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chimithen: The question can be asked in a different way; what is the woman you married or about to marry to you? Who technically is she to you? Some lady that you will subject to the imprisonment of the kitchen and the bedroom alone? Some un-presentable personality that you paid a heavy amount for and suppose you own her? Someone you can control and manipulate at your will? Some chicken brain person that requires you to think for her? Some dependent personality that will attain nothing in her life except in bedmatics and children rearing?

If you have these mindset or have borrowed this from your parents, i am sorry you have been misled. According to the word of the Lord, the woman is a helper and not a slave, a puppet or a tool that can be utilized as we deem fit. Yes she will have her troubles like you would, she will reveal her inner being and so will you but in a relationship between a wife and her husband, it is basically built upon the Love of God and the understanding they have come to.

Can she cook? No. Fine, if i can then i will teach her. I f i cannot and because i am busy, i send her to catering school. But if the both of us are working class and we can spare the time to enjoy some fun time together, it will be deliberated upon and she will surely want to upgrade fast cause the woman is competitive and will get attune with every thing required to hold on to her man if her man is willing to walk the daring path with her most likely.

The issue here is not the relationship, but i choose to chip it in cause a successful relationship between husband and wife is not in the cooking but in the general understand between these two who has become one before man and God. If you know what is right for your relationship, you will magnet your wife and cherish her cause you cannot have a better wife than your first wife. Before you go, i must add that the woman is simply created to be a multiplier and wonderful processor of little things into grand ones.

Give a woman a seed(sperm), she will allow you a child.
Give a woman a thought, she will drive you insane with a grand plan.
Give her a set of groceries, she will make you a wonderful meal.
Give her troubles, and she will render Hell all over you.


God bless you all.

can you marry a woman who can cook or not?that's the question!
No need for epistle!

beylinko: i guess u are a mold because jst afta u postd, d topic ws locked. And do u know what;i'm nt a woman n i hv beta tins doing ok! Go n attend 2 ur blokus or what do u cal it?

@ bolded...is that supposed to be short for moderator?
Lmao
go back to sleep with your nonsense shorthand abeg!
Mtcheeeeeeeeeew

Tallest9: evn if na AGBANI..those sayin u wil teach her,what d heck was she doin while growin up dat she didnt learn 4rm her mumsi?..slimyem i jst hpe u dnt live wat u say cos [b]I JST WONDER[/d]

keep wondering

shoemaker!

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flanrey: Whenever I smell foolishness, I see Mr.Cork strolling by

lmao

tailor!

[quote author=Mynd_44]Yes I can. I did not marry her so she can cook did I? Cos If I wanted someone to cook for me, I will move back with my mum or hire a cook.
I will marry because I want to spend the rest of my life with the woman not because of food[/quote]wa sere!
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.@op,if i can't cook,wetin do hin own hand?
Cooking isnt so much of a woman's thing anymore.A lot of men cook good these days and it no biggie!

beylinko: i tot of replyin u yday,but d molds saved u.

save me from what?? ??
Spill your guts dude and have it delivered back to you..
Psssh!

this thread is one BIG FAT LIE from the stables of daddycandowhatever.
Nonsense!

davidylan: find your own unmarried man.

hey!
This isn't about me or anybody else in particular right now...
Its just a topic for discussion.
Thanks though.

tellwisdom: You've got to start brushin urself up, so u dont remain a liability fr the rest of ur life

blah!
Next please!

Flashaldrin: as usual make a whole lot of noise and offer little or nothing cos you have absolutely no 4ucking idea of the topic but then you must be noticed, not so?? Smh!

You are nothing but a hopeless dingbat!
How is what i typed different from what you have here except that you made a sermon out of it?

Flashaldrin: @op, dude my advice to you is. . . Dont just get married, call it off now and you wont regret it, its just a matter of time before you meet another person you love, cos if not the effects will be longlasting and traumatizing!
Yea, you can perform amniocentesis to know the genotype of the child but in nigeria the hospitals that do that are rare and they're expensive.
Also, if you where to find out its ss, what do you do?? Abort? Can you leave with the conscience of aborting your own child??
I know a couple that tried this and they ended up aborting four consecutive pregnancies!!
And dont even think of giving birth to an ss child cos the sufferings of that child who might eventually die prematurely will be on your head!


an advice dude, this should be in the health section where you will get more useful answers cos the moronic jokers on romance section have no 4ucking clue but they must comment!

i know how much you crave for my attention but you musn't always throw yourself at me!
Your quoting me doesnt make any sense mister!
Borrow some brain and if you can't get anyone to lend you theirs,take from one of your cadavers instead!
I'm sure no one would notice.
Stu-pid eediot!

tellwisdom: Your hope of going out are mainly banked on a man's pocket!

Just few amongst you from Nigeria, 2% takes the risk

this is nonsense!
Please speak english!

[quote author=tpia@]most times the going out is still with the hope of meeting a male.[/quote]the reasons for going out could be anything ..socialising,fun or whatever.
Besides that's not the point of this discussion!

bittyend: Still wetter than your nyash.

...and meaningless all the same!
Duh!

super dry!!!!

that a lot of ladies around you don't do that doesnt mean ALL ladies don't do it!
I take myself out and have girl's day out with two other girlfriend's many times and its no biggie.
Besides,i have seen other girls do the same more than once so this is no point!
The only thing is...it is much less fun when you do that alone/with the same sex!

[quote author=Mynd_44]Here we go again[/quote]to where?

how come you didnt discuss something this important in 9 fccking years!
What were you discussing all these while.
Anyways i think there are medical but quite expensive procedures that'd help your situation.
...and you'll get better info in the health section..

Daresh: First of all have you ever cheated on your wife or given her any to not trust you? Do you have friends who see it as no big deal to cheat on their wives? Did you stop at a joint known for fornication? If your answer to any these is yes, then that is why she acted the way she did. By the way ,I dont think she acted right. What you can do is, shelve your pride, give her a big hug and tell her there is no one else in the world for you. Tell her everyday and her insecurities will vanish.

strongly agree!