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I don't need the spirit of the Lord to tell me when or how to make amends after my wrongs.
My conscience will do that for me.
Infact,I have made free-willed confessions without the holy spirit more than once..

Funny how all the men are dissmissing the article as bullshit and written by a female when in truth they know its not.
Some points are a bit distorted and unacceptable but they are a few truths in there..
The below is simply describing a part of what fuels the male ego..

And now you see the problem. From birth
we're taught that we're owed a beautiful
girl. We all think of ourselves as the hero
of our own story, and we all (whether we
admit it or not) think we're heroes for
just getting through our day.

...and this is also true.Any man that says its not is just being insincere..

when judging a
female for a position on the highest court
in the land, our instinct is still to judge her
suitability as a sex partner. It's the first
thing we notice.

I found this funny but very real too..

The point is that a man can be
giving the eulogy at his own
grandmother's funeral, and if there is a
girl in the front row showing cleavage, he
will be imagining himself pressing those
bosoms in his face, with his own dead
grandmother not five feet away

...and does this not mirror the african society where women are seen just as objects to be had and sex/food is the only thing they've got to offer? Is it not the same "She's just a woman" sexist crap men and society operate by?

It's like that for most men, most of the
time. We're starving, and all women are
various types of food. Only instead of
food, it's sex. And we're trying to conduct
our everyday business around the fact
that we're trying to renew our driver's
license with a talking pair of bosoms.

So why hating on the post like its all lies?
Truth hurts when it stares in the face?
Shey?

We had no particular sunday meal in my house.
We ate as the sprit led
The only thing peculiar to sunday was the deworming tablets my mum made us take.We used to call them Sunday-Sunday medicine.

Gambrosia: OH YES O! We don laugh dem taya!!!! Dad was in UNIBAD. . .mom was in UNILAG! Dad was 28, mom was 19.
MY MOM WAS MY DAD'S SISTER'S FRIEND AND CLASSMATE. She came over to visit her friend and father saw her and NEVER SLEPT!
DAAAAAAAAAAAAAANG SHE WAS BEAUTIFUL. . . .STILL IS!

All my poor dad kept muttering to her sister was 'BADERINWA. . . see her physiognomy, BADE!!! see her physignomy'. . .His dear sister kept telliing him 'BWORDA SHOLA. . . BWORDA OLUSOLA . . .GO AND SLEEP O! You can't handle this IGBO GAL CALLED ANWULI!!!' PHYSIOGNOMY NEARLY KILLAM KE! AND IT CAME TO PASS!!!

MU HE HE HE HE HE

Very romantic! THEY NEVER STOPPED PHOCKING LIKE RABBITS!

BELLE STRAIGHT! 4 sssshildren in 5 years! That is minus the dude wey quench before moi o!

Only 10 months and 2 weeks separates #2 and #3. Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeew! WHAT A LIFE!
Thank my AGNOSTIC GAAAAAAAAAAAAD FOR DIVORCES! My mom finally GOT SMART!!!
We for don reach 25 children from one poohsie and blokos by now. . . I WOULD NEVER HAVE COME TO AMERICA BECAUSE OF EXCRUTIATING POVERTY!

My lord is good all the time!!!!

My mama nickname for awa house na 'PHYSIOGNOMY'!. . . The good old days I tellya! Sweeeeeeeeet memories!

Lmao
Callotti!!!!!
Your matter tire me!

They met in school..
Dad was in 300L while mum was in 100
Na the "catch them young" style my papa employed..
They got married when she was in her finals..
She was 24...and he a few years older

Ondo state-Sunshine state-"Ipinle ti oorun ti tan mole"(direct translation)
I can't say its appropriate though as the word sunshine in the context is figurative.

kandiikane: Uh huh! Does this mean your resolution was to stop calling people ugly on nl?

I don't call people ugly unless they ask for it...

lmao..
This shyt is funny...
Olohun e se o..

This thread should be taken off the frontpage..
Its not worth celebrating..
It is shameful that this is what Nigerian universities can come up with in 2013..
Smh!

Do people still do such?
I know it used to happen back in the days and thought it a poverty thing putting clothes too sizes big on children
Its okay to buy beautiful clothes for keeps if you can't let it go but not make the children wear them and have them looking like they were thrown in a sack.
Nothing beats perfectly fitted clothes on one's frame be it a child or adult.
If tomorrow comes,provision for will come..even for clothes.

This girl is just sick...very sick!!

Nope!
Never gon happen!!!

Goldman indeed!
O kare!
Vanity upon vanity!

I can't remember..
I hardly use the dining.
I eat either in my room or in front of the T.V.

....any English name/names!

Cake/food should be associated with happiness,fun,enjoyment and emotions NOT sexuality especially not for a public event like this.
It doesn't say so much about the lady.
We see so much sexuality everywhere already.
We should be able to enjoy a snack without thinking of a d1ck and 0rgasm.

AK 48: Learn how to cook "Yoruba",no mata how delicious the soup is,if its not Yoruba,your name is sorry.

Bullshit!!

Op,if there's one thing peculiar and valued to/by yoruba people...its respect!
Be ready to give that to everyone old and young.It goes hand in hand with humility too.
You can't go wrong with these two qualities.

"catfish experience"
that day would just never come!

I'll never understand what some people gain by calling other people ugly.
..what they gain by constantly putting others down and messing up their esteem.
Segun,nor mind them.
Let them hate.It'll remain their headache!
Your family is beautiful!!!!!!!!

...a certain relationship...
...not studying my course of choice...
And a few more...

Afam4eva: There will always be regrets.

yup!

I don't get what this is about...

Ayama!!

lol.
There are real and great personalities here..same way there are fake people and psychos too.
Never met a NLer but have met a few good people from www who are exactly who they claimed to be and I have formed great friendships with them.
Never had the "catfish experience" and don't think i ever will.
I guess i'm a good judge of personalities and i'm usually not in haste to meet anyone offline.

Incomprehensible!!!

With due respect to slim
ladies, there is no way any lady shaped
like a broom can attract my full attention.

See this kain polite insult o...
Mtcheeeeew..
We slim ladies sef nor send you...
Goodluck finding a smelly,sweaty,fatso that fits your ideal woman profile..
Yeye!!!

So much has been said..
It is these kinda ladies in the op's story that's making it difficult for one to defend/argue for women/Naija girls when the men come on here to generalize and rubbish them.
The man and woman obviously do not share the same ideals so its best to let each other go.
You are a secondary virgin so find someone who understands and relates to your choice to stay celibate till marriage.
Nobody wants to be anyone's mugun and i'm almost sure that's one reason for the man's outburst.
...and i also doubt the lady has so much to offer if not the man won't be this blunt in his letter.
Water should find its level!!

Royal Roy: Hmmm...Badosky....something tells me behind all these ur crazy...you will be one super tu$h & pretty chic! I feel u though!!

for where??
You'll be dissapointed!!

stillwater: I doubt there would be this much uproar if it were a woman, lol. Men have totally ruined their reputation. At face value nothing seems wrong with the picture.

Na so my sister!

maclatunji: Many wrong things. Even if there was no evil intent, it is wrong. The little girl should be taught to keep her privacy and respect that of others- children always want things, it is up to adults to draw the lines in terms of what they get or do not get.

My point was that it used to happen back in the days(adults and children bathing in the stream) and it was perfectly normal because sexuality wasn't as loud as it is now.

Even to a female,this woman is not the least bit attractive..
She sure is lying about what her husband thinks of her and their sex life.
Pity!!
Slim rocks forever!!

- this
story was so perfect for so long. And I
mean that, as I try to take myself out of
the situation and I look at it. You
overcome the disease, you win the Tour
de France seven times. You have a
happy marriage, you have children. I
mean, it's just this mythic perfect story,
and it wasn't true."

Hmmn...
..the things conscience can do to a person...
It'd have been better off confessing to a priest or keep quiet forever IMO..
This confession will change too much and not positively..