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membranus:
Then get yourself sent out of your matrimonial home by the good cook.

DEMZEE:
I believe women's top priorities in marriage are giving their good husband quality sex, quality food and quality submission.

Even if a man knows how to cook it will never replace the feeling women get wen they cook for their husbands

Marriage isn't a democracy

BusinessCity:
People should read the Bible themselves and get to understand the intent of God's heart as well as the letter.


I believe no seed sown towards Kingdom growth is without Heavenly reward, however while I maintain this believe, I don't subscribe to first fruits paid annually.



If the first fruit is for a certain pastor, when does the parent who does the whole labor get the place of honour. Mind you hardly is there any pastor in the world world that will be there on a steady daily occasion and not give up on the child until maturity and success is attained.



I rest my case.



Give it to your parents

judetov2:
good news... I don't have sympathy for that gender.

ThatFairGuy1:
Fahdiga1 Fahdiga is not Yoruba but an Ipob Terrorist.
He's in pain Because of his Lord and Savior, Kanu's treatment in the hands of soldiers

LadySarah:
Your salary will surely disappear. when has Igbo girls start collecting dowry by themselves. It is the male relatives that says what. She won't even be there let alone declaring a certain amount.

The last reason should also tell you they are Hausa Muslims. They are the ones that will say it 3x and a marriage becomes void.

Don't let ethnicism kill you.

RisenPhoenix1:
I saw it earlier, but didn't want to grace it with a response if not for your mention. I'm actually speechless as to how to advice him. The op is the author of all his misfortunes, yet he's wondering whether he married the right woman. A woman is how you train her. Let me write out an analogy and tell me how you will advice such a person. Here goes:

I bought a brand new Toyota Hilux, tear rubber on credit. I've still not been able to pay the seller and he keeps incessantly reminding me of my debt, even though he gave me a receipt in advance.

I don't like to check the water levels in my radiator, and sometimes when I do and there's no water, the tap is too far from my garage so I'll drive it without topping the water. Recently it started overheating, that was what first got me thinking.

Brake oil is too expensive, so I don't gauge the brake oil levels in my car. After two brake failures leading to accidents, I'm getting confused about what to do.

I forgot to put engine oil inside my car after I drained the sump, and my engine knocked. Now it's not even moving at all,and the cost is prohibitive.

All these incidents make me wonder whether Toyota Hilux is the right car for me at all. Please advise.

1,2,3...go.

i926:
Locked all Telenovelas, ZeeWorld and even music channels.

I don't get why a lady would come to my house and want to tell me what to watch.

scoundrel:
I know I’m wasting time and effort, but I’ll make this quick: Imagine how you enjoy watching the Premiere League? That’s how much enjoyment your cousin gains from Zeeworld. Imagine how much you enjoy posting comments on Nairaland? That’s how much enjoyment she gains from their programming. Imagine how much you enjoy betting on sports competitions? She feels the same. Imagine how much Nairalanders enjoy criticizing the government?

At the end of the day anything which someone enjoys, just replace the activity with Zeeworld and the individual with your cousin. I can delve deeper into the mechanics of the channel’s enjoyment. Time and time again I’ve learned not to bother.

baggioni:

I am not here to take side with anyone but to point out that this is uncalled for and also negates the call for peace and serenity of our dear country. I can see that the OP is also one of the propagandists that want this country on fire.

thebosstrevor1:
Everyone want to put the blame on the man.

What about the lady that know he was married and still decided to have sex with him.

MENELIIK:
God forbid! leave the Amaka thrash for the "Agama liz*rd" tribe of red heads, the erosion dwellers

mrsage:
Therefore your company is a Canadian company.

Thread with caution.

I suggest you register a company in Nigeria, employ the single mothers as employees of the Nigerian company to avoid any legal troubles in Canada. Then outsource.

Problem solved.


Every decision has an element of risk attached to it.

Recruiting single mothers alone is not a big deal here in Nigeria. We may view it as a form of empowerment plan.

However in the Western World (Canada etc ) they are more sensitive to things like this.


Ultimate Solution.
The "Oga patapata of them all" according to MC Edopikin

Register the Nigerian business as an NGO, package it as an empowerment scheme for Single mothers and Widows, give them jobs to do in Canada.

Everybody is happy

Your Canadian competitors, government and enemies will keep quiet.

Case closed.

StrikeBack:
The third person could also be her mother

IgboWarlord:
Thank God you said it yourself,..You Talk too Much...Therein,lies the conondrum in your marriage...

naptu2:
This is the Lagos State Transport Reform Law (2020). Read the whole of section 66.

https://laws.lawnigeria.com/2020/05/04/lagos-state-transport-sector-reform-law/

Mariory:
It has been updated you are right. However, forfeiting your vehicle to the state is still the law.

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2020/11/traffic-law-violations-lagos-court-forfeits-31-contravened-vehicles/

seunmsg:
Go and educate yourself properly and stop taking rubbish. Nobody is going to sell your car for not using a seatbelt. Offenses varies and penalties varies. If you drive against traffic, your car would be impounded and sold off. In other countries, such cars are completely crushed.

naptu2:
What state is that?

Mariory:
Lagos State Road Traffic Law 2012

Mariory:
Lagos State Road Traffic Law 2012

ChidiAlaigbo:
So you believe every rubbish you see on the internet? and tout it as fact?
Let DJ Switch come out and tell me she is worth $800k!

Nonsense, fact ko, facktor ni!

seunmsg:
Go and educate yourself properly and stop taking rubbish. Nobody is going to sell your car for not using a seatbelt. Offenses varies and penalties varies. If you drive against traffic, your car would be impounded and sold off. In other countries, such cars are completely destroyed.

Mariory:
Correct, plain and simple. Your comment is not complicated so I don't know why some people on this thread are having issues understanding English.

Vevejoy:
Ur assumption that I knew about his believes be4 marriage is wrong.
Also saying I probably got married to him bc of yankee is 100% wrong. Infact we were both based abroad and both citizens abroad when we met be4 u come up with paper issues.
Anyway thanks for ur judgemental comment. U said ur point and I appreciate ur time. �

bukatyne:
@bold:

I tried to understand this, I couldn't.

A husband asks his wife: 'who should come for omugwo' and wifey said 'her mother'


Let's assume the husband wanted his mother to come over because he is the man/it is her right/or whatever:

Was the husband not supposed to state he wants his mother to come because of X, Y Z?

How can you ask your wife a question, she gives a 'wrong' answer and you start to fight and ruin things?

Does it make sense to you?

plaindealer:
Hey, let me even add jara, that liar and fake news peddler is a Billionaire, even richer than Dangote.

Her net worth is $900000000000000.00 Billion

Are you happy now?

plaindealer:
I saw your post about her money, but I ignored it for a reason, you are free to believe whatever rubbish you see on the internet.

plaindealer:
That fake news peddler and liar is not the Lagos state legislature that passed the law to protect Lagosian and she can not dictate to Lagos state and Lagosians how manage traffic and enforce statutory laws in Lagos state.

The people of Lagos state did not appoint or elect her to administer Lagos state or adjudicate laws in Lagos state, she need to stick to her roadside DJ duties or lying and peddling fake news.

ChidiAlaigbo:
Rubbish!
I am worth 100B dollars

TheStakeHolder:
Endsars don make this one turn activist overnight.

Failed DJ