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^lily-livered!

Agbalagba to n'se langbalangba..
...alainitiju ara galatia...
Shiooooor!

Throw out fire!!
Na something go kill person abeg..
If you throw out microwave con get accident and die same day nko..?
Duh!!

I see no one has commented on some very traditional men who fiercely demand that their wives stay at home..and well,the wives submissively agree
They do not mind being the sole finacier/provider of the family and will not see reason why their wives should work even though she is very educated and no matter how much she protests
I can point to at least two families that are this way.One's my friend's and the other my uncle's.
Much as i don't suscribe to the idea of full-housewives,I really cannot judge these ones.

This is just childish...
More like something an 18 year old would do...
Mtcheeeeeeeew
i wouldn't have been surprised if it was Davido or Skales doing this..

They both look quite good still...

Afam4eva: I understand...but that does not mean he should stay silent about it. What if the law enforcement agencies investigate and and find out who killed the man, won't it be worse off for him?

Lets be realistic Afam..
How would they find out?
Traffic cams?
Forensics?
You mean our police force that are too lazy for any crime scene investigation would dedicate time and resources(the ones they don't have o) to investigate the unfortunate accident of an ordinary citizen?
...and btw,this event happened December 19(well over a month ago).How come they haven't caught on to the offender yet?
Inconclusive investigations?

Of all the lost and kidnapped people whose stories have been shared here on NL(apart from political/celebrity cases o),how many have been found?
It won't help and is unnecessary IMO!

Afam4eva: He can't find peace by going to a psychologist. He has to submit himself to the law enforcement authorities.

Which ones?
The Nigeria Police force?
..like you don't know they are just going to make a meal out of him...and its not going to restitute for his mistake or change the event that occured..

Why dem nor go dance when them doon bellefull?
Na their time jare!!

out of
fear of being mobbed or lynched, he
ran (with his car) for his life.

Can't blame him for fleeing..but how is he sure or how has he confirmed the man he hit really died? ??

Going to the police and/or locating the deaceased family will be the end of him.
Whatever he does now won't bring back the dead or make the family feel better.
He should go see a psychologist so he can forgive himself,confess to a man of God and/or make peace with God himself!

.....funny that his church people have started attributing to to the work of the enemy...

Omotola go be the "iru" inside the salad...no doubt

Everyone is discouraging the op but the truth is that's what most Nigerian civil servants do.
They live on loans and mortgage their salary..
How much do y'all think the op earns?
You think if he can afford to save N800,000 ,he wouldn't?
...and even if he was borrowing the money for business,what's the certainty that it'd thrive and yield especially in this non-business friendly country?

Op,do what you have to do.I really do not think its a bad deal and its flexible enough..
All the best!!

clemmonce: i stop watching her show the day i knew she is a lesbian

Your LOSS!!!

Wow!!
Chuks is such a character...
Can't blame her for falling for him..
Wish them all the best!!

This Fred don dey old o and not nicely too...

Pharoh: To be honest with you, this is not about who you warm up to first or who you will do more for from my point of view. This is more of appreciating both parents as much as you can because both of them contributed to your life. Trying to find out who did this or was more defined in my life is irrelevant.

Maybe to you..but definitely not to me and not to a lot of other people who have a parent who has failed to live up to his or her responsibility as one.
There's no sentiments here.
What you give is what you get.
Mothers give more mostly so they get more.
...and if father give more than mothers do,they'll equally get as much as they deserve.

Without emotions i have sat down to look through my life and see the contribution that each of them make. The dimension a father contributes into a kids life is different from the dimension a mother will contribute and they can overlap as well. The message is for everyone to appreciate both parents according to their needs and desist from using excuses like cheating to throw away the contribution a father makes to his or her life.

this should answer you..

You cannot judge people relationship
and their level of tolerance of
acceptance like this.
You don't know how highly she rated
her father and how highly dissapointed
she was by his action.
I don't know if/how long it'd take to
forgive my father if i was in her shoes so
i wouldn't judge her.

safarigirl: go and ask the millions of people in jail due to the absence of a 'father figure' in their lives.

....and what about the people in jail despite the presewnce of a father figure in their lives??
Anyone who is jail bound is whethwer a father is presnt or not!

Fathers are just as important as mothers, in fact, I have been influenced more by my father than anyone in the world.

of course!
No one is saying they are not but mostly,they tale second place!
My father is a gem in my life too.

Sure there are men who don't accept their fatherly responsibilities, then again, sp3rm donors do not count as 'fathers' people need to stop confusing those terms. A father is MORE than a man who knocks up your mama, even a class teacher could me more of a father than your mother's husband.

There are more sp£rm donors than there are FATHERS!
Just look around you..
No statistics is required.

That being sd, irrespective of a man's mistakes, his child should not be alienated from him simply because he did her mama wrong, people make mistakes, it's up to their loved ones to forgive once they accept this and Beyonce and her mama aren't acting right.

You cannot judge people relationship and their level of tolerance of acceptance like this.
You don't know how highly she rated her father and how highly dissapointed she was by his action.
I don't know if/how long it'd take to forgive my father if i was in her shoes so i wouldn't judge her.

Afam4eva: Who brings the money that shapes your life as a child? Once again, this is an insult on Fatherhood and a conference of fathers all over the world need to be organized. The world is taking fathers for granted. This has to be nipped in the bud.

Really?
It is money that shapes lives?
Are you saying poor people don't have shaped lives?
...and is it just the father that brings home the money...especially in this new generation where you men demand that women contribute to family coffers?
i don hear am!!

Pharoh: Hmm being priceless or not being the same place as that of a father still does not explain the trend of rewarding only the mother and neglecting the father. It is a very wrong mindset growing among the new generation who forget that at some point even the lion will become old and needs to be taken care off.

I am sure you will take good care of your father and mother and it doesn't matter really if you do more for the mother. Not doing at all because of the reasons being paraded here doesn't bode well for the way we see life and relate to the contribution of both parents to our life.

There is no mindset here nor is it a new generation thing.
Even YOU would naturally warm up to the needs of your mother FIRST before your dad from whatever angle you wanno see it from.
Mothers are more defined in the life of a child than fathers.
It is just the way it is.

Funny how its the men crying unfairness here that are the champions of defining feminine roles in the home and why/how men should not be involved.

Afam4eva: This is an insult to father and all the fathers in the world should take note. So, all the stress they went through to make sure their children became something useful in life is in vain right? What's wrong in buying for the mother and also for the father?

lmao@ all fathers in the world should take note..
What do most father's do after £jaculating really?
Answer that honestly!!

Woulda picked Tracy but those muscled legs spoilt the show.

Afam4eva: That does not take away the fact that he's still her father and he contributed a great deal to what she became...It's not just about beyoncee, i've noticed that people do this all the time. Chika Ike buys car for her mother. Genevieve buys house for her mother. Mike Ezuronye buys suya for his mother. What about their fathers.

hehe...
Mothers are just priceless you know...and nothing is/can be too much for them.
Their place in the life of a child isn''t and can never be the same as a father's!
Fathers take the back seat
Nor vex!

Only one person get this house?

Yomieluv: My pix 10 yrs ago,and now.

Who you be?

Ellen!!
So much admiration and respect l've got for her..
One woman i know who is really touching lives.
Amazing person she is!!
I'd have thought she was 45 or around that..not 55.
Many happy returns to her!
Hurray!!!!

This one na "oleku mini" not "oleku"
...and the colour of that weave is so not it..

ItsModella: If Ini Edo speaks like she has hot yam in her mouth, then I wonder how Tonto Dike talks...like she has hot peppersoup in her mouth..

Tonto what?
That's no actress IMO!!