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working for client outside the country..omo, I earned alot..the money change my life small, bought another laptop, a very expensive redmi phone, bought cloths and other stuff and invested in piggyvest. I got over 150k returns...omo, them arrange this year wait for me

If next year better pass this year, it means, I will be opening a business and moving to a new apartment

I got myself a Core i5 5th Gen hp Lapi and a redmi note 9s with some nice turtle neck and a quality sandals...

masterfactor:
Go and listen to this track (black bonez ft bella shurmurda-okwaraji), The advice you are looking for is in that track.

Thanks for the comment..I was having the same issue with the o.p..the music really make sense to me.

kaywhy09:
You've always been afraid of loosing her.

Now that you do, the fear isn't going to leave you any soon.

Even if you get over her, you'll still wish to know how she fare later in the future.

It happens to loyal guys.

When it happened here, it took time to fade.

Action steps; think about the negative traits she have whenever the thought comes in. Think about how bad it'd have been if she follow another man after marriage.

The most effective. Keep long distance. If possible, relocate to another state.

After a few years, the fear will be gone, and when you see her again, you'll relate just as friends.

Thanks for this.

Self Tutor, Mentor and Motivation was the best gift I gave myself and so so proud and glad of it with the fact that I NEVER GAVE UP..
Endless subscription, mid-night coding, studying, researching, practicing and all that stuff that goes along with being your self tutor

Baba, enter Udemy, youtube, stack overflow, google, any and every resources you can get your hands on and START FROM THE BASICS..

I.T schools are very very costly, super costly and funny enough, you will still end up doing all the learning, practicing and research yourself.

If they are going to employ you or help you in marketing your skills, then its manageable.

Menhhh...am currently facing the same issue now..dated for 5years, broke up 2years ago but whenever I see her or her pics, boom! I become unease, unsettle, and kind of scared..really dnt know why..
sometimes, thought of her just come's into my mind..

KillIgbohoN0W:
Caked heels from trekking
Bloodshot eyes from constant anger
Fights with omoniles & gatemen
Arguments with charge & bail lawyers
Sharing formula Juju from rival agents
Mob action from disgruntled clients
Blacker skin from continuous exposure to sun
Missing tooth
Dishriveled coat
Worn out shoes
Be on first name terms with conductors
Varicose veins on your forehead from constant frowning
Waking up in the mornings with a start
Cell time in Police stations
Eventual premature death

I don dieeeeee
This guy don kill me oooooohhh
Ahahahahahahahaha chaaiiiiiii

She murdered the beat

Megabig:
How many towels do you use? Have at least three for now, start this routine. Soak in hot water and wash while warm, spread under sunlight, use one towel for three days only and repeat until it’s all gone. Bath with Dudu Osun
You will be shocked how it will disappear.

Make sure you follow the towel routine and don’t scratch them

Thanks allot for this..it worked for me..
The dudu Osun is very effective.

SensualMan:
Hahaha Una never see anything, it's still cheap tho! By the time fuel sells for 340p/L u guys will buy a bag for N500.
Worst hit are the poor yoruba people, they are sure bound to suffer more than the Egyptian famine.
The North are lucky, they have cow urine to keep hydration.

The igbos have enermous to go for bottle water.

Sai Barber!

This guy don kill mere
Cow urine to keep hydration like wtf

Mennhh...self taught programming is not easy..
have been on it since 2017 and still learning..
At times, I loose interest, become inconsistent, loose that drive, moral, motivation, and inspiration, sometimes 2 months (the highest) without learning.. its really not easy. I do it along with graphic design.. One week am on web dev, the next week, am on graphic design.. its really not easy learning and be consistent with each not to talk of balancing both.. but still, I keep on striving, keep on pushing, keep on learning, its difficult, but I don't think I have any choice or option.

When I think of tomorrow, the future, my goals, my passion, what makes me happy, what I know how to do best, Web Dev. and Graphic are the only hope and buddy I have.

This is what, at least, keep me going, even when I have almost completely lose my moral.

One thing I know for sure is that, I will never quit. I have come way too far and sacrifice way too much to quit.

Am done with html, CSS, JavaScript (to level of building awesome project and executing jobs) and currently learning PHP, though as a Front-End Web dev. I will be moving to MySQL once am done with the basic PHP needed to assist my Front-End dev.

O.P, still striving.
My advise, lol, you see that thing called 'Inconsistency' and 'Procrastination'?..lol They are your greatest enemy. They are theft of time. They will fight you, no matter how passionate you are. when you give them your today, they steal away your tomorrow.

Never stop learning even if is spending 30min per day doing little little stuff.

Carchoice:
Tell your brother to SIMPly ignore her and move on.

If I had know on time this is what I would have done..simping simping no gree allow me think..I was begging...chaaiiiii I fall my hand shaaa...I too go Bleep up...anyway Shaa, lesson learnt.

babyboo4life:
They're dating. He helped her to gain admission into federal Uni, lend her some money for few school payments. Supported her throughout the period of mourning her deceased dad both with attention and money. From the first day she entered school, her attitude towards him changed; slow response to phone calls,sms and chatting.Her reason been that she has not settled. That they'll continue their usual way. Abeg o who can relate, this one pass me.

Hahaha...this was exactly the pattern my ex used on me..no difference from A to Z..
The admission,the support, delay calls and replied message and even my ex dad was late.. everything is exactly this same...hope no be my ex be that oohh

See, soon she going to start looking for a very slim excuse to end the situationship

Lol...the babe is gone especially if she gain admission in a department full of guys

Am an introvert and i will always go for my fellow introvert.
The trust is always there, couple with enough time and understanding.

Lol...see their funny looking gun

oklahrelo:
I don't know .. About this..
Tho have heard about it much times.. But I always looks at the platforms. (Rasksterli, so many I couldn't even remember now) do pack ups.. That your money are all but gone .. If I want to use any of the platforms you mention, definitely am going to go heavy on it.. I need something that strict and aforementioned, But am just not certain , it better make it still dey bank dey comot stupid charges than save with swindlers..
Yes, I do play bet like the op, but I no dey do pass my self abeg, 3k every week is my deal.. 5h in 6 places.. That I can afford, I win some times, I lose much times.

Pls I just want you to assure me .. Which one of those is certain . ..

LOL..am just a bit like you..kinda have trust issue when it comes to financial stuffs.

the best you should go for is piggyvest..100% trusted..always with you 2-4-7..they leave you with no doubt..have been on it since 2018..i remember starting with 1,530..even as low as that money, i observed them for about 2-months before increasing to 5k.
it took the whole world for me to be convince they are going last long and trust worthy..
they are simply the best..
if you register and see the way people save their funds, trust me, i will know Nigeria banks are seriously losing customers..i currently don't have a single kobo in my Nija bank acct.. i pack all of them go piggyvest, cause i trust them with my life already..they have delivered beyond doubt
they are recognize by all financial institute in Nija..

bro i guarantee you 100% safe and secure..

Vipro:
I want to learn that cowry savings stuff,can you orientate me?

Am only good at piggyvest..it's the best for me

Dahustler007:
I've been there bro.
I'm trying to change my mind it's just hard! That's why I came here for some advice on how to get over this.

NYSC total allowance is about 396k for 12months..I was able to save 300k from it.., after p.o.p, the state I serve paid us 96k, making it appropriately 400k, as I type this now, the money is still in my acct since February we passed out..how was I able to save this much? I am low-key nigga, never gambled, wasteful or even have a girlfriend dispite have lots of younger ones that look up to me, I have big problems, but I handle the strategically..that aside anyway..

O.p I laugh you, if you dnt stop, I swear bro, you go suffer.. heavy suffer..
I ones gambled long time ago.. gambling does not interest me..I really don't know why.. there is a spirit in me that always fight anything that takes away my hard earn funds, I go back to the drawing board to see how to starve the thing or addict or better still, look for an alternative.

O.p try this little solution, it may rewire your brain.

Channel all your funds into a 'legit' saving financial app, where you can watch the money grow through interest or investment, apps like cowry saving app, rice investment app, piggyvest..
Always login just the way you login your bet app to check your money and interest been sent to you daily and also check for other investment opportunities in the app, check for other people's savings and funds they have invested, you will be amaze and challenged to save and invest like them or more than then, you will shock to know that in this country, people save like mad man, I jst loggin piggyvest and saw some saved 5milli in his target savings, about approximately 20-40k interest will be paid to him every month for absolutely doing NOTHING!!

Try this, but first, delete and unsubscribe from all bet apps as well as uninstalling them..starve yourself from betting for some days.

sheanzy:
oga shut up.. u make to a million naira a week and u no fit repair laptop... U think say na small pikin dey here

10k no Dy ur account, if I I Dy lie show me screenshot bastard

Lol..mumu..I got new one and repair the spoilt system too..it was having board issue, check my previous created topic and check the computer forum, I had to buy an entire system board and also got a tear-rubber u.k used hp too as bonus incase the issue comes up again..spent about 200k yesterday, surely, I will get it back before this week runs out, it affected my savings but it's worth it..dey there dey mumu yourself..you think say na everybody dey jobless and broke like you

chidiogo123:
chat me on WhatsApp on my signature. You can find someone in Lagos who can pick up and send to you.

Dnt have anybody in lag

Interested..
Does it have dedicated graphics ram?

Please I need a ragged medium spec high gaming and graphic laptop with good dedicated vram within Benin city.

Basic spec
* Should be slim or portable
* 4gb ram and above
* 350hdd and above
* Core i5 and above
* 2gb dedicated vram

Yinksdavid:
Also, i have a link that has troubleshooting steps for solution to what you experience but due to the restriction on here, would not be able to share it but you can reach via my signature or suggest ways i can send it to you via the channel here.

Okay...it's getting worst..
It's no long ler booting..
It just on, show the power light, 1 keyboard light (sometimes blocking), fan working, and then, switched off..

Yinksdavid:
What is your Laptop make?

Hp 8460p

My laptop just got spoilt..it's hitting me so hard and scared it may slow down or kill the passion I have for my skills..have used it make up to a million naira within 1week, I can easily replace it with new one but it will affect my saving plan cuz am target 1.5 to 2m before the year runs out..
This one almost no enigneers in my area can fix it so, it's so heart arching.

O.p don kill me

Goodday guys,
I switched on my PC this morning, it switched on, then display a multicolour on the screen and then switch off without even booting, or staying up to 3secs.
It's a new laptop I bought last year and this is the first time am experiencing this.
The screen and harddrive is very well okay because it has work fine before but when I switched it off, charge the battery and switch on again, that same problem comes up again.

Goodday guys,
I switched on my PC this morning, it switched on, then display a multicolour on the screen and then switch off without even booting, or staying up to 3secs.
It's a new laptop I bought last year and this is the first time am experiencing this.
The screen and harddrive is very well okay because it has work fine before but when I switched it off, charge the battery and switch on again, that same problem comes up again.

Please what could be the problem?

Hahahahahahaha

delugadou:
I've been so hungry to escape the shit_hole, but due to sapa, the only viable option is through relationship. So, on Facebook I've been adding white women as friends and some dey accept
Last night, I saw a mature widow & excitement almost finished me. I started building castles in the sky and sent her instant friend request.
I wanted to press my back button to look for another white widow, but mistakenly tapped her profile. I say okay, make I go through her wall a lil bit. I was met with a rude shock.
The oyinbo widow wey I dey trip for, was actually homeless & soliciting for help to take care of herself.
You need to see the speed wey I use cancel the friend request I been send am
May the food we want to eat, not end up eating us jare. If you have any funny experience on Facebook, please share.

Ahahahahahahahahahahahha
O.p you never chim chum chum

buchi4action:
Forward her online contact here let's help you out

Lol..badt guy
She has seen someone else.

Awinneralways:
Let me just drop this here.

The red pill is largely performance based for most in the sense that it emphasizes doing certain things as against others.

Where it gets tricky is that the stuff the red pill preaches against just so happens to be the natural inclination of many, as such, there is the constant struggle not to break any of its tenets.

Question

Why isn’t the red pill the primary or natural state of being in contemporary times? Why does it seem like men of old were naturally red pilled? Why are women naturally red pilled? How is it possible that some people can be redpilled even without ever hearing about the red pill?

Answer

1. If you like, sit on this thread and read posts from morning till night, you will always be a simp if you masturbate, watch porn, ejaculate continuously and abuse sex.

2. It is your semen that makes you red pilled and not experience, knowledge, exposure or wisdom.

3. If you masturbate and constantly ejaculate, then you must simp. Why? Your semen is the “you” in “you”. Ever wondered why when you have an offspring, he or she takes your form, frame, looks, etc?

What this means is, for every time you spill your seed, you loose a part of yourself and this creates a void. This void then translates into the need for something, anything to fill up the emptiness left behind - This is how neediness, desperation, quest for validation, etc starts. Then a simp is born.

4. The more you abstain from sex, the more you become full of yourself and less needy. The bolder you become, the more aggressive you become, the more spiritual you become, the less material you become etc

5. The void created by an empty semen tank is no joke. In my opinion, this is what oils the wheels of capitalism. The big manufacturers that have spent billions of dollars to research every part of humans so as to know what makes us tick all know this, hence, the constant pornification of the society so that men and women can ejaculate more so as to consume more. This is how material consumerism is born.

Infact, I can immediately tell the relationship between an individual and sex depending on how material you are.

Porn use / masturbation = constant ejaculation= low self esteem= need for validation= simp= excessive flashiness= use of money and material stuff to desperately buy the attention of women and men. This equation is even an over simplification. The rabbit hole runs deeper.

6. Constant ejaculation = weaker men= lower chances of revolt in the society against the elites.

7. Whilst you are busy earning a living, filling your tommy and looking for ways to have more sex, there are people who are obsessed with controlling humans and are constantly researching ways to continuously dominate and rule you. Ever wondered why the ruling class is always the minority and the people being governed are the majority? Is this not an anomaly? What kind of system ensures that people never revolt? If you are part of the elite, wouldn’t you be worried about this? Wouldn’t you research on ways to keep the people docile?

8. So long as you use porn, you will always idolize women and sex. It’s same as seeing your favorite movie star in real life. There’s a high tendency for you to pedestalize such a person.

9. Why is porn free? Who bankrolls it? Who invented porn and why? Why does contemporary medicine encourage masturbation? Who bankrolls contemporary medicine?

Now I know where the problems are coming from..
Thanks bro for this..I will keep it to heart.
But how do we correct this process?