₦airaland Forum

Inspinia:
I tried what the strahovski man said and the trust fall thing worked. She caught me when I fell and I asked her why she hates me she said that she doesn't hate me that I am only doing things at the wrong time and at the wrong place.

We are communicating now.. for the past 3 months we haven't really talked as much as we talked last night most times she goes out and just threatens me and shut me up but last night was different. I see hope now at least she has given me a reason for 8 months of no reason for her actions.

No true counsellor would ask me to run away.

When your life is in danger a true counselor WOULD ADVISE YOU TO RUN AWAY!!! That is what everyone here is saying, but you are HELLBENT on sticking with your violent and abusive fiance even to your own detriment.

I am glad that you have spoken to her but PLEASE POSTPONE YOUR MARRIAGE INDEFINITELY!!!
If she changes (remember people almost never change) then you can set a new date for the wedding, if she does not then you end the relationship. The ball is in your court

If a woman I want to marry says that she would not support me then what exactly is she to me? Why am I getting married to her? Are there women that actually think like this in this day and age?

Bro you are lucky that your relationship is 3 months old so there is still time to retrace your steps. The fact that she has some 'redeemable' qualities does not make her a wife material, period. By definition a wife is supposed to be your help mate, so if a woman tells you categorically that she would NOT support you when you get married, then she is NOT a wife, plain and simple!

My advice is simple, End this relationship NOW while you still can and don't even bother testing her as she has already revealed her true character. And don't even think about trying to change her, because PEOPLE LIKE THIS DO NOT CHANGE.

tsephanyah:
the difference between open scam and closed scam are killing in cool blood and killing in live, coverage,,, tinumbu send youth to there early grave too, if that should be the case, ask me how.

Were you just discharged from a psychiatric hospital? Have you taken your drugs today?

admax:
The senators really needs to be educated on this as most of them don't understand the dynamics. I can't blame them because they only understand politics.

Nigerians are paying the 2nd cheapest electricity in Africa but want to enjoy 24hrs light as if the equipment needed for electricity generation or transmission are cheap!

Azura a 450MW Genco in Edo will spend over $1.2billion to build their plant, sell to NBET who will give Gencos who will sell for stipends while battling with consumer's who don't pay bills and illegal connections etc so Gencos won't be able to pay NBET who won't pay Azura who won't be able to pay their bank loans (and for gas supply)!

Solution: Increase electricity tariff and cancel estimated billing to consumers. Disconnect those that don't pay. This will bring confidence to the market and attract investors!

[b]I COMPLETELY AGREE!
They should start disconnecting non paying customers, starting with the National Assembly!

People are paying 100 times more than the tariff for running their generators!

CFCman:
Na the same thing babes dey do for here in America. Some dey wear pajamas to class sef.

Abeg help me tell them! I don't think what she wore is decent but IT IS HER LIFE!!!
[size=14pt]OP MIND YOUR BUSINESS!!!![/size]

Deo1986:
If Zimbabweans are okay with his style of leadership how is his long stay in power your headache? that was how you incited the Libyans to oust Gaddhafi and since then Libya has never been the same. please, let Mugabe be he is the only true African we've got.

Your definition of a true African is a man who has refused to give up power and apparently thinks that it is his birthright to rule forever? A man who successfully pauperized the economy of his country? I weep for you, friend!

terminatorrr:
"Success is sweet, I tell you! [/b]When you don’t have to depend on daddy, husband, bf, Aristo. ..for anything you want..nothing beats that!".[b] Does she always have to point this out?

I think it's high time she stopped all these her speeches cos she keeps revealing her insecurities more with each speech. Is she trying to say she would have hustled this hard if she had a rich dad or even a husband?

Yes, she is self made but not everybody can be like her, she should stop trying to belittle people with her statements. It only shows how incomplete she feels even with all the money.

I don't get it!! Why are you berating her for being proud that her success is not as a result of a man?? Isn't it a good thing to see a woman that works hard for her money? As far as I am concerned Linda Ikeji is a shining role model that young women should look up to. She has clearly shown that you do not need a man to make it in life!

And for all the people beefing her I don't get it either!
How many celebrities in Nigeria are consistent in charitable deeds? She is the only one I know that actually tries to give back to society and y'all are here lambasting her. All we hear from Davido, Wiz kid and their like is how they recently acquired a new car or a new watch or some other rubbish. How often do these people give back to society?

Whether the bag is real or fake, I really don't give a hoot. Abeg free the woman and let her enjoy the wealth she worked hard for.

PAINGAIN:
So since may of last year when buhari bcame president the only thing i keep hearing is billion this, billion that. Like fayose asked a while ago, how much has d fg recovered, i mean like how much money have they recovered and if any, what are d monies being used for? Efcc keeps seeing billions and arresting people but no results. This corruption fight dey somehow walahi. Modified:: ftc on fp. I dedicate this to all d non criminal nigerians. They can try but they"ll never pull us down.

[size=13pt]Oh SHUT UP if you don't have anything to say!![/size]
Didn't you read in the article that $1 million was recovered from the soak away pit? Didn't you read about the money that was discovered in the air chiefs wives' accounts which is probably frozen by now?
Did you bother to read the article at all or you decided to rush to post something because you wanted to be the first to comment?
Please try reading an article first before commenting!

Reference:
I like and totally appreciate mature reasoning and the quest for understanding debates generate. Your view is true but that is not governance, that is politics. It ends at the polls. When you are sworn in you've got to start cashing in on the goodwill to do what is right, not perpetuate what is wrong. The quest for popularity after elections is wrong.

Buhari should take the tough road to restructuring Nigeria, instilling equity and justice, changing the socio-economic scape, diversifying the economy. Granted these are harder to do than 'corruption wars' but these are legacy projects to last far beyond his tenure. I'm afraid the way things are going he will have no legacy and the only hope he has of preventing a total washout of his presidency is oil price rises.

Why can't he set us on the path of economic emancipation. Why.

I completely agree with you. My problem with the Buhari administration is that it does not seem to have an economic road map. Which sectors of the economy does the government want to grow? How can we industrialize when we don't have power? How can the Naira ever strengthen against the dollar when we import most of the fuel we use?
The truth is that you can't tackle all of Nigeria's problems but a wise man would concentrate on tackling the problems that would yield the most benefit. Unfortunately our government seems to have no idea how to stir the economy

aribisala0:
This is kerosene user's mentality. There is no need for all this so called gratitude and nonsense talk of fingers that fed.
If you employ someone to do a job pay hem a fair wage. All this so called "help" that desires people to worship another for life is hypocrisy. Every person was born the same way and no one is superior to another . But something within our psyche has this need to dominate and be worshipped.
Of what relevance is it that your relatives could not speak English . You say they started feeling like they arrived . So you don't want them to "ARRIVE" you want them to never forget that they were brought from the village.Did your mum not come from the same village . If they are your relatives why feel superior? Because your folk left village first. Ask this question .

Who is the father of Obasanjo ,IBB<Nwakwo Kanu etc.

In almost all cases when people take so called relatives abroad they wish to exploit them. Expecting them to work 7 days a week with sketchy terms Because they paid for tickets and Visa and are always bitter when these people outperform them.They will never let them forget they once "could not speak English".

What I find amazing with all of this is it is this same folk who are the most active in church.

I couldn't have said it better!!
Nigerians are probably the MOST entitled people on earth and feel that they should be worshiped when they render assistance to other people, case in point the original poster - Faith111.
The only time they don't feel so entitled is when the person they are dealing with is an 'oyinbo'

SemuhleB:
**** How is the step mother whoring around? Is she still married? Is she having sex with multiple men? She is single and having a boyfriend is allowed as she is not cheating. That house is also her house so it also belongs to her. So must she go and do it outside or do it in a hotel for the rest of her life? So all those men who remarried new wives or in relationships should also respect their deceased wife by never spending time with them at their own house? Surely you are not this moronic. I am suspicious about the son in law. I won't be surprised that he has the hoohah for his step mother and that's why he was so against the relationship and attacked the guy. He could have spoken to his mother in law sincerely about it but he decided to kill instead. I mean if you stab someone in the head what did he expect would happen

[size=13pt]Most sensible answer BY FAR!![/size]
I definitely don't support sex outside marriage but last time I checked the woman is a widow!!!
What she does and who she does it with is strictly her business as her husband is dead.
And why would the step son keep saying that it is his father's house? At 41, shouldn't he either be living in his own house or building his house?
What is his business with his father's house?

[size=13pt]I don't get it!!![/size]
Why is he traveling to Egypt and Qatar? I understand him traveling to Saudi to fulfil his religious obligations but why Egypt nad Qatar?
Why isn't he traveling to countries that actually matter like our largest trade partners? Countries like China, USA and India?
What benefit would his traveling to Egypt and Qatar bring to Nigeria?

Who THE HECK is dictating our foreign policy? Is he aware that the dollar is now #313?

Chukazu:
even if you are married to him, I don't think doing those think you mentioned are your " sole responsibility " as a wife.
why should a guy compel you to wash his clothes

I think, sometimes the value you place on your self matters alot as a woman... just yesterday, my girl called and asked what I was doing, and said I was washing my clothes, and she was like..." oh how I wish am there to do the washing for,and tried to prove to her that is not her responsibility to do so but she insisted that it was her" womanly responsibility " and I was totally shocked to say the least.

that you are my girlfriend or wife doesn't make you my house maid

our women need to grow up and our men need a reality check

I really don't get it myself, are Nigerian men so LAZY that they cannot wash their own clothes? If you can't wash your own clothes don't you know the direction to the drycleaners? Since when did washing clothes and cooking become part of the job description of a girlfriend?

shortgun:
Olisa can never be silenced.
Not by buhari
Not by APC
Not by any vindictive judgements
Not by a double standard EFCC

He will continue to speak the truth.

Yes, He will speak the truth about his looting

Annybens1993:
I thought I was the only one thinking about this o... What is the function of Auditor General of the Federation. Most of these Federal Parastatals are just bearing big names.. They are simply figure heads. Even if they are given the job sef, how sure are we that their work can be relied upon.

Can a thief audit another thief
We all know that almost every government parastatal is compromised and it would be suicide to even THINK about letting the Auditor General audit NNPC. All they would do is cover up the rot in NNPC.

Giving the job to KPMG was a very smart move by the government.

989900:
Is OBJ morally bankrupt? YES.

Is he speaking the truth this time around? YES.

Do I loathe the man? YES.

Do I agree with him here? YES.

Is this pro masses? YES.

Is this in my best interest? YES.

Are victims of the said malfeasance and sleaze pathetically dumb to attack the messenger in lieu of the message? YES.

YES! YES!! YES!! YES!!! YES!!! YES!!! YES!!!!

A Big YES to all the points you raised! Its unfortunate that its only a minority of Nigerians that actually reason with their brains!
Its like a thief telling you that your house where your family is, is on fire and you see it is actually on fire. Would you argue with the thief that he stole from you or would you rush back home to quench the fire?

Nigerians are so PETTY!!!!!!!
Yes I believe Obasanjo is corrupt and YES I believe he has a case to answer BUT that does NOT make anything he said ANY LESS TRUE!
We are SO WILLING to let our thieving senators loot us dry just because we don't like the man that is warning us??
If that is not DUMB then I have NO idea what DUMB is!

anonimi:
General Olusegun Obasanjo (ret'd) was civilian president for eight years after three years of being military president in the 70s not so
Kindly point us to the audited budgets of the National Assembly for 1999-2007.
You can also point us to the audited budgets and accounts of NNPC during those eight years when the hopeless man was minister for petroleum, right
It is easy to write foolish letters after you are no longer responsible to score points with your 200 million mumu fellow citizens and be sure they will praise you blabbing message versus messenger bullshit

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPytmuhYDAU

Unfortunately this is part of the problem! Did Obasanjo make mistakes during his government? The answer is YES!!
But this is NOT about Obasanjo's government but rather our THIEVING legislature. Why DO YOU want to remain stuck in the past for heaven's sake?? You did not even BOTHER to address a single issue that Obasanjo raised, all you care about is crucifying the man.

Bro wake up and smell the coffee! Obasanjo may be a terrible person BUT EVERYTHING HE SAID ABOUT OUR CORRUPT SENATORS IS TRUE!!! We need to COLLECTIVELY stop this dumb habit of killing the messenger because he delivered a bad message!

@POSTER. You have to remember this - "Your sister's house, Your sister's RULES!". The way I see it you have 3 choices

1.) Move into your own place or back with your parents
2. ) Endure your sister's ecccentricities. I would suggest that you sleep when she goes to work and do the things you would normally do when she wakes up
3.) Appeal to your sister and try and make a deal with her. Only you knows your sister's soft spot. ry and appeal to that side of her

Don't forget that you are living in your sister's house and she is providing accommodation for you for free. Try not to be ungrateful

I simply DON'T understand Nigerians!!!!!

I really don't get it!! Why is everyone on this forum calling for Obassanjo's head? Are we really THAT DUMB
Obasanjo in his rather detailed letter explained that the National Assembly is very corrupt and REFUSES to publish its audited budget and yet all we are concerned about is lambasting Obasanjo for what happened during his time!!!!

For those that did not bother to read the letter, the summary of the letter is that our 'honourabe' senators illegally appropriate money for themselves through the backdoor and this practice continues even though our revenue is dwindling. These senators are only interested in enriching their pockets with OUR MONEY!!

The most ANNOYING thing is that not one person on this forum actually addressed the issues that Obasanjo raised but they were more interested in crucifying him. Our senators are literally stealing our money and we don't CARE!!

Truly Nigerians DESERVE our THIEVING AND CORRUPT SENATORS!

femiero:
Lol. I feel you my brother. Things are not as crazy asb you are painting it. It may suprise you that I drive a 2012 model of a Ford and I cut my hair once a month because na gorimapa be my style.

Talking about rents and utilities I snapped a page of today's newspaper for you to see. Take not of the 2nd one on the list.

my phone contract gives me unlimited call and text and I don't exhaust my data despite all the youtubing. I attached a picture for that too.

Burger no be my native food so I stock my house from the African store and county market near me. So I cook even though I'm not a big eater.

Do I have to buy clothes and shoes every month?
About TV and Internet, it's either I'm in sch or at work so you know the way it is. Internet is the most common thing here.

The key word here is conservation. After school, better job go come.

Femiero!! Femiero!! I was pretty impressed when I saw your rebuttal. Whenever people say that you can work in the US for 20 years and have no savings The great thing about staying in the US is that if you are level headed and not carried away with frivolities you can save at least $1000 monthly (which is almost more than my salary when I was in naija).

And the great thing about the States is the fact that there are deals everywhere if you only know wherre to look. For example my credit card company gives me 1% cashback for every dollar I spend! So if I spend about $15,000 a year, I get $150 back for free! And I don't even get charged by the credit card company cos I pay off the card on time. And you can always get amazing deals on clothing, electronics and stuff on Ebay

@Femiero - check out H2OWireless. I pay $36 a month as my phone bill and I get unlimited text, calls and data. And they even give me $20 every month for free to call Nigerian and international numbers!

Obviously the poster has NEVER traveled outside the shores of Nigeria otherwise he wouldn't talk about washing dead bodies. I have been outside Nigeria for a while and I have NEVER met a single Nigerian that washes dead bodies. And the MOST ANNOYING thing is the fact that the poster is most probably an UNEMPLOYED graduate who has the audacity to look down on other people who are gainfully employed.

Like everyone else has said there is NOTHING wrong with the jobs on the list with the exception of drug smuggling. There is dignity in labor and it is FAR better to be a cleaner than an unemployed graduate whose sole aim is to write senseless posts on Nairaland. When I was in college a lot of students were employed to wash plates, clean floors etc. Did it reduce their value as human beings? NO!!!

@poster Please get a life or better still get a job!!

naptu2:
Yes. That's my only fear about this move.

The Lagos State Government banned danfos and molues from Ikoyi and Victoria Island in 2002. This was a test run before a proposed state wide ban.

The government licensed private operators to run transport services instead of molues and danfos. The most popular operator was Cross Country Nigeria, an inter-state transport operator. Cross Country provided intra-state transport services using the name City Bus.

City Buses were air conditioned Toyota Coaster and Hiace buses. The drivers and conductors wore dark blue trousers, white shirts and blue ties. Most of them were graduates. The buses only stopped designated bus stops. The fare was 50 naira for every journey. This suited people who were going from Obalende to Ajah, but was too expensive for people going from Obalende to Falomo.

The agberos and NURTW members went crazy because they could not extort money from the City Buses. They destroyed the buses and bus stop shelters. The Lagos State Government banned touting at bus stops and arrested many agberos (Ikoyi and VI were filled with mobile policemen), but the union went to court to enforce their right to freedom of movement as enshrined in the constitution. They said that bus stops are public places and the government has no right to stop them from entering or standing at bus stops. They won the case.

Students of the Nigerian Institute of Oceanography and Marine Research also destroyed City Buses because they felt that the fares were too expensive.

The Lagos State Government eventually had to back down. They eventually licensed NURTW to provide transport services in Ikoyi and V.I. Cross Country eventually had to pull out of the system because they could not compete with the cheap fares charged by NURTW buses.


NURTW was given a BRT franchise because of what happened during the City Bus experiment.

I am pretty impressed by your post!!!!! You sound knowledgeable and your post is obviously well researched. Funny enough I actually stayed in NIOMR during the City Bus period but this is the first time I heard about students destroying the city buses. And I always wondered why the laudable CityBus project suddenly packed up.

Truly Nigerians are our own worst enemies!!!!! Why do we ALWAYS destroy infrastructure whenever we have a grouse?? What ever happened to demonstrations, pressurizing elected officials and other legal means of airing our grievances??

Nigeria is truly a JUNGLE!

gottliebglobal:
Low inflation, high unemployment, budget surplus and low growth rates indicates that Country B is facing recessionary pressures which makes it a candidate for expansionary fiscal policy.
On the contrary with Nigeria which has a Debt to GDP of 10.5% (low according to segunpee), high inflation @ 8.7%, high unemployment @ 9.9%, and a budget deficit of 2.2 Trillion out of a total budget of 6.07 Trillion. How in God's green earth would an expansionary fiscal policy pulls us out of our present economic doldrums? ??

@gottlieglobal I really enjoyed your analysis of expansionary fiscal policy. I am no sure what the difference is between expansionary fiscal policy and and expansionary budget(is there even such a thing?), but my take is that for Nigeria to escape our present economic doldrums the government NEEDS to spend HEAVILY on capital projects that would yield returns such as infrastructure and power (yes power is supposed to be privatized but that is a discussion for another day). Basically we need a budget that is more of a stimulus package.

What is your take on this? And how do you think we can escape our rather unenviable economic situation?

A bird in hand is worth two in the bush. Please take this job and IF your former employer calls you back, you can always resign.
Or aren't you tired of your wife being the breadwinner while you seat around and do nothing??

Please remember that you have a wife and kids to take care of and providing for them should be your primary concern, not your ego or what your wife thinks

There is NO such thing like Beards!!! It is beard, it is singular not plural. RMD is getting rid of his BEARD, simple!

justmenoni:
Some ladies sef....why go home with ur ex when u didn't end it up in good terms, even if u guyz ended i)t in good term Why do u hv to go to his house, why not discuss where u hv ur said friends around...wat if d guy has another girlfriend and dat one Came In and throw hot water on ur head.


I hate rape with passion but I didn't see rape in this case sha,first u know it was his area yet u went( so u can show him u are more beautiful now or ur Manchester und barca is bigger now or ur boyfriend is spoiling u and u wanna impress him)...ohk u went to his house and couldn't even wait outside to discuss and then u went in and he went to the bathroom yet u can't tk ur leave or were you expecting him to bring u money or what

If cases like these are rape then all sex should be classified as one even btw married people... Cos imagine baba chinedu drinking ogogoro kobo kobo and iya chinedu getting back from shop and was tired and baba chinedu must knack apako but iya chinedu is not j. For that anyway iya chinedu slept off and baba chinedu put wrapper aside and do jigijigi and iya chinedu wakes up and saw Wat baba chinedu has done! Is this rape as well and mind You baba chinedu and iya chinedu are not married them just met and Starr havin babies or assume the case dat Mr a and Mrs b start living together as couples and baba and Manage cinema's case occur is dis also rape

Sorry to say this but everything you just said is UTTER RUBBISH!!!!!
Are you saying that a woman can no longer feel safe with an ex? Your reasoning is completely illogical and makes no sense!! Have we men suddenly turned to animals that we can't control our base urges and we have to resort to rape??

Are you 6 years old or do you simply reason like one?

The most d shocking part of this article is the statement attributed to the Nigerian representative. The guy was openly criticizing the CBN in front of the WTO! That guy should be SACKED immediately!

Isn't he aware that he is there to represent Nigeria's interests? It's akin to the US ambassador to Nigetia criticizing America's policies while stationed in Nigeria.

That dude needs to learn the basics about diplomacy

flywaterbo:
Thank you kind sirs for you caring remarks, I indeed appreciate. I know he knows he is wrong and sent me a mail last night as I mentioned earlier. In the agreement he wants me to acknowledge the 700k on the agreement so he can pay me. I am not even signing to that because that would defeat my purpose of ever getting full fees.
Am just trying to be careful and wise unless I make up my mind to go for 700k, but for now. Sighs.
But I have his signature and acknowledgement on my agreement, am just wondering what it would cost to get to court and see help I need, would it ware me out? Would it take for ever?
That Nigerian slothful fashion in approaches like this is what am pondering on

Do NOT, I repeat Do NOT collect that 700k! I am not a lawyer but collecting the money means that you have agreed to the owners new terms and you can kiss the N1.7M goodbye. What you should do is simple. Get a lawyer to FORMALLY write a letter to the owner of the house requesting for your payment and hinting at possible litigation. This would prove to the owner that you are VERY serious and chances are that he would beg you to take like 1.2M. Do not communicate with the owner AGAIN till you have sent him the letter!

The truth is that the owner is at a DISTINCT disadvantage because he is in the UK so he simply can't afford a lawsuit. Be SMART and get a lawyer to draft that letter now! The owner would definitely not want a lawsuit hanging over him and he would try and settle this matter ASAP. Once he sees the letter, chances are that the matter wouldn't even need to go to court. Make sure that the letter is official and if possible send a scanned copy of the letter to his email address and the physical copy by courier.

Best of luck and please keep us posted

mbulela:
Kindly define what you mean by a more solid resume?
Why is it wrong to compare the chancellor and the minister of finance. The fact that the chancellor has more authority and influence makes it more damning that Mr. Osborne has never had a proper day job in his life, not to talk of a finance job. A Modern history graduate for crying out loud!!
The talk about the structure of the country is a different matter entirely. I actuall agree with you, in fact I think the country is structured to fail.
I was telling a friend this afternoon that, the only thing holding Nigeria together is the greed of the political class. It is the same thing that will push it over the cliff.

I agree with CSTR2 that Adeosun's resume is not strong enough. So what is a solid resume? Simply look at the resumes of Tony Elumelu, Sanusi(Ex CBN governer), Godwin Emefiele etc. Basically a person that has financial experience at the highest levels of corporate governance and some level of global financial experience. It is pretty obvious that when compared to these people, Adeosun is definitely a greenhorn. She does NOT have financial experience at the highest levels of management.

That said, even though she is a green horn NOTHING stops her from succeeding in her current posting. I REALLY hope that for the sake of our economy she succeeds

kokorodudu:
Mumus full Lagos and the degree of ignorance exhibited here shows why many of you are jobless or in poor jobs in the first instance.

If a bank customer must have BVN to operate an account in any bank in Nigeria, don’t you think a bank may request same from potential candidates?

Why the account number? Just check the website, I have applied too. It asks you for all the documents ever needed for documentation so I guess it’s just that they need you to provide all the details to weed out those who won’t make the cut before they even ask you to show for interview.

Guys, open your eyes. Mugu.ng

Why do you have to use derogatory and derisive language to pass your point across? You are looking for a job YET you are calling other job seekers mumu! Does that make ANY sense at all? Classic case of pot calling kettle black.

Like others said, why not chat with a customer service rep on their website? They should be able to tell you if the link is authentic

That said if the link is indeed authentic, Fidelity Bank has absolutely NO RIGHT to ask job seekers for their bank account details and BVN! It is unfortunate that even corporate establishments in Nigeria are breaking the laws with reckless abandon. I am shocked that HR would approve this clear violation of HR guidelines. The ONLY time they should have ANY business with your account details is when you are offered a job.

I am not sure which regulatory body is in charge of issues like this, but this violation should definitely be reported to them

PunkyVeer:
It still doesn't make much sense. Did he shrink & wither overnight? I refuse to believe she had no idea, unless he walked around in a fatsuit like Martin in Big Momma's House How is that possible that she couldn't even imagine how small he is with or without clothes? Sorry to say this, but she sounds like a dummy

She picked him, she can now live with that choice. Tough!

I completely agree! When I read the post I was pretty confused. Its like marrying a black woman then waking up one morning to say that you are not attracted to your wife because she is black and not Asian.

The only thing she can do is to carry her cross. The person I pity is her husband

NaijainTexas:
You can't be serious. You have been hardened, and this is not the way to live.

Let's ASSUME she only used him for paying her school fees:

The man can always make more money to replace the funds he used, he could always mend his broken heart with a new love.
She can never get her life back. Death is final.

If you don't see how that's not an even trade, then you and HugoChavezJr are lost causes.

There is really no use talking to these people because they are so full of hate. I can only PITY them!