hopefully, i will be writing and thats if my sch finnally release my cert. should have reg but na sch dey hold me since.

reading from all responses to the post,

I realized that Nigeria is far from redemption if we see ourselves as the liberation force of Africa and have this tribal egoism enshrined in the fiber of our moral values, how do we want to move?

It's not the oppressor oppressing us anymore, it is we the oppressed oppressing ourselves. and am a Yoruba, the way a Yoruba man will think is different from the ways a man from another tribe will, we are all working towards a goal. adage "Yoruba man says, your neighbor is eating poison and you saying it is not you and it is not your business when the problem starts, then you will realize you should have stopped him.

Have you ever seen a military coup that has moved a country forward? or have you not heard of a coup that spills to neighboring countries, if we don't react as a sovereign nation, we will all face the music soon.

Go back in history and you will understand better. A case study is one in our country. (Babagida and Abacha time).

I Remain my humble self "SEALL"

Will be straight to the point,

My best advice is to re-date your wife.

Yes, Re-date her

By re-dating her, i you will have to do all those things that guys do when u are into a girl, let your love brew anew and in the course of an outing, if u guys felt like making love do (if u have a car probably or if u have a corner that you can use, reason been that it will help you to yearn for your wife again)
and also let me add this, try to have sex at anywhere at any time and with numerous sex positions.

But Note: When you start the re-dating thing, DONT do IT with the MINDSET of SEX or base on trying to reinvigorate your SEXUALLY attraction between your wife but base on knowng and enjoying your wife's company.

you will thank me later.

You cannot choose a goat as a partner and expect respect cos they only demand it but respect is earned. The purpose of pre-marital counseling.
Treat ur, partner, the way you wish to be treated, and also learn ways to enjoy your marital life. and most importantly don't start what you can't finish, that is to say, don't start living like a couple while still in the dating period.

Parenting is deep and one needs all methods to bring up a child in a goodly and God-fearing way, one thing is sure, u can't do without spanking a child but it must not be at all times. many cases of the issue raised on a child been beating and still going rogue is mostly attached to the fact that the family is disintegrated. if it's possible to look through a family with such, you will realize that it's as a result of the image the parent poses to the child. you cant be beating your wife as a man or the woman not giving the man adequate respect in the house and you think beating a child will make him good, NO. All religious book shows that one must beat a child but how you do matters. You solve the issue, one must know when to beat when to advise and when to pray for the child, and also when to take other actions but most importantly, the father and the mother's attitude towards the child and towards people around is key in parenting.

i served in Bayelsa State

State Capital: Bayelsa (Amarata girls ....... can't rem the rest jareee) Mathematics Teacher.
A member of NYSC Musical Band.
Stay in NCCF Lodge (Building Committee Chairman)
and also a member of Drama Unit (Painting Scriptures into Pictures)

If u hear moralleee, u should know what to do

It was all fun, i dont mind having such event occurence again cos it was a building period/season for me personnally.

Camp: Kolokuma opokunma

Was fun thou

Tell your friend to tell her company/bank to blacklist the guys BVN simple, he wont be able to do any bank transaction again of they should flag his BVN, all his account in other bank will be alerted and any money in it will be wired to your company so simple. gone are the days people can defraud banks and go free except the person in question no use bank again.

pls i will appreciate if anyone can send me the study pack for foundation level Email: sobunkunola.afolabi@gmail.com or sobunkunolaeniola@gmail.com.

Thanks in anticipation.

if u can take my advice, then it will be easy for you without needing a lawyer...

1. u said he used the ATM same day, if so, it wont be long that he used the ATM u help him out... let the bank know that the said customer used the ATM same day judging from the time u did a transfer for him and let them provide evidence or comfirmation of that withdrawal, and also the evidence of transfer into your account of the #3,000. (The phone contact of the customer will be there and let the bank or you do the calling)

2. Then file a complaint with the said bank via there complaint center with the evidence with your and a letter to sue them on not carrying out a due diligence on the afore-mention transaction and also not giving a call to notify you of a restriction on your account base on a customers complaint before taking such decision on your account.

3. Ask for a picture evidence captured by the ATM machine of the withdrawal of the #4,000 which will also show you the time and also ATM no (every ATM machine has a unique no and a camera). all these will surely point out the hiding agenda with the location. These will help, if his ATM wasnt stolen and he used his ATM himself, then its not possible that within the short time of withdrawing at the ATM someone used his phone but himself.

4. u can also intimate the bank to ask/or demand from the telecom company of his call log.

5. All these will help you to point out his fraudulent ass. ask the bank to invite him over and you also on a fix date.... then ask him questions regarding all the said transaction. ask him how he got back his line his line if it was clone, ask him how the said transaction was verified, because for every ussd transaction, there is a[b] FOUR[/b] digit code which serves as a transaction verify for all transactions and it is a secret code known only to the owner of the account...

he will surely split

dawnomike:
I really underestimated Fury

underestimating a former WBC and a 2 time unifier of the belt WBO, IBO, WBC is a wrong move. i knew fury will defeat him because the first fight, fury was only back from the hospital(Phycological issue) less than 4month b4 the fight and even at his 50%, wilder couldnt defeat him in punches, he beat wilder and wilder was only able to draw the fight due to the 2 knock down.

so my bro when u c him run and dont forget, that omo shagamu dey him back(AJ)

Good morning

I dont really comment on things like this but i felt the urge to do on these particular issue and will try point out somethings for you and also abuse u small (permit me)

1. u ask a question, are u stupid? (Capital letter Y.E.S) but i didnt mean that as an insult, just pointing out something for u. and y i said yes is because when the free sex was sweet u did come here and tell us, u wre enjoying it (sebi we no kuku date and na free sex). thats what i was able to pick from the info u provided, now u now felt bad abt it u seeking for retribution. go and meet bros J.

2. use and dump? (NO). both of una use una self, she was enjoying it same as u, and i have these feeling that there is more than u let out... let us know wetin dey sup

3. you wan leave am, thats very easy. make her know u get girl and b sincere with the new lady, possible make her not just talk to the new lady but meet her in person and always make sure the new lady is always around.

4. i could also see that in ur write up, it seems the new guy in question cant do half of what u are doing for her but she want a relationship with the guy means there is something she could or is getting from trhe guy that u are not giving.... Ladies always know their onions, possible she sees a better future in the guy than u or in the plan of the guy, she is seeing herself but in urs, she is missing... ladies do sense danger.

5. what is ur plan as a guy in the next 2yrs. ask urself and ask the girl next time she shows up... what am insinuating is u guys lack *COMMUNICATION* . ur defination abt communication might b the downfall of the relationship, becos communicationb is deep than just mere chating and talking. it takes everything and all to go deep with a lady , its not just a walk in the park, holding hands, show-off, introduction to parents, etc. its the bedrock of every successful relationship. i can talk to you from now till next year and there is no communication and we can chat or talk fr just 30mins and av pass a vital message (COMMUNICATION)

guess av been able to help u........

chenzen:
no one knows

pls, a link to this story

GodSaklek:
The fact still remains that Ronaldo has played in different leagues with different trophy makes him stay ahead of Messi, although Messi is a great player but if he leaves Barcelona, then I will take him serious,Messi performance with Argentina teams has shown that he Cannot perform very well with another team apart from Barcelona, it's just like someone that was named a king of one kingdom because he knows how to defeats everyone in that kingdom but inside himself,he's scared of going out of that kingdom for the fear of being defeat..

Npt been sentimental here but you just nailed it, either they like it or want it, ororo has achieved a feet here, four UCL in six year, 2 national trophies (Euro & UNL) in three years let the beefers continue, yes u might think messi deserve it but these season, their are players who deserve it more these season than messi,
1. Saido Mane deserve it more with his performance with liverpool
2. Vigir Van Dirk deserve it more for his steller performance with liverpool
3. Hazard deserve it for his individual performance with chelsea leading them to a UEFA Cup
4. Bernando Silva deserve it for his performance with Club and Country 3 trophies for club and 1 for country
5. Raheem Sterling also deserve it for his performance for Man City
i can go on and on including players both in Seria A, La liga, Bundesliga and Ajax Players who had a better season than messi.

Privettoall:
This is a well written article.

To butress the point of the writer, let us look at the crashed chopper of prof. Osinbajo. Obi and Osinbajo are not safe. Yeah. It is more about 2023 battle. I wish this 2019 is Osinbajo and Obi ticket. These are two combo that can take this country out of this mess. We need to get out of this mess before talking of anything else. APC and its next level slogan are unserious. But I do not see it happening. Nigeria is in another mess with Atiku or Buhari on board. But it seems Buhari just needs to go away. He has done enough damage. He should go rest and die in peace in Daura. And there are still many Osinbajo and Obi out there. Why Buhari and Atiku?

Another issue is that the ibo tribe needs to sit down and put Nigeria first. Hausa and Fulani are one if you want to hear the truth. If we are using rotational system (which by the way is a wrong strategy in my opinion), Fulani and Hausa are one. North (Fulani and Hausa) and South West (yoruba) have a strong understanding between themselves. If the ibos do not stop this crazy Biafra, Ipob, or whatever madness they are doing, they will not smell that seat in Aso rock. Rather, it is another Ijaw or Irobo puppet the solidified Yoruba-Hausa-Fulani algamation will put there. Atiku himself knows he is on a big mission by having an ibo as his vp. That was a big minus for him. He could easily pick Yoruba and counter Osinbajo and can make Fayose's work easier in SW. And I think this is the main point of Ayo Fayose. I am going to be straight forward without any fear. Ibos can be easily bought. So why bother pick a VP there if you want to win. I am sorry, but this is the main truth. Can you hear what Okorocha is saying? Or is it Orji Uzo Kalu? They can be bought easily to betray their own people. Let us just say the truth. By the way, Fayose is a big shot in pdp anytime. That man is the only man I see that can face Jagaban in SW. That he lost that election does not mean he is a coward. In fact, he did his best. He himself showed APC the strstegy to use against him. Lol.

The last point is that we must all make it about Nigeria first. Are we not tired of this mess we are in? I suggest we just revert to the old regional system. Let us just be under Nigeria with prime ministers from the regions we have now. To me, this will solve this barbaric war.

It is well with Nigeria.

Thank you sir, that the main issue we need be talking abt and not these buhari (Apc) and Atiku (Pdp) issue.
Let's look beyond them, look for a third force and a better and grounded person and not these so called cabals, it's just like the kettle calling the pot black.
The problem of Nigeria up till today is that 1999 Constitution and until we fight to remove it I guess we Will remain like these cos that Constitution has over use it's stay it should be eradicated.

Thank.

Say NO to APC/PDP

dante0147:



We are talking about , Loss of Jobs, Insecurity, Poverty, Corruption and all you say is infrastructure Abeg how did the infrastructure solve all those things I have listed there

And we are talking of illegal money used in opening illegal offices and also illegal business perpetrated under the watchful eye of the public which is y d igbo are angry cos that's what they do most, including some Yoruba folks.
It's always a war when u tell a bad person to change for good cos dey will c u as an enemy. Now it's payback time u can't take it.

Secondly y not support Duke and c maybe pple including Yoruba won't vote, but because his ideology doesn't support those dirty ways u won't support him and regarding atiku, it has been the tradition of the SE to always paint the bad ones that we Yoruba are trying to purge out as good. We all know atiku and his contribution to the state of the economy but because he wants amnesty for corruption u going for him,

And talking of inclusion, at least we know atiku, go back to his time as the VP, tell me what he did in ur region, they are part of the people who impoverish the SS and u crying inclusion, it's funny how a thief becomes a saint cos of the pot of stew.

Talk of tribalism, Yoruba are the list to put it on the table because if we do, then few of you will be in the SW, many of you are making ur money here, forget abt the market, it's because of the enabling environment that has been put down by the Yoruba folks, how many youruba ppple can do so in ur region including becoming an house of rep member which is more than 1, and yet u saying Yoruba are tribalistic.

My brother check fact before you talk cos we the Yoruba don't fight if you don't bring the fight to us .

Now you all want a safe landing for Atiku, am sorry obi is running with him but he choose wrongly, u can't call the pot black and yet want to av a taste of it's delicious meal.

thats becos u think they dont know what is going on, if u look deeply into that marriage, u will see something else and not what u tot, am also an introvert, but had some flings. my 1st sexual experience is with my gf and that was my final year and on my birthday and yet i was in a relationship for six years without sex.

most men know what they want in a relationship and thats were the matter lies, it depend on the man in question, try av a chat with a man regarding the choice of woman she married then you understand y, most of them know the woman they got married to on the long run but they cont in the relationship to save face. i dont date without knowing who you are and hw i get my facts, is my own doing.....

timay:


Reasonable/decent men can't recognize olosho/refurbished olosho when they see one, it is only fvckboys that recognize them. That is the more reason why those your so called refurbished olosho are getting married every Saturday, because a decent man will not see what a fvck boy will see. So you can see how fvcked life is

MOST TIMES WE FAIL TO REALIZE THE DEFINATION OF DEMOCRACY BTW THE PROGRESSIVE AND DEMOCRACTIC, FOR ME, THE PROGRESSIVE AV DONE MORE IN 4YRS THAN THE DEMOCRATIC, PDP WERE DEMOCRATICALLY USING NIGERIA AS A SOURCE OF PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT AND POCKET FEELING RATHER THAN DEVELOPING THE COUNTRY. U MIGHT SAY APC ARE DOING THE BLAME GAME, Y WONT THEY, FOR A COUNTRY AS DAMAGE AS NIGERIA, IF RESTRUCTURING OR REBUILDING HAVE TO HAPPEN, THE ILLEGALLY ERECTED BUSINESSES WITH GOVT MONEY, THE ILLEGAL BUSINESS DONE BY SOME ORG, WILL STOP AND IT WILL GROSSLY AFFECT THE ECONOMY WHICH IS WHY SOME INDIVIDUAL ARE COMPLAINING COS THEY AV REAPED OF NIGERIA, LEAVING ABOVE THEIR EARNINGS AND WONT WANT CHANGE TO OCCUR.


I STAND WITH BUHARI FOR CHANGE


IT BEGINS WITH YOU.

Can't wait to be in HIS presence with mouth, soul and spirit filled with HIS praise and worship.......

ask from the person who has been called IMPOTENT resulting from that and u will get ur best answer ever.

Jackossky:
So, what's the difference between B. Tech and HND.
We can just simply say, certificate changed name.
So, it will still face the same discrimination.
Do you remember when NEPA was changed to PHCN?
What's the difference between the two?

it simply means there wont be any discrimination btw the B.sc(Bachelor of Science) and the B.tech(Bachelor of Technology) and HnD holders anymore because all course will now be governed by the respective university, like an external campus or so