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Thonia69:
That username though

person wey no get skill? let him learn a skill first or else tge money is a waste. even if to learn how to sell okrika. it is a skill. bo manner can come from anywhere.

tell her parents.
that is the only way u can help her

bros,
have you asked her to be your babe abi na 1312 AD tactics u wan use?
Nothing is assumed abeg so ask her and hear what she says.
Nobody wants to commit to a non-committal person.
make the bold move and thank God u are not pushy.

why is he insisting?
it is not by force to have a joint account with your spouse especially if the spouse is not well disposed to it.
he must understand that.

and for you, what are you hiding that you dont want a joint account?
you guys can agree on what percentage of income will go into the joint account
so both parties have their personal account and the family is run on the joint account.

think of something u can do for yourself.

he is a loser. dump his sorry ass. you are better off without him.
a man that cannot encourage you to become the best and give you stretch goals is not want you want.
that job he is boasting about, is it his fathers company? cant he be booted out?
clown

dont waste your time.
the best you can get is wat you have now.
he will not divorce his wife to marry you.
the mistake u made initially is thinking you are in love with him
it was a feeling of attraction and it usually blows away after a while.
try and ask him if he will divorce his wife and marry you and see the reaction on his face.
men are not emotional to these things so don't think of divorce.
please dont ever tell anyone abt this. As God for forgiveness and just move on cos
people are not as gracious as God is.

you never know what you have until you lose it.
a lot of women are praying just for half of that man you want to discard.
so you think bringing up the children by urself is not more damaging that what is happening now?
And you think Bishop will encourage you to divorce based on this flimsy excuse?

grass is greener on the other side till you jump in and see it was actually colored and not real green grass.

you definitely do not reflect your upbringing

?Bro,
you did not do well.
You are the head of the home and you should be more considerate in relating with your wife.
They do more than we do at home so I think sometimes, it is good to oblige them.

Now you are feeling guilty which makes you a good man.
Please avoid anything that will cause you hurting your conscience.
I dont think you need to show you are the man of the house by starving your wife.
Showing that you are the man is a bit of childishness.
my two cents after 22 yrs in this business.

OP, Do you really know the meaning of love that you are claiming you love a lady you met this January?

If you really love her, her past will mean nothing to you.

Bros, we know what you want so abeg free the babe so.

Your brother needs to upskill himself.
Looking or waiting for A job does not make sense at this time.

As an engineering graduate, he shld be able to learn how to write programme and get freelance jobs.
He can also try online businesses like affiliate marketing or writing kindle books.
A mentor can put him through.

Omo, this thing Na for life? Person no fit change mind say e no dey do again?

Really sad for the number of people that died and still dieing due to cultism.

OP,
I think you should take him for medical examination.
Your son might be a genius and you will waste him in a regular school.
please try and find out the medical condition and the type of school meant for special children

Na d catch you talk so. Everyman for himself wen gbege happens o.

Once in d university of Ibadan early 90's, we saw this written on one of the bathrooms wall
ABC xyz
What you price, you pay
Life has no value
But death has a price.
Nobody bathe there for a week.

Fear cult is the beginning of wisdom

Pastor that just suddenly decided to join cult after billing is suspicious all along.

you are married to an animal.
there is nothing on earth that should make him hit you
talkless of flog.
Debasing you like that will make you lose your self worth.
Have you reported to his family?
Have you reported to the law enforcement?
Can you start taking a self defense class?
you can move out of the house if you have a good job and can sustain urself

it is better to be separated than to get killed

It is really sad reading this and I empathize with you.
I also appreciate your not taking any drastic step.

First, he needs a psychiatrist or a counsellor because breaking an addiction is not that easy.
Second, know that it is not your looks that is making him to go to prostitutes so please free yourself of that thought.
Third, confirm that he is not infected and has not infected you.
Fourth, no matter how your parents look at him, please let your parents know what you are going through. It is important.
God help and guide you.

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very funny my guy.
was it your glory wey she use become manager for her office?
forget story, if you dont like it, move on and stop stereotyping people
and your bush yoruba thinking.
na ur aisiki dey go so. clown

you are not very smart

the best thing for you to do is to call off the wedding.
your life is more important than whatever people we say.

it is better to be single and at peace than to be married and going nuts.
physically abusive people do not change.
heartless people do not change.

dont be desperate to marry. if you pity him and marry him,
you will regret it for life.
divorce is not that easy. you will have to leave seperately for a period
before you can start the process which is not a fast one.

that you have been married for a day does not make a difference, you are already a divorcee.

marriage is too tough as it is to now go into it with a heartless person.

my 2 cents

you dont know what you have bro.
are there issues you are running away from:
if not, a lady waiting on you for 6 yrs is a lot of loyalty which you might not easily find anywhere.

my 2cents

you will die a pauper the way you are going and your wife will leave to mock you and marry another man.
Run for your dear life

Sent a pm to u.

Will def check u up bro. Don't die yet ok