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ScotFree:
When a girl is desperate, she comes into a guys life deceptively. She pretends to be sweet and nice, and soon after her real character unfold. What do you expect a guy to do then? Manage the false, fake girl he proposed to or married? When he leaves, the girl will claim she was used and dumped.

If a girl shows her true self to a guy, he'd know whether to accept her as she is or let her go. No one would take advantage of anyone. Show me your true self and i'll decide if i like and want you or not. No be by force to marry person.

If one guy doesn't like you, another one would. No need presenting a fake persona in desperation to hold down a man by fire by force. It will backfire.

Brother, I owe you one bottle of cold beer.
The best responses to her.
A desperate girl possess fake character, bad attitude and pretends to be good for the guy to marry her.
They think guys ain't aware of all these.

lefulefu:
some ladies who sleep around want a mumu man dem go lock inside bottle.after dem don mess themselves up with their sugar daddies and boyfriends dem go come house and d mumu man go welcome them back with a kiss.if a babe way no pure she can't expect a sane man to be committed to her.as she dey play d man na so d man go dey play her.cunningman die cunningman bury am abi?

I tell you bros.
Like if tables were to be turned around, the ladies paying groom price, spending hug money to maintain the man and family, will never accept going for a man that has messed himself up with married women and sleeping with many girls.
They will make a man slave under them since they are the once bringing the money but if they ain't, they will want to eat their cake and have it back.
Very selfish and stingy people. God help men sha....

Martin0:
Dear ladies please when you are packing your
bags into that marriage, bring the following
things along with you if you really want to build
a blissful and colourful marriage
.

1. Don't just bring your breasts, come along
with your brain. You know why? After
childbearing & breastfeeding, that breasts may
fall down in shape. Your breasts may fall but
your brain must not fall lest your marriage falls
with it! Come along with a functional brain! You
need it more than your fronted breasts!
.

2.Don't just bring your virginity, come along
with integrity! Yes, it is a glorious and
commendable thing for you to come into your
marriage with your virginity But you know
what?, beyond bringing your virginity, pls bring
integrity along. Your virginity will leave you on
your wedding night but it is your integrity that
will remain with you and make you remain in
that marriage & make your marriage remain,
quote ogaboss anywhere
.

3. Don't just come with painted & succulent
lips, come along with a praying & supplicating
lips. Sincerely, it is good to have succulent lips
but you need more than a painted & succulent
lips to build a prevailing marriage! You must
have a praying lip and a lip that can supplicate
in the place of prayer.

.
As a woman, you're expected to be a prayer
champion, you need to pray always when things
are in order and not in order, when things are
in good shape and not in good shape. Your lips
are not just for painting, it is mainly for serious
communication with God...
Kindly share

Excellent write up

lefulefu:
committed as how? Being committed to one babe while she's busy shaggin other men upandan.babe go get six sugar daddies for jalingo with 8 boyfriends for gongola plus one sugar daddy for ibadan and u say make a man dey committed to such a woman.we sabi the corner corner games wey babes dey play..it is allowed but biko i can't get committed to such a woman.if its a good girl of course yes but not these ones wey dey play corner corner game.me go dey play along with them.

Very good point.
Many irresponsible women moving from one man to another or from one married man to another.
She doesn’t want to accept the fact that girls are more irresponsible.

olorunthobby:
While we can all agree that nobody is perfect, there are actually a few things that would adversely affect a relationship if a man chooses to partner with a woman with some not-so-great attributes.
10 kinds of woman a man should think twice about making a wife.
1. The Bitter Woman:
You know that woman that always seems to be angry at the menfolk all the time? Perhaps she has had her heart broken one too many times, but this woman is always bashing on men and talking about how they are no-good or useless. A man might not want to settle down with someone so bitter as it is guaranteed that when the opportunity arises, she would hurl hurtful insults and intense, hateful words his way due to all her unresolved anger.
2. The Selfish Woman:
If you want a happy home and a partner that wants your happiness as well as hers, then you should steer clear of the selfish woman. A woman who is determined to make sure she always comes first would not be able to build a cheerful and loving home with you.
3. The Materialistic Woman:
A woman obsessed with material things would certainly not make the best wife. If all she cares about are material possession over family, faith and spiritual fulfillment, then she will not make the best partner.
4. The Flirty Woman:
Are you attracted to that woman that always seems to flirt with one person or another? She flirts like a butterfly from one man to another and makes all men feel like she is interested in them. Well, beware, because a habit like that might be hard to break after marriage and you would not want to start hearing that your wife has had flirty conversations with all the men in the neighbourhood.
5. The Party Freak:
She is invited to every party and attends them all. She is always dressed in the most flashy clothes and is the ultimate party girl. She lives for the next big gathering and cannot say no to an invitation. Such woman might not be the type to settle down in a marriage.
6. The Spoilt-Brat:
A woman who grew up having everything handed to her and has never had the experience of actually working for something is unlikely to make the best wife. No matter how much you might be willing to provide her with the kind of lifestyle she grew up with, remember, marriage comes with kids and kids require sacrifice. If she has never had to work or make sacrifices for anything in her life, it is unlikely that she would start now.
7. The Attention Seeker:
While some women naturally like attention, when it becomes an obsession, then it is not a good idea. A good husband makes sure he has time for his wife, but this cannot happen 100percent of the time so a good wife should understand that.
8. The Gossip:
Does she always seem to never mind her own business? Is she always focused on what someone else is doing or how someone else is living their life? Then you do not need this kind of woman as a wife. A man needs someone that would build a home with him and this requires some focus on her own plans and her own life. If she is too busy minding someone else's business, then you are fighting a losing battle.
9. The Commitment-Phobe:
A woman who finds it difficult to commit to anything (school, jobs, family, friendship, etc) would also not be able to commit to a marriage. If she seems to lose interest in everything quickly and is always looking for the next thing to jump into, then you would have a hard time keeping her focused in her marriage.
10. The Disrespectful Woman:
If she seems to always be disrespectful and rude (even if it is to people she considers beneath her standards) then you need to think twice about marrying her. Respect for a fellow human being is a very important attribute in who we choose to spend the rest of our lives with so it is definitely not something that should be taken lightly.

Excellent points

None has ever tried that on me. If she does, a hot sexy designer slap she will receive immediately and will surely be blessed with some stars and dark vision.
Next time she will respect a man.
"What I don't like doing to people, I won't want them do it to me "

Greater percentage but codedly

Don't spend on a girl because she will never spend on you.
They are born stingy, selfish and self centered.
Relationship is 50/50 both showing love and cash wise.

IAMSASHY:
so far u ain't hiding anything, dat shudnt boda u, keep d pants 4 hm na, bringing d issue 2 social media wl only tear u both apart.

Best response, for her complaining shows she's hiding something or rather cheating on him

Can't even have her as a friend let alone gf or wife.
But the best way to make such girls show case their stupidity, don't spend on her at all.

GT07115:
I am a serving Corps members in Ondo state, and my girlfriend is a fashion designer and a student, in terms of financial needs she is self sufficient, but i don't really understand her, I love her that is the fact, i intend settling down with her very soon, most of the issues I have with her is that ; she wants me to call her at least three times a day , and most of the time we do chat on whatsapp, and I feel there is nothing really to say that will warrant me calling her, mind you I call her at least four times in a week, I am not a good caller anyway, but that doesn't reduce my love for her, I don't really know what she wants. I call her this morning and she was complaining I didn't call her, that the sister who came to visit her, the husband calls her almost every hour, and I replied by saying I am not her sisters husband, she should learn to accept me the way I am, and if she can't she can let go, she sent me a text that is over, I am not perturbed anyway, but my worries is, why should this be an issue.

Bro, just don't worry yourself.
Are you the only one meant to call? Does she call you? If a girl loves you, mark my words, she will call more than you do but if she doesn't that means she is calling another guy meaning she's cheating on you. I strongly believe she has not contributed anything in your life but you have into hers, so to her, she can make such stupid utterances of wanting to break up cos you didn't call her 3 times a day.
Bro, just use this as correction,. Relationship is 50/50 not only you spending.

Ainsky:
Look it isn't your fault so don't feel guilty. She told you she's single, she didn't wear her ring and she basically used you and lied to you for sex. She's the one at fault you're not at fault. 0% is your fault so don't be guilty. Ignore the people saying you should have done a background check. Who checks marriage license registry before the bleep a girl?

Don't mind those hoe girls saying background check, a guy did something out of deceit and remorseful when he observed he was lied to.
Check out all those hoes saying this and I can tell you they have successfully slept or still sleeping with married man knowing truly well his married...
One of the girls saying " No self control, must you sleep with any girl you just met"
I can also bet you, the guy is even far far better than that girl cos she must have slept with a guy who just said HELLO to her.
How many girl can be remorseful of sleeping with a married man, the answer is NO cos that's their target market and KARMA is waiting for them.

iamsammie:
Recently meet this lady who was giving all the green lights, getting angry when I don't call, calling me sweet names only for me to make a move on her and I get the
"oh sorry, I'm not looking for a relationship right now"
I mean what the fu(k was all that about.

Bro, don't mind them.
Showing a green light without her saying her intention shows she's not interested, the way I see it sha. she should know what she wants and go for it not you going for her.
You can as well give her green light without approaching her still she won't come. The question you should ask, why? ...... The answer is that she doesn't want to let her guard down.
My thought is, if she wants you, let her declare her intentions to you like if you want a girl, you declare yours to her.
I personally don't go for that mentality of, if she wants me, I go for her and if I want her, I still go for her.
Don't degrade yourself for a girl that is not of your pedigree. They will take advantage of you anytime anyday.

Thisdaymom:
uncle, you should read the post to the end before dropping your comments, this is how and why people fail exam.

I know you passed your exams and decided to practice it. Keep abusing male children till the devil exposes you.
It's obvious all you think is how the dick erects by using male children. Nonsense

kinginvagina:
If that should be taken, he will only respect his mother not every living thing with vagina

Don't mind the idiot bringing the person Mother, with what she said coming from vagina.
She insulting guys, if not because of the Fathers Sperm, can she be formed into a child then you now start thinking of coming out of the Vagina.
Most girls still needs to training base on respect.

And what are female, SHE-GOATs.
Because you've got nothing else to offer rather than SEX.
Go and equip yourself with good skills that will generate money, you will surely come back to apologize.

jaszplus12:
I'm only being sacarstic but I think women do also but always deny it!

Bro, don't bother yourself cos they know the truth.
They are cat that you can't see pee unless you start observing it but if you do, you see they are the worst cheaters and annoyingly using the guy's money to cheat, that is women for you.
Talking about phone, she won't allow you touch her phone but she will want to check yours but lot of things to emphasis on this about women , no time for now.
If you are a girls haven't slept with a married man, why are you scared of cheating guy but if you have, stop complaining cos the KARMA just visited you.
You can never eat your cake and still have it back.
When you were sleeping with married men, she felt like the smartest slay queen forgetting what comes after that.

The question for her, the guy's that lend money to her, how many did she pay back, NONE cos her respones and from fellow gfs would be ( didn't he taste your p*ssy and next, did you point a gun at him).
So reverse it, Didn't she taste his cucumber, did she pay for the seed he ejaculated and did he point a guy at her?
Stop complaining you gave a guy money to buy biscuit and not to build a house or buy a car with his name.
When a guy spends and later she dumps him, she feels like the smartest but when a man does same she feels bad forgetting she has done same to another guy. KARMA just visited you.
Do good and good things will visit you.
Because he came for you and then she decided to take advantage to eat his money doesn't make her smarter but rather you took advantage of him and reverse can also be the case.

This is domestic violence with attempt to murder and should be punishable by life imprisonment but she was granted bail for N100,000.
Assuming it was a man that did it to a woman, all this stupid women activists will come shouting to kill him.
Why is the law against male gender? A question that needs to be addressed. I rest my case.

There is more to that story, she has been cheating on her husband and without missing words she's pregnant for another man.
When they were dating didn't she observe all this she's saying and then accepted to marry him. After they will be disturbing and complaining to the whole world that only men wants sex, what's happening now. Is the husbands d*ck bigger than the cucumber or vibrator they use in masturbating. Ladies that goes into sex shop demanding for the biggest Love Machine.
Nonsense excuses and signs of manizers.

Randy100:
I have a girlfriend that I loved so much, but when she borrows money from me she does not pay back. How do I recover my money without causing a breakdown in our relationship.

First mistake, don't date a girl below your level or broke girl knowing truly well she has nothing to offer but only sex and beg for money.
My relationship with girls is she brings and I bring 50/50.
With this my simple principle, I got the right person that wants and accepted the principle of 50/50 relationship but will change after saying "I do". We are happy. life goes on

She should keep trying ( giving enough money to guys) maybe one guy will fall in.
No harm in trying cos once she stops, she will turn to home alone ooo

dinma007:
A Nigerian lady, Lyrnda Onwunali has called out her estranged husband, Okpoebo Chidozie for beating her up while she was pregnant, stabbed her cousin and also threatened to take his own life.


According to her, he is a gold digger who goes after ladies from rich home. She also warned ladies to stay away from him. See her now deleted post below…

http://www.lailasblog.com/nigerian-lady-calls-out-her-estranged-husband-warns-ladies-about-him/

I thought she wanted to say something reasonable. When she was enjoying other guys money and feeling like a slay queen with pu*sy not knowing that she will reap it one day when another guy will do same to her.
The question is, can't she spend on a guy? Guys shouldn't be the only people spending, at least he gave her sex.
I am not happy that she didn't buy the land in the guy's name, she needs to settle the guy.

SKYZZZ:
I greet everyone here!

There's this lady, a friend of mine, though not that close.
We use to call each other and stuffs like that.
It got to a point that I had it in mind to date her.
Though, I never told her plainly but I believe she knew my intentions.

During one of our discussions, she told me she's in a relationship. As a result of that I had to distance my self from her so as not to distract her so she could focus on her relationship.

I stopped calling her and stuffs like that.
After a month and some weeks she called me and started complaining that I abandoned her making her feel lonely.

I told her my reason but she refused taking it, that she expected me to truely find out if she's in a relationship or not and that she was trying my persistence if I truly love her etc... that she just called to tell me her mind.

But, me na guy wey no dey waste time to move on when am reasoning a lady and she's dulling.

I plainly told her gone are the days ladies play hard to get.

My people, how do I handle this matter?

I need advice!

Thanks

Lol, you gave her the green light like they usually tell guys but she was seriously in a relationship and didn't need you then but now her relationship has gone bad she wants you back.
Bro, you did very well. Don't waste your precious time with such girl. Move on

supersystemsnig:
They are stingy, selfish and self centered, and guess what, i don't care...I can hustle

Yes oo.

supersystemsnig:
Lol Oh Bro. Please leave me alone, you're cracking me up... Anyways, the mistrust in relationships is something else, We need to find a right balance to keep things in perspectives. Many of our ladies are setting up war apparatus from not getting cheated, but it's too excessive.

What does a chick need all her money to herself for, when hubby takes care of the home? Won't the finance attract some issues in the home? It beats me...It's beyond me

Bro, it's very necessary for our girls to be raised properly not to be stingy, selfish and self-centered.

who are does ladies asking for the definition of BROKE GIRLS.
This is a true and pure practical definition of it.
Two guys can never fight over a pair of boxers so the question now.

Why is she complaining like she bought a car or house for him.
Didn't she enjoy the guy's cucumber and did she pay for the seed he ejaculated. Nonsense

supersystemsnig:
So, his money is ours, and yours remains yours.. But what would you be doing with your money since he'll be taking care of your needs and that of the family?

Most of them that have this mentality do keep their money so they be spending on their boyfriend ( cheating) .
Because no sensible wife that knows what marriage is all about would say so.
Their money is for cheating codedly. A sign of a cheating wife or gf

zexy2030:
sex sex guys u na no get sense? U loose ur money to sex, loose ur blood, loose ur sense(now u reason with ur dick) etc so have u, just empty barrels, good for nothing, sex maniac
Ladies gain what u loose, guys are loosers, the ladies are gain

You are perfectly right. Package yourself very well as a man and be shocked to observe that girls need the sex more.
Narrated it to a lady and her responses was, she knows but how many men are aware of what am saying, so all they do is that they will access the guy in question to know if he has such knowledge and if NO , they take advantage ASAP.

Rukkydelta:
Someone that is unable to eat 3times square meal
Someone that can't afford 70% of his/her basic needs
I'm so broke please nairalanders if you have any decent job you can help me with, please kindly do

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