby if he can't afford the cheapest thing that would v avoided her getting pregnant in the first..am pretty sure they might b teenagers.

for the advice you seek, tell him to sale his phone to raise the money or he start reading guidelines on how to becone a father or he let's his people know, so they will know what next to do.

linda will be somewhere singing my helper o my helper lmao..

truth is rose made a mistake by accepting a lady to stay with her bf, knowing fully well that guys can easily fall prey to temptation..
if she really love her guy and wants to continue dating him, she should talk to him and the only solution is for that lady to leave the house after all, her guy is not her father.
if she doesn't live him then is best she leave the relationship and let go.

let's call a spade a spade n not a walking stick..

all this writer's this days with fasicinated stories that is contradicting, all in the name of traffic. lmao the guy with the wicked prayer sha

foolinlove:
You just haven't been caught in the act yet. Or you are 10 years old. Or have always been single. If opportunity arises, you will cheat too. Mark my words.

have you cheated yes or no?

foolinlove:
Nah, they don't. But they all cheaters.

If guys say to you "I'm tired, I'm busy, my phone died, I'm thinking, I slept off..." he a cheater. It takes 30 seconds to send text - but harder to do when you're wit another girl.

show me one faithful girl and I will show you a liar..pls don't even start saying what you don't know, ladies are the most deceitful being and if you doubt me ask Adam.

Pheals:
Your room na hotel ! If the gal get pregnant naw ...na your house she go come if the guy run away with her mama and u knw Nigeria mummies Ewo

what makes you think she will get pregnant? what happened to condom and birth control pills

Chia and that's somebody girlfriend ooo and the mumu bf go they form love for where him they..lord save us from karashikas

the things we hear this days in marriage makes one wonder if it will be a journey one should embark upon.
sometimes I wonder if this couples of now adays think marriage is the same as relationship.
1.except if the communication is platonic I don't see any reason why the wife has to keep in touch with her ex infact is uncalled for, she is giving room for past emotions to creep in which will affect her marriage if care is not taken..
2.in as much as I don't buy the idea of partners going through each others phones, her passwording her phone will only make him start thinking she is hiding something which is a bad move.
3.marriage I believe is all about communication and understanding, the both of them need to seat down and talk this through before it blows out of proportion.
4.fiinally he is the man and like every head of the family if he can't handle issues like this, is better he meets his or her parents, pastor or counselor, cus issues like needs people who have been married for long and still living together in peace, not most single people like us on nl..so op do the needful.

Pheals:
. I understand u but among all we are gonna. Find that 1%

that's the problem, what makes you think she is the 1% n mind you she won't change due to the above things I mentioned earlier..that's why i said I can't tempt myself by fooling myself into believeing am with the 1%..funny enough the 1% might not be in that school lol..

at least she is using what she have to get what she needs, which makes her more better than the guy with one talent and still buried it.

Pheals:
bro. It's possible oh. Yes !

my dear you know is not, is it not Naija uni again or didn't you go to school ni. the day people will start facing the realities of life, they will understand better that we are humans and can fall prey to any temptation.
I, for one, can't be in a serious relationship with a girl that is still in school, talk more of marrying one, is either she is done with school or I look else where.
Truth is there are several things that will distract her (guys,peer pressure, academics n the rest) n it won't be healthy for the relationship.
even though all girls are not the same am not going to take such risk n fool myself.
op tell your friend to look elsewhere, there are ladies out there that are ready for marriage.
The ones in school feel they have all the time in the world and that's y they will keep tossing you around because the word marriage sounds like CAGE to them n denying them freedom to do certain things(which is the truth).

MoneyToolz:
thanks fr ur advices guys. I will move on. And tell my parent.

now you are talking..always have this three things at the back of your mind
1.know your worth
2.do not settle for less
3.don't date or marry anyone out of pity

they will help guide you in avoiding silly mistakes that can cost you your happiness.

mine wasn't worst per say cus we ended up doing the do that same night..don't want to go into much details

adeborode:
good evening,pls I need ur advice on dis relationship of mine,we have dating for d past 3 yrs,I have a good job at least that is enough to sustain a family, in earlier April of dis month my girl has bn behaving somehow I mean picking calls and not responding well,and saying some kind of junk word I don't ilke to hear,I still continue with her till d first week of dis month dat she called me to inform me dat she is not interested in d relationship again that we could only b frds,in which I beg her to tell me y and wat I have done ,yet she could not hold one thing to b specific.after den I moved on with my life I cut the communication link between us, but to my greatest surprise she called me tonight now,telling me she is sorry ,that she has missed me a lot and she want me bk,now am scared cos she might have another ulterior motive for coming bk,pls house wat should I do In dis case

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sorry to say op but if you go back to her then you might as wel cut of those two stuffs in between your legs..do you need a soothsayer to tell you that, the period she left you was to play away n she ended up being a side chick, now she wants to come back to you(good boyfriend)..better wisen up n the last time i checked girls are twice if no three times the population of guys..what are you scared of, you don't know how to break up or how to let go n move on?

Pheals:
the guy never said she is cheating

are you for real, you think is actually possible in the uni this days..smh keep deceiving yourself.

larabae13:
calm down nah mention other pple why was it only me u picked out? Abeg enough is enough leave me outta dis jare

lol no problem

thewidemouth:
Nigga.. lemme tell u cos d tin just happened to me last week.. tell her what u saw nd dat she shud end it wit d guy.. it is either u or him.. nd dat u dnt wanna be wit a double dater..

Chia some guys sha, so this thing happened to you and is obvious you are still with the girl..smh hat happen to guys with balls..dump her na or if is that hard to dump her then stop thinking of having something serious with her and move to someone better..goshh what's with guys this days n love

larabae13:
guy abeg abeg wetin sef...I wasn't being tribalistic...a yoruba dat goes to an easterner shop calls him omo ibo because dats how it is he is an igbo man it doesn't mean an insult...if u get to a mallam nd want to buy sumfin is it nt aboki or mallam u'll call him? Nd enough of d insults itz nt polite

abeg, anyhow u say it you can't suger coat it cus most times the word omo ibo is used for negaive issues, segregation or to make jest of someone..am not stupid when i said u were being tribalistic..you could have used his moniker to tall to him cus who knows maybe he is not igbo n might b from another tribe but u already tagged him as one cus u see a shop around him...plsss you can tell someone who is not educated or exposed that not me.

MoneyToolz:
Good day house, pls i am in my 20th, doing my biz, and set up my self to get marriage by next year, with the girl i am dating she is my cousing sister. We ar together 4 2years. 8month to our wedding. I catch her double dating, or i may call it cheating. With one guy, her class mate, i knw he is friend to her, as she always tell me, yestarday i accidently have access to her phone, cox its lock i wnt to help hr pix it. I saw they chat with d guy. As follow: you know that i will be engage nxt month. And
1.You know i am in love wt you. 2. You ar still in my deep hrt. 3.if u say i should leav u i dnt knw hw my heart wl be. 4. You dnt knw hw i feel abt u. Imagin life wtou u. These ar hr words to him. Nd he ix advicing hr nt to agree wt me, he wil help hr do charm to break us. I am so much confused pls i need mature, and honest advice. Thanks you.

the sooner guys realize that, not going into any serious relationship with a girl that is still in school the better for them..sincerly dating a girl that is still school is like a time bomb..they have not finished flexing the school life and are not ready for marriage yet, is hard to swallow but is the painful truth..op just let her go, there are girls out there that are ready for marriage just look for them..at the end is her loss not yours cus the so called school bf she is dating won't marry her(reality).

ThisYourTatafo:
So we all know Nigerian women are beautiful no doubt and, you can't help but love them for their true ingenuity and charm.
But there is a lapse somewhere...
You see a girl you likelike, both of you feel these beautiful butterflies rising inside, the light is greenest, you guys exchange numbers, call often, text all the time, in some cases you even hang out.

Then it gets to that point where you wanna ask her out and SPLASHSPLASH...
She turns you down simply because she's trying to make you work or simply trying to friend zone you.

The worse part is you've started developing deep honest feelings for her, then she says
TENDER I HAVE A BOYFRIEND I'M SORRY BUT I LOVE U.


You love me but you can't date me?
Now that's convenient.

Well as a smart guy that you are, you let it go only for this evil girls to come running around you again wanting the attention you gave in the past.

They start professing undying love for you with all the I MISS YOU trash.

By the time they come to their senses, the guy has totally killed the feelings he once had for her.


Guys wanna fall in love but these girls make it so complicated... Especially Nigerian women.


We no dey F1 race, I no fit dey chase you abeg

the moment you realize that what you seek doesn't exist the better.

funarosho:
I met a lady two years ago, we are bout starting a relationship bf I traveled out of the state bt we were still communicating ND I never stopped telling her how I feel bout her,. Last two months she decided to give me a chance bt I asked her bout her relationship which she told me, her guy is not showing her love no matter what she does. Although he once cheated on the guy, dt makes him not to trust her again bt she's trying her best to show him she no more a player.i asked her bt u r bout to cheat on him again by hooking up with me, she said her mind is no more in the relationship, and I told her to break up with him, she said she want to see me face to face again so dt we can talk Hart to Hart. But my concern now is dt, she keeps going to d guys place, although she said d guy is going out of the state, dts why she keep going to help him out bt when ever she wants to go she will tell me ND give me her words dt nothing lik sex will happen. Guys pls do you think she can really put her Hart into any relationship with me even after av gone to see her?

. op do you need the whole of nairaland to pray for you so that this spell or juju you are in can be broken..I don't see why you can't read the hand writing on the wall..that girl has not gotten over her bf before, to me I believe you are just her rebound guy..just have her as a friend and forget about dating her, if not you will have to contend with her ex or other guys.