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Op,
i think you are smart to suspend the wedding plans.
your fiance is still greedy. looking for who to devour.

if he really has anything for u, he should not be talking to his ex
cos if they were so good together, why did they not marry

bros,
dont be childish.
you married her did you not?
be matured enough to say am sorry and move on with life.
If she was your younger sister , will you not look out for her?

A broken marriage is the fault of the man because he is the
head of the home. you shld understand your wife and
handle her will understanding.

Abeg, forget pride, go and beg her and end the feud.
it is not necessary

hey bro,
there is no ego or pride in marriage.
nobody forced the lady on him.
if he is yoruba, it means he actually went to beg for him to marry her
and in the process of engagement, he said he promised to keep and
protect her.

for me, I think he should talk things through with his wife.
keeping malice for a whole week is really childish.

being a man is also about resolving issues amicably with your wife.

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Op,
A lady told you that she can't live with you in penury n you are planning to marry her?

Is it not the person that brings you good luck you shld marry?

Marriage does not change anyone. Already done 20yrs in marriage. I will tell you after another 20yrs if people change after marriage.

Marriage is much more than being well spoken. Is he enduring? Is he rugged? If he losses His job, is he rugged enough to find his level or will be looking out for hand outs?

Someone like that wants you to himself alone...you might be losing friends and acquaintances just by dating him.

story that touch,
busy bodies all over.
the treatment was top notch.
she will learn never to poke her nose into someone else's affair next time.
over sabi people.

hey bro,
the joke is on her.

i think you should just tell her n move on

hi op,
if u bank with gtb or first bank, i am sure they can avail you some soft loans.
the truth is that u need to re-strategise because naija does not encourage entrepreneurship.
What is your business about?
is it something you can do from home?
either buying and selling or providing service, just create a website or instagram page and get influencers to push traffic to the page.
you can also move to a place like gwarimpa where you will not pay that much money for office space
but the truth is with tis covid experience, i will rather prefer getting my business online because of the reach.

cheers bro

OP,
nobody changes just like that.
You need to watch him for a while and be sure he has changed.
for me there is no confusion, i will stay with the caring guy though he is broke now (depending on how long you have known him)
You might be retracing your steps to hell for all you care.
2 cents

OP,
everything comes back to you. A lady is what you nuture her to be. seriously, you do not deserve her cos you are boring to death.
If you are lively, she would have brighten up, be comfortable with you and bear her minds to you but you come across like
someone not friendly and someone she cannot also trust cos you also don't show emotions.

Marry your best friend but people don't become your best friend in a day.
you have to take her out, go places, watch cinemas and build history together.
ladies talk when they are with people or environment that they are relaxed.

My 2 cents after 20yrs

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the step you have taken is the best.
the truth is you don't really know what other lies she has told you in the past.

@OP, you shld know that marriage is not a joke. you should not listen alone but confirm all you are told. The pregnancy case in point. the HND too so when next you are taking a big step, be diligent.

all the best

Op,
talk to the guy. ask him enough questions about his family.
talk to him about life values and what he appreciates in his mum and dad.
then tell him about your upbringing and your fears.

things will eventually work

hello bros,
how much and the size of the plot of land

how much is it now?

stupid girl
so how were they living as a family before the lockdown.
Even as a married woman, if you slave like that in your marriage, you are in the wrong marriage.

my two cents

Op,
how is he with money around you? is he a giver? has he given you gifts? has he given you money without asking?
the truth is that if you have to give, give him (since you said it is chicken change) and see what happens.
whatever happens in a relationship helps you to know if your partner is trustworthy or not.
Since he has not betrayed your trust in the past, do this for him and I am sure he will be grateful.

my two cents

I know you are hurting emotionally but one thing is clear, you are a good person and you will get a better lady.
you don't always need to reap where you sowed. if you understand that, life will be easy for you.
If she comes back, please do not accept her back because there is still the issue of I cant go against my mummy.
my two cents

you are putting a lot of burden on yourself. you are thinking you have lost time at lrss than 25 yrs? time has not even started counting. one of the best artist of all time started to draw at 76 yrs of age. what are your dreams? do you know that if you archieve your dreams now, you will still become frustrated because you will have another 50yrs to live. Archieving your dream is a life rime goal and not at 25yrs.

you need to losen up. take life easy. if possible, go on a holiday for 6 months. this is the time to enjoy your singlehood. get to meet people. very serious people dnt really make anything out of life. life is fun to live, enjoy it.

someone that lives by the moment is a disaster waiting to happen.

if you dont plan, you hardly save and if you hardly save, you never prepare for the unforseen.

it is better to begin from zero now that the disaster awaiting you together.

my two cents

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hmmm,
please run for your life.
three kinds of men you should never marry
1. stingy
2. violent
3. overly jealous that will not want your male friends near you.

all the best because love dey blind only ladies o, not men.

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With that GPA and SAT, she would get a scholarship of $30,000 from the University of Arizona out of a tuition of $36,000. If she could get an SAT score of 1420, she would get a full scholarship. If you can pay the $5,000 difference, let her apply to the University of Arizona right away, otherwise, she should give the SAT another shot and aim for 1420. Feel free to contact me for any questions on U of A (Beardown�)
See here: https://admissions.arizona.edu/cost-aid/international/international-tuition-award

If I were you, I'd also have her apply to small, liberal arts colleges such as Pomona College, Boudoing College, Ahrmest, Reed College, Trinity, Bates etc. Those are good schools that may funds. If she takes the SAT and hits 1450, there is no harm targeting ivy league and similarly top schools that offer need-blind admissions with need-based scholarships.

Finally, she should also apply to Miami University, Ohio, The University of Texas at Arlington, and The University of Alabama, and HBCU's like Howard, Clark Atlanta, and the other one near Morehouse. Since she's a girl, she should also include Wellesley College on her list.

She should spread her wings..

thanks for these.
she is an engineering students so i guess liberal arts colleges don not offer engineering courses.

will try Arizona. will definitely get across to you.

thank you so much

my daughter got admission into Xavier university with $23,000 a year scholarship. the cost of schooling a yr is $55,000.00. she also got admission into university of Dayton with $26,000.00 scholarship but a total cost of $65,000 a year. please where can I get more scholarship for her to make up the balance of over $30,000 a year. she has a GPA of 4.0/4.0. and SAT score of 1370.
I will not mind applying to other schools for her that will give better scholarship opportunities. She is almost resigning to fate since she score 326 in JAMB but I just want to try my possible best for her to make use of the opportunity.

Any advice will be appreciated

3 kinds of men never to marry
A stingy man
A violent man
An overly protective man
Ur fiance is violent and overly protective.
You will lose ur bizness, ur friends and if you are not smart enough, your life. A man the loves you does not treat you like trash. Will try n cover your faults from others n not show the faults to others.

Think about it.

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Can you provide more details as to the course she wants to study?

You can check Alcorn state university, TAMU College Station, university of Louisiana at Lafayette

thank you for the response.

she plans to study mechanical engineering.

good evening all.
my daughter has a gpa of 3.7 and a SAT score of 1370. please I need advice of school she can attend in the US that will not cost more than $10,000.00 after scholarship award.

thanks in advance.

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Let them know that bodily harm is not acceptable no matter the provocation. Let the junior brother know that he is to protect her sister in watever circumstance and not fight with her. Start thinking of taking the older one to boarding house. It is called see finish. After first term of not being together, the bond will be there.