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Romance / Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 2:59pm On Jan 05, 2020
stanliwise:

when I said tell her you have feelings, it could be over the chat and conversation, but you don't have to spell it out, it is called kino, there are some ways you do something that gives her the tip.
Don't take her to three date just to tell her you love her o grin my hand nor dey dere o..... it should be a relationship request, infact it is best on the second date. if you're aren't ready for relationships yet then let the normal chats continue o and don't date too much.

why not rushing things too quickly, don't let conversation get to the extent she see you as a gist partner or a person she just talk with. you have to be true from day one. No over compliments, just do if you really thinks she does something that can be complimented and buy gift only on occasion that worth it e.g birthdays and Valentine. Ask out her for a date. Pay her person to person visit on interval like once a month. And ensure she does same for you in return too o. even if it small. Except na one sided relationship.

You love her, let her and your actions ring in that direction, aside knowing yourself better and understanding each other, all form of conversation should be low until you two can confirm you want to take the decision of wanting each other.

In all this, have an open mind, talk and spend time with other female friends, it will show how much you think you love her. If she friendzone you, friendzone her also, Let any girl know you can be a reason but never an option. PLEAS NEVER BE AN OPTION.
God bless you
peace.
God bless you bro I really appreciate

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Romance / Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 2:22pm On Jan 05, 2020
hazard7:

Look dude you can just decide to marry to marry her. You need to think deep but if you want to make her fall in love with you, u need to send mixed signals trust me when I say it works.
Mixed signals how bro
Pls throw more light
Romance / Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 2:19pm On Jan 05, 2020
Mood11:
OP wants to tell us he sent her recharge Card and got only a text message grin grin

This is 2020 my guy. Don't start what you can't finish. Let her develop natural feelings for you and not based on what you can give her.


Let that be the first and last time you sending her cards without her asking. Except she has officially become your babe

Thank you,noted
Romance / Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 2:18pm On Jan 05, 2020
Offpoint:
Never make a mistake of "trying to make someone fall in love with you" let nature run its course.
Thank you
Romance / Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 2:15pm On Jan 05, 2020
Jewessgratitude:
Never try to force a lady to love you, it won't work. In fact, you can't force anyone to love. Everyone has who they are naturally attracted to and if they are not attracted to you, forget it, they won't yield.

1 week wooing is enough to make a woman fall for you if she is truly into you.

"This guys are so hard of hearing. I dont know why " SMH

Thank you but i haven't told her my feelings for her or wooed her yet
After
we met and I requested for her number of which she gave me she traveled with her family for the season's Holiday and should be back next week all
we do now
Is talk on phone until when she w
Would be back then I w
Would ask her out
Romance / Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 2:09pm On Jan 05, 2020
Lamanii22:
She will eventually like you ... Keep doing you.. Just be yourself.. But I hope you've told her how you feel already...

Thank you dear no I haven't told her my feelings for her yet, don't want to rush things with her
I'm planning to tell her that on the 2 or 3 time we would go out to see a movie?
What do u think?

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Romance / Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 2:06pm On Jan 05, 2020
StandUpGuy247:
Brotherman, just be yourself because the last thing you want to do is start acting just so a woman can fall in love with you.

You want her to fall in love with you abi? Then work on yourself. Hustle and work on your communication skills, characters that build a healthy relationship. Learn bro, keep learning. But never pretend so a girl can love you.
Thank you
You mean I should read and learn about characters that build a healthy relationship?
Romance / Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 2:05pm On Jan 05, 2020
bigpriik:
my own is whatever you do make her see you as a confident guy who is worthy of her , women love men who are proud of themselves and are not afraid to go after what they want wether it works out or not.
Wow thanks pretty Much
Romance / Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 2:04pm On Jan 05, 2020
Kseafresh:
So in ur Small African Mind, She is a Wife material because she told you not to bother to send #500 naira credit which you still sent anyway and she said thank you!
You never told us if she called you or her other boyfriends with the card..
She did call me yesterday evening after I ran out of credit when we talking on phone
Romance / Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 2:03pm On Jan 05, 2020
donproject:
Follow your normal route. Don't do anything extraordinary, love is a natural phenomenon but make sure you give her clue of what you feel for her. From the way you wrote about her, I see her as a mature calm lady, don't rush and don't be too slow, just stay in the middle where everything balances up.
Thank you
She just graduated and would be defending her project next week
Romance / Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 1:59pm On Jan 05, 2020
stanliwise:
Dont relate with her like her female friend nor a male friend.

Just remain patient and please please please, reduce too much silly conversations.

Asking her out for a date or for an outing or something would be better but if should be in nice interval.
You tell her how you feel on the let's say second date or third.

Thank you so much I really appreciate
Pls don't be offended pls what do you mean by not relating with her like her female friend nor a male friend pls explain more
Romance / Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 11:20am On Jan 05, 2020
I have been privilege to chat with some white females and believe Me when I say that these white folks knows how communication and chatting works even when they don't know u in real life
You meet a white lady online and chat her
Hey how are you

Her reply I'm good what about u

But our Nigeria girls

Mostly

Hey how are you?

Her reply

I'm fine.....

That's the end

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Romance / Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Slimdada(m): 11:13am On Jan 05, 2020
Currently talking to this lady for a month now,we flow well in our communication,when she misses my calls,she calls back so yesterday i
Asked her the network she preferred so I can send her airtime
But to my suprise she was like no you don't have to
I had to explain and convince her why I wanted to send her the card,when I eventually did she replied with a text
Thank you so much!

I love this lady so much that I would like to wife her in few year's coming as I tend to get married early as the first and only child from my late parents
But how do I make her fall in love with me

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Celebrities / Re: Wizkid And Akon Perform On Stage At Afro Nation 2019 Ghana by Slimdada(m): 5:29pm On Dec 30, 2019
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


Contemporary music history is incomplete without Akon.
Dude killed autotune and brought the crispy twing factor to R&B; a style that will be echoed on by Tpain.

There was nothing stopping him, he had conquered America; had the globe eating out his palms and even superstars became his fans that looked up to him like groupies.
Then it stopped.

Akon's biggest undoing was to start collaborating with Nigerian musicians.
An act he did solely to help their career and introduce them to the world.
But it backfired.

That was the beginning of the global music industry's classification of him as a joke.
No matter how good Tuface is, Paul McCartney will never agree for a feature.
Or Bono with Davido.
That is real class.

He doesn't even make the cut of most influential Blacks anymore.
Even Diddy left him out of his own list of influential blacks.

Now dude is trying to use philanthropy to regain the relevance music gave him that he lost .

Moral of the story.
Lions don't roll with swines.
It is not arrogance,
It is not pride.

Personal survival supercedes solidarity campaigns.
Some people are better off helped from afar.

As a real gee I can only tell you that
No matter how good you're be ye a musician or footballer someday sometime in future its either your style fades off if you're smart and lucky enough you Can quickly switch to the new style of the young kids making rave if you're not you either go oblivion, even the diddy and so called you mentioned are not really making waves on trending but that doesn't mean they are poor or aren't making money still....
Romance / Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Slimdada(m): 2:14pm On Dec 30, 2019
As a real gee
I can only advice you to get more money double your husttle
There are plenty young and growing beautiful girls out there,dont waste your time on a girl that does not want to stay bro,
In fire boy's
Voice I go fit fight
For
Your love
But
I no fit beg for your love
Crime / Re: Uncle Stabs Nephew To Death In Abia For Quarreling With His Girlfriend by Slimdada(m): 1:03am On Dec 29, 2019
Because of snail sorry that thing wey be like gizzard you don kpuuf your own blood
Omo I trust state cid men dem go carry you go backyard and kpuuf you too on a low key
While that snail will crawl on to the next banana
Politics / Re: Niger Bridge At Risk Of Collapse, Igbo Group Cries Out by Slimdada(m): 8:10am On Dec 28, 2019
Somebody said yesterday that audio money song by rude boy was recorded to spite his twin Mr p when he promised and failed to give tacha 30mil
Romance / Re: Bride Looks Very Angry In Her Pre-Wedding Photos by Slimdada(m): 1:19am On Dec 28, 2019
As a real gee!
I can only tell you that the dude in the picture could be the son of one wealthy alhaji and the pretty lady's parents forced her to Marry alhaji's son because of money and luxuries
Travel / Re: Lady Killed By A Hit And Run Driver In Sapele, Delta. Do You Know Her? (Graphic) by Slimdada(m): 1:08am On Dec 28, 2019
Kestolove:
Dat last pix..she get fine shape
Na fine shape be your problem�
Celebrities / Re: Burna Boy Buys Rolls Royce As Christmas Gift (Video) by Slimdada(m): 9:40am On Dec 27, 2019
Slimdada:
Just last week he Bought a Ferrari now oluwa Burna doubles it with a rolly
Life's good when you jave money
Vanity crew fvvvk off
Celebrities / Re: Burna Boy Buys Rolls Royce As Christmas Gift (Video) by Slimdada(m): 9:40am On Dec 27, 2019
Just last week he Bought a Ferrari now oluwa Burna doubles it with a folly
Life's good when you jave money
Vanity crew fvvvk off
Crime / Re: Woman Found Dead In Asaba On Christmas Day by Slimdada(m): 8:50am On Dec 27, 2019
RIP to the dead
Honestly I see nothing special in these festive period,I rather chill at my back yard smoking marijuana, listening to conscious music and drinking some whisky same time,I can always have rice and chicken when I want not just on Xmas day and
Most of these ladies in asaba are into runs
Go to asaba mall in the evening time and you will be dismayed by the large turn up of girls, ladies standing adjacent to redson lounge waiting for men to pick em up despite the effort's of police in asaba mall to scare them away, yet these hoes turn up massively,so therefore that passer by who made that judgement might be saying the truth
Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage And Yemi Alade Hug As They Perform Together At Tiwa's Concert by Slimdada(m): 8:11pm On Dec 24, 2019
Yemi alade's out fit be looking like the roof of a bush bar

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Celebrities / Re: Davido Supports Sophia Momodu At Her Sip And Shop Event by Slimdada(m): 11:19am On Dec 23, 2019
festacman:
Davido sure knows how to handle his women: Be unpredictable and sometimes, downright erratic. This makes them NEVER to take any of his gestures for granted.

My fear though is that this Sophia can sometimes, like she is in one of the pictures, appear too alluring that you wanna just grab her. That's my fear for Davido although Imade wouldn't mind that if it will guarantee a sibling. grin

Wtf that lady damn sexy
Romance / Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by Slimdada(m): 11:56pm On Dec 22, 2019
My brother get a job first,next year me I will be 29 yet to have a gf but currently working

Money makes the world go round...
Health / Re: 'Charcoal Anthrax': Cattle Disease Hits Niger Republic, Customs Takes Precaution by Slimdada(m): 10:47pm On Dec 20, 2019
coolI dey hear the name I com begin think say the disease go make man black like charcoal wink
Crime / Re: Yahoo Boy Impersonates Godwin Emefiele, CBN Governor (Photos) by Slimdada(m): 10:44pm On Dec 20, 2019
Rayman5:
Seeing the format, maga no fit fall mugu
Hmm But the neega don use same format chop 4.5m
Every body get diff format wey dey pay dem..
Crime / Re: Lady Set On Fire By Her Yahoo Boyfriend Over Infidelity, Dies (Video) by Slimdada(m): 2:53pm On Dec 10, 2019
Come on this is wickedness
Even though that pussy is tight
I'm not gonna jeopardize my life
Romance / Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Slimdada(m): 8:45am On Dec 07, 2019
BILLING PHOBIA

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Celebrities / Re: Nkechi Blessing Sunday Reacts To Mompha’s N100m Bail by Slimdada(m): 10:03pm On Nov 29, 2019
Nickisindigo:
remember court orders are not executed

He's richer than sowore so
Dude prolly knows some big names up there
Religion / Re: Snake That Came To Attack RCCG Pastor Daniel In Lagos Dies As Pastor Preaches by Slimdada(m): 9:57pm On Nov 29, 2019
DID HE PREACH TO THE SNAKE AND ANOINTING SHOCKED THE SNAKE TO DEATH grin

Or did he smash the snake's head with that special safety boots?
Why didn't he wear his normal cooperate shoe to church?
Well arranged stunts to scam some kind married women

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Family / Re: Maryanne Michael: One-Armed Woman Gives Birth To A Healthy Baby Boy by Slimdada(m): 9:49pm On Nov 29, 2019
Slimdada:


CONGRATULATIONS MA'AM YOU JUST GAVE BIRTH TO A REAL GEE

And
may God provide all you need to take care of this baby in the Right way of the lord

Kudos tothe man wey fvvk you com give u belle he get mind hoha

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