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passey:
Recharge card beggars calling people broke...
It makes me want to ask, how many ladies are really not broke?
Everything is broke, broke, broke... as if being broke is dependent on gender!
Both genders can be broke, unfaithful and all shades of bad.
You can have, do and be whatever and whoever you want to be without pegging your life and happiness on any other gender and the achievement or otherwise, of another person.
Just work hard and decide who you want for a companion...
Don't just go broke this, broke that like a broken record!
Unfortunately, this is the only country on earth where the stereotype "Broke" exists... mtcheew

Bro, I had in mind to clear the word BROKE as regards to male and female but decided to read through before seeing your post.
Accessing a male and female, who are broke. Both are broke unless acquired inheritance but let's access after University, using the population, we have more of females than Males at ratio 10:1.
If one guy is broke that means 10 females are into poverty broke condition, if 10,000 guys are broke means 100,000 girls .
Shocked hearing broke girls saying they can't date a broke guy. That guy referred to as broke are more buoyant than them ooo. I just observed that they like talking to get attention which is in their nature.....
Before you call somebody broke, do access yourself very well to know if you are better ( Not sleeping around with man to get money but earning your money for working or handwork) then you can speak, apart from that, put yourself or house in order

Kondomatic:
No guy leaves a GOOD woman who stood by him when he was poor.

Lemme Highlight Some Things.

1. Dating a broke guy doesn't mean you are a good woman

2. Dating a broke guy and building a future with a broke guy are not the same

3. Dating a guy because you've looked into his future and seen that he will turn out great is not love, dating, support or whatever you girls take it to be. It is an investment into his blessing with nothing and every investor losses.

4. If you date a guy when he was broke but didn't invest in him or support him(and prayer isn't the support I am talking about here, his mama prayers for him even in sleep) , he owe you nothing and can break up with you anytime

5. Dating a broke guy is like sponsoring a lady's education when she is not married to you, they come back with another guy instead of certificate most times.

The truth is always bitter but you just said it.
The guy was broke then, wasn't the girls also BROKE. That moment was she supporting him financially, the answer I guess is NO.
Apart from that, the girl can never swear she was sleeping with only him then, NOT POSSIBLE AT ALL. shows she was even cheating on him.
Summary, they were friends for benefit and nothing more.
Why crying a river out of nothing, he went to the university, Nysc and made it, same thing with her but wants to be a parasite waiting for him.
Young lady, a man knows what he wants, if actually she was worth to be a wife material nothing would have stopped the man from not marring her but she wasn't and no man wants to convert a gf to wife material......

It's their nature and in the blood flow but codedly.

Because if it doesn't exit, you can't be part of this world and also be here writing rubbish.
Because if it doesn't exit, women won't have sense at all, God knows all this and made it possible and still you don't have sense. What else do you expect of God?

Women are more unfaithful so guys wants to meet up. women are not to be trusted

sweetylovely:
How did she do her recording?

I tire for her ooo. Maybe she get report card
Nollywood is moving to the permanent site sha

Greenbullet:
I live in a house with three flats and in one flat I have this couple who are my friends, the man is fairly educated and his wife is an illiterate. The both of them quarrel regularly and since I am not a busybody , I do not interfere , all I do is listen but something has got me worried when listening to their quarrel, the woman always use the child's paternity to insult the man, some of the insults go like this
"Idiot man"
"Lazy man"
"Okobo"
"Leave my children, nor be you get them, I go carry them go meet who born them"
"Nor touch my children ooo,leave them for their papa"
Surely this insults infuriate the man and his sometimes beat his wife, I myself who is more reasonable think his three children are not really his, The wife is a trader and comes home at irregular times which also lead to quarrels , the children also do not have some facial characteristics of the said man.

I want to advise the man to do a DNA test ( only God knows if he knows what it means), but do you guys think this man is really the father or the wife is saying these things to spite him ?

Bros, please tell the man don't mind what all these people are saying. TELL HIM

BabbanBura:
i feel you bro. Two of my exes who got married came back wanting me to father their babies. One because she couldnt take in a year after the wedding, though she now has, only God knows if that baby is from the husband. the second one got one baby for the husband and has being on my neck to father the second baby, infact when i left her due to her wrongs and lies, she pleaded for just one favour that she wants a child with me when sje eventually marries. Both these two women have being on my neck for babies and one idiot will come here to tell me 'men want DNA because we are insecured'? - Guys just know that any lady that is scared of DNA for the kids is a wrongs lady, forget about whatever she 'trust' card she plays to dissuade you.

You said it all, any lady that's scared for your kids DNA is a wrong lady and also a cheat already , at that moment, don't waste time to go for that DNA immediately
You are surely a wise man bro and I respect you for this.

1StopRudeness:
I'm not a woman oooo...but I don't believe this...

I know you don't but it's the truth

1StopRudeness:
Are u from kenya?? Cos I know Nigerian women don't sleep with their son....unless the for money ritual...and women don't do money rituals as often as men

They do in Nigeria but they don't say. Was discussing about it with my friends and some admitted to that. Guys don't and hardly accept or talk about all this, unlike the females.
The guy's ain't close to their mum because of this, their excuses which made me asking cos guys are usually close to their mum.

CuteNigga20:
Oga where you get your statistics from

One on one discussion and the girls asked me a question. can I sleep with 10 girls a day and satisfy them sexually? The answer is NO or can you?
But a girl can comfortably satisfy 10 guys a day sexually.
You can run your own survey if you don't believe it..

1StopRudeness:
yes..i will only laff but never get angry at her for beign cautious...go and look at recent marriages now...once a female child start to clock age 8-10 some mothers start to really take charge and not let the father participate in activities involving the child's nudity.... its not big deal...if u have nothing to hide and no hidden motives....the mother will only do it with wisdom and not attacking the man...just like any man that wants to carry out DNA test should do it with wisdom...

trust is an overrated word....Its the real life situation that determines the extent at which a person can behave..

DNA is necessary.
She is saying about father's raping daughters, what about mothers raping and abusing their sons and pretending not to. Am not just saying it but a true fact

WORDWORLD:
True faithfulness doesnt feel insulted because it has nothing to fear. To put up such as "IT SHOWS A LACK OF TRUST IN MARRIAGE" can only truely mean unfaithfulness. Even Ghana Soccer Stars Odartey Lamtey's wife must have said the same many times before being exposed of her unfaithfulness. A WOMAN WHO IS HONEST SEE NO BIG DEAL IN DNA TEST SHE SEES IT AS NOTHING BUT LIKE GOING TO CHECK ONE'S GENO-TYPE. Time shall come when DNA test will be the next test immediately after birth. It just a matter of time.

Nice responses. Which is the simple truth.

As a man, talk less and act more. Whether she is faithful or unfaithful, just bear in mind that we have very high percentage of unfaithful wives this days...
You don't need to announce that you are taking your children for DNA. Plan yourself early to know the true picture, if those children are yours, then you have a home and life continues but if not, the early the better you disgrace and push her out of your house.
Is it not better for the man to be happy now by checking his children to know the true picture than be disappointed after 30years knowing they are not yours, at that moment, you have lost.
I feel, don't see it as if she will be happy or not because she ain't thinking as such towards you if actually the children ain't yours.

Greater percentage of girls sleeps with everything that has third leg even a gate man, driver or mad man because of high sexually desire which is a natural gift from God to women who can comfortably satisfy 10 guys a day without shaking. It's a gift God gave women ( high sexually urge) that's why they cheat a lot but pretends not to, bearing another man's children in her husband's house through cheating and allowing the husband to raise them. Many women are more than a nympho

The punishment to this evil act should be death penalty by hanging for her to feel good pains before going to hell...

Story for the gods........
Do you know how many males child were raped or sexually abused between the ages of 1-10years by Aunty, female Cousins even mums, what have they done to them, have they killed them or cut off their clitoris or breats?
The psychological effects is still acting on those guys.

The question is what caused quarrel between them, which wasn't disclosed and I feel might be because of the wives infidelity. It is not rape both consent to the act. They have being having sex.

ReubenE:
I'm surprised no one is saying cut their clitoris, or hang the vagina and club it.

Men now facing threats from everywhere but no one seem to care.
Like what someone once said, the whole world is campaigning for the rights of the girl child, from education, to gender, equal opportunities in governance etc.
The boy child will always grow up to be neglected, and will bomb us all for being so.

You are very much on point, why won't they cut their clitoris for rape.
I keep saying, the Law is against the male genders, if such can be done to men so it can be done to women also to sound a warning to both genders that the act Is not good.

obiremy:
Some ladies no get chill.Facebook user Hermano Fresco has just revealed that his Girlfriend shaved off his dreadlocks he had been growing for years after he cheated on her.He wrote..


'YO MY BABY MOMMA CAUGHT ME CHEATING LAST WEEK I BEGGED HER TO FORGIVE ME I THOUGHT SHE DID!I even gave her some bomb I'm sorry sex last night but I woke up to this'

Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2017/07/photos-angry-girlfriend-shaves-off-her.html

Just monitor her cos she will cheat or even being doing such without you knowing. Once you get prove, pour her hot red oil. Case closed.

Ifyone123:
Men note this:

If she does not and can not spend on/for you, She is not worth it.

If she can't contribute intellectually to your life, she is not worth it.

If all she can offer is sex, she is not worth it.

If she can't take you out for a date atleast twice or thrice and take care of the bills, she is not worth it.

If you caught her with EVIDENCE over a cheat allegation and she still denies it with lies, she is not worth it.

If she only flashes you EVERYTIME and expects you to call her, she is not worth it.

If she asks for airtime and flashes, texts or only calls just to say thank you and cuts without saying few words, she is not worth it.

If she says you are stingy but she has never given you a dime, she is not worth it.

If she begs you to trust her, she is not worth it. Trust is earned and won not given.

If she does not pray with/for you, she is not worth it.

If she does not appreciate the little you give her but rather complains on what she cant acquire herself, she is not worth it.

If she does not exhibit or have a hustling spirit to make money legitimately but solemnly depend on a man's pocket to attain a rich level, she is not worth it.

If you can't see 5/6 qualities from all I mentioned above in her, She is not SERIOUS with you.


Most ladies of our time have lost what it takes to be THAT WOMAN. That's why most men, especially the rich takes us for granted because there feel they are doing us a favour by spending their money on us. Imagine how much respect we can earn and command from these men if we don't depend on them to live a quality life Independently without hoping on thier pockets or considering how fat his bank account is for our financial break through. We need to step up our game. We are helpers not PARASITES. Helpers are well appreciated, recognized, never forgotten and hard to let go but parasites are gotten rid off. This is the 21th century. Let's earn that respect and LEAD a perfect example to our daughters.

Note this: Relationship/marriage is not about how compatible you both are but how you deal with your incompatibility.

Like the wise once said...


"A woman's loyalty is tested when her man has nothing; A man's loyalty to his woman is tested when he has everything" Contribute positively into his life and see if he will not RESPECT YOU.

All I can say, excellent write up since I joined NL. I hope they take note. Nice one OP

Nice one.
so much aware of it for long, that's why I laugh when they lie about it . They even do more than this codedly, other things people thinks men do more than them but not knowing they ( ladies) are the pro in the game.

From all these comments shows that, women got only sex to offer and nothing more.
Only very very few does.

Its give me amazing shock when issues like this comes up people term not to take it serious even if the OP has being posting trash but the bottom line is , he revealed what is and still happening in the world and people seems not to take it serious ( Male and Female) most especially female who thinks they are only victims of circumstance trying to get sympathetic attention. Now the reverse is the case , looking at their comments saying all sorts of trash like if they don't have a Brother , Father, Uncle.

When being exposed to such things like these at early stage in life ( Rape, Child abuse) it has a serious psychological effects on the individual which most times can be reduce only been counseled but if not, things will definitely falls apart for good or evil.

A topic was raised for GUYS here couple of months ago asking " Where you sexually abused or raped as a boy when young ( B/W 1 - 10 years).
The responses was something else when guys were pouring out their minds, how the sisters, aunty, female cousins, mums messed them up and promised them haven and earth only if they won't tell anybody about what happened and the young guys didn't because attention was more on female genders than Male with the mentality that blood flows when a female is being abused but for the males , you won't see anything and moreover they are men ( meaning their body does not worth anything and you expect him to value his body with that kind of psychological upbringing from you?) HELL NO !!

I can boldly say that 93% of NL ladies who has being ranting about men did this , men did that !! never surfaced to comment because the truth is always bitter, even the few ladies who said trash weren't attacked by guys like ladies do to guys ,saying ( Don't you have a sister or you are one of them). But only one ladies comment shows many of these ladies are aware or even has done it to a young guy and being disturbed by their conscience.

Am not saying all these for anybody to support me or probably wants to abuse me (Go ahead) but Parents should know the danger their male child is passing through because they are being neglected by everybody most especially the society and female genders.

The Fathers should guide their male child like the mothers do to there daughters. Let them know the worth of their body and nobody has right to see or touch their privates and if it happens , they should tell you ( promise them more than what the abuser would) you will surely be assured they will reveal such to you when it takes place.

I know it too lengthy though but it will go a long way to help us.

SPEEDEPITOME:
Perfect.

People need to need to know that there's a difference between looking for someone who can complement your income so you can afford your kids a comfortable life while you're working your a,ss off AND looking for someone on whose shoulders you'll drop all your responsibilities while you do nothing.

Yeah, but how? They dont want to understand the simple truth.

Wonderful write up and simply the truth

A girl working hard to make her money is known as being " Hard working " cos she doesn't want to depend on a guy for money and her upkeep but if it comes fine.
A girl that doesn't want to stress herself but wants money and starts going for guys that are made to get it are called " gold diggers" and broke.
That's the difference

saydfact:
But why is nobody condemning the fiancee too ? is what she did justified?

She was totally wrong and she doesn't deserve Emeka cos she showed her true color as a girl. CHEATING and pretending they don't. To caught a girl that cheats is to think like them which was what he did.

Fadiga24:
What I know is that I am going to marry out of love.


If anybody is coming after me because of money, thunder fire that person

You are on point bro.

Nice one op, when a broke girl is opportune to date a rich guy and it doesn't lead to marriage all because he has seen that her broke mentality will affect him in the future, all he needs do is to dump her.
That moment, she assumes she has gotten a standard. BROKE STANDARD.
The solution to all dis issue of broke will be resolved when we GUYS stop giving the said broke girls ATTENTION cos that's your weapon, it's will help them trace where they are coming from and maintain Dere level if they don't want to work hard.

lordkit400:
A Nigerian Facebook user,Evelyn Nwanzehas suggested a cruel and kinda funny punishment for men who cheat on their wives! According to her, it will cause them emotional blackout!


She wrote:

Source: http://www.flexygist.net/2017/06/30/see-the-punishment-a-nigerian-lady-suggested-for-men-who-cheat-on-their-wives/


cc; lalasticlala

She should also state the punishment for women that cheats on their husband cos they do same 2 codedly