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boiz2men:
Exactly. Doctors don't earn much. I am one so I know. At best they are comfortable.

And doctors working in spdc and chevron hospital won't earn up to this u mean?

debbie:
A Business Intelligence and Analytics officer urgently needed in a Financial Institution.

Candidate should have the following:

1. First degree in a numerate discipline (Computer Science, Mathematics, Statistics) preferred.

2. Strong understanding of data analytics including relational databases (Oracle, SQL Server) ad hoc analytics, data visualization and reporting.

Should have between 3-5 years work experience in banking or consulting.

Knowledge of statistical tools will be an added advantage.

Qualified candidates should send CV to yvonneobaze@yahoo.com

Interviews are to commence next week.

Any idea about this financial institution?

mabea:
It depends on your spiritual ground. Personally i wont wed in catholic. Marriage is a spiritual institution and before going into such covenant i must be careful who lays hand,blesses and pours the oil on me.

Thank you

Chommieblaq:
Fine you have already agreed to wed her in the Catholic Church, which is ok.
After the wedding what then?
Will you want your kids to be baptized in Catholic Church?
Do you want a family that's is divided in terms of where they worship like your prospective in-law's family?
These kind of division have effect on kids, especially when they are young.
Is that a condition for her to marry you?
It's okay if you are willingly to change your church, but then it should be your choice and not as a condition. Marriage and love shouldn't have conditions attached to it.

Of course there's no unity of purpose spiritual. The problem with people that think like that is that they see other Christians as being lesser, they see themselves as the perfect Christian and that is already a problem on it own. After baptizing the kids in her church, they will definitely be going there with her (as their mom), will you be fine with that? If you disagree, you guys will start having issues.

Thank you for this. There is wisdom in you. I have made up my mind to tell her no I will not take this. If she's not Willing maybe We should go our separate ways, a broken engagement is better than a broken marriage. Thank you

Chommieblaq:
Mr op please don't listen to anyone telling you to leave your church or give it a thought. If she can break up because of something as mundane asthe church you attend, then she can break up for anything then. If you change your church because you want to get married to her, just be ready to start compromising on many things, because she and her family don't like it.

Haba the Anglican is not born again enough?
Don't they have EFAC?

Why are some Christians like this? That's just the sole reason why there's so much disintegration in Christendom, some people believe there church is better off others, and you have to be a member of their church to be taken serious.


Seriously if I'm in your shoes or I have a brother in your shoe, I will advise him to forget the girl. If you are good for her in all ramifications but she won't agree to marry you because of your denomination, then it's her lost.

God knows I don't likebi overly religious peeps

I love your comment here, so I too need your advice. My own girl who is yet to say yes to me told me this evening that she wouldn't want to leave the Catholic Church after wedding and would love the kids to get baptized there too. I'm protestant and I already agreed to marry her in Catholic cos she says it will be a thing of pride for her and her mum, mind you her mum is Catholic and dad Anglican she went with her mum while other siblings followed dad to Anglican.
What do you think I should do here? How easy will the marriage be when there's no unity of purpose spiritually? Should we go our separate ways? Mind you I want to get married but she hasn't said yes

Was a professional job. Make it look like an OD,

AuntyLaide:
Most people don't know what they want in a relationship they rush in and rush out of it. Understanding one another matters a lot, yet you can't understand one another without being friends first. Love your friend!

What is this thing about being friends first, a lady I intend settling down with despite knowing for over three months says we should be friends first, I mean I'm not saying let's get married next month, I'm saying let's take it up a bit, let's date and see where it goes, she's asking for another three months of friendship, for what Pls?

Adaumunocha:
@Op you have nothing to fear. If the list is too much, you bargain with them.

Thanks, baby says I should go closer to her eldest brother cause he plans an important role in the igbo family

Fxwarrior:
This talk is coming from a wife to be and it doesn't give you cause for concern. Later you will come here and open thread and look for those to dash headache.

Thanks for your view

CaptainG00D:
Hmm i pity her.

Why pls

Afam4eva:
Expect the worse as far as financial commitment is concerned while you hope for the best.

So I heard of owerri people, but baby says if it's too much for me, she will get pregnant and they will be forced to come down. Is that a right approach?

Fam, I'm from the south west, want to visit my in-laws to be anything from now to year end. My lady is from owerri west, would like to get tips here on what to expect as a young man, bride price, traditional rites requirements, finance expectations etc......

tosyne2much:
You mean Deeper Life or Redeem?

Redeem man marrying catholic

tosyne2much:
Thank you my brother.. RCCG don't do such nonsense. This rubbish is very common with deeper life church

They are too isolated for my liking and that's you will barely see them as "well wishers" attending your church, house warming, birthday, etc.

I still don't know why such nonsense thrives in that particular church

But will they allow one marry catholic?

The military in Burma have been killing communities of Muslims and chasing them to other countries, none of those countries you mentioned is yet to say anything. Trump you guys so supported is selling weapons Obama did not sell to Jonathan. If this call for succession was taken by the book and procedures, then you may gain sympathy from the countries you are counting on

Wait, does it mean the meeting of Friday has not come to an end Sunday morning?

No new development still, so sad

Marcelo290:
Yahaya Bello is a disgrace to Youth leadership, I feel Kogi and Benue states were cursed!

And Bayelsa