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Best Regards,
Seun.

I want to be remembered as the founder of that Nigerian company that rubs shoulders as an equal with world giants like Google, Microsoft, Oracle, Dell, Sony, Daimler-Chrysler, and Boeing.

Who is rochas?

Welcome to the Nairaland Forum, and thanks for honouring our invitation. Imnakoya of grandiose Parlour is here, too!

I don't think the name is correct. There is no Columbus University on the Virgin Islands. Or can you give us a link to their website?

Can you get us some pictures of Sound Sultan?

Congratulations, Medube, on your daughter's first birthday. So, um, you obviously married a Nigerian lady!

On a recent TV appearance, President Obasanjo criticized one ofVP Atiku's statements in the media saying that there was "misrepresentation, misinformation, m___". This seems in line with what you're "foreseeing".

Degree

Too bad.  Why would they do this? www.lagbaja.net

Prosperity.

Hey, the number seven guy! Welcome to the Nairaland Forum, and don't forget to tell us what you think we can do to attract your friends!

It's not a problem. You're going to find new friends. Bring her here or at least let me talk to her or chat or something, please.

Layi: these are girls, not guys. Girls are different or else I would have said leave them alone.

layi:
She could say u caused the failure since u never wanted the relationship to suceed

What about being yourself and standing by your beliefs. Is that not a sign of good character? That small girl is going to get hurt, and that concerns me. But what concerns me more is that she's hurting a third party and let's face is the whole marriage is rubbish. Both girls should dump the "husband to be". Where are their parents?!

Or, Nike, can you drag them here so we can talk into them?

Personally, I have no problem with Bill Clinton coming to Nigeria to be our president, but the issue is that most people might not be sure about where his loyalties lie. We might be afraid that he'll promote American insterests rather than ours.

This may be the same reason why it's difficult for an Ibo man to become the governor or a Hausa state. How? Well, the Hausa people will be concerned that the Ibo man would create policies to favor "his own people" and not the Hausas. This ethnicity issue is a big problem in this country that cannot be easily solved.

See Also: Should We Promote Nigerian Languages More?

This issue came up while we were discussing the Yoruba Version of the Google Search Engine. While some people were applauding it as a step in the right direction, others were convinced that it's not an important. While some people people want us to support our local languages more, others want us to embrace English and use it to accelerate our development.

I belong to the school of thought that language is a elic of history and nothing more. I do not believe that my language or ethnicity defines me, because I believe we are all individuals in this world. Ultimately, I want to learn the language that will enable me to develop faster and I believe that this language is English, not Yoruba, Hausa, Ibo, or even Pidgin.

English, afterall, is the language of the Internet, the language of textbooks, and the official language we all learn in school. It is our lingua franca and fortunately for us, it is the language of many dominant nations in the emerging world economy; countries we will do well to form alliances with and learn from. I do not see why we would want to waste time rewriting the Internet, our textbooks, et cetera in Yoruba, Ibo, Hausa or Pidgin just because we want to "promote our culture".

So my current belief is that efforts to promote our Nigerian languages are a waste of time and nothing more. Do you disagree? Can you shed more light on this issue?

Try doing something drastic like threatening not talk to her until this is resolved? And, please, will somebody tell the 18 year old "man" to call off the wedding and go to a counselor?

The problem with that is that Islam as a religion, like the biblical old testament Jewish religion, is tightly tied to the government. Just as their are laws in the old testament bible, there are laws that are part and parcel of Islam and those laws are known as Sharia. So that's one of the major differences between Islam and Christianity and why Islamic states find it difficult to separate the two.

The greatest things I want from anyone who claims to love me - acceptance, belief in my dreams, acceptance, loyalty, acceptance, well lots of .

What all of you are trying to say is that Cheap Internet Access, maybe even broadband, will go a long way in helping Nigeria's development in the Infotech Sector. And cheaper telecommunications generally. I agree wholeheartedly with you!

Another thing that will help is reliable supply of electricity (solving the NEPA problem!)

And whatever you do, never ever threaten the man's pride or ego. Even though you might feel he's "irresponsible" or something, do not use words that make him feel small or else he will be unable to work out these problems with you: he'd be too busy trying to prove that he's the man! As long as he remains a man, do not fall for the temptation of belittling him with words (nagging 2.0).

So please, I reiterate my earlier point, your marriage needs a counselor. I have people in my family who are part-time marriage counselors so I feel I know what cases are simple and what cases are not simple. Yours is not simple. So please, o please, drag your husband to a marriage counselor tommorrow morning, because we do not want you to come back in 6 months to tell us you're getting a divorce.

As a matter of fact, your Nairaland id number is also 1577. Very interesting!

Please tell us more about how the integer 7 has been following you!

Thanks for the love!

Hello dacutie,

Have you tried the password recovery function? I have lost a hotmail account in the past and I never was able to recover it, so I guess you should just use this opportunity to open a gmail account!

Seun.

Thanks, Saintjoe. The Award for those who invite others to the Nairaland Forum will probably be called the Nairaland Promoter Award ("P" which means that the Peacemaker Award will be renamed to _____ (any ideas?)

Yes, but don't forget that I have limited resources at my disposal, for now. Out of all the suggestions I have to pick the ones that seem to be most important!

I like Scorpio's suggestion about the arcade. Anything to keep the bored kids in each one of us engaged!

Hello Jade,

Please consider going to a professional marriage counselor with your husband and consider not getting pregnant until these issues are sorted out. These problems are serious problems and you need more than what we can provide here.

You have our best wishes, but you need people with knowledge and experience which many of us here don't have. I'm glad you live in a country where qualified counselors are probably available to those who want them.

Best Regards,
Seun.

Well done, vexxy. Keep spying on us!