I really do need your mature opinions on this issue, I'm a young man in my early 30s. due to my personality am the kind of guy that flex alot. night life parties, clubbing and the rest.sometime last year I happened to be at the club, just like any other day..I took a girl home. (one night stand) we had sex and in the morning she left after I sorted her out.
She took my number though and from there we started chatting, due to how we clicked easily.. just like every other guy..I decided turn her to a friend with benefits...from friend with benefits....she started acting all up like a girlfriend. (coming to my house to pass the night and she can decide to leave whenever she wants) during this period, we had consexual sex raw because I was beginning to trust her a little.... that she wasn't really that bad.
Fast forward to the ending March this year, one issue led to another...and she stopped coming to my house...though we still talked sometimes on phone... later I got to know she got hooked with one rich yahoo boy.( which I didn't Care, because me na block on my own)
Next thing I saw on her whatsapp status was her traditional introduction rights, inviting her friends and well wishers, I congratulated her and moved on. after some time I saw her upload a pics of her baby bump.
Na wa o, na so it dey quick, fast forward to yesterday evening she just put to birth... which she also sent on her whatsapp status. retweeting her friends who congratulated her on her status.
Now, I haven't congratulated her yet, this has got me worried.. thinking.... "WHAT IF THIS CHILD IS MINE" I have every reason to believe it's mine.
1) calculating the month we broke up and had sex last to this December she gave birth is like few days pass 9 months.
2) the way she acted on the issue that made her stop coming to my place again... showed she already had this planned out (picked the yahoo boy over me because she knows am not going wife her...due to how we met )
3) the baby she uploaded is quite fair, and I also am fair in complexion. (her man is black)
With this I have every reason to believe that child might be mine.... but am really confused don't know what to do... have been thinking ever since yesterday night.
Can I fight this now or I should wait till the baby is grown?
Moving on when I know I have a child somewhere, my offsprings is not an option.. because I feel scammed already.
Your mind is already made over what you want to do.
Truly,you should be grateful she didn't infect you with one deathly STD.
bigjackass: You can't suddenly call her up now out of nowhere and be questioning who owns her child like a fool . DNA test is over 100k. Can you afford it without destabilizing yourself? Can you take full responsibility for comfortable upkeep of the child ? or you just want to look for trouble
later I got to know she got hooked with one rich yahoo boy.( which I didn't Care, because me na block on my own)[i][/i]
Did you read this from the OP? 100k shouldn't be an issue
MrBrownJay1: you dont give a fukc about the babe but yet had unprotected sex with her... and now that she caught one of the most deadly diseases that you can catch when having unprotected sex (aka A PREGNANCY), you are here talking in tongues.
SOLUTION: quietly contact the babe and openly ask her that you want her to have a DNA test done on that child (for peace of mind)...,and if she refuses to quietly have a DNA test done, openly confront her in front of her man and explain the situation to him too (i am sure he will understand as nobody want to have such doubts in their lives).
if the babe is smart, she will have the test done quietly as to not have the skeletons in her closet explode in her damn face.
btw if the baby is yours, start looking for ways to co-parent that child.
StagethemTVee: Singer and Disc Jockey, DJ Cuppy has lamented the fact that she still parties hard and overnight at 29. The daughter of Billionaire Femi Otedola shared how she just partied till 7am which she finds irresponsible for a 29 year old lady and mum of 2 dogs.
This is GRA flyover. The other end of the flyover leading to waterlines isn't usable, that's why the traffic light isn't served. It's not a design as OP stated.
Coming from presidential...the right takes you to GRA, straight takes you to waterlines (that part of the road isn't usable as the waterlines flyover is still under construction), left takes you to mummy B.
You dare not beat traffic in PH, them go clam you 2secs.
advanceDNA: He’s just feeling less than a man after you hit him...he can’t tell anybody becos of shame...he ddnt see the slap coming.....he knows he has been pushing you naaa..
Initiate a one on one with him... cook his best food and apologize to him that it won’t happen again.
Just listen to yourself Express your feelings that he has been abusing u emotionally... and your are not happy...
NovesaTillie: Now that you have shown him that you are not an ordinary female and that you can slap why do you feel like you just signed your death warrant? You should be happy you have measured your masculinity with his. Leave that environment before your family discovers your dead body.
Idamond: Today's(Saturday) rain was not like other days in Port Harcourt the water was very dark and irritating..
I was just talking about this yesterday with my cousin. This calls for serious health concern. We need to always be on face mask, but how often can that even be? Just put your finger through your nose, and see how dark it becomes. Makes me wonder the level at which the black soot is inhaled
SARSCoV2: Keep banging the P out of her pvssy. When you are tired, you will tell her a lady also asked for your hands in marriage and your parents have accepted. Let her know the lady promised to buy you a jet.
Shokoloko: If you decide to become the bank cleaner (until you get something better), once you get there see how you can start to wash cars for the older men and women with cars (they pay better) find out how you can make yourself useful to them. When I was still in the bank there was a woman (cleaner) I loved so much that I engaged her to cook for me during the weekend and apart from what I paid her, she went home with a pot of soup. When I left the country I asked her to start cooking for my parents. She was so good that the manager gifted her N50k one day. One of the cleaner guys was the one that used to drive me to my village every month to visit orphanages. So if you decide to be a cleaner, shine your eyes. Bankers love to wear clothes, introduce several tailors to the bank staff and get a commission on any thing they sew. Don't be too greedy: N200 - N300 commission per garment is okay Do you have younger sisters? Can they make hair for the bank ladies? Can they go to market for them? Can they make small chops that the bankers can eat in their cubicle?
Please try to study the character of the staff before helping. As some people have pointed out, some staff are kind but some will want to take advantage of you
Rickmann: Well, to answer your question, as an OND holder i'd suggest you take the bank cleaning Job for a start. Banks prefer employing OND holders as Tellers and by that, you stand a chance of been absorbed into the system ...should that happen, (level done change be that o ). All you need do is to be of good behaviour and also keep ur eyes and ears wide open for information regarding recruitment in the branch, you may be lucky.
Lostchild: Many times I keep telling people that, eating Garri does more harm to us than good but nearly everyone that hear me say this, get furious with me.
Since child-hood I have had nothing but trouble eating this yellow stuff (Garri). I normally eat rice from january to december, when I feel the urge to eat soup and garri, just eating it twice gives me health issues.
In 2018, I became worried and I went to see some (medic) practionals and told them about the effect of garri on me, to them I was talking nonsense because they themselves cannot do without eating garri.
I was in a place full of working men when I told them that Garri is poisonous to our body, these guys almost eat me raw. I had a fierce argument with them 1 me vs 7 men because I was trying to let them know that cassava root is very poisonous and harmful to our body.
The garri was constantly making me to have ・Migraine (headache) ・Sour mouth; lips and tongue ・Stomach pain ・Fast heartbeat ・Itchness / scatching ・Body weakness, it makes me very weak. I must constantly lay down. ・Dizzyness, I will not be able to stand for long
The heavy sugar in garri started giving me diabetic symptoms.
・Weight loss (Fatigue) ・Blurr Vision ・Peeing / Urinating every 30 mins. ・Eye Pains / burning; I will not be able to look at the sun or be inside the sun because of eye pain/burning.
The first time I eat akpu in 2002, I nearly died. Akpu is extremely worse
Is anyone experience this?
I love our soup but the garri is poisonous to my body, what can one use to replace garri?
I'm sorry you have to suffer this, I guess it's how your system is. Your body cells can not maintain homeostasis with the level of sugar gotten from garri. It's a sad one I think, given that garri is a must be food in every Nigerian home. Personally, swallow is my favorite, reading this just breaks my heart. Use plantain flour to replace garri.
Depressed101: Who worries about an interview that didn't call you back, move on to the next one, it's their loss they didn't hire you, take it like that and chin up
Family › Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by skedy1(m): 5:01am On Dec 24, 2021
. DNA test is over 100k. Can you afford it without destabilizing yourself? Can you take full responsibility for comfortable upkeep of the child ? or you just want to look for trouble 
). All you need do is to be of good behaviour and also keep ur eyes and ears wide open for information regarding recruitment in the branch, you may be lucky.