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adeskee:
I stand to disagree

Probably in terms of natural or material resource, and the answer is Yes!

Were they properly married, did he pay her bride price before impregnating her time and again?that's another angle to this whole drama. If it was a mere cohabitation with the intention to marry her that eventually did not happen, then they are not legally married.To gain paternal right over the child may require him paying up all the expenses expended on the child's upbringing and education, except this is declined. The explanation that he stopped looking after the child to prevent ridicule holds no water, he could have attempted doing so once twice or more before giving up. As it is they either settle the matter inhouse with the help of Mr Soji and that of the young lady involved. If this becomes impossible, then they should proceed to court to iron things out. Whatever happens, the father should be prepared to pay a lot of money to gain back his paternal right over that child.

How do you expect people to risk their life, waste their time to vote in a candidate who after wining election no longer cares about their existent or well-being.

iamloyalty:
Where will that place then?

The millennium reign of Christ will be throughout all the earth.
However Christ himself will reign from Jerusalem, the city of the great king.
This is what the Antichrist will try to copy and enjoy during the time of the great tribulation immediately after the rapture of the saint.
But he will be broken without hands together with mockers and rebels who forsake God and the Lord Jesus Christ.
Neither Mohammed, nor Buddha, nor Hindu, nor Hare Krishna, nor Druze, nor Shinto or any other religious apostate will be found again forever.
If you are saved now, be consistent because soon the battle will reach an amazing peak, notwithstanding the saints shall prevail and the kingdom shall be the Lord and his saints shall serve him therein.

If you are serious about knowing the truth of this matter read the word of God below.

Rev 20:1-15
1 And I saw an angel come down from heaven, having the key of the bottomless pit and a great chain in his hand.
2 And he laid hold on the dragon, that old serpent, which is the Devil, and Satan, and bound him a thousand years,
3 And cast him into the bottomless pit, and shut him up, and set a seal upon him, that he should deceive the nations no more, till the thousand years should be fulfilled: and after that he must be loosed a little season.
4 And I saw thrones, and they sat upon them, and judgment was given unto them: and I saw the souls of them that were beheaded for the witness of Jesus, and for the word of God, and which had not worshiped the beast, neither his image, neither had received his mark upon their foreheads, or in their hands; and they lived and reigned with Christ a thousand years.
5 But the rest of the dead lived not again until the thousand years were finished. This is the first resurrection.
6 Blessed and holy is he that hath part in the first resurrection: on such the second death hath no power, but they shall be priests of God and of Christ, and shall reign with him a thousand years.
7 And when the thousand years are expired, Satan shall be loosed out of his prison,
8 And shall go out to deceive the nations which are in the four quarters of the earth, Gog, and Magog, to gather them together to battle: the number of whom is as the sand of the sea.
9 And they went up on the breadth of the earth, and compassed the camp of the saints about, and the beloved city: and fire came down from God out of heaven, and devoured them.
10 And the devil that deceived them was cast into the lake of fire and brimstone, where the beast and the false prophet are, and shall be tormented day and night for ever and ever.
11 And I saw a great white throne, and him that sat on it, from whose face the earth and the heaven fled away; and there was found no place for them.
12 And I saw the dead, small and great, stand before God; and the books were opened: and another book was opened, which is the book of life: and the dead were judged out of those things which were written in the books, according to their works.
13 And the sea gave up the dead which were in it; and death and hell delivered up the dead which were in them: and they were judged every man according to their works.
14 And death and hell were cast into the lake of fire. This is the second death.
15 And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire.

Six years of just sulking on each other? or what could have define a relationship that linger so long and benefit you so much without you making it good. What exactly were you people doing within that long period of time, the possibles could be that you both were committing immorality all through that period, while neglecting to develop yourselves. Inorderword there was little or tangible progress in both of your lives making her believe you are done for in your pursuit of success, and may not really go far in life.
Whatever the case may be if you both have been committing sin all along, the first step to healing is seeking forgiveness from God otherwise if you bypass this important step you will only make yourself a container for trouble. After this, be steadfast in your walk with God, devil may even want to bring her back after giving your life to Christ dont accept her back its satan plot to destroy your new found faith in Christ, remember Samson. Once you do this you will be healed by the power of Gods Spirit. It doesn't take God much time to heal a brokenhearted sinner who repent of their sins.

AuntRose:
This write-up is pathetic. Why allow religion to becloud your sense of reasoning bro?

It's a perfect write up, there is nothing pathetic about it. Like the wise mule learn to eat the grain and leave out the chaff. If we all chose to be pilot who will sell the ticket?
He may not fit perfectly into your preconceived picture or criteria, in such cases look beyond him and focus on the message. I therefore reiterate that Whosoever leaves this world without christ will most definitely cry for all eternity. Nevertheless it behooves on everyone to amend their ways and repent of their sins, for Gods kingdom is truly at hand!

Matthew 25:41
Then shall he say also unto them on the left hand, Depart from me, ye cursed, into everlasting fire, prepared for the devil and his angels:

AuntRose:
This write-up is pathetic. Why allow religion to becloud your sense of reasoning bro?

It's a perfect write up there is nothing pathetic about it. Like the wise mule learn to the eat the grain and leave out the chaff. If we all chose to be pilot who will sell the ticket?
He may not fit perfectly into your preconceived picture or criteria, in such cases look beyond him and focus on the message. I therefore reiterate that Whosoever leaves this world without christ will most definitely cry for all eternity. Nevertheless it behooves on everyone to amend their ways and repent of their sins, for Gods kingdom is truly at hand!

SilverNorGold:
Lol.. Terrorism is not 100% evil sha.. Cos even the most devilish person has his positive side..

One of the benefits of terrorism is population control.. With the high rate of population explosion currently bedeviling Nigeria, there are bound to be food shortages, high rate of unemployment, which will multiply crime rates; decline in social infrastructure, lower standard of living, etc..

Another benefit of terrorism is that it provides religious adherents another means to Heaven.. Unlike suicide, which is a sin, death from terrorism is organic. You can die happily without fear of going to hell. Suicide doesn't guarantee this....

So having terrorism linger for 20 more years isn't a totally bad thing. After all, we all gonna die, so? The most important thing is to die a believer. Cos ending terrorism is not ending death.. But patching a hole out of several billion holes.. Whether we make Heaven or Hell should bother us, and not terrorism.

So you think terrorists will make heaven, better stop deceiving yourself. A terrorist who disturb and destroy the peace and lives of multitude, and a person who commits suicide killing only himself, who among them deserve to go to heaven if any of them is to be consider? You seems to be a product of bad religious indoctrination. Even if the world population rises to 100billion there is enough resources to go round if only we can abhor greed in all its ramification.

Baby mama or baby daddy whatever nonsense name they call this shameless arrangement beats my imagination. How can you even think of raising a child out of wedlock and create an Avenue for stigmatization of your innocent offspring just because you both think you know more than God. If you don't want marriage then zip up or close your legs, enjoy your life and money and die alone, dont extend your personal problem to those innocent children.

gunners160:
you are getting it wrong. u can have a family without marriage. Davido, whizkid, olamide etc are perfect examples. Talking of kids, you can also get that outside marriage, we are in the 21st century now not in an archaic one.

Perfect example of raising children out of wedlock. Do you wish that kind of life for yourself or any of your offspring?

@ op you are evidence of the importance of marriage and fruitfulness. If linda ikeji could go any length to experience the joy of motherhood and still looking for a man to settle with and call her own, same goes for chimamanda and even Hillary Clinton who against glaring evidence of extramarital affair decide to forgive and stick with his husband. They all believed in the institution of marriage and will never trade it for anything or you think if it's not an achievement Linda will still be looking for an husband? People promoting that idea are actually frustrated with their lack of it, but refuse to be sincere with the public like Linda. If God said it's not good to be alone, and that children are his heritage and the fruit of the womb a reward. Infact aside obeying God the most important command giving to man in the garden of Eden is to be fruitful and multiply and replenish the earth and subdue it.

Dagz007:
You will do likewise hmmm how disappointing.

It's funny how I always find myself on the look out for your comment on most of the post here but what you've got for this ehn is off it.

If it remain for wisdom for any man let him ask God.

You don't fumble on social media like that and claim you are running from what or claiming what.
If he couldn't ask the woman to let her husband talk to him instead he shouldn't come up so childishly claiming Mr Rightous what rubbish, he has got nothing on that woman to lay such allegation it is wrong

You are correct. There was no evidence to back up his claim before going public with his story, even if there was a sinister motive to her text why not allow her spill the milk herself, he can thereafter forward the whole thing to her husband to handle it whichever way he deemed fit.

They know if a southerner should take over in 2023 and do what the president is currently doing in terms of lopsided appointment and disregard for federal character for 8 years, they'll not only be speechless the region will suffer untold hardness.

Funny woman! Using leader for the terrorist top brass and ruler for that of the nation. A leader is actually somebody who knows the way, goes the way and shows the way, and when things go wrong take responsibility. May God give us wisdom and insight to elect true leaders to steer the affairs of our nation in the electoral days ahead. For only leaders can sacrifice their all to make things happen in their nation.

Give a man who is not ready to succeed all the tools required for success and still watch him fail. Boko haram is a high end commercial ventures with bloody racketeers and profiteers unwilling to let go. With the current situation of things if you like get $10b loan or grant and invest all into the fight nothing will happen as long as the stakeholders who are unwilling to loose their investment are allow to call the shot. If we are serious about ending this insurgency, first thing to do is change the COAS with a southerner. After this let majority of those prosecuting the war be drafted almost solely from the southern part as well, then give them just N10b and watch boko haram destroyed within 3-weeks and permanently. How can you prosecute a large scale war against a formidable terrorist group like BH with people sympathetic to their cause who also serve as their informant, and expect to win.

What an interesting times we are in. People were practically begging, bribing, doing all sort of things to have this same pre-paid meter sometimes ago with no headway, as Nepa made having one look like an impassable hurdle. With the now exorbitant hike in electricity tariff especially at a time when the economy have gone comatose, it is practically impossible for people to want any deep cut in their income from a service whose regularity or supply can hardly be assured. Initially if you are economical with usage 3k should be enough for a household per month but with the current charges you might have to cough out close to 10k per month or more, reason no one will be enthusiastic about the collection, except with the use of force. This is one of the many Policy somersault for which we should guide against, same way the cashless policy implementation was put on hold or defeated. When you encourage people to go cashless but still charge them more than people making cash transaction.

puremaker7:
it's not in Quran, that Jesus will come to judge the world, it's not in Quran that Jesus is the lord, it's not in Quran that Jesus died for my sin and sin of anybody.
Anyway have gotten my answer from you.

Why did Quran referred to Jesus as the word of God?

iamvictorbassey:
I'll tell you how to enter heaven when you answer a few questions.

Please Explain "Logically" the questions below.


You, a creature you claim you know the story of the creation. Are you saying you were on tour with the creator while he/she/they was/were creating?

You, a living being you claim to know what lies after death, are you saying you've died before seen the other side and returned?

If none of us has any certainty, why lie? Why force your doctrines and imaginations on others?

You saw all this via the inspiration of the holy spirit right? How is it authenticated? And why is it that if some people claim the holy spirit asked them to do somethings, some of you argue? If I claim now that the holy spirit asked me to drop my account info and you reading this should empty your account into mine, why would you say the holy spirit cannot say such a thing? And if you don't believe mine why should I believe yours?

The part in Bold is my major problem. D'you know that in very civilized countries, it's a major offence to disturb people with preachings of your faith? Or you don't?



Let's hope you answer me logically, let's hope you don't escape via your usual route. You Christians escape via a few of these rat holes whenever you can't answer questions. Some of them include:
1. The things of God are not Logical. And cannot be logical.
2. The things of God are foolishness unto the unsaved.
3. I pray that God opens your spiritual eyes to see.

Please try and not run away through these routes. Thanks

To start with I didn't see him force his opinion on you or did he? Its a public forum and if he vilolates any rule its left for the mods to decide what the punishment will be, by insulting him you also violate the rule of the forum and deserve to be placed on a ban, So let your tolerance be convex.
Now to the point of discuss, why do you find it difficult to believe the word of God as written in the scriptures, this were not written by invisible elements but by men like you and I who lived and attested to some of those events, this is their story about events for which they were eye witnesses. If the revelations are too hard for you to believe especially of creation science, why should that of Jesus be? Jesus was a historical figure who was attested to be righteous both by friends and foes. He lived a sinless life, died and rose again all this well documented in history. If you dont believe the facts of history about Jesus but believed Plato once existed then I doubt your smartness.

puremaker7:
are you saying all the muslims will enter hell fire?

Nobody said anyone will go to hell. God himself gave the judgement against anyone who rejected his only sacrifice for sinful men, which is Jesus not Mohammed nor anyone else. Jesus died and rose again and he's coming to judge the world didn't your Quran affirm this same truth. Did Mohammed died and rose again? Is he coming back to earth again to judge the world? I know you know the answer.

iamvictorbassey:
I shared it above.

What a twaddle you had up there. How can you conceive an intelligent person to follow you to hell with those crap venerated throughout those line of yours. With your write up you are simply lending your voice to the message he's trying to pass across cos you said nothing new or special. Hell was created for satan and his angel not for man, hell is a place of eternal punishment for the disobedient who revel in sin rather than in righteousness. Devil will have no control over his eternal punishment in the lake of fire eventually. Now since you believe hell exist and the one you choose to follow will be helpless to deliver himself not to talk of delivering his loyal comrades on earth, how then do you think your own case will be different out of several million presently in hell and many more to join? In what capacity do you hope to continue in sin in hell as a special candidate?

Kokaine:
Jesus is God's messenger and a prophet. Worship God alone and make no intermediary between you and HIM. HE has no associate

Who told you Jesus was a messenger and a prophet only, from where did you get this information? Were you told or you created this story yourself? Moreover who told you there is no intermediary between man and God?

iamvictorbassey:
I'll tell you how to enter heaven when you answer a few questions.

You can Share a few of those questions.

iamvictorbassey:
Oga, I go leave earth without knowing Jesus the Israeli White Boy and nothing will happen.

Worry about yourself. Stop making Nairaland uninteresting for us with your thrash preachings about the "cumming" of one motherfuçker.

Not sure he said anything wrong to warrant such insult on a public forum. If you feel you don't need Jesus to enter heaven after death you could have just pass over his comment and save your energy, or counter his claim by providing useful information about this alternative route youve found so that others who are interested can also try it out, because keeping such vitally beneficial information to yourself means you are either a wicked or selfish individual.

APC as a party are in short supply of men of integrity reason everybody end up as a praise singer. Once their mannequin economic principles that keeps the nation in a hollow block is shamed, instead of brainstorming to find a lasting solution that'll get peoples hope restored, they'll rather adopt a short cut procedure that'll end up making them a laughing stock. By the time the said dollar rebounds against this abracadabra reduction it may go as high as 600. It baffles me how God will confer his good will on a few people to govern a prosperous nation as Nigeria and all they do is turn it into a grazing field. Whereas I'm apolitical, God save Nigeria!

Why is Umahi putting himself through all this unnecessary corruption of power. He came off as a godly technocrat at the beginning, but now on the verge of ending it as an ungodly politician. Quest for power and fame can make a godly king like Uzziah trespass and Saul play the fool. I pray he doesn't end up badly!

If the absence of a husband can make a successful woman like Linda feel incomplete, how will anyone not feel miserable in eternity who depart this earth without Christ.
Moreover if a successful feminist like Linda can feel the absence of a man she can call her own, and Chimamanda can be held by her husband during the burial of her father probably to prevent emotional breakdown, then the feminism concept that seek equality on the home front is unsustainable and a piece of trash. In work place feminism can work, in the school feminism may also work, but at the home front God said, your desire shall be to your own husband and he shall rule over you. whatever your degree of feminism once you are ready to settle down with a man better be ready to submit to him for your own well-being. You can take your extra baggage of feminism with you to your workplace or anywhere else but definitely not in your home, as no wife can ever be equal with her husband no matter how successful, cos that position was giving to him by God, irrespective of whether he is a godly fellow or a son of Belial!.

Very foolish and senseless reason to kill innocent souls. If they didn't start the senseless jihad affiliated terrorism and killings would anyone have had reason(s) to snitch on them. If this guys were Christian's they would all have being torn in pieces with criticism and every Christian leader would have taken a stand against them. But this conspiracy of silence seems to be giving them more courage to press on. If some prominent and well respected fellow among them can openly denounce their activities and others follow suit, they'll be left with no valid excuse as to why they should continue on this their satan induced mission. And with all of this senseless killings they still believe they are doing God service and on their way to heaven, what a delusion and unmitigated self deceit!

emkz:
Do you think marriage is an achievement? The way we shame unmarried folks is debilitating.

Not in support of shaming anyone, but when God helps you to acquire and build a holy and happy family you'll know its heaven on earth and one of the greatest achievement you can ever have on earth to last a lifetime.

faste:
To an average guy it is an achievement;For a rich dude who can buy a home up and down,it is just a normal thing

House has never being a normal achievement to anyone, it's always the dream of every man or woman to have a beautiful place to call their own. If you are really rich there are mansions you can built that will drain your pocket if you are not careful, I mean there are very expensive in-house equipment and materials that can drain your pocket literately. So it's not about the money you have but the kind of building you can afford with your money. There are building costing over a billion dollars, which rich man can buy that one up and down.