Dynamicboss: Truth be told, we Nigerians are very negative and unpatriotic.
The country is truly bastardized by our wicked leaders but the citizens are adding insult to injury.
What is the different between the leaders and the people they are governing.... Whatever our leaders are doing right now are true reflection of who we are as people.....An average Nigerians is criminally minded and corrupt,so we are not different from the leaders we criticized.
slimman007: Men like you don't need pity.How on earth will you pay a lady that has entitlement and bunch of liability school fees,are you his parent.so you are carried away by breast,bum bum and banging body or the different sex style she is giving you without examining her character.l keep saying most of the marriage that crash after few years the red flags are there from day one just that either the man or the woman choose to ignore.
A woman you are yet to marry has already start giving you issues just imagine you have financial challenges tomorrow when you married her how will she react to you. I am certain if you marry her just know you will be miserable all through the marriage infact it will not last. If you like go ahead and marry an ungrateful woman because she is giving you head now.Your body go tell you las las
Just imagine the amount of money you have wasted on that your ungrateful woman,if you have invested the money on Mutual funds imagining how much it would have yielded now. This your ungrateful woman are the type that prevent the man from helping his own family members
If you like marry her after seeing the red flags now na you sabi..There is nothing that damages a man most like when he has a woman that don't appreciate no matter how little it is.
You are seeing fire now you still want to dip your hand in it because of different sex style she is giving you now....
I met my fiancée early 2025. We started dating and, with time, I felt she was someone I could marry. I opened up to her and also informed her mum about my intention to marry her daughter. Later, I went with my family to see her family. We all had a good meeting. I clearly stated that our visit was only for knocking on the door, not introduction, and that I would return later for proper introduction, collection of marriage list, bride price, and then fix a wedding date.
At the time we met, she was in her final year in a private university. I took over 100% of her school fees and all related academic expenses, which is quite expensive. Because of this responsibility, I had to limit other expenses.
For example: • I didn’t buy her a birthday gift • I didn’t give her a Christmas gift This was because she had already informed me of a large amount needed to sort her academic papers, which I agreed to pay.
However, despite this, she now calls me stingy. She says my money is supposed to be our money. She also complains that I don’t take care of her parents and her younger sister.
This is where my concern is. I know how much I am spending on her education, and that has been my main focus. Yet, she still feels it’s not enough and keeps demanding more.
Now I’m having cold feet. I feel she is becoming too entitled to my finances, and honestly, I’m already getting tired of the relationship.
Please, I need sincere advice. Am I wrong? Is this a red flag? What should I do?
Men like you don't need pity.How on earth will you pay a lady that has entitlement and bunch of liability school fees,are you his parent.so you are carried away by breast,bum bum and banging body or the different sex style she is giving you without examining her character.l keep saying most of the marriage that crash after few years the red flags are there from day one just that either the man or the woman choose to ignore.
A woman you are yet to marry has already start giving you issues just imagine you have financial challenges tomorrow when you married her how will she react to you. I am certain if you marry her just know you will be miserable all through the marriage infact it will not last. If you like go ahead and marry an ungrateful woman because she is giving you head now.Your body go tell you las las
Medianna: Send her the money as a way of keeping your word and keep a very long distance away from her.. She is not friend,she's a user. If you stay with her for long you will later regret it. Why will she block someone cuz he didn't send you money. Did she give him any money to keep for her. Bros anyday,anytime anywhere you stop giving her money you will be useless to her.
You are such a rare gem.I can't believe this is coming from a female..if you don't mind will like to know you better,I reside in Abuja too...waiting for your prompt response
Web2020: Nigerians are the worst debtors in the whole wide world. They borrowed money with the intention of not paying. No wonder even the country itself after borrowing what they can't pay, start asking for debt cancellation; who does that.
Back to this criminal, you are an adult and you read through the terms and conditions. You agreed to it, after violating it you came here so that your like will sympathize with you. You are wicked. Nigeria will remain backwards if the majority of you pay good with evil. These same loans have helped thousands of people out of their predicaments. Those encouraging you not to pay are not helping you. If you die today, you die a debtor. "Own no man no debt". Think well Nigeria. You have the right of refusing to collect the loan. You were not forced. Don't block others' chances with your evil motives. Nonsense
God bless you my brother.The wicked fellow already has it in mind of not paying back before he is been backlisted. When it comes to borrow and not paying back most Nigerians are number one.That is why friends no longer lends his fellow friends money any longer.Terrible people everywhere
Thugnificent: I woke up yesterday morning only to receive whatsapp messages and phone calls from family and friends on my contact list that they received a message of me being a criminal and "loan prostitute" on the run with company funds because of few days overdue loan. I thought the Government claimed to have clamped down on this people. My Girl friend that normally calls me every minute hasn't called since yesterday. I'm guessing she has also received the message. I'm Soo embarrassed
Most Nigerians are terrible people when it comes to borrow with the intention of not paying back.You lend an average Nigerian money he/she has it in mind of not paying back....Mr man forget this sympathy appeal go and pay your debt....
KOPArespect: Just imagine... could he really mean to upload my picture among the guy picture? I barely know the person that took the loan, he is just someone I interviewed for a position and didn't qualify.
Can you see how shamelessly are,why do you have to borrow when you don't have intention of paying back...People like you are reason friends no longer help one another financially...
steveneche: My uncle died early this year. He was the head of finance in the company he worked before his demise.
Now due to the level of influence he had in the company, I was made an offer because they know me well in the company.
5million cash, or I get employed in the company with 100,000 monthly pay starting January.
Please Nairalanders help me decide... Candid opinion please
Someone here should help me ask OP where are his uncle's wife and children does it mean the man made him his next of kin and forget his immediate family.Hope Op are not the type of family that troubles his uncles wife while he was alive. I don't understand what is going on here.....
jkingx: You deh understand Indian guys intonation? One Indian guy make almost totally wipe out my MacBook pro drive! I am an electrical and electronics engineer (telecom, power, broadcasting construction) and IT pro (a little of everything but more of infratructure and systems integration) with nearly 20 years post graduate experience. Never have the patience for coding. Ok. To your question, I have not taken any courses from codeacademy though the name may suggest they may be more focused on coding stuff but I've taken a few courses with coursera and I can recommend them.
Sir,what course will you advice me to take in order to broaden my knowledge on electronics..currently I am into repairs but want to learn more....Please advice me on how to advance further...Thank you sir for your prompt response
I need help with my predicament. I just discovered a lounge where I normally hang out to watch sports and chill. Apparently the lounge also has a Spa that is managed by this beautiful married lady who is a mother of 3 children that are in University and one in final year of secondary school. I started crushing on this woman for some time now and I cant seem to take my mind of her. She is a tall, dark stallion with nice hips, ass and a very sweet voice.
We got talking the moment I went to her Spa to make some inquiries about her spa services and whether she runs home service as well. Along the line, she gave me her contact details and we have been chatting frequently. The thing is that I am madly in love with her but I don't know how to express my feelings and desires towards her.
I don't intend snatching her from her husband but I just want to have a romantic relationship with her but don't know how I will go about it.
I am a graduate in my mid 20s from Leed City University Ibadan with a degree in Engineering. I don't usually have issues in getting women but this has posed much of a challenge to me because I am deeply in love with a married woman.
Thoughts of her sometimes drives me to masturbation and it's driving me nuts. Please I need help on this matter.
Can you see how stupid you are lusting after a married woman when disease and all manner of sickness befalls you,people won't know the atrocity you have commited.
Sowiki: It's no news to any Nigerian that Online Loan operators resort to blackmailing their clients when they default in paying up their loans as and when due.
The blackmail usually comes in form of sending series derogatory and defaming messages to all the contacts on the defaulting client's phone. The message could be targeted at a prospective employer, client, inlaw or just any important contact on the client's contact list. The damage this can cause to the client can only be imagined.
While it's wrong to default in paying up the loan, is this approach not too drastic and unprofessional?
Question : After doing their worst and subjecting a client to this level of ridicule, does the client still have to pay back the loaned sum? If yes, how does the loan operators compensate him for the damaged caused to his person?
Most Nigerians have these terrible attitude of not paying back whenever they borrowed from you.An average Nigerian will borrow money from you with no intention of paying back,terrible set of human being why borrowing online when you know you will default...
Jackdasilver: Make sure the room is dark, when ever you want to try it. If it detects any camera, the color that will appear on your phone screen can either be red or white.
You are right...That colour is the infrared sensor on the camera....every camera has inbuilt infrared that made it possible to detect images in the dark
Righteousness2: What a Pathetic Story! This a pure wicked Orchestrated Destruction.
Take this Prayer wherever you are !
Every Gadget/Instruments Deployed by Demons and their agents to Monitor my life and Progress, Be Blasted by the Nuclear Bomb of the Holyghost in JESUS Name.
Amen..God bless you sir....you have given me a powerful prayer point to fest on daily....
Olunmercy56: Any serious man from age 38 yrs interested in a relationship should dm me ( no jokes please, I'm not for hookup to avoid serious embarrassment). I'm a Christian, working, AS and no kids. Thanks
Good day dear,I will like to meet you if you don't mind for a serious relationship.l have been trying to send you mail but it seems difficult to go through.if you don't mind can you call,so we can start from there: 08143861688
jieta: The mistake you made is realising that blue collar job is better than some white collar job. If you had use that six years you spent in the bank to be selling bread by now you would have been saving more than five thousand.
That was how my mum introduce me to her business after graduation, she open a store for me gave me twenty thousand worth of good, in two years i was able to buy a plot of land, in another two years have been able to develop my land to Dpc level.
The next year she belcon on me that she need to go back to our state of origin after spending more than twenty years to develop her store and having numerous customer. Just one year in her store have been able to take my house to lintel level hoping to roof it by December.
Some of this white collar job are overrated.
Good to hear this awesome testimony.please can you introduce me to such a business I have less than #50000 with me now...Just don't know the business to invest into...Thnx
mascot345: Me and Chioma started tooking about marriage in November 2020 on WhatsApp. Her friend matched us . Though it's a long distance relationship..... Just last month I had accident with my car. It was a fatal accident. I sold the car scrab and bought another one. The car damaged beyond repair. I told her to borrow me 20k or 10k to sort myself... She agreed to borrow me 10k but she didn't send the money. She later snubbed me. I even told her I pay her in two weeks time unfailingly. Her birthday was on 4th of this month. So I snubbed her and didn't post her pictures or wish her a happy birthday. She has been very upset with me. Chioma is a business woman and model .. She claims she pays a house rent of #1.3million in Maitama Abuja. One bedroom flat. She is claiming it's her 24th birthday. She also claimed she graduated from University at the age of 19. Though she invited me to her birthday in Maitama Abuja. But me I no go o.
Was I right snubbing her in her birthday? Shebi I did the right thing ?
Lastly Chioma has high taste. She likes doing everything big ..
She once told me she can't live with tenants. That she just wants to live in a bungalow with me her future husband.
Mr man you better run for your dear life before chioma destroys your life.For your information chioma is high class olosho who's bills are foot by Abuja sugar daddies..I stay in Abuja so I know what I am talking about,come to Wuse 2,Gwarinpa,Asokoro,Maitama,Guzape and see how these girls live their life.Most of them don't work but you will see them driving jeep and living expensive lifestyle... Ask yourself this question is Chioma the kind of woman you desire as wife...l rest my case
bettymygirl: Hmmm.... Except you're doing the business yourself, I'm not too sure of a 10k ROI daily. I can only suggest what I know of and into right now, which gives 15-20% ROI monthly. Which is cryptocurrency trading (not investment oo!) Don't worry I'm not the one doing the trading, a robot does the trading and its over 95% accurate so you can be sure of the ROI I stated above. This is 1st of its kind in Africa. The owner of the automated crypto trading platform is a South African forex trade (Sandile Shezi Innocent) so he replicated himself in the robot to take profitable trades when it sees.
Op don't listen to this one otherwise you will cry blood when your money is gone....
[quote author=yungjay27 post=104892531][/quote]Op don't listen to this man otherwise you will cry blood when your hard earn money is gone finally..So in your best interest run as fast you can from this fraudulent advice
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As for the post, This is a good gesture from the honourable.
Mr man when will you desist from this fraudulent act that is in you...I don't know the joy you derive from defrauding people of their hard earn money......People beware of these scammers on this forum
Pls I need advice.. Here is my story.. I do business with my brother (selling) so because of that I come in contact with women (customers)..
But the problem is this: there is one particular young woman that do patronize us. It all started when she expressed gratitude towards me.. Since then I feel something for her, I dont know how but I really do love her, but she is married.. I really don't know how to go about this, seems like am involved emotional to her! I wish I & her could be dating ...pls advice me how to become emotional distance from her...
Pls moderators help push this to front page for more views and replies.
Look here your brain needs to be examined... How can you lust after a married woman and you think you are normal in fact you are not..in your best interest erase that craze feeling from your mind before it destroys you...
"My house burnt down to ashes within 4hrs ...... Everything gone, my passports,clothes,shoes,bags,wigs,jewelry,perfumes, my furniture, my kitchen everything gone. My kids room and all their clothes everything is gone.I’m left with what I wore out that’s all. Thank God there are no casualties but where do I start from?"
"The fire service got in on time but over 40mins they couldnt go inside because of the heavy smoke (I was wondering why they don’t have protective gears for smoke.Why are they not well equipped gosh) they stood there deliberating and another came and that was the worse, they had to use a generator but it couldn’t start which also took awhile, then another came which went thru a nieghbours house to the back of the house and started putting off the fire but it was too late . My mum, the kids nanny,the kids and I are all left with nothing.
This country let’s stop doing partisan politics and set our priorities right and stop the misplaced priorities. Ghana hmmmmmm"
What proof are you still waiting for,is this not the same Nigerian stock exchange market that is dead already you want people to invest their hard earn money..Well I have spoken good luck to whosoever wish to invest into this scam.whatever you see at the end of the day is up to you.....
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Nairalanders beware of this scam......Scam Alert......Beware
MeghaneMorgane: I am a young lady in my mid 20s. I don’t live with my parents. I live alone because I work in another city different from where my parents live. My problem now is immediately I get back home from work, I begin to feel lonely. Because of this, I like to close late from work just to keep my mind busy. I close early only if I have other errands to run or if I am very tired.
When I get home, I speak with my parents who try their best to keep me company. But there is still lots of time left before I go to bed. In the height of my boredom, I come to nairaland. Then I go to other blogs to read the news. I read all the news blogs I normally follow. I check out my chats on WhatsApp and Telegram. Usually there isn’t anyone chatting with me because everyone is busy with their lives. I go to Youtube which I have become tired of watching. And at some time I’m just bored to my mind. I don’t like to impose myself on anybody and so I only chat with people who come to chat with me including neighbours.
Sometimes I just want someone around that I can talk to but I’m alone by myself. Single people, how do you cope with boredom. I mean single people who are really single not the ones cohabiting or visiting their partners. Some tips will be very helpful right now.
It is pointing to fact that you need a life partner.l join my faith with yours that God will perfect it for you this year.Shout a loud Amen
Politics › Re: Nigeria Didn't Happen To Anthony Joshua by slimman007: 4:50pm On Dec 30, 2025
