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This thing called marriage!
Always sweet at the beginning.
God help us.

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Please help interpret.
I had a dream where I saw triplets, three identical boys. They were not my children in the dream, but immediately I saw them I started saying in my mind that I want twins, 2 and not three.
Still in the dream, I saw a new born baby shoe, for male.
Please help interpret.
Thank you.

What I want to understand is, if she is divorcing her husband because of the deceit of giving him another man's son or divorcing the husband because he lost his job and things are difficult for her.

A two year old!
God have mercy!
God please, don't let anything happen that will keep me away from my kids.

My kind of man!
Love is beautiful with the right one!

vivsravine:
He says, I Love you he says...
And she replies thank you

She says...You hardly call me.. ..
And he replies.... Oh sorry am very busy

She says... When can we see... even though we are close
He replies .... For real I have several appointments, i don't even have time for myself

He says... Can we do a video call..
She replies... My data is out, my phone is bad and its late.

He says... I sent you some money, you didn't even call to acknowledge it
She replies ... Oh really i didn't see it

Hmmmm., the excuses are endless when your heart isn't with someone.

The excuses are so clear and you don't need an oracle to interpret what it means to you.

His or her heart isn't where you are, recall this
'' your heart is where your treasure lies''

Dear lady, if he isn't calling you, he is speaking to someone else.
Dear man, if she is giving you atitude you are not what she wants.

Many a time we dwell so long with a person, take all the bullshit with them just because we want them in our lives, that is the worst thing you can do to yourself, its like immersing yourself in an acidic content to burn.

Love is reciprocal, God first loved us and God expects us to love him in return by doing his will, if you don't do his will, it simply means you refuse his love and you don't want his love.

When you find yourselves in a relationship that is one sided, the sign post reads clearly, '' I AM NOT INTRESTED IN YOU ''

Respect yourself enough to back out, don't be in their faces, give them a long time to decide who they really want to be with, stop making yourself vulnerable to love, be truly reserved, someone needs you too than ever, you are somebody's prayer piont.

When you eventually find this person, every other thing that seems hard becomes easy, you don't need to figth for a spot, you are highy valued and most importantly you will find peace admist all doubts and fears.

1st corinthians 13:1-13 says it all, love has a soothing relief, make sure you find all in your partner, there by you won't regert being in the life of someone.

Chose love or expel the force of love, if they truly feel same way they will certainly come back.

Love is a gradual process yet very magical to us and divine to God, no matter how it comes to you appreciate it and make it work.

If someone loves you and you don't feel same, don't cast them away like a plague, we have seen stories changed and life happened.. Love was won over, and if for reasons you still don't want, stay away from the person and wait for love to find you, open up your heart to love and be loved.

And if you truly love someone set tnem free, express your thoughts to them and show them all you got to keep them but if they don't feel same, respect yourself enough to take a hike, someone somewhere is waiting for you desperately.

The air we breath is love, Its free, don't allow anyone subject you to a fused oxygen just because you love them, be gentle on yourself, you deserve more.

What is your thoughts on this?

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Thanks for this.
Exactly what happened to me.

And you will advice some guys against it, they will break up with you.
Forget that girl, she will lead you to doom.

iamyemiakins:


If you're fortunate to find love and friendship in one person you don't know what God has done for you

As in ehn!

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lefulefu:
i dont know wht its like that with them.I guess money u never worked for you wont have the interest to invest it .u would want to flex it so as to show off to ur percieved enemies.If it was money u slaved for nobody will tell u to invest it .

You are right.
Especially the showing off part to perceived enemies.
But the funny part is, they still go broke and beg about, and same enemies will still mock them.

lefulefu:
wetin dey baffle me for it all is that someone will hit from a maga ten million then after a month or two im go sell everything dey dey ask u to borrow am money.wetin u take the ten million do.its not that u invested or anything.so all the ten million na ashawo and beer u just spend everything on?

But why is it so with them?
Is it that there's something that prevents them from saving or investing?

yinkaadesegha:
Palm kernel fruits in the dream is a good one depending on your mood when you woke up. There are lots of readymade blessings around this Xmas period made for you. My question is.... Are u living a life that pleases God? If Christ should come today will you be able to follow Him? The end is very near, give your life to Christ today. Merry Xmas.

Thank you.
I say, Amen to the readymade blessings.
When I woke up, I felt this joy within.
Yes, I am doing my best. Christ is the ultimate.
Merry Christmas.

October 23rd

How can a wife not understand her husband's financial strength?
Tell her to send them back, give them transport money.
No need going to borrow to feed them, next time she will repeat same.

mrblessed:
Did you read the first thread she created expressing misgivings about his religious practices and beliefs? Are you saying she don't have the right to ask questions, especially on a faceless forum like Nairaland, about some "strange" attitudes of her guy? If he is a gentleman and feels he has been badly represented in her thread, he was two things to do: one, open a counter thread where he could challenge some of her points and conclusions. Since we are talking about a guy that has a lot of threads to his account, I don't know why it is a problem to him. Two, pay a visit to her and peacefully demand she deletes the thread with the assistance of a moderator.

The importance of this thread is a direct fallout of his ungentlemanly conduct when he visited his estranged girlfriend. So this lady deserves some modicum of respect and politeness, especially when the other party decides to use fist instead of dialogue.

Bless you

Zzor:
The idiot woman beater should come and comment let's start from there,lunatic forming redpill,go and fight Anthony Joshua idiot

@ fight Anthony Joshua

Valenciabaddie:
:I created an harmless thread yesterday seeking advice without mentioning names or tagging any moniker, I didnt even think it could make front page .only for @ Lovethaa to drive to my house,harass my sister and forced me to delete the post when I couldn't delete or modify it he took my phone threw it away,i left him to go after my phone, he came after me saying I walked out on him and as we were arguing he gave me a slap ,
Just because people were commenting that person must be a ritualist for using black soap , I don't know why it would affect you when your name or picture is not attached to the post but I guess Guilty conscience will not let you be
Even before you told me our relationship is over I have made up my mind already about you because God knows I tried my best
you're a fake and woman beater , coming on Nairaland creating threads to make you look like a responsible person.
I regret the day I met you and I won't curse you but you will definitely regret your actions ... And I have already reported you to the police, even though I know u can buy your way through but you won't buy your way through the bad things that will follow cos I have also gone naked and curse you..

Just be careful.
Just like most people said on the first post, he is into the Yahoo stuff with rituals or prayers or whatever it's been called, most celestial prophets help them out with those rituals to make wealth. And they get very aggressive when confronted or adviced.
Just move on and don't talk about him anymore, please.
God be with you.

coming2america:
Meeeehn...me, that the minute a gorl starts telling me she loves me, i ghost her or slide het along. The minute you start saying come and meet my family, i movr you along.

This girl practically forced me to go meet her parents and tell them i want to marry her..i hesitated cos then, i wasnt too sure i wanted her totally, then along the line, the story changed.

And dont think they've done worse to you. I only told half the story.

Don't worry, you will be fine. Just move on. Let her be for now.

coming2america:
Hello Nairalanders,

Save A Soul plsease.

I dated this girl for like 2yrs, known her for 4 and we have been apart for a little more than a year. She is 28 now, and she was only23 when i knew her and we started dating when she was 24. She is a recent graduate too,(2yrs) but still job hunting and/or hoping to start a business.

I am in my mid 30's and quite ready to settle down. Everything was cool between me and this girl till sometime last year when we fell out. She is hyper, very insecure, has trust issues and a tad temperamental.

Both families knew about our relationship and we were meant to be married.

I loved her whole heartedly but due to these flaws of hers(which i was ready to tolerate) things got awry between us, we got into a heated argument and a minor fracas(no violence or insults)/but she packed her things and left.

Just like that.

Her father even called me to tell me, i shoukdnt worry, things woukd settle between me and his daughter very soon.

I was really broken and I have tried to get back with her since. No way. She blocked me everywhere-on social media, whatsap, regular line, everywhere. She never as much as uttered a word to me since she left.

The few times we ran into each other, she embarassed me thoroughly and only ever told me we can never come bacl together.

Fast forward, early this month, she finally picked my call for the first time in a year ( the call, from an official line) and we spoke.

She ranted, shouted and reminded me what she thought i did. I apologized and she said she had forgiven me but we can never come back together. I should stop calling her and move on,she was going to block this line i had used to call her.

She didnt.

Then i discovered all my lines she had blocked,(for more than a year) all three lines were unblocked and i could actually call her from either. I did on my main line and she returned my call. I was shocked. I called her later and we spoke again, like mature adults for the first time in a long while.

I was happy.

We agreed to have dinner and talk things over and she got me to assure her i wont be nasty to her if we did agree to meet.

I gave her the assurance and she said she will think about our date and when we can actually have dinner within the week. I suggested a date and time.

When the day came, she wont take my call and when i called her when it was time, she went ballistic on me again, warning me never to call her again, that we were done and we could never get back together again and I should leave her alone, she was going to block.my numbers.

She still didnt, and has refused to pick my calls till today. What could she be upto? I really want this woman as we have been togetger for so long, but I am jist frustrated by her antics.

I am not hard up for women or female company and i have the very best and creamest, but this my former fiancee has me tottering towards depression.

What do I do?

I understand you very well.
When you genuinely love someone, you don't let go easily. It hurts really.
I'm presently going through something similar, even got new sim cards and they all got blocked.
Like some people adviced here, just let her be for now, if it's meant to be, she will come back to you. I know how difficult this is too.
And the depression part, please, look for other things to occupy your mind, get very busy.
The more you keep trying to reach her, the more she keeps acting up. Trust me, even worse was done to me, and I'm regretting pushing for too long and not letting it go.
God be with you.

Please, help interpret.
I dreamt and saw lots of palm kernel fruits.
Very fresh and juicy. I picked and eat in the dream.

hashtagged:
Throw my pride away and apologize I felt like an idi0t after

Did same and feeling same way now.
But, life goes on.

Kevdee:
Too much sorry sef na wahala o.

Balance na the koko

I dey tell you.
The sorry na for one thing o, we dem no dey forgive since.

CzarChris:
And people keep asking me why I'm still not married at my age. There's only so much a man can take. I know myself, she'd prefer death to living with me if I finally cut rope. i won't beat her o. I don't beat women, but I'll deal with her so much she'll prefer being dead.

Guy all i can tell you is this, "man the fucck up and quit being a punnany".

Hmmm

MeeztaFabulouz:
I have never looked forward to her assisting me financially and I am not accusing her of extramarital affairs. I feel bad being so disrespectful and not being caring for our home. There are many things I am unable to write because its like writing a book. Maybe if you think of how it feels when you dedicate yourself to someone then do everything to make that person happy and that person does not care and is only self centred then you will understand how painful it feels.
Seven years I have done all a man needs to do to try and build a peaceful and decent home, there are good times when we just overlook things and be happy and then that attitude just comes alive again from no where and all I get is trouble upon trouble again. Some days I can hardly even eat at home and in seven years, I can only remember hearing "am sorry" just twice apart from when I try to just ignore certain things and she just give me all those sober reactions.
I really don't know how to explain but I believe some married men here will understand better because its like most comments I see are from people that are not married and don't understand what dedicating your life to someone you once loved so much means.

Lol
For seven years, you've only heard, I'm sorry, twice.
What of people like us that do say, I'm sorry like music every day and dem no dey listen to us?
Wahala plenty for relationship, o.

You are a good man, just try and sort things out, suicide is not the way at all, it's a no, no.
Your kids and family need you.

CAPSLOCKED:

MOST MARRIED PEOPLE LIVE LIKE THIS AND IT'S STARTING TO FEEL LIKE MARRIAGE HAS OUTLIVED ITS USEFULNESS.

I'VE FIGURED MANY PEOPLE (WOMEN ESPECIALLY) GET MARRIED BECAUSE OF THE "WEDDING". YES. FOR THEM IT'S THE WEDDING PARTY, FANCY DRESSES AND PICTURES, AND ATTENTION THAT MATTERS. WHAT HAPPENS AFTER THAT DAY IS HARDLY GIVEN A THOUGHT AS LONG AS THE WEDDING DAY IS REMARKABLE AND MASSIVE.
MANY MEN ENTER INTO MARRIAGE TO SATISFY THEIR FAMILY AND RELATIONSHIP PARTNERS. THERE'S HARDLY ANY FAMILY TODAY THAT CAN SAY THEY'RE 100% HAPPY WITH EACH OTHER. IT'S LIKE THE REGRET SETS IN 30 MINUTES AFTER THE WEDDINGS AND EVERYBODY WISHES THEY SHOULDN'T HAVE DONE THIS.

WHAT FOLLOWS ARE SILLY EXCUSES, THAT "NO MARRIAGE IS PERFECT". THE TRUTH IS THAT MOST MARRIAGES SHOULD NEVER HAVE HAPPENED, AND THE VERY FEW MARRIAGES THAT EXISTS WITHOUT REGRETS ARE THE PERFECT ONES THAT MOST LOSERS PRETEND DOESN'T EXIST.

On point

Toks2008:
You can never stop having feelings for someone you once truly loved.

You can only learn to get over the person.

You're right

udemzyudex:
Lol.. Abeg who we go come marry ooo?

A woman will say the same thing you post, marry a man that loves you more, don't settle for 50/50 lol.

Na wa oooo

I'm confused too

Please, help interpret.
I dreamt a friend gave me something, it's like the back of a coconut, that hard shell after the white part has been removed. It has the usual ropelike stuff inside it. She told me her grandmother gave them to her and it's for direction. So, she gave me one like a gift. Told me anytime I need directions, I should draw out one of those rough ropelike stuff on it. I took it and left.

Please, help interpret.
I dreamt a friend gave me something, it's like the back of a coconut, that hard shell after the white part has been removed. It has the usual ropelike stuff inside it. She told me her grandmother gave them to her and it's for direction. So, she gave me one like a gift. Told me anytime I need directions, I should draw out one of those rough ropelike stuff on it. I took it and left.

Coward!