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LMAO!

This was an episode of Law & Order or was CSI or was it Without A Trace?

Whatever. . . alls I know is it was on TV.

Hehehehe. . . and they say watching TV is a time wasting activity.

I just love how we have no qualms discussing unsubstantiated news!!!!

Why show evidence or source. . . . It only gets in the way of plucking things out of thin air.

Bah! Wild tales are the BEST!!!

notica:
@sisiKILL-   TEACHERS ARE NOT SUPPOSE TO MARRY?I"M NOT GOING TO BE A TEACHER FOR LIFE!

Who said you shouldn't marry? You are missing the point. . . She is your student right NOW. Let me ask you this, are you willing to give up your job? it would be harder for her to change schools, obviously. . . so it is left to you to do the sacrificing here. Look for another job at another school. . . by doing so, you will terminate the teacher-Student realationship and this point, if you want to marry her, her sister, her cousin, her cousin's friend go ahead. . . again as long as YOU ARE NOT THEIR TEACHER.

Here's your chance to prove your love. . . give up your job.

notica:
NOW I UNDERSTAND WHAT IS GOING ON HERE.EVEREYBODY BELEIVES I'M SLEEPING WITH THIS STUDENT.
 
     
                IF THATS WHAT YOU THINK.I'M SORRY TO SAY THIS BUT "YOU ARE ROTTEN"


             ROTTEN TO THE CORE.   THEN,WHY WILL I NEED YOUR OPINION? DO YOU THINK I LIKE TO STAY ON LINE AT MY PLACE CHATING FOR CHATING SAKE?AHH.NIGERIANS!



CRUCIFIED?THANK GOD FOR SMALL MERCIES.

LMAO! Take it easy. . . it's not like it was really far fetched now, abi weren't you just talking "aborting", so it was only a matter of time. You know what you can do to get back at us for thinking you were sleeping with her. . . DO NOT SLEEP WITH HER. LEAVE HER ALONE! You will sooooo show us, it won't even be funny. Some of us will cry, sef. . . Trust me  

notica:
ABORT- I mean leave her alone.NOT ABORTION.

First of all. . . whew! You are very lucky. Secondly, Before NKO, you didn't know you have to leave her alone? Are you kidding me? You had to think about that? Look, look, yeah, some of us said you shouldn't be crucified for your feelings. . . that doesn't mean we condone a relationship between you and your student. For goodness sakes man, you are her teacher! You do not even want to go there. If you really love her, you'll let her be. . . grow up. If you what you feel is really love, it won't be that hard to put her first, now would it?

She asking you for money?? Ha, no no. . . This is not love my brother, When real love comes, no one will have to tell you.

How will you know? Well, the day you wake up in a bathtub of ice and discover that she has remove your kidneys to go sell for money, now. . .  That's love.

True love will not beg you for money, instead she will use her initiative to starts her own business.

Gamine:
Mr man you better abort it

and stop looking at that girls money

Jeebus Christos!

Did I miss something? What are they aborting?!!!

And. . . errr. . . How can I start deleting old posts, ya know just in case? 

notica:
Okay, Okay !!!!!!!!THANKS FOR YOUR VIEWS THIS IS NO JOKE HERE, I have only one day left to make a decision. , ,
Monday is around the cornea!!!!!What is it going to be?, Should I take MY STAND and FACE THE RISK?or Should I ABORT

What the HELL are you talking about? Abort what??!!!

I swear to everything, I'll hunt you down and tear you apart from limb to limb

If you make me have to eat crow on the Land.

I hate eating crow, it puts me in a very, very bad mood  

So I ask again. . . nicely, abort what?

I object! You think women want. . . THAT??

Hogwash! Nonsense! Outrageous!

Quality not Quantity! Less is More!

It's not the size that matters, it's how you use it!!




Tee hee hee, sorry for all that drama, on my way into the thread, I saw a looooooooooooooong line of guys lurking outside, afraid to come in and I knew I had to do something fast. Jeez, y'all are some bad people oh,  giving some guys complexes here. Well sha, me I've done my part for the small anunna having guys. Hopefully I was believeable and they can now feel comfortable enough to join in the convo.

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=156194.msg2598478#msg2598478 date=1217690484]Poster said he needed advice.
and all this "crucifixion" is to prevent him from taking action on any of his feelings towards her[/quote]Lol, tough love, eh? My mom will love you.  

Honestly, I think he knows better than to cross the line.

quickygal:
@post
There is nothing wrong in falling deeply in love with your student(afterall its a thing of the mind your mind), However it is wrong not to exercise serious restraint at the moment, so take no action on your love, its called Discipline, j, get it out  of your mind (what we resist tend to go weaker) if however you meet her in future after graduation you can try it out if she likes you, (when she is no longer your student) and this should not interfere with her further studies but should rather encourage her in responsible things and not sex!!

THANK YOU VERY MUCH!!!!!

MAY GOD BLESS YOU!!!!

Getting involved? In a relationship? Have an affair? Honestly, am I missing something here. . . have they started going out? From my understanding, he says he just has feelings for her. . .  FEELINGS.

There has been NO KISSING, NO TOUCHING, NO HUGGING, NO MouthAction, NO CUNNILINGUS, NO FINGERING, NO FUCKING, NO DIRTY TALKS TO GET OFF. . . I'm sorry for the crudeness but I think we need to put things in perspective.

When did we start people crucifying people for their thoughts and feelings If he had said "I am having sexual relations with my student", I honestly will understand where the damnation is coming from.

Personally, I commended him for having the good sense to hold back from what other men in his position won't bat an eye taking,  with no one (the parents, Us the public) being the none the wiser. For every 1 of OP out there, there are 20 of the opposite.

monogees:
Either some people are just stupid, or ignorant or both. There is something called ethics, that's why even if you are both 90 student/teacher relationships are frowned upon. So stop all the excuses about being old enough or not. (and by teacher here i mean even if you are a prof)

LMAO! Yipeee Yi Yo! It means there is hope for lecturers then!

Oh, oh and Instructors and Tutors and Educators and Pedagogs and Class masters! Nice!

On behalf of all the aforementioned people, I thank you for breaking it down.

deffy09:
walahi most of una 4 here dey craze if u love dbanj thtz undrstandable but no dey talk rubish na craze dey worry una wey u go tlk say durella copy dbanj style please go and ask about the real gist and no dey tlk rubbish and if u guys really had ears ull knw whose style has more originality go hear dbanj songs back in the days with jjc and 419 squad na dm make una cme shout for here , long hissssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss,

First of all. . . breath. That's right, in and out. Good.

Secondly, how can D'Banj copy Durella or vice-versa when they all came up with the style?

Whoa! I'm experiencing a serious case of Deja vu.

Didn't we do this already?

Remembering. . . Naija movie style.

Guys - You have protrudung tummy
Girls - Nah huh, we don't
Guys - Yes you do. You eat amala and lafu too much
Girls - Nah huh, we don't.
Guys - You spend all our money in eateries.
Girls - Nah huh, we don't.
Guys - Awon o ni jekuje oshi.
Girls - Nah huh, we aren't.
Guys - You need to exercise
Girls - Nah huh, we don't

I knew it, I wasn't running ma. . . oh wait, that was the argument between me and my last bobo.  

Never mind then.

Hannibal:
@ Sisikill,

Surely, u are due for anutha dose of your apples.
It seems the last prescription expired.

How can a teacher fall DEEPLY in love with his student??
It's so unprofessional.

Oh man! I thot I will get some reprieve for the weekend.

Throws Sarc Snack bar into trash can

Falling in Love is not unprofessional.

Acting on his feelings. . . (anything sexual) now THAT is unprofessional.

I think the general assumption is that he will definitely sleep with her just because he's in love. . . I'm sorry but that is so wrong.

Come now! If everyone who has felt  "forbidden love" like . . .  I'm in love with my best friend's girl/guy, I'm in love with my sister's guy, I'm in love with my brother's ex. . . acted on it, most many of us will be in asylums.

I hate cliches, I truly do but I gotta use it. . . You really can't help who you fall in love with but you can control how you act. I have faith that OP knows not to cross the line. . . or he wouldn't be here.

You haven't seen COCKY until you've seen this


Inconceivable Pleased Mother-to-be-inlaw


https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-144251.0.html

When I read the title, I swear I never laughed so hard in my life. . . then I read the first post and i thought I had reached the max on laughter allowed a human being. . . until i read his rebuttal posts. Let's just say, It took all I had to convince my family not to have me committed.

KarmaMod:
?

Perhaps if you werent busy having wet dreams of your own teacher, your written English wouldnt be so pitiful

Tee hee

SAM MILLA:
@sisi
thats what i have been trying to tell them since yesterday.
that this guy asked for advice.
but they prefer to have his balls for dinner just for falling in love.
sharia squad

Hahahaha. . . I was thinking more along the lines of The Gestapo but Sharia Squad works too.

Haba! He FELL in love, he didn't sleep with her. . . He fell in love. No need to vilify him, my goodness! One would think he just confessed to rape and murder or something. We can caution him not to act on his feelings for her (and from what he's stated, he hasn't) until she is old enough (whatever that means) or no longer his student.

Since everyone is confessing. . . When I was 17, I fell helplessly and completely in love with my Philosophy Prof. I thought he was the smartest person in the world and the fact that he had the eyes of a Psycho (according to my sister), only added to his appeal! In my mind, I was going to be Mrs. Philosophy Teacher, we'll live in a commune with other intellectuals like him and talk philosophy stuff under a full moon. . . .  it was a perfect dream until I got my mid-term paper where he wrote and I quote "Your paper lacked depth, you barely scratched the surface and your research. . . if you did any was lacking" Yeparipa! My Eyes opened fastly fastly, suddenly I started noticing how spit comes out of his mouth when he talks and how he enunciates his words like he paid for it and needed to make sure he used every last bit of it. Suffice it to say, I was more than happy to tear up my registration papers for Philosophy 102. Good Riddance.


@ Topic
Mr. Lecturer, I'll advice you to start firing spit when  talking and enunciating kara kara. . .  who knows, you just might get the girl off your back.

@ Topic
Wow! This is a very important poll of every human being to take but I think you are jumping the gun a little, before we get to this poll, we have to do others. I'm sure you are probably busy. . . very, very busy, so I have taken it upon myself to help you out.

1 - Missionary Style or. . . errr. . . non-missionary style?
2 - Which is better Born or Aborted?
3 - Which is better Grow up or die young?
4 - Which is better be Religious or not religious?
5 - Which is better being a Muslim or a Christian?
6 - Which is better Catholic or Others?
7 - Which is Church is better?
8 - Which is better front row or back row?
9 - Which is better Kneeling down or standing?
11 - Which is better praise or worship?
12 - Which is better dying or living forever?
13 - Which is better buried or cremated?
13 - Which is better Heaven or Hell?

While your concern for you friend's marriage is commendable, there isn't very much you can do. He is an adult and has made his decision, the only thing you can do is just talk to him. This is not your load to carry.