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apocalypse: They give signs to what lurks in their hearts , if you are observant enough a man's true character is clear even when he his broke ... but for the ladies ....

forget that thing jor...
Observance is my middle name...if na that one..
but on this issue,I have tried,tested and confirmed..
Some traits just never show up until money is around!
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Except we aren't talking of the same cunning and crooked men all around...

...and btw guys,enough of making this thread about me..advice the op your own style..!

apocalypse: slimyem I gotta go with the guys ( 2buff and MBJ ) on this one , a true friend should tell me , or in the worst case , hint me of impending calamity. Agreed that not everyone appreciates being told the truth it shouldn't deter you from doing the right thing , besides I'd rather my friend break up with me cos I told him the truth than for not voicing out when I ought to.

i understand both their points of view and i think doing the right thing makes a lot of sense...same as keeping quiet when you have to does too..
All i have to give a girlfriend in issues such as this is a shoulder to cry on and lots of tissues atferwards..
My eyes have seen,my mouth has talked and my ears have heard enough!!!

mawojuuche: common shut up...
small gals sef de put mouth for critical issues.
so u want ur fathers lineage to end abi?

you are simply a FOOL!!

strength of a woman-shaggy

op,una be fool true true!
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeew

i was 12..
It was the first time i killed and dissected a chicken then washed,boiled it and made stew all on my own..
Turned out i didn't empty the contents of the gizzard....
I had put it whole into the stew like that.
My mum found it out and corrected my error..
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Can't remember any other blunder asides that...

elari: very very myopic reasoning by the o.p.

...and very very empty response by you!

what is the op on about?

hehe!
This story is a gangster something....
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Op...listen good..
1.confirm your HIV status..
2.repeat the test after 3 months to remove all doubts..
3.do not have ssex with her except you are fully protected.
4.get a parternity test done on the baby..
5.her deceit concerning her HIV status is enough grounds for divorce..
6.chances that you'll ever be happy in this marriage are slim!
7.Find whatever way you can to get that woman out of your life and start afresh..
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Brb!

shaybe baby: The pity. Perchance let it motivate you to give to a charitabble cause of your choosing.

idowu can never understand the above....except you type it in 'agbero' style::
no wonder she didn't bother replying...lmao!

$150,000....

^^^did i mention that the girls in both cases aren't my friends anymore?...that my interference in their affairs led to the dissolution of our friendship?
...did i also mention that those weren't the only two cases?
My people will say 'ki se gbogbo ohun toju ba ri lenu nso' (the mouth shouldn't tell all that the eyes see..)
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MBJ,i respect your opinion but then..i have had many reasons to always consider the above saying before getting involved in other people's relationships.

*yawns*
next please!

hollas2jnr: @slimyem: lmao... are u just recruited into d military just say it's not yours abeg!

lol.
How many times do you want me to assert its mine?
...and No,i didn't join no military and not planning to...

this topic has been over-flogged..
Next please!

folklore....
Interesting though..

ArQueBusieR: Let's assume that a certain Mrs. B has been married to a wealthy Mr. B for a decade or thereabout. Mrs. B might be tempted to think she knows everything there is to know about Mr. B, but for Mrs. B to truly know Mr. B, she must have observed Mr. B's behaviour(s)in a wide variety of situations over a period of time. What I'm saying au fond is: this men did not change, the so-called "alien" behaviour(s) was/were only dormant because there was no triggering stimulus.

now,somebody gets my point...

2buff: Please summarize the story. How can her revealing what she knows end up bad? Still trying to grasp your rationale.

Example 1-my friend starts dating this guy and wants me to meet him...
I meet him and he turns out to be someone whose escapades i know of.i even get to find out him dating my friend was a bet...
I tell her about it and the dumb girl goes on to tell him everything..
The guy warned her off me that i didn't wish her well and that was the beginning of the end of our friendship.
Btw,the relationship ended disastrously like i presumed..
Example 2-this guy is dating my friend who stays off-campus.
I stay in the hostel and i walk into a room and find his pictures plastered over another girls room.i ask her who he is and she tells me he is her fiance.she's met with his parents and blah blah.
I tell my dear friend about it..and she and the guy starts acting funny like i'm a bad-belle person.
I stay away and they continued their stuff.didn't bother to know how it ended..
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No two situations or friends are exactly the same but then trying to save a girlfriend is at your own risk.
Its not worth it at the end of the day..
Now,i just leave people to make their own mistakes and learn from it if they will!
No elektra acting anymore!

luvkia: I think the widness in scope of the topic is making people to give it a different direction. It would hav been 'men's attitude towards relationship changes with improved financial condition'. This I can support because I can count upto ten men that I have seen with this attribute

maybe it should have been that..but then again..people who'll get it will get it..
Its use of english..

but seriously,of what romantic/intellectual importance is this thread?

onila: i want special lock, nigga!

I am a beautiful girl and sweet. . its easy for a guy 2 get hard when they see me

my friend,go and look for a carpenter or get latches and deadbolts on your door and stop creating useless topics!
Hian!

2buff: Please explain how informing your friend that someone has a girlfriend "turns up on you?"

i don't want to have to tell stories on this thread but i know enough about getting involved in stuff like this..
Women are very funny people is all i can tell you
..but if she doesn't mind being labelled the bad person....then she should go ahead!

you know everything's not fine and you still want to remain in this relationship?
Smh!
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Stop bothering you head trying to understand or figure out what went wrong or how to fix it..
The guy doesn't want anything fixed!
Move on already..
Hian!

don't tell your friend anything if you don't want to be caught in silly triangles....
I have gotten involved in something similar and everything turned on me in the end.
She has a head..its at her discretion to use it or not!
...and if she has to make this mistake then so be it..and hope she learns from it..
Mind your business and wish her well!

kandiikane: Lmfaoooo!!
*wipes tears*

I'm guessing you were joking.

nope
its no joke...
That head is 100 percent mine...

...and yet another nonsense fron Onila....
Hian!

[quote author=Okija_juju]Hey!! Hey !!! Hey !!!!!!!

Cool down jor!!

Wetin sef?!!

I said good girls not virgin Mary's..
Good girls only meant that irrespective of their shortcomings, I could have still made it work.

SHOO!! Na ehn you just decide to rough tackle me anyhow!!

Na wah to you o!!

No be my own bad pass.. Most of those relationships ended because I had to leave town, or she left town or she realized that I was getting fartherand farther away from God or something like that.. Mind you, I am still very close to all my ex's except one who was crazy!

I am a good man.. All of them can attest to me being a good man. The only difference may be that then I was young, a student, unemployed and not quite ready to be married.. However, I never cheated on any of them nor treated them badly.. Thats why they all still love me.

No dey tarnish my image with reckless abandon jor!!

I belong to the legion of extra-ordinary gentlemen! The last of a dying breed.. My Momma raised me proper..
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Relax...
All i'm saying is...
There are really good women out there who have just been unlucky with the kind of men they meet through no fault of theirs..
Should they then kill themselves because they are not married?
I have brothers and cousins who have thrown good women away for no reason and only realise it and wish them back when the lady's gone..
You'd agree with me that men are such a confused bunch when it comes to choosing one to spend the rest of their lives with.. Won't you?

MRbrownJAY: if anyone's financial status changes then chances are that person may also change as well.....whether male or female. unless someone has already been rich before, it is completely NORMAL for them to lose their goddam mind.

you should understand that this topic is in relation to relationships...not generally..
The most a lady/woman can do if she becomes rich is let it get into her head and become arrogant and disrespectful to her partner which is mostly at her own disadvantage but a man's finances getting better is a catalyst to lots of things...especially an opportunity to flirt and date more women and less attention/regard for your girl.
...and btw..there are exceptions of course!!

[quote author=Okija_juju]Yeah!! I was a shitty Nigga back then.. I was young and restless..

And mind you, of all the girls I have dated, I have only ever broken up with 1. The rest of them either leave me or we just grow apart due to distance.
[/quote]so,you had FIVE good girls and you let them go for no just cause...
Now,imagine them getting involved with 2 or 3 more guys like you who also leave them for no sensible reason asides being shitty niggas which they never admit until much later...
...and then there's the fact that shitty niggas are best at hiding how shitty they are..
These five women have been good,serious,decent,faithful,marraigeable and all but they keep meeting frogs like you.
Its not their fault that frogs like you abound...is it??