yinkaOdutuyo: I have this girl am dating, I love her alot and I use to do everything she want for her to the extend that I pay her school fees.
All these expenses are making me broke, because by the time I pay for hair, handout, school fees, hostel rent and I'll also buy her clothes, shoes, bags and other ladies stuffs, all the little money I have will finish and I'll go broke and start thinking about my life.
Mind you i have a work am doing and I use to make money, but most of these money made, will be spend on my girl, to the extend that I hardly buy ordinary wears for myself.
Of a recent i have made up my mind to staer savings and stop spending or sponsoring a girl fake life.
Yesterday I got 60k work and I have completed it and I was paid.
From the 60k I save 20k in an investment mutual funds, which I can collect or have access to it until 6months, of which I'll be saving any money that i see from my works.
From the remain 40k that remain after i save 20k from the 60k. I paid service charge to my landlord 10j and I also buy foodstuffs to my house worth 10k, so i have extra 20k as pocket money.
And mind you my work is a moving work even before the end of today or this week, I'll still see another money.
I want to start a saving habit and stop impressing and stop funding a girl fake like (opor opor).
Pls is this decision ok. Or what other advice can you give me guys??
If you were my son eh..... Shun premarital financial assistance
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OyigboUpdate: Common gerrarahia. Come and push the post now. You're seeing a police arrest with uniform on video and you're saying is not news because you're attacking the messeger instead of the message.
Then why do u think sometimes eye witness news make front page. Sometimes people post jungle justice they witness and videoed why dont mods ask them to provide a vanguard link.
I posted a suspected witch in 2018 that fell in Port Harcourt I was there I videod it and it was accepted on front page. I also posted people worshipping kanu in 2017 it was accepted on front page to. Without any media link because the video is clear and speak for it self.
Go sit down for gutter
There is no need for insults here. I have not insulted you.
I dont have an issue against the Messenger. I have said before that your vision is not bad, but Fact is you cannot post false information here.
That was 2018. This is 2021 and any news without a reference (eg jungle justice) you can report the post as well
I believe what you wanted to write is "Come on, get out of here, and Go sit down IN THE gutter"
The part of the world where I am, it will probably take me 5 years to find a gutter to sit in.
OyigboUpdate: Can u hear the police plainly speaking in English interrogating the man as he confirms he is a member of ESN and they had 20 guns.
So if i show u a video of a man being shot dead you'll say you don't believe because it is affiliated with me
Ok fine. Direct us to a TV channel or newspaper that carried this news.
Any information from facebook or you-tube that is not backed-up by references from a news media is simply opinion. It is not news. Do you know that Nairaland has a diary section for opinions. Go and post there in diary section - nobody will oppose you. You can write whatever fantasy you have in that section.
I'm done here. Let me go round and look for other false threads before y'all spoil the work that Seun has been building since 2005
You actually believe all Nairalanders are stupid? You would give us references from a face book page affiliated to you personally and a youtube video affiliated to you. How do I know? You publish the same story across your social media handles within the same period. Every journalist has a writing style so I can recognize people's writing style's easily.
To prove that this is not a witch-hunt, I congratulated you in your last thread for being very investigative and giving proper references and now you decide to do this?
I have been here since 2006 so you should know I am not a young Nigerian. I am sorry, your references cannot both come from you.
That is still false information. You stated previously that you are a journalist. Your posts are in total disagreement with the ethics of the profession?
Mods please do the needful mynd44 lalasticlala seun oam4j Justwise (RULE 8 )
I also reported another false thread, Please do the needful 6 ESN Members Arrested, Tortured And Chained By The Army Today In Orlu (pictures - Politics - Nairaland
There was a pre-nup. KIm is not looking for Kanye's money as she is worth $1.3 billion
Infact she bailed him out when he filed for bankruptcy.
The request for a divorce is MUTUAL. Kanye and Kim love each other but a core Christian that Kanye is becoming will find it hard to live with a core non-Christian On a recent show they were asked what they do after the kids have gone to bed. Kanye said he reads the bible and Kim says she watches DATELINE.
This divorce isn't about settling scores. They simply cannot get along: Imagine Kanye trying to get Kim to go to church or Kim trying to get Kanye to do something that will hurt his Christian walk
You can not marry a woman who has an adult unclad video of herself and be mentally sane in the long term.
A lot of people including The Game, Drake, and Ray J bragged about her swallowing their babies and she decided to have Kanye's babies
This is his first divorce, her decision.
This is her THIRD divorce... all of them her choice.
Kanye West is a billionaire worth $1.3 Billion ( The $53 Million loan and bankruptcy was just a financial patch that does not mean he is poor)
Kim Kardashian West: $780 million used his influence to ascend,
Divorce a man when he’s at his best.
Leave him. Marry another victim (monkey branching). That is common in western women - The Praying Mantis effect. Kim Kardashian will still be the victim and the blame will be on Kanye. I pray Kanye West does not commit suicide.
HellVictorinho: Rubbish! Kim never helped him to achieve anything except two kids!!!!!! This has nothing to do with misogyny!!! Even Kim Kardashian can't say that she helped him to do anything else!!!! She can't tell such a lie because she knows people like HellVictorinho will discard it!!!!!!
Kim could not help him achieve anything and he did not help her achieve anything. They both had separate lines of business
Kim is worth $1.3billion, Kanye is worth $1.38b. There was a pre-nup. And they have four kids
Kanye has bi-polar disorder and Kanye has become a Christian. It is difficult to manage someone with mental health issues and Kim is a core non-Christian.
tidalstorm: I ain't saying she a gold digggah but she ain't messing will a broke nigggah_Kanye West.
Shebi Kanye West knew what he was getting into before marriage.
As long as his mental health becomes better, it's a win for him. He doesn't need all that money anyway. Na him competition with Jay Z go be him downfall.
Kim is worth $1.3billion, Kanye is worth $1.38b.
There was a pre-nup
No gold digging here
Kanye has bi-polar disorder and Kanye has become a Christian. It is difficult to manage someone with mental health issues and Kim is a core non-Christian.
We must also not forget that Kim stood by him when he filed for bankruptcy.
Their lifestyles do not match anymore. Personally I feel that Kim is running away from the Christian that Kanye has become
AroleOduduwa2: Well done Harry, you have acted like a real man, although you were a kid when your mom passed away, you have acted in her best interest, the pain the royal family caused your mom for leaving Charles is there for any reasonable human to see, all their lies and cover up can only deceive the gullible Brit.
They almost succeeded in making Meghan a villain, but her only sin was because she’s black. How can they say Harry kid doesn’t have claim to the throne, because their mom isn’t white, that’s proper discrimination right there.
southniyikaye: e Pele o inspector Shokoloko.. Go back to that post and read it thoroughly and stop highlighting nonsense
Learn to listen. There is no smoke without a fire. Nobody makes enemies on social media but Everyone cannot be telling you the same thing about yourself, and they are all lying and only you is telling the truth.
southniyikaye: IT is enough to get more than your entire generation will ever get.. You were gonna judge me with my past ordeals, lol, I have since moved on beyond your imagination... Focus on your miserable life and do well for yourself.. I have monitored you on this forum and I realized, you are even more bitter than bitter..
OyigboUpdate: The girl is his concubine. Uche mefor former second in command exposed it.
I have watched your youtube videos. I understand your anger. I don't think the Igbo nation is ripe for Biafra now, because if a war starts, we don't have food or good hospitals. The South east cannot sustain a full-blown war. I think Igbos should become the snake in the green grass and gain political relevance in Nigeria.
But then I also applaud ESN, only because they are protecting farmlands.
I have also reported several sensationalized posts because there has to be a source.
Go ahead, post your news, enlighten people but anything without evidence or verifiable source should be put aside.
Lies. They are happy. Arrange Kidnap Kill one during kidnap for authenticity. Give bandits 50m Charge 500m to state account Hand baton to next Northern state Laugh politically
bubudeen: lost the man completely , the children are now fatherless, the mother of the man has lost a precious son. the father has lost the son he laboured on , w because they said he slept with another woman. Just 4 decades ago in this country there was hardly any man that had just one wife. Today Women and white people have now demonized what all your forefathers practiced in peace "POLYGAMY". The truth is that the average man is naturally polygamous. Monogamy is unnatural to the male. That's why all the bible patriarchs were polygamous.
Some 30 years ago when men were allowed to marry as many wives as possible did you ever remember having any aunty then above 35 years and not married? but today 35,40,45 years plenty no man to marry . Most of them doing side chick to married men because of the Oyinbo propaganda on polygamy. Meanwhile the average white man and woman will marry and divorce almost every other 4 years.
That's not true. Don't believe what you see on TV. These white people don't divorce every four years. They stay longer in marriage than we do because they go in wisely not because society pushed them to. I see them touching and kissing themselves all over the place even after 50, 60 years of marriage
Fahdiga: Why is it that Yoruba men are not that strong to the extent that their women are beating up and killing them on a daily basis. remember the Yoruba man that died in Shasha as a result of one slap from an Hausa man
All tribes have weak men and women. All tribes have strong men and women. Where is Anthony Joshua from? Where is weightlifter Josephine Orji from?
Kelvin30286063: Well I don't have a side chick but you point is not valid cuz most times she doesn't agree with what I spend money on. Take for instance, I need to take 2 of our 3 dogs for vaccination today, that will cost me about 15k. My wife can't know about that cuz it's unreasonable to her that I'll use 15k to vaccinate dogs. And many other things she complains about. She's very frugal with money. That's a good thing actually but not when it's affecting me. As for the CBN. I don't want to take risk
I cant understand this. Its not her money. She shouldnt decide what you do with your money. I dont ask my spouse what he does with his money except for home upkeep and he cannot ask me what I do with my money. Please go reopen your account in the bank. You only bought cryptocurrency. You are not a trader. Collect your ATM card back. No one should be holding your ATM card for you