Rapture2021: Before I say one thing my wife has abused the hell out of me,she was such a calm and reserved person before we married,but today at the slightest of misunderstanding she begins the insult,even getting close to my face telling me to beat her,I have never laid a finger on her,but she is tempting me to do that. How can a woman calls a man fool, idiot, animal? I have reported her family severally and yet she is not changing.
I opened a boutique business for her last year,now she said she wants to sell baby things,and I have done it half way,I had to just prank her that the other money I was expecting hasn't come, immediately she began the insult again to my face,as it is the prank is getting real because I will not give her the money anymore
If you think she likes good sex and you are not doing enough, try do better. Haven spent money on her, Pet and cajole her endure and try be more friendly and give her a very good fuvking and you see her start to change. If you do this amd she remain abusive then get a Councillor to councel her.
I think you have tried and it is high time you raised youth that can step into your shoes and participate in governance. I hope we not see ATIKU FOR PRESIDENT 2027.
timothy2396: That guy was murdered and made to look like suicide...... First his legs are both bananced on the floor.. secondly that rope is too tiny to hold his weight ... Thirdly if he wanted to commit suicide and die, he would have done it inside not outside in a public place.... How can someone lean against the door with both legs touching the ground and one tiny rope on his neck... No way... But this is Nigeria so no justice as usual
How does Pastor Adeboye want the Muslims in Nigeria to feel ? What if a Muslims clerics made a statement to support Pakistine, hope we are not bringing another people's war to our country Nigeria. We need to be careful and mind our business sometimes. Please do make statement capable of igniting this country. We have enough problems on our hands.
jeromestarks: No matter the ban FG place on laterites, it can never prevent a woman who has been fvcked and mounted by many men from traveling to visit her ex for sex.
Let FG ban all the want but never marry a woman you did not disvirgin if you want a peaceful happy home you can return to after work.
Once she's not a virgin, spend on her, fvck her and let her go when you're tired of her overused pvssy. Never marry her else, you will train another man's child thinking it's yours because she will fvck her ex the moment he shows up to her on Facebook or in the market.
The worst part of marry a non virgin is that your daughters will be fvcked by many boys too. Girls are a copy of their mothers. Be wise. Don't spoil the future of your unborn babies by marry a woman who is not a virgin. Many men who married non virgins are currently regretting ever getting married. Don't join their team.
Fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage, find a virgin woman and marry. Only her deserves your love and devotion. She kept herself, she deserves to be kept.
ManirBK: We are not against the release of the academic documents to Atiku Abubakar, but we applied for delay in the release of the records to Atiku till Monday, 24 September just to correct the lies Atiku decieved the US court with by claiming that he wanted to used the documents as evidence in the election petition tribunal ongoing in Nigeria, when in actual fact, he did not filed any suit on Tinubu's academic records in all his petitions in Nigeria
Atiku wants to tender it to supreme court as new evidence and this can only be accepted if tendered before 5 Oct 2023 as allowed by the law and it is same reason Tinubu wants delay in order to escape 5/10/2023.
IconicR: Top military secret? I don't know about that
What makes it a secret because secret don't leak.
Why should Tinubu plan a secret military attack against a junta in another country ? Was it his business ? Is there any bilateral relationship in military and defence between Nigreia and Niger ?
Forget it. As long as the the name Nigeria is still there, there will be no improvement. There is no more pride in that name and the name is gradually become synonymous to corruption and bad leadership. Individuals do well but when it comes to national it is close to zero. Nigeria is like a sour soup. We need to pour it away and make a new one.
Let there be
Arewa league
Oduduwa league
Biafra league
Niger delta league
Just the way Nigeria is now for the strong and corrupt, so it is with NFF
We need a new beginning with well thought out constitution and way of life.
Nigeria is dead and the earlier it is buried the better for us.
WillEndInPraise: Legit if the payment is asked for by the person who secured the slot ( in person ).
Scam If the payment is asked for via online ( payment to be made through online ).
This is the reason why we are trying to keep you enlightened everyday that, for any requirement at all, if you are ask to make payment for anything Online is SCAM. If the payment is asked in person might not be scam because even if it's, you can easily pick him up using EFCC.
ONLY idiot send money to a person who she/ he has not met In person.
How much is the payment that you will use EFCC to pick the person. EFCC goes after big money and you have to drop too. So don't waste your time.
Na so dem de talkam until ehapen. Afterall we don't expect it from "one of you" politicisation of the military, but from a junior rank to clean this mess we call democracy. I remember J J Rawlings of Ghana. May his soul rest in peace.
From the way things are going, Nigerians will also jubilate if there is military take over in Nigeria. THE SIGNS ARE THERE. Tinubu may be doing all these because he knows all is not well in Nigeria.
Rotten government holding Emefiele for possession of shot gun (pistol) while Asaro Dokubo is flaunting machine gun and an illegal army.
In 2006,the EFCC Chairman Nuhu Ribadu, before the Senate, listed 5 govs as the Worst Stealing Governors as:*
1. Orji Kalu , Abia State 2. Ahmed Bola Tinubu , Lagos State 3. Ahmed Sani yerima , Zamfara State 4. George Akume, Benue State 5. Abudulahi Adamu, Nassarawa State
Today, in 2023, 17 years after.
Orji Kalu = Senator Bola Ahmed Tinubu = President Ahmed Sani Yerima = Senator George Akume = Senator now Appointed by Tinubu as SGF. Abdullah Adamu = APC Chairman.
The then EFCC Chairman Nuhu Ribadu that did not prosecute Tinubu, appointed by Tinubu to be Special Assistant on Security
The Senate is currently headed by another EFCC regular, Senator Akpabio still under prosecution for stealing billions
Maravilla: Please doctors in the house, for some weeks now my 4yr old son has this recurring boils on his back and armpit, when I burst them, it brings out a pus like substance and form a sore. I went to the hospital, the doctor said it was a bacteria infection and I was giving some antibiotics, yet so far no tangible results. Please I need your assistance
Ctony1: Any one to suggest a cream for men. I want something that makes d skin look fair without bleaching. I am tired of carotone. Pls I need good recommendations. Cream that maintains d sky.
Eat food ri h in vitamin D E K and C. You may not even need those creams because they are from chemicals . COconut oil, cheabuter , palm kernel oil are some good oil that can be used on our skin. Talk to your doctor.
I rarely make this hairstyle and I don't know why. Anyway, recently I made it and the compliments I've gotten are too much. I can't even walk down the road in peace Seriously, I thought men only liked it when women wore expensive wigs.
Or maybe they think it's low maintenance, so they stand a chance?? No, I don't think so. Even women complimented the hairstyle☺️
The Catholic bishop of Abakaliki diocese has said that none of his priest will work for the government.
Many of Ebonyi Politicians have be messing with the priest because of money. Priests have become nothing for them.
If you will not allow your priest to work for government, who do you want to work for government and receive the mess , and later bring the money to church ?
tomi4life: I am 35 and my wife is 29, we have been married for 6 years now, we have 2 children a boy and a girl. We didnt court much during our courtship because of long distance.
I really have a problem with my wife and not sure what can be done to address, now I must be very honest am not sure there is anything I can do I just want to use the platform to vent my frustration.
My marriage has not been very good, lately myself and my wife leave like room mates and not lovers, despite the age difference between me and my wife she doesnt really respect me. For the 6 years we have been in marriage 3 things have caused all our fights: cooking, Sex and finance
My wife rarely cooks in the house, things around welfare are not taken seriously, actually in a week, my wife can cook for me just 1 time. She cooks for the children and baths for them daily, we also have a help who does alot of cooking. She rarely askes me what I will eat, honestly I always have to go to the kitchen to sort myself, sometimes I buy food outside from eateries and bucker. Sometimes when she cooks it usually very late 10pm. I have complained severally and what happen is she tries to change, after a week, we are back to the same state. My wife can do without cooking for me for weeks. It really really pains me cos am a foody and I knw hw my mum treats matters of food. she is this person that forms busy, either she is busy with work or some church activities, she always has an excuse. She goes to work only ones a weeks the remaining 4days are remote. To address this issue I now order soups from major restaurant outlets, An example is today easter sunday, I had to tell our maid to prepare rice for myself and the kids, cos my wife was in church, we all went to church but she decided to stay back, knowing fully well no food was prepared.
Sex: [/b]our sex life is very boring, when we got married we always fight about sex, cos anytime I ask for it she always complain she is tired, so what I now do is ask for it only sat morning, brethen this is only day I get sex. If I miss that day, it is still next week. We sleep in different rooms, she sleeps with the children in the master bedroom while I sleep alone in another room. I can tell most time she doesnt enjoy it and never ever askes for it, I always ask and initiate it. She just lays like a log, even kisses is a no no, except she is really on, which rarely happens. [b] Finance: I have always earned more than my wife, when we got married, I was earning 3 times what she was earning, but she changed jobs and got promoted severally and we were earning the same amount. she also does alot of side runs where she gets 200-300k monthly as side hustle, there was even a time she was earning more than I did. I dint let it bother me I continue to foot the entire house bills. 95% of the enitre house of comes from me, she only pays the maid , buys cooking gas and my sons diaper. Every other thing in the house is covered by me, house rent, school fees, project, all the bills. I give her 75k as food money monthly. I have continue to question her why I should give her food moeny if I still have to end up going out to eat. I think the only reason she sometime listens to me is cause i still provide the finances for the house. The time she was earning more I could see how she belittle some of my decisions. I just prayed to God, cos I noticed the respect was gone, when I talk to her about her role as a mum and mother to the home, she says she is working, she is busy, I mentioned to her that the money she works is for her, she doesnt share with the house, I have never asked her for it and am not against her working, she however should not neglect her responsibility as a mum. That my role as a father, God helping me is to provide, and this is why I work. I also noticed when I got a new job and my salary increased she kinda off felt jealous she didnt tell me but i noticed it, she began to aggressively look for jobs.
I really dont think we have that initmacy, we are just there, my wife cant come to tell me anything bothering her, she keeps to herself. Funny part is she is a very religious person, my wife will sleep with bible on her hand, wake up with bible pray and serve in various church unit, I however dont think she really understands what she reads. She also has a very bad temper sometimes when I raise certian issues, the ways she talks sometimes I have to hold back a response if not the whole thing will escalate. There are days I will raise certain issue up, the next things she mentions is " let just dissolve this marriage as it is not working" sometimes , I just refer her to her bible cos the utterances that come out of her mouth makes me doubt her understanding of Christianity.
I have never assaulted her, we have nt had any physically fight, what happens is most times when we have issues, I dont speak to her for days, then she come back apologizing. Sometimes when am wrong I also apologies.
Am not saying am perfect, I know there are areas I can do better, like in the buying off gift, I rarely buy her gift, not cause I cant but Cos she earns well and I believe she should buy whatever she needs with her money my wife earns approximately 800k monthy.
I expect my wife will support me but it like she is stressing me. when we go see my parent or our parent, it is all smiles, they dont knw hw stressful their daughter is, she even forms trying to serve me food and all.
Dont get me wrong she has some good side, but this thing is really getting into me. I dont drink, smoke or womanise, divorce is also not on the table for me.
Be nice to her as though no problem.
Try do things that she appreciates.
Give her gifts.
Talk gently to her about these problems.
Be prayerful and tell GOD give you wisdom to endure the marriage while you try subtlely to turn things around since you don't want divorce.
The beginning is already shaky. Companies that operate like this 70% mostly do not do well. They exploit workers and send worker back to the unemployment market.
After your period of probation you would be scored low so that you remain in that 70% salary.
Did you try to find out what happened to the former employee ?
If your present company is structured, In my perception I would advice you stay with your present employer until you get a better one.