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TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedure? by Shawbabe: 10:33pm On Mar 02, 2015
Quick question regarding passport application process in Georgia State.


Does the consent form from father have to be notarised at the U.S Embassy or any court? Election postponement has spoilt plans
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedure? by Shawbabe: 10:21pm On Mar 02, 2015
Herzumpther:
eh, for real? shocked shocked no wonder I dey follow this thread even though I never marry.

Chai I can't wait to get married and go have my baby in America too.

Following thread seriously.

Congrats to all the new mum's and mum's in the waiting too.
Lmao! U sound like a friend of mine. Pray first that u will marry a right thinking man, that God will bless ur home with children and finally that ur husband be able to afford it. In order my dear cheesy

Meanwhile it's good people like u are here, so by the time we come back for 2nd, 3rd and 4th round, una go don sniff out another cheap affordable package we can all use. grin
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedure? by Shawbabe: 9:14am On Feb 28, 2015
mamanjai:
Hi house, how's evryone doing and how are your Bumps and Lo's.
My mum wld be going for her interview Alone Soon, purpose is to help me and also handle my 2 year old( this wasn't asked while filling the application), bt she applied for B1/B2 visa. She has been to several other countries too. What are the most likely questions thy would ask her. Wat are the documents she should go with. Do I go with her for the interview? Or she only allowed to go alone? Thnk you in advance
Likely questions could be:

1) Does she work?
2) Where?
3) Who is sponsoring her?
4) Where will yall be staying/your medical details?
5) Duration?

I don't think they'll let u go with her to the interview, except she needs u as an interpreter or something like that. I think giving her copies of your Dr and hospital arrangements, accommodation, copy of your visa, bank statements stating you sponsoring, and any other important info about your trip. She should be fine though, they usually don't give elderly people stress.
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedure? by Shawbabe: 2:20am On Feb 28, 2015
IyawoToBe:
Hmmmmmm You like wahala! Ewwwwwww undecided
Lol @ Ewww...u can eww from here to Cotonou. Are u chasing me or about to marry me?

Why would I care huh
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedure? by Shawbabe: 4:10pm On Feb 27, 2015
Hahahaha u people crack me up. See all the gospel and epistle preaching peace and all. Oh and folks posting @ 1am could be in different time zones. Biko it ain't that serious. And anyone who bursts a nerve becoz of what someone says to u on a faceless forum, needs to speak to a psychologist about handling her emotions/anger.
So make una quit with the "holier than thou" posts and epistles. It never was that serious...well not for me anyway becoz I'm not buying anyone's ticket here. Lol! So why will I care if they fly @ 1 week or 43 weeks?? grin
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedure? by Shawbabe: 11:15pm On Feb 26, 2015
nefertitiram:
See why I am questioning your educational background? Do you have an idea the meaning of empathy?
How many women here have told you today you are insensitive?
Where is the empathy?

You are just a hungry doctor jor! You for talk early so that we can donate money for your pharmacy!
Hahahaahaha! Chineke umu Israel! This was not what I had in mind when I started my very first initial plea with mamas! Lmao!
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedure? by Shawbabe: 11:08pm On Feb 26, 2015
modath:
Childbirth isn't a new innovation my sis, 16yr old fulani girls wit their frail looking bodies do it while hawking fura de nunu till the 9th month with no medical intervention.
As you rightly stated,person A's journey and story may not be applicable to person B so why compare apples and oranges.
I think u need to research on the meaning of that expression. It doesn't apply to this in anyway.

Like I said b4, u are reading and NOT understanding. People do all sorts during pregnancy, night journey by bus Lagos to Imo and back. Yes we know all that. Hell women even push baby out while farming in the bush, cut the placenta with their cutlass, bury it, wrap up their baby and keep it moving!
My point is (and I'll write in caps this time, maybe u'll get it now)...IT IS NOT THE NORM!!! WE SHOULD STOP PULLING GANGSTA MOVES BECOZ OUR CO-WORKER DID IT, THEN WE CAN! Or becoz 1st pregnancy handled your 20hr road trip to Alaska, then this current pregnancy should. My point is DO THE BEST FOR YOU & YOUR BABY! Stop traveling late becoz u wanna "gangsta" ur way with the whole process. Even Drs cannot tell u when ur child is ready to come, they can only ESTIMATE. So if a baby decides to enter the world at 32 weeks and u are planning on leaving naija at 35 weeks, don't come on here and lament that ur baby has a green passport after all the plans. Or becoz u were tryna save ur job.
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedure? by Shawbabe: 7:49pm On Feb 26, 2015
modath:
I came out of lurk mode to state two things.

1. I made a 7hrs journey by road and the return journey 3days after(family car though) @ 36 weeks gestation with no ill effect to neither me nor the baby.
2.
As @Drafrican rightly stated, the reason we are going to the US is primarily for the blue pali and we should stop with the better healthcare ish. If its for superior healthcare ONLY, the UK, india, uae even south africa are avilable options that would cost only a fraction of the $10-15k conservative budget that is needed for a us childbirth plan .
There are myriads of 1st class hospital with top notch doctors/facilities in this country and the beloved dr fagbohun of oakbend/richmond is even an alumnus of abu zaria.
U can go back because ur post doesn't address anything at all! U could have climbed Zuma rock at 38 weeks with no issues and effects to u but that doesn't mean it's advisable and should be the norm!!

I said in my post U can go to Morocco if u believe u get the best there. U people are reading and NOT understanding! If u like leave Naija at 35 weeks because Mama Nkechi left at 38 weeks and was fine, u and Mama Nkechi are NOT the person! Penny wise, pound foolish! grin
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedure? by Shawbabe: 4:46pm On Feb 26, 2015
[quote author=mabels post=31109716][/quote]Lol. U totally got all I wrote wrong. U think I'm saying get out of Nigeria and have ur baby in the US so it guarantees smooth delivery? No that's not what I'm saying. Or that complications cannot be handled in Nigeria if it arises.

What I'm saying is why RISK and do gansta things becoz u want to hide under "if the baby is meant to be....?" U will go out of ur way to provide the best for ur baby, be it Naija or Morocco.
Secondly, whether u like it or not, witches and wizards do exist! So does evil. I never said "do not share"....I wrote be careful and mindful of what details u share and items u request from folks u don't know from Adam.
And Yes one can believe in no weapon formed against us shall prosper but will they stand in front of a moving car or moving bullet becoz of that? No! U will avoid it anyway u can. And that's my point. Believing in being invincible is all cool and nice, but be careful of how u make urself a target. That IS what I'm saying.
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedure? by Shawbabe: 3:18pm On Feb 26, 2015
nefertitiram:
Why would you want to risk your life and fly at 35 weeks! What if you go into labor or anything! Why do Naija women like gangsta moves like this?
I made the same mistake the 1st time, I put work over my health and lost the babies, I guess if I had left earlier, the US healthcare system would have been more aggressive in taking care of preemies!
Nne, the only thing you lose is a month or 2 salary, which ur baby is more important than. Try to take off at 30 to 32 weeks, biko.
This time sef, am leaving at 20 weeks! Work can wait, nothing else matters right now!

Cheers!
Please tell them. Nigerians like to hide under words like "I am covered by God" or "if it's meant to be...."
Even the bible says that all things have been given to us but u still gotta TAKE it. In other words do ur part and tick all ur boxes, God will take care of the rest. Oh and @Mabels this is also in response to u.
We need to start being proactive and not relaxed. Jus sayin!
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedure? by Shawbabe: 8:57am On Feb 26, 2015
lilyfranklin:
Food for thought grin
Lol they better hear oh. And for those putting details of their travel, including departure date and time. People are no good out there oh...let's apply some wisdom. Evil has gone technological oh grin
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedure? by Shawbabe: 8:54am On Feb 26, 2015
Newmum0615:
Not everyone has the luxury of leaving work earlier than others. People have travelled at 35 weeks and nothing happened. With God ALL things are possible. It is only by His grace, not by our own strength wink
If u are faced with the option of losing that job and having a healthy delivery process in the US, I take it u would chose ur job wink
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedure? by Shawbabe: 6:11am On Feb 26, 2015
lilyfranklin:
Please can any one in El paso or coming to El paso soon, help me with "Nzu". My crave for it is crazy. Help biko.
all of una asking for this and that from people coming from Naija, and those wanting to hook up with people and plan together, una better be careful. Witchcraft is real. grin
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedure? by Shawbabe: 9:53pm On Feb 25, 2015
Traveling at 35 weeks is RISKY! It's not like it's domestic but Int'l for over 8 hours. Mothers biko lets avoid stories that touch! Life and safety over anything oh. Be wise.
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedure? by Shawbabe: 3:01am On Feb 25, 2015
debbyokeowo:
Hello efamily.
Please oo. This time around I need answers to my questions.... lol... hormones...

Please for those that have used Northside Atlanta.. please share ur experience with me ooo. I need info about Dr. Their fees and how u book for hotel or accommodation. Cheap one ni o...
Thanks in advance.

Congrats to all new born, new Visas and POE story. Praise be to God.
U have to first find an Obgyn attached to Northside hospital Atl. There are loads of Obgyn to choose from, so google Atlanta Women's Group. It will list all the offices then u can call them. 80% of them are 5 mins from Northside Atl, as in behind the hospital. As per fees, depending on which Obgyn u choose, they'll give u their fees. It's always good to "shop around" before settling. But I always advise you go with an experienced Dr. As in somebody who finished Med school in the 1980s! In my opinion they are usually the best with over 4000 baby delivries under their belt!

Oh and most of the offices will ask you to fax your records before they can give you a price. Unfortunately u have to find a way to send ur records across to them.
As per hotel and accommodation, u CANNOT function in atlanta without a car of your own. Nothing is close to anything, u can google Extended Stay close to Northside or in the same zip code 30342. But u still can't walk it. U still need a car.

Hope this helps!
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedure? by Shawbabe: 12:09pm On Feb 18, 2015
PrinceAdeAde:
$120 at the delta conversion rate of N202 so invariably i paid N24,240
For what date? As in is $120 standard to upgrade or that's the cost for her particular return date?
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedure? by Shawbabe: 3:28am On Feb 17, 2015
LMAO @ Lorlahbee and Amotherlife. Hahahahaahaha See fight over Kilishi cheesy.

Where a group of preggies are gathered, fight is bound to break out. Lmao!
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedure? by Shawbabe: 11:01pm On Feb 15, 2015
Lol Elpaso sha....what's wrong with the place that people are complaining and defending it? O gini? So much controversy on a destination lol
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedure? by Shawbabe: 4:49pm On Feb 14, 2015
mamacajah:
Hello e-family. Please I need directions to the page on information for giving birth at Northside Hospital, Atlanta. This is for a friend and not me..lol. I would be grateful if anyone has information also on affordable hospitals in Lithonia (thats where she plans to stay). Thanks and have a great day.
Yaaay! I'm 3 mins from Lithonia. It's 28 mins to the hospital, I'm using Northside too. There's not much info to give just that she arrives and calls Northside to register and pay. When is she coming/due?
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedure? by Shawbabe: 10:46pm On Feb 13, 2015
Tvegas:
To all pregnant mums and Dads buying Delta Ticket. You need to be informed that there are only 2 bassinets on your return leg. You can only use bassinet if you are sitted on any of these 4 sits namely 17A,17B and 17F,17G. All these sits are located in the premium economy section which you can buy with an extra $120.

So I advise you to book that sit for the return leg as soon as you buy your ticket. Even at that your chances of getting bassinet is 1/2 i.e. 50% because if all the people who booked the 4 sits are nursing mothers it will be a case of First come,first served at the boarding gate. You can book before your baby arrives. Cheers
so bulkhead seats don't get bassinets? noooooooo cry
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedure? by Shawbabe: 10:18pm On Feb 13, 2015
Bia Mr Justwise did u delete my post to Zeezahbeehuh

Why? Uncle, don't get me upset oh. Why didn't u delete her condescending post? I want to believe u are not tryna suppress me from stating ish as it is! Next time she knows to answer questions NICELY!!!
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedure? by Shawbabe: 7:02am On Feb 13, 2015
bbaby84:
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Much better deal... What about data?
Can't remember exactly if it's 50MB or 15MB per day. My mum was using it, I'll ask her coz me I'm on At&t for $45 a month for unlimited minutes and 1GB data per month.
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedure? by Shawbabe: 5:43am On Feb 13, 2015
drafrican:
Same reason? Or same denial stamp Pls what was your friends story.
Lmao! Good question! cheesy
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedure? by Shawbabe: 5:38am On Feb 13, 2015
Airpure:
Hello guys. Pls what is the cheapest phone network provider to use in the US especially Houston .the last time I was there I spent like $100 bi weekly on a TMobile line where I was charged to make n receive calls now m hoping for a mobile plan with Data n all . Will appreciate advice.
Heard that Uber mobile is the cheapest. $19 per month for 1000 minutes nationwide, and unlimited texts. Google them.
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedure? by Shawbabe: 5:34am On Feb 13, 2015
@ochioraumu, my dear for now just focus on getting home and resting. Get something to eat and relax in your flight if u can, I know it's hard. But u shouldn't be stressing and giving yourself HBP now. When u get back to Abuja, u can contact the embassy, and get WELL-INFORMED answers to your question. Just take it easy nne.
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedure? by Shawbabe: 4:51pm On Feb 08, 2015
drafrican:
Must I go with marriage certificate i did native law?
Technically, and sorry to say but Una never marry. Get ur "hubby" to do something LEGAL & RECOGNISED by government bodies to certify una union. Like someone already said, go to court and sign papers and have that certificate. It's also for ur own good as a woman. And also for when the child comes and documentation starts.
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedure? by Shawbabe: 7:27am On Feb 07, 2015
donakinzo:
Hi Peeps,

I am based in the Middle East (ME) with my family. We have our American visas (B1/B2) before we relocated to the ME and visited the States for holidays. Now my wife is preggy and plans are to have our baby in the States and we plan to pay about 50% of the bills upfront.

Question
1. Can we use our credit cards as proof of solvency at the POE, if we have about $2K in cash?

I will appreciate comments and experiences

Thanks in advance for your help!
u are fine! I had only $40 on me cash at POE....rest of the money was on debit and credit cards
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedure? by Shawbabe: 7:23am On Feb 07, 2015
Lmao @ the Nigerian visa is an eye sore cheesy
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedure? by Shawbabe: 3:46am On Feb 07, 2015
Phema, this one u are awake, na jetlag abi baby feeding? grin
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedure? by Shawbabe: 3:44am On Feb 07, 2015
@FavoredB, na wa o! These people are bent on eating u dry! Pls what State and hospital did u use so we will know to stay away in future. 9k for a 1 night? Even Burj al arab never reach like that for one night! I advise keep negotiating with them.
At this rate, na to take recording device to every Dr's appointment mehn! B4 person come deny u after birth

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