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It's a risk but just be ready to dance to the sound of surugede when the time comes because it will surely come ( your children DNA test) . For me, No Go Area. I will never try it cos a pig is always and will always be a pig .

Tolexander:
It is a murder case, or the help in mitigating the crime to man slaughter case.

You furcked someone to the extent that she gave up the ghost.
Before giving up the ghost, aren't you not meant to know she was getting tired of the exercise and getting near the elastic limit?

That means the man had taken an enhancer!

Can I ask :
1. what if the enhancer kills him during the sex, what will be the girls punishment.
2. What if he didn't take enhancer and dies during sex with the girl, what happens to the girl, will she be charged for murder case?
thanks

It's very wrong unless both of you have the same understanding.
But for me, no woman has the right to touch my butt or chest, if she tries, she receives a heavy undiluted slap.
If a woman says, don't touch my butt, she doesn't have any single right to touch yours too. All I know is that her butt and yours are the same but seen as special based on how each individual presents it.
Please don't be deceived with what they are saying that you should allow girls touch your butt, it's a sign that your body doesn't worth anything . What makes you think theirs worth it, all because they made it worth something by assigning it the respect, so do so to yours.
A man's body has being messed up, abused and made worthless by females as a child and they CON you to accept and grow up to live with it.
Please don't let it ruin you
No girl on earth can try that with me without an undiluted slap. I rest my case

It does come when you least expect it (KARMA).
Her utterance ought not to be " unless my hands are not clean, let evil follow me" It's not the right words to use but rather " If i have not slept with a married man in my life , then I don't deserve this, but if I have slept with a married man , I should face the KARMA.
When you were enjoying every d*ck, you forgot one day they will enjoy your husbands own. Stop complaining unless thunder will strike you.

According to proverbs, if actually you have done wrong against somebody and no remorse of heart that mean when such is also done to you, don't curse cos it will come back to you.
if she has slept with a married man in her life, none of her curse will happen to any of them but back fire and dwell in her life.
For those that are sleeping and still planning to sleep with married men, KARMA is still inviting to destroy you.

thepussyhunter:
Heheheheheh

i love this kinda news

Bros, I tell you.

greatnaija01:
KAI... if its the guy that killed her then lots of ladies would have come here ranting... BUT NOW NA PRETTY KILLER BAE and this thread is quiet.... They are so cute but character does not show on face....

Maybe the girl was possessed .... its so sad

You are perfectly right and the Law will even be silent about it.
Her punishment should also be death penalty

Who says girls are not moved with what they see and not what they feel.
They are moved with what they see more than a man but pretend not to, rather use it as a joke to take ur mind off from their thought.
I know their ways so be yourself it's normal to be moved cos they need it badly.

Am happy guys are thinking deep now to understand all this.
They have nothing else to offer

Evaberry:
....

some men sha

they hate trying new things, they are not frisky and open, they are boring when the wife wants to try out new stuffs or when she reveals her fetish they call her a slut. even women too they act like sex is a sin or being sexually expressive is wrong

I have to end up with someone as frisky and daring as me. let's have sex everywhere, let's buy a Kama Sutra and practised everything in there, let's explore each and everyone of your fetish together.

with what I read everyday it seems everybody cheats in marriage, so why get married if your partner will disappoint you. should we now begin to take cheating as the norm.

This is disgusting and sad abeg, I can't cope with a cheating spouse, I just can't. will rather sleep alone than with a cheating wife or gf.

Nice one. You are just open
Everyone cheats in marriage

SEX, cos even if you give her money but can't give her good sex, she will look for it outside.

drafo:
Fool...sleeping around with men won't amount to anything, the chance of getting the virus in a confirmed patient is as low as 0.05% (only if her CD4 count is nearing AIDS) so she will just be spreading her leg for nothing and getting deadlier infections or moreover getting another retroviral strain to compound her woes..#0.5cent

Excellent analysis. she will be the one to suffer and acquire other infections that will send her to her early grave.

modelmike7:
I have sat on this for weeks. I know the man (he is my client) but I don’t know the woman in person. The man is confused (I told him he shouldn’t be. I certainly wouldn’t be). He has permitted me to share this here without disclosing his identity.

He and his woman have been together for 7 months. He is an accountant with a multinational construction company.

When he started a relationship with this woman, she advanced a ‘no sex’ rule as the basis of being in the relationship. The man readily agreed. He said he loved her and was planning to marry her. So what’s the point hurrying for what he would have for life?

The relationship blossomed. It was the love of his life. For the first time, he said, he was completely comfortable with a woman enough to want to marry her.

Four months into the relationship, he took her to his parents and elder siblings. They all liked her. She took him to her parents. They both liked him. Their respective pastors also approved of their plan to get married. A date was fixed for the marriage.

Then they started the tests. The HIV test came negative for both of them. Their genotype was compatible. The guy said he was so happy and relieved cos he didn’t want anything to be a barrier. He said the lady’s character and lifestyle were so agreeable with his. Their strong Christian faith also matched. The guy did not want to miss this gem.

Then it occurred to him that they do not know their reproductive fertility status, especially as they have not been having sex. The guy discussed with his woman and they both agreed to do a fertility test.

The chose the clinic of a consultant gynaecologist who happens to be a relative of the guy’s mother. They went for the result on the very day the printer delivered their wedding invitation card.

The doctor was very happy, the guy said. This made him believe, even before he was told, that they were both fertile. He was right. The doctor happily announced to the guy, whom he sees as his nephew, that he is fertile and has no reproductive issues. He said same about the woman but added, very happily, that , in fact, she is already pregnant! (For doctors and medical people in the house, is it ethical for a doctor to announce a pregnancy test result when none was required by the patients? Does fertility test for the woman necessarily involve a pregnancy test?).

The doctor did not know he had just dropped a bombshell. He looked at how shocked they couple looked and wondered aloud what was wrong.

The couple left in silence. The guy says the lady was just as shocked and nonplussed as he was.

HERE ARE THE ISSUES:

*What this means is that while insisting on the no sex rule with her man, she was sexually active elsewhere and became pregnant with another man 5 months into the relationship with the man she wants to marry.

*The guys says to worsen issues the lady has suggested aborting the 2months pregnancy. The guy would have none of that. Says he has never procured one and would never support it. Says its pure murder and can block her from future pregnancy.

*The other option is for the lady to have the child and let the father, whoever he is, to have it while they continue with the marriage. But the man is certain that his mother won’t let him go ahead and marry her if she knows she is pregnant for another man.

*Or to live a lie and pretend that the baby is his.

*Or to call it off with the lady and cut off completely from her.

*Please note that the guy has paid EVERYTHING on the marriage list, including the bride price. If the guy ends things now, would it be divorce or just ending a relationship??

*Finally (and this one is for me), is it possible for a mature woman to be 2 months pregnant and not know

If there is any post that requires matured and thoughtful comments/opinions(even if few), it is this one.

Thank you.

Thank God these Con mentality of women towards men are being revealed gradually, with time men will know they can't compare themselves with the rate at which women demand for sex or go sex hunting.
She can't deny of not knowing she's pregnant for two months , its not possible. The only thing is, she wants to transfer the baby to him. ( most women are wicked, allowing the guy to spend all his money).
Any women saying "No sex" don't mind her cos they don't have sex control, she's having it with another man.

If a man controls his wife, women will be complaining saying "They need Gender Equality".
I am highly disappointed with all this ladies saying "She's not to be blamed" It's a sign of wasted generation.
All those girls saying that if a woman is denying her husband sex and using excuses like " she's tired, weak or not in the mood" that she has self control but when I say, they get the sex outside from another man that it's not self control. It's time for all of the girls to see for themselves and stop Conning others to believe they are saints.
Women cheats more than a man but codedly.

This is not a sign of strong bond but a sign of serious sexual abuse on the boy.
The boys level in life is a molding stage and all the pictures and other things she has done to him can't be proved cos no blood flow unlike a girl, will surely stick to his Brian and he grows with it. ( Ask her now, she will say, won't a mother take care of her son again, YES but not to sexually abuse or Rape him then CON his mentality that you are the greatest mum on earth)
She is the mother but like I always say, they are the starters of rape and sexual abuse on their male child then the sisters, cousins, Aunt and maids will feel, if she can do it and nobody is complaining, why can't we , at least no evidence he was sexually abused and raped.
The Law Should look into all this

jennyluv090:
Can somebody tell me where I have gone wrong. We have been married for 3 years and have a lovely son. We both want another child but my husband hardly touches me. He asked me to move to my room because the cry of the baby disturbs him at night. Now when I need sex badly i have to go to his room start initiate sex. No pre-intimacy. Most times, he tells me he s tired. On the other times he would penetrate me and even before i become wet in 3o seconds, he has released. I really dont know how to handle this. I love my husband. Im sure he s battling on how to solve his problem but he keeps blaming me infront of his family that i am the reason we dont have a second child. I have been tempted on one or 2 occasions to tell them about his bedroom problems, but i choose to save his ego.

Please help out!!

You need to work on him and get to know whether he was abused as a child.
Two ways of guys trying to wipe out such memories:
1. Serious revenge by sleeping with girls more than required.
2. Keep to himself and many things about women gets him angry easily.
Sit him down and find out, don't listen to those girls saying he has a side chick cos I can't bet you, he doesn't have.

dingbang:
If you be woman and you no get money...wetin u come get ni?

If you think your answer na pussy den you are so cheap

Bros, you just went straight to the point. She's just showcasing her stupidity, slut mentality and it's just obvious that's what kept her where she is and believes she got something.
Akwuna n'aga ige.... Empty vessels makes the most noise and seeks attention.

GudPpleG8Nation:
I'm typing this with heavy burden in heart. I'm getting crazy and weeping.

I met this lady over 6 years ago during my higher institution days, she was a fresher while I'm in my semi final year in school. Things were going well, we had sex after two years of the relationship(I'm the one that disvirgin her).

I have been very caring, stood by her and also,I let go of any ladies that comes my way. I didn't want anything that will stain the relationship. That doesn't mean I'm perfect however I have been trying my best to make her feel comfortable, loved and happy.

I started feeling comfortable and worried about my future with her because I discovered that anytime we had a misunderstanding, before you know it she has find a guy she will be dirty chatting with. She always say she's doing that to hurt my feelings.

I proposed last year, met her mum and one of her uncle and introduced her to my parents officially. Presently, waiting for her extended family to send the list for the traditional marriage.

I traveled to Ibadan on Friday to spend the weekend with her, on Sunday I just took her phone to watch movie when a Whatsapp message, I checked it and I replied the message. The guy called her, she was reluctant to pick the phone, she picked and spoke with the guy. After which the guy messaged her on Whatsapp that he called to confirm she's the one chatting with him and not her bf. I play along and started chatting with the guy. The guy was telling her to come visit him, I started twisting the guy and he was splitting out how he won't touch her when she comes. I confronted my girl, it took her over 8 hours to confessed that they had sex.

Jesus! This is a lady I invested a lot on, build my world around, every other ladies are shit in my presence. Even when I had 1000 of reasons to let go, I still stay with her but right now my world is shattered, I'm going crazy.
I need help because I'm dying, where will I start from (I'm 30 years old). Every negative thought of this world is running through my mind (from committing suicide to killing the guy to making the girl useless to herself for the rest of her life)

Calm down, the idea is don't invest in a girl if she is not investing all she got both financially on you too.
If actually she did, she will never behave this way because she will loose and girls don't like loosing , relationship before marriage is 50 / 50 and not be conned that a man should be the only one spending to impress.
Rule number one in a relationship

Toks2008:
Well I believe every lady who is faithful to her husband equally deserves faithfulness from the man but unfortunately, it is not just about the lady being faithful to the man because men look beyond that.

I find it amusing that there are ladies who have lived their lives in total sexual recklessness but when they eventually decide to hang their boots,they will also be looking for a man that will be 100% faithful to them.

I know many people will be quick to juxtapose sexual chastity of a man and woman and expect equal measure but this is very unrealistic and a school of thought only for the ignorant.

My point is that a lady who has slept with John, James,Richard,Muhammed,OkonJohnson,Davido,Wizkid, ..... should never be in the league of ladies clamoring for faithful men because in most cases,their past usually haunts their present and this might make the man in their life feel insecure and eventually stray even when he never wished to philander.

Ladies must understand that today is tomorrow's past and should prevent any ugly past by maintaining proper decorum today.You can't just sleep around recklessly today just to wake up tomorrow and say "everybody has a past"Ladies should be determined to live a sexually decent lifestyle so that the man who eventually marries them will be proud of them and they will be at a vantage position to demand for faithfulness from the man cos most men place little or no marital value on a woman with numerous body count.

In my opinion,i believe only a lady with a decent sexual lifestyle truly deserves and should demand 100% faithfullness from her man but that remains my opinion.

what do you think?

OP, you just hit the nail on the head.
A girl told me a story of how a yahoo plus used a girl(A) , dumped her for another girl( B) he got after sleeping with her wearing a jazzed ring giving to him by a jazzed man ( according to the girl, he must sleep with another girl without condom to make the jazz work, money rituals).
The first girl(A) saw him and was angry, insulting him and telling the girl(B) he will surely dump her later.
The guy didn't utter a word but when the other friend ( girl) asked why he did it, his responses was " the girls destiny is finished that's why he went broke so he needed another girl which he got through the ring. That girl (A) who's destiny has been used will come looking for a responsible man to marry and suffer.
Only 2% of girls I feel are qualified for a responsible Man. Hope they won't kill me ooooo but it's the truth sha .

After they will be accusing men taking advantage of them. 90% of women behave this way to cover their incompetence.

If that's what she wants, she should follow her heart.

Cucumber Crew. Enjoy the show as usual

jezuzboi:
This is my primary issue with some Naija girls. So "PUNNA" (whatever that means) is now equivalent to MARRIAGE? Couldn't you have reversed the question and present it as WHAT ABOUT A MAN WHO JUST WANTS MARRIAGE AND NOT THE GIRL? Why does it have to be "PUNNA?"

Mind you, PUNNA is just a 2-minute affair (in worst case scenario). And even in the best case scenario, it can't take 24 Hours. But MARRIAGE? Whether best or worst case scenario, MARRIAGE IS FOR LIFE!!! And by the way, WHY WOULD A GIRL WANT TO MARRY A GUY SHE DOESN'T REALLY WANT? Gosh!!!

You only want the "MRS" title so you can measure up with your married friends and form CLASS for the unmarried ones? What then happens after the MARRIAGE? So puzzling!!! I wish you would really take thought to the main topic and help me out with some tips here. I want to believe you have that info.

That's the only thing they think about ( PUNNA and D*ck) looking for a man to satisfy your sexual urge. Sex is not food, if he can't, go get yourself vibrator
That's why greater % of them feel insulted once asked "what are you bringing to the table in relationship and marriage." It's a pity though

dicefrost:
I totally disagree with you. If there is no justification for a man hitting a woman, then there is no justification for a woman to verbally abuse a man. If he continues to walk away from the insult, it ll only be eating him up inside. I find it offensive that you tactfully excused the woman's madness and blame the man for not walking away. You are in effect saying that men should continuously endure domestic abuse because they are physically stronger? You think that a woman's words do not do emotional harm? Is it just the man who should be understanding and reasonable? Should the woman not learn to respect her head?

Well said bro, I dont pity them at all cos they are the devil

kimbraa:
Lies!.

The truth is also bitter and the time of CON is over.
You can take a horse to a stream to drink water but you can't force it to drink.
" If you seek equity, you come with clean hands and if you want equity, you come with clean hands"

How do we know if you are still a virgin?
Visit the hospital to test for HIV?

Women and sex......
God forbid

Another attention seeking lady. She should ask herself , Do all women cheat?

You need to ask yourself, a woman will restrict the husband sex with the excuses that she's tired or stressed ( that's an excuses giving by cheating single and married women, she's getting sex style from another man pretending to be holy) A typical example, when men don't make love to their wife because he's tired or stress, where do their mind go to?
So don't judge cos both genders are victims but the difference is that men expose theirs and women don't and doesn't mean they don't cheat but rather more into cheating than men.
You said men are polygamous while women ain't but from what has been happening now women are far more into it than men.
The final thing I have to ask you, "Have you slept with a married man " You can't eat your cake and have it back. The KARMA must underline come after every lady that have done it and will surely visit them when they feel like they have arrived or settled in marriage.
The Karma is from God not man so for other many ladies without self control which I know it's not all about money for doing that but enjoying the sex ( cheating on their bf and still accusing them of cheating) with different men to feel like a super slay queen, stop complaining cos karma is coming up on you all.
"If you seek equity, you come with clean hands and if you want equity, you do equity"

Same reason why men don't pity women that contacts HIV visiting male prostitutes, aborting children, having children outside wedlock ( pretending to be a mistake) being used as rituals and very annoying they use their husbands money to fu*k all dicks feeling like a big girl.
Women are the worst so don't criticize.

eezeribe:
After doing a DNA test to confirm if the boy is really your son...just send her packing.

So correct. Once the child is his, he should send her packing. They keep complaining about men not knowing they are the worst she-goat on earth and they keep protecting their fellow female cheaters everywhere.
I pity a man that seeks advice from a woman about things like this, sex life and raising a male child, mark my word, she will give you the worst advice so it will favor her but pretending it's good and she loves you meaning she has CONNED you.
Women must be women, whether the husband cucumber is big or not, they like testing another to compare the skill, style and experience.
It still shows that Karma of sleeping with married men and having 500 to 1000 sex body counts b4 marriage is following them everywhere she goes.
If it was a man, DIVORCE His, but looking at all the comments from the ladies here in NL, saying sit her down and talk to her ( do you know if he has done that and she continued), seems you are tired of the marriage ( if it was the man, what makes you think he was tired for you to say divorce him).
My advice to this guy, DNA and if yours, thank God and plan to push her out because greater women cheats more than men but codedly.
" if you want equity, you come with clean hands and if you seek equity, do equity "

Very stupid and useless post.
It shows he has better sex control than you. You want to check if his impotent, how would he check if you are fertile after going around all men like a she-goat without self control.
Simply tell us that you can't control yourself again and Konji has humbled and pushing you for sex, because it's obvious you can't hold any longer and surely you must cheat on him to release the konji.
Girls keep saying no sex till marriage but greater % of them can't keep or control their sexual urge rather pretend they can.
Have tried it with girls, no sex, no touching, can't even change my cloths in front of her. The only option was to cheat on me, I found out and ended the relationship immediately.
What am I driving at, I never came here NL to seek if the girls were fertile or not but rather they cheated and I sent they away.
I noticed if ladies wants to justify their cheating habit , they start setting boundaries to cover up their previous body counts and seeking sympathetic attention.
It humbles them if the guy is game with everything of no sex. She will now plan another strategy asking, are you sure he is not impotent. Did he ask if you are fertile, have you asked yourself this question?