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[quote author=baby_123]A business is a business. A woman that will stray will stray even if you tie her to the house. As long as you trust your woman, and it is a profitable business venture that will uplift your family. Dont fall for the stereotype. Your wife is an adult, she is not crippled or retarded. I am sure she can make decisions on her own. So dont try to feel you can protect her or stop her from anything. Even if she was selling christian books, will rich men not come and buy? Besides, why will you marry a woman you cannot trust. Or a woman you feel is incapable of using her brain to be able to know what can cause problem in her family and what cannot. That you now have to be thinking for her. That is what she wants to do and will be good at, let her have it.[/quote]Yes,its a stereotype but its one that's mostly true.Infact,most women who own/manage beer palour joints are unmarried,have children for different men,are razz and crazy(No be gentle lady job at all).
It isn't just about trust.
I agree that there are a few women who are involved in businesses like this and are quite decent but society NEVER sees them that way!!
They are NEVER respected!
You cannot list responsible women and put one that owns a beer palour on the list.
Their associations nko?
...or you think she won't join and mingle whether she likes it or not?
No sane/educated man would allow his wife go into such business...unless she isn't going to manage it herself.

It is not a dignifying job for a woman no matter what angles you choose to look at it from.
He should browse some other business alternatives.

Rubbish as usual!!

born2fuck A.K.A walestar A.K.A dobodobo..

...not so new tips..

^^That's not "asking"..
That's she expecting support or some form of sensitivity from her partner of four years not because of intimate favours...
Isn't care supposed to show through actions and behaviours?
Some needs/expectations doesn't need demanding before a partner/loved one recognises them and acts(in his or her power) to show such partner is deserving of it.
That doesn't make one partner a leech or the other an aristo.
You are purposefully ignoring the obvious-the man's insensitivity!!
Anyone can see that in this case.

dayokanu: Unloved how? Is money the show of love? then she needs an Aristo who would give her "love" her not a BF

Where did she ask for money?
One of the principles that should apply in relationship is being unselfish and having the interests of your partner at heart which is lacking in this relationship and is the op's concern.
What's with the aristo part?

Anyone can display whatever they like in their office.
Nothing wrong with that.
If you have a beautiful family,you'll pleasure in showing them off and sometimes seeing that picture of them might just be one of those things that keep you going through the day
Was in a professor's office a few days back.
He not only had display pictures in his office..he had albums and delights in having his visitor's see his "blessings"..(that's what he called them).
To each his own abeg.If you like nor show your own,na una sabi!

This is a simple misunderstanding and your husband seems to be a very sensitive person.
Maybe you should more careful with your choice of words.
..and i don't understand why he doesn't want you associating with you family..
He is feeling threated by them perhaps?

dayokanu: I am here already.

And I already asked what was she cheated of exactly? Or how can you be cheated of someone elses belonging

Wrong choice of words by the op.Scratch that.
If she has said "I feel unloved",what would your reaction be?

How does wearing an orange weave become dying one's hair?

Gboliwe: The title of this thread is wrong based on the article. This man was a student of OOU but was sent out of school for inability to pay his fees. He resorted to kidnapping!
This is a shame on the VC and the entire senate body of that institution. How can you expell a student for not paying his fees? And this is a public school. It is so wrong!

I don't understand..
Are you saying the VC and/or senate body are supposed to sponsor students who cannot afford to pay their school fees?
Why is it a shame on the VC?
Was it his fault that the boy decided to resort to kidnapping?
...and you say OOU is a pubilc school..which means public school don't need money/school fees to run?

Correct packaging..
Its a pity that "akara tu sepo"

We haf hear..!
Asokale anfaani o..

See how she answered the questions simply and poilitely.
She's bold and she nor send anybody!

Olucheye: 26 my a*s.... She looks 32 already!!
Doubt me?? Ask her to show us an early morning picture of her without make up.

Person say na her age be that...wetin be your own?
Na you born am?
Go her house early momo go snap am nah..abi you nor get camera?
Mtcheeeew..

Girl "caught"?
She steal?
You wan make she enter toilet...put nyash for seat wey hundreds of people dey use con catch sointin abi?
Her action is unhealthy and improper but is no crime.
Maybe the day na Sunday wey cleaners nor dey touch bathroom and toilets and the shite dey do am strong thing(or maybe she's purging sef and couldn't rush to the toilet)...and she might even just be peeing.
The only people who should have a problem with this are her room mates.One of them obviously did this(took the picture..i mean) and its not cool.Taking/reporting her to the porter would have made more sense.

[quote author=dotcom_na_me_na_me][s]
The two Hig-Goat that gave birth to you are the fool of the year 2013. idiot silly cow. I invite you here? Mumu... See English sef...
My son rich pass the two Goat that gave birth to you. Moref**ker....
Idiot, you want attention?
You did not even understand yourself.
What is the meaning of ''always''
If you say ''always'' prove yourself right why the word always in this thread. Omo ale jatijati ikeji aja.
Na only u get mouth here because u won gain attention?
Others no be human being?
Idiot

Nonsense[/s]Am waiting 4u o![/quote]You are not worth it..until you learn the "how to"...otherwise wait till forever.
Deal with your poverty and stop hating!!
She say she wan marry rich man..go die if e too pain you!!
Cheers!!!