₦airaland Forum

Zodiac61:
They have not forgotten that Jesus was claimed to have said that.
They ignore it because they realise that his promise was false. He never gives them what they pray for, ever.

Kindly note that we do not pray to Jesus, but to God in Jesus name.

Again do not be quick to assume that every christian has faith like a grain of mustard seed.

farous:
Ok. But it's a case where the man do neither boast nor maltreat the wife, but the wife's body language naturally,comfortable and from onset signals preferring that the hubby remain in such circle,struggling and finding it difficult to fend to take care of the family including the same wife rather than being rich.

Ah! Then that is witchcraft. If your husband is good and he prospers, who benefits most? Wife and kids. That woman is bad

Yes, I know of a man who has indicated his desire to marry a second wife when his business gets off the ground. He has two kids from his wife, a teacher. She has a good character (not really pretty) and he wants to marry his spec once he hammers.
Guess who is praying every night that the business should only bring in profit enough for daily needs.

Ilekokonit:
Main reasons some Nigerian women are single and will remain single forever

They are stubborn, wicked, ungrateful, big mouthed and generally uncouth NASTY pieces of work.
They keep playing mind games that will get them no where with REAL men.
They bring third parties including their friends and parents) into their marital affairs.
They are still FOOLISHLY playing hard to get when they are close to age 40 or more and their bodies and punanis are nothing to write home about.
Multiple men keep dumping them severally but when God miraculously rescues them from the jaws of DEFEAT, they still manage to snatch defeat from the jaws of victory by chasing the God sent man away with their piss taking, selfishness, rudeness and general thoughtlessness.
They take kindness for granted.
They don't think before they talk or act.
They are more stubborn than the devil.

The funny thing is that these scallywags need men more than men need them because men "really" need them mainly for coitus and if the sex is not forthcoming, then men have absolutely no need for them.

But women on the other hand need a man to impregnate them so that they can have children but yet they will still display their demonic stubbornness around a man that can help their ministry .

Mark my words , Na sperm bank Naija women go dey go very soon to get artificially inseminated with sperm from a stranger they have never met and are not sure is disease free and is not a criminal psychopath and they will resort to this in a DESPERATE ATTEMPT to get pregnant and have children before their remaining eggs become unhealthy and useless due to OLD age and menopause. But I can bet that Nigerian women are already turning to sperm banks as a LOT of Nigerian men are refusing to marry Nigerian women as I speak . These cantankerous Nigerian women wey no dey hear word will be artificially inseminated like the cows they really are only that cows are better than women as they give their milk without giving the man any attitude as they realize that THE MAN IS BOSS AND WAS CREATED TO HAVE DOMINION OVER THEM . CHIKENA.

And for those Nigerian women who are lucky enough or crafty enough to trap a man , they had better treat the man as THE BOSS AS 2 CAPTAINS CANNOT CONTROL A SHIP or else NIGERIAN WOMEN WILL BECOME THE LAUGHING STOCK OF THEIR MARRIED FRIENDS and their family when the man they failed to show respect to FINALLY DUMPS THEIR SORRY ASS because of their all round bad manners and nastiness.

A foretold war can not kill a cripple but that only applies to the cripple who is wise and has a TEACHABLE SPIRIT unlike our current Nigerian women who are HELL BENT on pressing the self destruct button due to their ignorant wannabe feminism and over-reliance on their degrees and jobs to the detriment on bowing don to their man and ACCEPTING THE MAN AS THEIR BOSS in order for them to reap the dividends of a happy home.

A word is enough for the wise.

Stop it, son. Forgive and let go.
Do not hold on to bitterness so you do not make your daughter pay for the sin of your mother.
You will smile again.

Edited to add: I noticed that you quote the bible a lot. There is a high level of bitterness and rage in you that God needs to heal you of.
The bible states that the true enemy is the devil, principalities and powers and not women. The devil uses women but he also uses men and he uses animals. You need to let God heal you. I speak peace into your life, I speak forgiveness an I speak wisdom into your life. Amen

Boss13:
I think you considering the situation. I have offered you my advice. Do you know how much debt she has? How many kids she currently has? What is the current situation with the kid(s) father?

Is she attempting to lure you so the household income increases for tax breaks and property purchases? What is her credit score? Is she trying to have another child because she wants to increase child welfare benefits and possible child support payment in the future? How old are the kids?

These are pertinent questions. You are free to pursue your emotional bidding. However, beware of single mothers.

You forgot to add "does she want a child from a hardworking african so she can claim child support from him". It is my understanding that African men do not default on child support here

Oh, just read again. You did add that. LMAO

femi4:
That info won't be necessary unless you want the job based on sympathy

That information is very, very, very necessary. It simply means I will not be able to take a job that requires frequent travel, or overtime late into the night.

This is not a crowd size for a person who is liked.

McSquishi:
I wish I could like this twice!

You said it perfectly. “inferiority complex” is exactly it.

My short time visiting Nigeria I got a sample when I was looking for Black dolls to purchase in the stores and there were none to be found... when I asked why I was told no one would purchase them if they were there. I couldn’t understand how in a majority Black country how white dolls could be the popular choice except that white supremacy was very much ingrained in the psyche of the people.

And what you said about wanting kids who look like you is important. Black people who always gush over interracial couples/mixed kids deep down hate their looks and having children with dark skin or African associated features is something they would happily avoid. Mixed kids represent “goals” to them.

One day I pray this mindset is far behind our people.

I agree

wingmanIII:
Stupid thread.
No evidence the man is a catholic priest.

Maybe not Catholic but a priest nonetheless

sammysmiles:
The interest youth put in relationships, how I wish they put it in making money...

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AbujaCitiBlog:
Since the news broke that Kanye has added some serious billions to his worth, the bitch is now having a change of mind. The best revenge is success!

She is not having any change of mind.

This article is a lie. The couple discussed this divorce for months. It could not have come as a shock.

They are no longer compatible. For now Kanye is obsessed with Jesus Christ and Kim wants to continue as an atheist or agnostic. This has been brewing for over a year.

kettykin:
why cant this ESN folks just restrict this to the east and mind their business

Hello Ketty, Let me explain how ESN gets invited. They do not just show up in Non - Igbo states. The CHief of the community plagued by fulani bandits writes a letter and sends to the Ipob leader of the area. Then sends at least 50 indigenous men to join the ESN group to be attached to their area, so that tomorrow no one will say ESN hijacked a community.

So they were actually invited.

luminouz:
You are wrong. The siblings don't look alike. Such scenario is applicable to twins or facially similar siblings

Wrong, It is not facial similarity. Its a familiar aura - that's what she is searching for. And very close friends or siblings have similar aura. Thats why you see sometimes when a person marries into a family, the two families start to marry amongst themselves.

Have you seen where a girl is told "You are just your father". She is not male, but everything about her exudes her father. That's what our young girl i trying to get

Viknat:
Make she received fat big d...k her brain go reformat to factory settings.

You can do better than this, son.

Charmingrascal:
Nothing can justify this.


In Yoruba culture a widow can marry the brother of his late "husband" not his fiance. Tho the practice is archaic and I doubt if it is still being practiced.

But the fact is the said lady was just the fiancee of the late soldier, they are not married yet so why would she opt for his late fiance's brother.

That's wrong, obviously they had a thing for each other even before the soldier died, perhaps he was the one servicing her whenever the Soldier was away on State duty.

Even the late soldier would be disappointed wherever he is now.

She didn't have a thing for his brother. That girl is in denial and is looking for her dead fiancé in his brother. In her mind she is marrying her fiancé. She will regret it when she realises that he cannot be his brother.

If you were my son, even as old as you are, I will beat the living daylight out of you.
Go back to Lagos immediately.

You tried to play a game you have not mastered, now you have been played.

From your write-up you never liked this woman. You loved her desperation

Leave that house now. Go do uber with your car. If you have no accommodation, sleep in your car.

RichDad1:
Their online miscreants will claim its herdsmen again.
When the monster the SE is making fully grown, we’ll be here to laugh their foolishness.

This is definitely not ESN. ESN only protects farmers from herdsmen in the farms.

These are politically sponsored assassins.

JayJohnson:
Hello there,

I don't know what the two jobs are, but I can tell you for free that 120k job in Ibadan is far better than 150k job in Lagos in terms of standard of living.

You may however need to look beyond that, most of the jobs in Ibadan are branch level jobs (the head offices are in Lagos), meaning that, two people starting their career on the same day in Lagos (HQ) and Ibadan (branch) will most likely not be on the same level in 24 months down the line. The guy is HQ would have gotten at least a promotion while you are still enjoying your 120K

Ask yourself again, what is the prospects of being at Ibadan after 5 to 7 years? How many job opportunities are in Ibadan compared to Lagos? Will it be easy to find a good manager level job in Ibadan in about 5 years time at least compared to Lagos?

Don't only think of today when choosing a new job, think strategically, you will thank me in years to come, I am telling you that from my over 20 years of experience!

I'd rather thank you right now for this advice. With over 16 years of experience, I agree with you

Chibuike21:
My reasons for thinking Mazi Nnamdi Kanu is nothing but a hustler.

How come Kanu dissolved ipob executives in London after they queried how money is spent?
How come with all the donations, Kanu has not even met a foreign legislator not to talk of any prime minister or president?
How come the most important Igbo man to support him remains senator Abaribe no other senator or governor or rep member?
How come he only entertains by saying Buhari is Jubril with no real proof?


Ndigbo we have a hustler as leader.

Now Chibuike, all your questions are valid but I don't have the answers.

But I want to provide my own points. ESN is not a ghost network. If you go to some of the Igbo villages the elderly people farming can attest that they have sighted ESN operatives. At least we all know that ESN is not a scam.
They next question is "Now that IPOB no longer collects dues, who is buying ammunition, feeding the men and taking care of them. Most likely the money that has accumulated.
IF this man has been a scammer for years and now turned around and said no more collection of money I am going to float and finance a security network, is that not better than the Nigerian government that keeps looking for ways to choke the populace (Now there is a charge for USSD transfers

The next question we need to ask is if Nnamdi meets a foreign leader, what will the leader do? No leader will help a group that has been branded a terrorist organization.

The reason why no Top Igbo man will openly support Kanu is that they can become targets. Do you know what will happen to Innoson's factory if he ever wakes up and starts to talk about Biafra? I don't see a very long political career for Abaribe based off his support for the actualization of Biafra.

I dont know why he is insisting that Buhari is Jubril. Does not make sense. The northerners do not need to swap a person with a mask. They own Nigeria and they decide who rules. Why would they play that childish game of mask wearing

I do not know whether I like the man Kanu, but I definitely love what ESN stands for and it is such a laudable initiative that other regions have keyed in and about to create their own security networks. I also like that ESN does not impose itself on communities. Last week I was watching where some Isoko representatives where in a meeting and asked for the presence of ESN in their rural areas. And he said he would on two conditions: the ruler of the community had to give a go ahead first, and they had to have 50 men volunteers from the community before ESN would join them so ESN is not accused of land-grabbing in the future. It think that was brilliant

In addition the woman should get herself tested for HIV and other STDs each month: keeping condoms available is different from using them.

She also needs to learn to watch her back in case a side chick forgets that the affair is a business and decides to fall in love with the man and become jealous

She needs to hustle because any side chicken pregnancy will divert resources and lower the standard of living of her kids.

Only mentally challenged people give siblings the same first or middle name.

Anyone who is not as surprised as Toni is being ridiculous, and should answer what they would do if their spouse wants all their kids to have the same name

Where
is
the
source
of
this
news?

TundeChris:
He should not move back. Encourage him to stay back, fight what he can fight and rebuild his life. You cannot give up your life because of some woman. Rebuild and bounce back, it will all be a story in a few years.

I have an uncle who got divorced years back. The woman collected his houses in the uk successfully, he literally lost everything. That was many years back, today he is successful again, even though single, he owns businesses in the UK and in Nigeria.

DONT GIVE UP!!!!!

Great advice.

He should not move back. He should stay and build his life again. His children will look for him.
Kids are not stupid- they understand.
If he is innocent they will look for him

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Poloyanabo2:
Igbo women are too strong headed for my liking, as far as I'm concerned FFK owns those children as long as he paid full bride price on her head.

Even if she was my relative I won't support her on this cos I'm a man too that will also love to have full custody of my kids in event of a divorce.
But if their marriage is a court marriage then they should share the kids equally or the wife should even be granted custody of all the kids because I have no pity for any man that foolishly engages in court marriage, that's the worst trap that a man can ever fall for.

It's not about the man having the kids. None of FFK's girlfriends can treat these kids like their own.

Is it a girlfriend that will stay awake at night if those kids are ill?
Is it a girlfriend that crack her brain to do homework with the kids?
Is it a girlfriend that will carry them on her back?

They might even molest those kids or poison them.
It's about the welfare of the children and its usually the mother of a child that can take care of the child.

SenecaTheYonger:
Are your government officials foreigners? No,they are Nigerians like you and were voted by Nigerians. Imagine playing blame game like African American. And you still have the guts to criticize them.

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sage:
Stop telling yourself lies. There is no quota of arrest by color anywhere in the US

In Atlanta, arrest quotas allegedly served as the source of the bungled drug raid that killed a 92-year-old African American woman named Kathryn Johnston. After obtaining a no-knock warrant based on an informant's claim that he bought drugs at Johnston's house, police entered the apartment and killed her. They found no drugs, but planted marijuana in her home and submitted cocaine as evidence that they falsely said they purchased from the home. In a lawsuit by Johnston's estate against the city, one of the officers involved in the killing testified that Atlanta had a quota policy that was written, distributed, and publicized in his department. Other officers sued the city, claiming police were offered pizza, DVDs, and shorter work days for meeting their targets.

Petyr1:
i guess you don't understand the OP from start. the whole black race is NOT guilty of entitlement but black Americans are guilty of it.
The only thing their ladies know how to do it Bleep around and have multiple children for different fathers while their men are forming thugs and gangsters.
The way Nigerians work here, if compared to US they will have become a millionaire. Even our women are working to provide for their children unlike the other black Americans ladies waiting for child support from the government paid with tax payers money. BLACK AMERICANS ARE ENTITLED SHIT PERIOD.
Go to Ikeja, agege, Eko and see Nigerians working back to back to settle bills unlike their counterparts that are smoking and forming thugs. I have never seen a decent black American rapper before. Future has 6 kids from 6 different women same with other rappers

ARE ALL NIGERIANS GUILTY OF SCAMMING

How can you say all black americans. If anyone is constantly seeing these types of AAs, that person lives in the projects.
Move to the upper class areas and you will see a different type of AAs.

In Port Harcourt if you live at waterside you will see the kind of people the OP hates, Move to Golf and Harmony estate and you see a different type of people

Mase or Maze the rapper is decent

Petyr1:
please stop typing rubbish. You think bad leader is a black thing? If it was easy to get rid of Adolf Hitler will not cause second world war, North Koreans will have gotten rid of Dictator Kim, all Arab countries will have gotten rid of monarchy

so you know that a bad leader is not a black thing. So why would the OP think that jobless people, shooting up drugs and living in ghettos is an African American thing.

My point here is you cannot keep pointing at AAs and you dont point at yourself. Our country Nigeria is in Shambles. Africa is in Shambles and we are pointing at a African Americans, a small segment of the total black populace?

If Africans repair Africa, these AA kids WILL come home and then we can correct their dressing and lifestyle. All the energy used to dislike the AA brothers and sisters should be used to build Nigeria

Petyr1:
This entitlement mentality again Something is seriously wrong with black race. Now I see why white hate us. You are taking of 400 years ago!!! 400 years!!! I will advise you to read 50 cent book titled "hustle hard hustle smart" and skip to last part titled "entitlement trap"
That book is also written by a popular black American. Black race needs prayer

Exactly. The whole black race is guilty of Entitlement and victim mentality.
So why is the OP singling out African Americans.
The black race including Nigerians are the authors and finishers of victim mentality.
Everyone is complaining about the present administration but how many people have voter's cards?