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very nice!
A lot better than Unilag Runs girl!
Writer is definitely one with potentials.
Kudos!

Zilja: @OP I hate to say this but you seem to be lacing in that field as too.
You didn't mention how long u've been married but making babies is a no brainer. If he has no respect for the women
who just gave birth to his kid before asking for a pice of a$$, he could care less about how you feel when you tell him how you feel.

Somethin is wrong with this picture. You have let it go way to long.

Good luck to showing an "old dog new tricks" NO POINT INTENDED

Ability12: Aah!! 7-8 times a day?does he actualy goes 2 wrk...he's such a sex machine,i wonda hw beautiful u might be....al u hav 2 do is let him knw ur feelins..nd watch dese romantic films lyk..merlin,seeker nd beast masta 2 learn hw 2 kiss.

Merlin,Seeker and Beast master as romantic films?
Lawd have mercy!

Basics007: Oh my bad! Now i remember. Thanks. Lol @ eze goes to school. Na so she young reach?

dey dere make cocoa dey gum plaster for your eye!

freecocoa: Na so o my brother but she never agrees,always trying to claim"big girl"

its not a CLAIM babe,its a TRUTH.
stop the E-badu belle and wait for your time!

freecocoa: Eh slimyem write wetin?abeg o lepayemi still has next year WAEC exams to prep for,her talent never reach that level,for now she still dey read secondary school novels like"Eze goes to school"

Its my home-girl" lola.love" that writes the story,try using the search engine and its yet to be completed but I'm sure there are updates you arte yet to read.

olodo,
the year wey i write waec,na hin you still dey primary 1 dey shyt for pant!
Nonsense!

Basics007: @Slimyem. Just remembered something and wanted to clarify. Were you the lady that was writing that 'Campus Blues' story a while back? If yes,did you complete it and how do i locate it pls. Thanks

no,i'm not!
Its Lola.luv and the story hasnt ended yet.
Check it out on the romance board.its still active!

shadrach77: you are silly! there are two st louis' one in Akure another in Ondo so the journalist is right!

and you are an idio-t because you didnt read where the writer specifically said Akure and because you are too slow to understand my point.
Nonsense!

Emylexray: hey! Stop being a hypocrit! now a girl gets 9A1's, ondo is your state, if it was F9 paralle, no one will read your comment on this thread. Abeg!

why your body dey hot?
Who no wan associate with better thing?
Abeg free the guy jor!

i think its a catholic thing not to eat meat on good friday.
Me?
No time isnt right!

Pennywise: Tiny stretch marks

stretch mars ke?
I actuall thought its supposed to be an eew....

breezy047: Thank you.
Pls helpme sound it to YEMI very well.
Who knows I might be her future husband. houseboy

Joe Mosco: @ poster, though I appreciate your character as a "Free Thinker"
I must state categoricaly that deviation from the Binding clause of "for better, for worse" is a selfish denial of Marital Responsibility and obligation....

why would you call it selfish when it wont be my decision alone?
As long as my partner agrees to the same,it is in no way SELFISH!

breezy047: Na lie jor!
Dont let her deceive herself
Any marriage that is VOID of 'for better for worse' is just an ordinary CONTRACT marriage.
And its weightless.

every marriage is a CONTRACT in the first place!
Say something else!

breezy047: Ok ma. I'll take time.

You see the ' for better for worse' vow is a huge responsibility. And not only that, its a true test of love. Its a vow of sacrifice, commitment, loyalty, honesty, faithfulness.

You want to derail from it, you want to define your own vows from within you because you dont want all the honesty, faithfulness, love, commitment and parameters that for better for worse offers.

Now, many make that ' for better' vow and dont follow it.
But for you to come out openly and reject it, and set your own vows. . .that's CRIMINALITY and THIEFRY cuz you are openly expressing your selfishness to your partner that. . .I cant accept this vow of sacrifice, I WANT to make my OWN vow for US

but of what use is the vow if i say it and not mean every word of it?
Why should i deceive my partner right at the first step of a new beginning?
Would it not be better if you dont make the vow at all than make it only to eat up your words later?
Like i said in my initial post,the 'for worse' phrase is beginning to sound scary and many people have suffered in marriages are are still suffering because of those two words and the 'sacredness' of the vow!
And when did want for honesty and sincerity become CRIMINALITY and THIEFERY like you put it?

breezy047: Tell your cousin he/she be thief.
No offense

no,she's not!
She's just a cautious optimist!

breezy047: Yemi
You have come again?
That's the begining of greed and selfishness.
That marriage can never last when you make your own vows.

If you cannot accept the common sacrifice of a vow laid down for both of you, if you start having that feeling of making your own vows, you are greedy. . . And definitely a thief.

If you are on a contract marriage like the ones our naija bros do here just to get the green card then its acceptable, otherwise. . .you be criminal

thief?
Criminal?
Greed?
Selfishness?
Jeez!
I want my vow to come from within and mean every word of my it! Not some for better,for worse eye-service bullshyt!
Now,how does that relate to any of the above names?
No cussing on this thread..Take time o!

neyostica: Sharrapppp, oro enu e oda, no put mouth for my matter b4 i give u e-slap

oya nau!
Gimme the slap make i see.
PERV!

denzel2009: is medical doctor a course?

lmao! .
Than GOD for America visa indeed!

PeeDaVinci: oyinbos brought the idea of marital vows in the first place, and so, if they are moving into something different from wat they original gave us, it is not out of place to follow them. writing ur own marital vow is romantic but does it really matter, does it make for healthier, happier marriage? maybe, maybe not !!! i doubt if pple remember the vows they exchanged on the alter during their marriage

i've heard the argument that pple will most likely stick to the vows they personally wrote, however, many pple do not write vows based on the deep-seated feelings of their heart, but wat sounds nice and romantic - which they are less likely to stick to at the end of the day.

on the other hand, couples who exchanged the traditional vows and take the vows very seriously may end up better off

anyways, like i said b4- in marriage, nobody remembers the vows anyways

nobody remembers the vows because its the usual!
More like a formalty!
Something you have to say to the hearing of the world even if you dont mean it!
Dont you think the vows will hold stronger if it truly comes from within?
Won't the beauty and peace of that moment linger forever in your minds?
Although all in all,it is not a recipe for a healthier and stronger marriage like you said.

moroh: Loool. Calm down. There is a St Louis Girls Grammar School in Akure as well as the St Louis Girl's Secondary School in Ondo.

mister,i know there is a Saint Louis in Akure and i also KNOW that student is from St. Louis,Ondo!
And that this school report is a mix-up!

Maxymilliano: @freecocoa] I made 9 As the first time i wrote jamb so no be new thing.

9 As in JAMB

Thats kinda weird, last time i checked, Jamb never offered as much subjects or i'm i missin something?

[quote author=Yeske!]Shuoo nine As in JAMB, you write JAMB so?[/quote]

Maxymilliano: @freecocoa] I made 9 As the first time i wrote jamb so no be new thing.

9 As in JAMB

Thats kinda weird, last time i checked, Jamb never offered as much subjects or i'm i missin something?

you guys dont know a joke when you see one?
Funny!

moderattor: civilisation is being up to date with the current behavioural demands of the community.
In Nigeria we call people far away by hissing loudly, and its very acceptable here, anyone who doesnt like that should go to hell.
We eat and leave the peels on the floor instead of hauling them away via the window to avoid LATSMA
and its acceptable, anyone who doesnt love that should go to hell.
We cross the lawns so we can get there faster, if u dnt like that, secure your lawn with barbed wire or go to hell.
We poke our noses
we skip queues
we rig and rock
We are Nigerians, we are different, and its acceptable Here.
Anyone who doesnt like that and is in Nigeria is uncivilised.

yeah!
That's what makes us NIGERIANS!

[quote author=Kilode?!]St. Louis, Great Catholic Public school.[/quote]St.louis is a public school managed and worked like a private one!

Basics007: Since she's already gained admission to OAU it cant be this year's Waec now.

it was last year's waec i think...

collinsfbi: Are you from ondo state? Where in ondo?

Gbamm over and out

yup!
Cant give out specifics here though...

Basics007: i'm not sure but i think there's a St Louis in Akure too.

yes,there is a St.Louis is Akure and that explains the mix-up!
Its however not getting the kudos to the school that deserves it!
Fccked journalism!

freecocoa: I know,just want to press your bwest small sha .

Anyways i don't know about people writing personal vows in naija but i know a church where the pastor uses for better and best and the likes also instead of the usual.

I'd love to write mine that's if its allowed in churches although i'm not sure what type of wedding i want yet,still thinking about it.

But Lepa wait o,are you getting married soon? this one wey wedding just dey comot from your mouth anyhow,the last time was bridesmaid and now

Excelboi: MODS, Family section pls

wetin be family section?
You no wan marry?

^no be like that o...
Been to more than one wedding where vows were not the usual for better,for worse.
...and i know my cousins' for sure!

...and the school is St.Louis girls' secondary school,[b]ONDO![/b]not AKURE!
Fccking journalists!

neyostica: Taylor swift, i cu.m at her sight

that's some real perverted shyt!