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okay , thanks everybody ... actually my fear is not about who get the highest pay or properties if there's a divorce. The money usually doesnt matter at some point as in the case of bill gate and jeff besos . I don't ever pray for a divorce. But it seems there could only be a thought of divorce if there was a court marriage. I've read stories of couples fight that could have been settled if they had waited for few days, but one party couldn't control the anger and went straight to court and that would be the beginning of the end of the marriage, but if there wasn't a court marriage, even if it takes 1 year for them to realize their mistakes, they could still come back together and continue being husband and wife. |
I'm in a very serious relationship which will likely lead to marriage before the middle of this year. she's a good lady, very decent, God fearing and has a good Job. We both love each other so there's no point waiting than to marry her. We've talked about it and she loves the idea. Also , i've met her family and her parent treated me kindly. The issue is, we are both planning to relocate after marriage to any of the western countries, we are both credible financially and i'm very sure we won't get denied but the stories i've heard about women changing after getting abroad makes me want to think twice about the court marriage. I would love to do every other marital right except court marriage. How do i tell her politely without losing her? please i'll appreciate your advise. Thank you. |
be deceiving your self Saturn444: |
even to get sales girl or boy for a mini store these days na war. back then young girls do these menial job before they gain admission but now na tik tok. and if you eventually find one, they won't last 2month, weekend is booked for the girls. if you want them to work for long don't bother including saturday. else one yahoo boy will pay her 20k salary on one saturday she's trying to convince the guy to wait till sunday, end of job. Something has to be done real quick, though in advance countries you won't find tailors but you find clothing companies, you won't find carpenters , you will find furniture companies... one of my friend bought a bed in canada, she had to set up the bed by herself because asking the furniture company to come and fix it will cost extra dollars... now this is understandable in a working economy. but what will happen to nigeria when all these artisans go into extinction in a none working economy ... its sad , something needs to be done real quick nams77: |
the darker the better |
If God brings him out of this, its better to retreat. We can only fight a nation collectively, one region won't win, we have to fight this our common enemy together. |
its like you don't know the meaning of green card , usa can send two fighter jet to pick her if something go wrong with her Pierocash: |
you are intelligent Metrofox: |
i'm not joking , usa loan is x 100 of nigeria loan, even ghana's foreign loan is higher than nigerian loan , abi wiki pedia dey lie to me ni ... i don't like this government at all, but i don't understand that loan thing. Metrofox: |
but can someone explain how nigerian has one of the least debt amount other countries , i check the debt other countries are owing foregn countries and nigeria happened to be least on the list |
Compatibility is an achievement of love, not a precondition for relationship. people should learn how to get compatible with each other |
Realchairmann: |
i'm a man too and i would say your husband is not being fair , real men don't do prostitution, that's too dangerous for your own health , its better you report him to his family as fast as you can, don't hide any shit, that man has gone too far, he needs something extra for him to repent, everybody needs to know what's going on. now after he apologies, get a gadget that can tell you he's location at every point in time, there are some location share app, both of you need to install it, secondly he needs some kind of rehab or counseling, you also need to stop keeping secrets , there's nothing free about freedom , get each other's password , access to is laptop all the time , visit his office untimely. this kind of man doesn't need freedom, he will abuse it. God help you [quote author=ChiomaCa post=109413916][/quote] |
if you like bet your intestine , that man has power, that man knows people, that man is cabal on its own. any small boy couldn't have unseat pdp in 2015. I'm not saying he's the best man for 2023 but he's not a bad option. so be careful of your betting slawormiir: |
that's cheating, if my wife would use intimacy gadget , i should be informed. Not that when we are both suppose to be Hot, she has already pleased herself , what will be left for me |
he meant 100%. it was typo DubaiLandLord: |
all these political analyst self, how in this world would you use the word deal with easterners in the same sentence with tinubu. A man that welcomed igbos to lagos and gave them many oportunities. i'm not saying he's the best man for the job , but to think that he doesn't like easterners is what i don't understand , abi what does easterners means again abeg Suspect33: |
[quote author=Aidejay post=109245750]What will you do if a man gives you 400k naira? bro its very possible o, i've met some extremely rich people in this nigeria before, back then when i was in school, a man gave my course mate 250k, the guy just chatted him on facebook, he doesn't even know him, we later discovered that the man is into wheat flower production at a large scale, and my friend is a guy not even a lady o. I've seen some extremely rich people in this nigeria, i once saw an account balance of 13 billion naira on one man's phone , i was doing something for his company so the phone was beside me when the message came in , i saw the account balance, i counted the zeros it was 9. don't get me wrong i'm not rich, but i've seen some very rich people and that 400k is nothing to them. |
you are right gnykelly: |
when did pakistan become common. lol pakistan that produces everything they use including their own electronics and weapons due to the fact that the western world won't trade with them because of their nuclear power. Pakistan is advanced in technology o . sorry its not your fault that you don't know this, its our educational system in nigeria. chatinent: |
TiredLividSoul: |
i swear , the thing weak me too , and to even think the guy is into I.T weak me more minks: |
i'm a christian but i think only the Muslims got marriage right , Christianity failed in that thing ... by the time she's 40 my muslim brother can pick another wife already that is younger, that one will calm her down because women likes competition |
government really need to look into the situation , from the movie industry that is always playing money ritual characters to the music industry that is always praising big boys without good evidence of their source of wealth. I saw a video online some days ago where other africans where interviewed to share their opinion on what they know about Nigerians, almost all of them said money ritual . its a mess fourboys: |
you are just marketing your self siofra: |
what did you do ? give one example [quote author=oladiddy post=109185510] |
only in Nigeria... |
[quote author=LoriIro1 post=109183808]pm me |
ode Siberia01: |
almost every lady i know masturbates, i have a technique of asking them, they will never admit it. Your girlfriend is close to you that's why she tells you and i think that's a blessing for you, there's nothing to worry about. |
i'll remind you abIejesus26: |
but it definitely will Tesla phone is coming RenaissanceGuy: |
i'm not joking , usa loan is x 100 of nigeria loan, even ghana's foreign loan is higher than nigerian loan , abi wiki pedia dey lie to me ni ... i don't like this government at all, but i don't understand that loan thing. 
