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Op where did you see Nigeria and Zambia cos the countries with low emotion are Mali, somaliland, Russia etc please post link where my country was named.
Thanks and God bless you. Oooh!!! Merry xmas.

Sun of god: fc.uking sellout . . . . this Nigg.a will do anything for power.

Ngigie - the 'Igbo Cameleon' . . . .

watch this 'fool' - he's turning into a 'Yoruba' shysta!

who cares where the political party is from, who created it or which part of the country it's dominates. in as much as it will better the life of peaple than the alternative.

Tunde Bakare

Seun caused all this nonsense for himself by allowing tribalism and ethnic hatred to survive on nairaland. This has lead to suspision causing anything to be viewed through tribalism. Anyway kudos to seun for coming out against this and i wish he can follow through by making nairaland intolerant to tribalistic peaple from east to west north to south.

lonipeter: Nice one there, but what about adding some English collection- as in, you know, sincerely, as a matter of fact etc? Wouldn't it sound more romantic?

i thought you said in my mother's tongue and english is not.

God's gift of life.

With this plan now i know that gov is planning for peaple because i have a proposal that look exactly the same, especialy that high speed rail from Lag to Abj, Lag-PH( through benin, enugu, aba onisha, warri and extension to calabar), Abj-ph, Abj-kano and Abj-yola. I know gov can't do all at the same time but journey of a million miles start from first step. If oga jonathan can continue this way all he needs to do is eliminate those bad peaple in his cabinent that is giving him bad image and promoting coruption then i may reconsider my stance in 2015.

If you can think of this to the public, i wonder what you will be doing with your girlfriend's messages both her phones, email, facebook even nairaland post/page.

solesty: How wise are My?...thankz bro, 100+...Bátá mí á dúñ kókó kà....[Please emphasise more on the dealz]..more advice are welcome...

you are welcome

Idowuogbo: Sharrap! Na so dem dey register una for pyscho ward for Luth, wetin concern u? Dats her list,Type urs and Gerrout. Hian! It hard? Hen? Mr critic! Msteeeeew...

woooow!!! Anyway am not here to fight you, i believe many people are learning here everyday and i know that people that need it will pick from it.

Adaeze003: 1. Looks(facial)
2. Physique(specify)
3. Wealth
4. Personality(specify)
5. Intelligence
6. Eloquence
7. Complexion
8. Other(any other that's not on the list)

see where many girls missed it, of what good are those things you mentioned if he lacks good character and lack love for you and every body around him.
You see everything you mentioned here will be used against you if he has got no good heart. his inteligence, look, physique, wealth and what ever you mentioned here will give you serious problem without his kind heart, Godly character and love for you and everybody around him.

My broda, this is my advice for you please face your study @ ss3 you still have long way to go in life than runing after what will not profit you now. To be sincier with you, there is no big deal in bf/gf, s*e**x and relationship especialy at young age, thank God you can see alot of heartbroken and disappointed peaple on nairaland. So please ignore all the feelings and concentrate on your studies. A word is enough for a wise, but how wise are you?

Let me try and woo in osun yoruba and it go does:
Álákè wá níì, mo món pe omóge to dárà ti o si tun rè wà ni ó, mo si ní ìfe rè déé kun kundu, koda ti mbá tí rí o ni sè nì ori mí màá hun gbona áyá mi á si má so kulukulu, Álákè mo fe fí ó sé áyá ni, ki iya mi ko di iya re, ki baba re o si di baba mi.

My brother go and work on your bank account and your pokect, you will see the turn around in her behaviours toward you.

Goldieluks:
*money is important for the upkeep of both parties.
* However, you mustn't be stinkingly rich, but a guy who has a means of income ( a good job) gains respect from every angle, because he's seen as a hardworking man from all perspective.

Sorry my dear everything you say here show how selfish and greedy most of this ladies are
* you talk about money for upkeep, what kind of upkeep do you mean if not ATM type of upkeep cos Op said that they make over 100thausand and he only collected 5k beside what are they keeping except to communicate and give small gift that an average jobless Nigerian guy cannot afford. It is obvious the girl is selfcentred.
*you also talk about girls have respect for guy who earn decent guy as hardworking. My sister that one na lie o, there is nothing that concern most of nigerian girls about how hard you work or how you make your money ooO, all that concern them is the upkeep of the relationship with your money. In as much the money is enough for her upkeep (ur word) then you are the guy.

Any emotional and physical attention that is romanticaly given to opposite sex friend that is not one's official boy/girlfriend is cheating. You romanticaly go to movie, go to parties, spend some time in his/her place alone, take bath together, romantic chatting, exchange nude pix etc

Though our socioeconomic condition has make it difficult to find genuine love without condition, but true love still exist. The love that can never be explained, not money, beauty, conection or anything else, you can't realy point at any reason why you are in love with him/her. I must say that this kind of feeling may not last long if there is nothing special to sustain it such good characters, ability to meet the minimum finacial needs of ones spouse, maturity and so on. Let me add this this kind of love is not common but if you are lucky you may encanter one.

My guy girls don't wait for you to make it now adays, but i will like advice you to go and make your money and girls will surely come to you. Please and please don't let this push you into doing some thing bad as that will distroy you and justify her. Guy let her go cos a broken relationship is better than broken marriage.

Cos peaple are already waiting on the line for you to leave her and jump in.

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duni04: Lol..u sound very naïve. What makes u think the girls are not enjoying it? What makes u think they're not adding guys to their own figures

well they don't sound like that when they are done with them.

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It is true for young and fun seeking relationship, ladies tend to fall for you when she sees that you have other girls crushing on you or you have another girl in your life and tend to ignore you if she see that you do not have other girls except if she just like you naturaly or you have some thing she wants.
I don't know what is responsible for this especially when they are young but when they are older 25years and above reverse is the case.

onila:

1. there is nothing really so special about men that u cant avoid temptation. . .I have turned down very rich, handsome guys every girl wants because they are not worth opening my legs for or giving up my pride and dignity

ladies know yr worth,

even though am not a girl, but i always feel sorry for them the way they jump up and down with guys, some time i feel insulted when my guys are talking about how they are adding ladies to their figure and what they did to A, B and C yet girls don't learn their lessons. What make matter worst is when you are trying to discourage them from that habit you are their enemy but the guys that is deciving them is friend also i don't know what is wrong now a days when you as a guy tell young girls to take it slow their fellow girls will be encouraging to take it faster and furiously. Now guys seems to give girls good advice than their fellow ladies.

That is not possible cos you can't catch me with irresponsible girl. I know my self and am alway attracted to God fearing, mature and decent girls not the one that have been sleeping around to the extent of having intimacy with some else some days to our wedding.

Afam na wa ooO! It seems you have issue with fash i even know he bought 70million worth of armour truck for them in his second term. Although Apabio is one of the best governor we have in Nigeria and probably the best of PDP but the CP and AIG are saying something indirectly to the able governor. Akwa-ibom is growing seriously and he need to see akwa-ibom diffrently now.

The truth is that when you have a complete girl for a wife any man is happy with that, but when your woman is complete at the same time she is a virgin it is a trophy, cos you won't have to worry about how many guys she had slept with, you won't worry about her exes etc. Also with what we ve been seeing lately where by you marry her only for you to know that your friend or boss or father or your colleague had slept with her before.
***bottom line***
If you are not a virgin, girl no big deal there are thausands of guys who want you and will love and cherish you. If you are a virgin congratulations please baby girl mantain your status cos you are a blessing and your guy will be lucky to have you.

Sincere 9gerian: You said we "just have to give kudos to them(lagos state govt) just to encourage them". Hmmm! You can give kudos to a govt that is nearing 6yrs in power "to encourage them".
But NO kudos to a federal govt that is barely 2yrs in office "to encourage them". This is what they call HYPOCRISY

can you please tell me where i castigate FG or blame them or fault them in any article on Nairaland?
I gave kudos to Lagos gov here cos we are talking about them, may be when we talk about FG i may give thesame if it worth it. My guy please stop asuming and concluding for others, it shows something.

Sincere 9gerian: Since 1999? Despite the fact that Jakande actually started the this project in early 80's? Even the Abuja-Kaduna standard guage rail line(a far bigger project) started by the FG in 2009/10 is nearing 50% completion. What do Lagos state govt do with their funds of nearly N30billion monthly? I dont just get it. Where is the power plant that Tinubu claimed he was building in his tenure? Pls some of us who do not reside in Lagos need clarification.

though jakande conceptualised the project but nothing was put on the ground, i don't know if truely lagos get 30 billion naira monthly but it's true, we all know Lagos has many things to battle than any state in Nigeria. Abuja/kaduna rail may be more than Lagos interm of distance but is nothing compare with Lagos own interm of struture also we all know how FG found anything that have to do with Abuja compare to Lagos that rely on foreign founding which makes it to experience several delay. We all know that Lagos state was the first to think of independent power but was frustrated by Obj the only one that was built then is in Akute and now that other states with large natural gass reserve are building power plant i don't think lagos should continue their plant. Although Lagos state gov can do far more than this but we just have to give kudos to them just to encourage them.

Very good!!! The affiliation of PDP. Huuu! They are real opposition indeed.

ChuckBoi93: @ OP, where did you get this silly stats from? Or did you get this arranged for bashing purposes?

The statistic is correct, it was released by NACA Abuja on world hiv/aids day and presently data collectors are on the feild in various state to harmonize and reconcile the datas with the state SACA. So please my peaple this thing is serious O and it is said that Nigeria have between 3.1 million to 5 million peaple living with HIV.
@Ileke-ide this not something to joke or do bashing with, we all have to work together to combat the scourge.

Women want to be the centre of gravity of your life, the dominant thought on you mind and the only life you should live.

Gentle Naaz: Wat do women realy want 4m a man. Infact men r getn tired of d ambiquity n ambivalence altitude incesantly shown by women
1. U call ha steady, she says u r desperate or u r 2 clingy n like monitoring ha. U dont call ha steady, she wl say u don get anoda woman or u dnt luv ha anymore
2. U monitor hu calls ha, she wl say u r 2 clingy. U dnt monitor ha calls, she wl say u dnt care about ha
3. U keep on telling ha she is beautiful, she wl c u as u want to bleep n run like oda guys dat told ha d same. U dont tell ha she is beautifull, she will say she is no longa atractv 2 u. Wat do women want?
4. U s3x ha steady, she wl say dats wat u want n nt ha real woman. U dnt s3x ha, she wl say she is nt s3xualy atractv 2 u. E don tire me
5. U spend much £€$# on ha, she wl say u tink she luvs u cos of money or u r wasteful. U dnt spend much on ha, she wl say u r stingy n selfish n nt caring. Wat do women want.
6. Etc.
Infact men r nt hpy at all

If you do all this, don't you see that she has taken all your time & life and that still can not stop her from doing what ever she feel like doing. So my advice is " do your best but never stress yourself " any girl that can't love under this condition will never love you.