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that was not sex, most children played that sand game doing mummy and daddy, that wasn't sex

something has to be done real quick, Nigeria is fast becoming something else

i swear the thing tire me o , if some one tells me i love your now , the next question on my mind is, "for how long?" . cos this 21st century "I love you" now has expiry date o. Been considering baby mama lately, all my married ex girlfriends are ready to Bleep me with less stress. All of them including the churchy one back then. Omo to marry now self come dey fear me. If i was their husband they would have done the same to me.

Both is better, if she doesn't love you, she will cheat eventually , though if she loves you she will still cheat eventually but atleast it will be minimal. Meanwhile if a man doesn't really love her woman , she's in for a long sad ride, He will even bring woman to the matrimonial home, who cares

my brother the sad truth is that your wife will not sleep with only you for the rest of her life after marriage, if she loves you well enough then you will never get to know or she won't bring a man to your matrimonial home. But a research has shown that ALMOST all women will cheat after 10 years of marriage. But the truth is that , men are the 90 percent reason why women will cheat. I'm not taking side , i'm a man. But the earlier you face this reality , the better for you and the more chances you have not to have hypertention at old age.

FIFApresident1:
I can't imagine someone else sleeping with the woman I married, how am I gonna feel after hearing about it or seeing it with my two eyes.
My life is not going to remain the same again even after divorcing her.

Go with your friends to meet her parents , go with wine, once they are happy with you, that's marriage. you can fck your bride. Then fix weeding date. Sex before marriage is only allowed for virgin. It doesn't mean a virgin is better than none virgin
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i'm not a buhari fan , but he's right on this one

wow is it up to 6?

Peace081:
Tillbees abeg rest small nah, 6 children from three different women E don do abeg

A research shows that there are no sane human on earth, the best you will get is someone who knows how to manage his or her own insanity. going forward, learn to see your partner like a child that needs to be trained on how to love you and this training might take years, that's where the word "baby" is derived from. Compatibility is an achievement of love, not a precondition for relationship. so chose your bad guy wisely

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this life , make money o

dont blame polygamy, blame Nigeria. everything is wrong with this country, the emirates practice polygamy with no issue

Plantiff:
Polygamy is only interesting when the kids are young.

The demerits of polygamy, especially in wealthy homes, start to manifest when the kids grow to understand the realities of life.

Things fall apart if the polygamous father dies intestate.

Except Davido makes a will, 60 years from today, these pretty moulds of pure beauty and innocence won't be sitting in one room. Even if they do, it wouldn't be without deep hatred, suspicion and envy.

Last year I was one of those who claimed that the institution of marriage has outlived its importance until I encountered the case of a polygamist whose younger children are unable to complete their education abroad because of his demise. His estate is valued at 10 billion naira and the court battle just commenced. These cases last up to three decades most times and are continued by Grand Children.

Don't get it wrong, there's rivalry and strive between children of same mother but nowhere near the scenes of shame children of different mothers act for inheritance.

please i want to ask you a question , i will pm you

HenryDion:
I have finally made up my mind to stop smoking weed.

It no longer helps.

It has lost its magic.

The reward for quitting is worth it:

Healthy teeth... Clearer skin... Succulent lips... And a clearer mind.

There was a time weed served me. But not anymore, and it's time to move on!

Not saying that weed is bad... Saying it's no longer serving me as a creative.

Dear nairalanders, what's your new year resolution?

he dey

Amotolongbo:
How about the ones you claimed last year and the previous years?

now i see you are a small boy. i thought i was talking to some one that is matured

HellVictorinho3:
There are Africans/Nigerians into tech but they're not as rich as Dangote. ......does that mean you should make useless comparisons and generalizations towards useless conclusions

even elon musk tax last year was more than the total networth of dangote who is the richest man in africa. The man focused on cement and other monopolized businesses instead of investing or adding ICT and creating more jobs while making more money. Bro its just a crazy african mentality. mukesh ambani who is the richest man in india started out just like dangote , he was producing textiles but today he owns one of the largest tech company in india, his company single handedly built indian 5g network with out any support from the US. The guy has no tech background , he just care about his people. dangote should stick to his cement and flour, he should also buy more traillers to kill more nigerians in the road instead of working with the goverment to build train and recoup is money after some times, but its just a mess for africa. so when you talk of making it big in africa, you need to lower the standard of what you mean by big. I'm not shiting on anybody but those rich guys that are privileged to take africa to the next level are too comtempted with their money and doesn't care about the people

HellVictorinho3:
Regular musicians


You don't know what you're saying



Nah Kanye West you dey call regular musician or what exactly?¿??

Every man's dream job

you will suffer for 600 years

Datboredberry:
I've learnt that no two men are the same... Try to know the man you're with better, learn to love him more... With trust and respect and loyalty... Be his strength... His shoulder to lean on... His companion and at times, partner in crime...

But this is for the sane men abroad...

I personally try to avoid Nigerian men... Yahoo boys, ritualists... Often unintelligent and unexposed... Very boring...

They are mostly poor... That's not even the problem, it's their mentality...

Imagine the few Nigerian who've commented above... Their inferiority complex... They think the only reason they are single, because they are poor... And it's mostly their zero personalities...

Bitter entities...

trust me, before davido would have made this public, he knows he is wining . they know each other's deals and what it worth, they are more current that us in the game. I am 100 percent sure he did that because he must have had an estimate of other top artist deals including stage performance income. Davido is not the best musician but that dude is deeply involved in the game. 23 million dollars is not a small money , some top us artists like cris brown don't even make up to that in a year.

Omicron007:




BigWiz made more, but you would never see him publicize himself.

There are levels to this shit.

Big Wiz is the Biggest Export from Africa.

Bro you forgot to add india with 1.4 billion population and a country that has no issue with any other country in the world. me i've already lost hope in africa. I did a careful research and i discovered that even some african countries with youth president are the worse. So which means there's no hope even if we get a youth president the best thing is just to find a way out of that shit hole

RodgersAkpafu:
So these multinationals will leave Malayisia and Cambodia and even Vietnam
And come to Nigeria en masse ?
Brother what are you smoking ?

I like your optimism sha
It's good
But honestly, I'm not so optimistic about the future of this country

forget kenye west , Elton John, maria carry are as rich as tony elumelu that we classify as our top rich guys here . Andrew Lloyd is just a song writer but he's on the same rang with Abdul Samad Rabiu and folorunsho alakija... oga we have a long way to go in africa

HellVictorinho3:
Regular musicians


You don't know what you're saying



Nah Kanye West you dey call regular musician or what exactly?¿??

omo this one weak me o

opor

everything you said is very accurate except the making it big part. you can make it in nigeria , but it won't be big, the network of the richest man in africa is just some regular musicians network in usa, so what do you mean by big, if you mean comfortably rich then i would say you are right on that part. mind you , i'm not trying to argue with you sir.

rentAcock:
Let's call a spade a spade. This is a silly comparison. Those homeless people in the U.S are still far better than the homeless people in Nigeria. They have homeless shelters for them, however so many of them refuse to seek refuge at the homeless shelters due to a high rate of theft and physical abuse by the residents. Also, many of them are homeless due to drug abuse and mental health issues, even when offered a place to stay, they still end up on the streets. The homeless people over there also have access to social workers who can set them up with food vouchers, health insurance, job training etc but Nigeria doesn't have that. Notwithstanding, as a Nigerian, Nigeria remains the best place to make it big in this life. Despite the numerous challenges we face, there's no place like home and it is left for us to develop it.

i'm the man for you

MadamVanessa:
Sure, I totally agree with her.

I am not waiting for a perfect man, because certainly such man won't come.

My own definition of a perfect man is a man with a working dick, that stands erect and strong like the rock of Gibraltar immediately my pussy is being sighted by him. Then he uses the dick to pummeled , scattered, digged the pussy with reckless abandoned, especially when I am horrrnnnnny.

my brother , things they happen o. the funny thing about their marriage is that , they will never breakup because infidelity is out of it . they are the infidelity

tesppidd:
Wow crazy things happen.

They seem to me like perverts.

the story is very long, i dated the wife's friend, though the girl is much younger to the wife but you can consider them as friend and she confined in her. it was the girl that told me everything and the story is even more than that. They have an happy marriage but they do very dirty shit in the secret, the funny part is that , this couple are a very very good christian, they don't don't miss church, they are educated , infact the wife has a masters degree..... for this lagos o, not america o

tesppidd:


So who told you?

Were you there when she was telling him "he didn't do it like you?"

[quote author=Vinnie2000 post=108918651]I know a man that allows his wife to go Bleep another woman when ever he travels, the wife will call him and be like "he didn't do it like you use to do it , honey when will you be back" , i swear with my life i didn't make this up, i know the man guy personally and they are young couple age less than 40

lie what will you gain from this

favor914:
I remember him from Uniben law faculty & Osasogie, when they wan initiate man enter MAFIA Confraternity in my jambite year,

Although we were very cool, smoking weed together, I Had to play them including his older brother Brume, before I escaped to California.

someone needs to continue embarrassing our culture... we are not americans and its all these little things that makes us special , we are really losing it

Tell me one thing a woman invented that made them intelligent, Bulb, airplanes , car , computer, even no programing language is invented by a woman . there's difference between being corny and being intelligent

[quote author=Blaze14k post=108892648]tell your ex too or your new girlfriend, women love to feel jealous that's the way they are wired. if you are not back with your ex, the new girl won't start seeing the need to flirt with you

I'm not proud to accept and learn new things. thanks, but to be sincere i've never been to Japan, but after visiting many other asian countries, i just couldn't help but conclude that every asian are racist.

Gerrard59:
For goodness sake, there are MANY Nigerians in Tokyo, Osaka, Kyoto, Nagasaki, Hokkaido who married Japanese women and are naturalised citizens. Same in Malaysia, Philippines, Thailand etc. In Japan, as a foreign man regardless of your race or nationality, you get a spousal visa when married to a Japanese woman. Three years after, you become a permanent resident and two more years, a naturalised citizen. Besides, I don't know why you are entitled as a black African esp as a Nigerian to another country's citizenship simply because you married a native.

When I keep preaching that you people should mind the route of migration to your desired country, e get why.