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heartofcity12:
Only the wall can make such girls have some humility, that’s if a betasimp don’t wife them up along the line. They have an exaggerated self worth about themselves due to the excessive attention, validations and resources they get from thirsty guys, as social media is also keeping them deluded, they’ll keep dealing with betas ruthlessly until they hit the wall. I know one in my area that already lived the life, even myself asked her out during my simping days but she declined after extorting me of my money several times without getting anything in return, she can’t cook or clean to save her life, she used to be very beautiful and thought she deserved the best life and richest man, guess what? None of the rich dudes she followed refuse to commit to her..Time flies, she’s now above 30, added weight, not as beautiful like old times, single and her parents could only beg guys to date her yet still no success, no guy want to stay with her for whatever reason(s).. She’s even trying all her best to get a friend’s attention, this is a guy she wouldn’t respond to or look twice when she was in her prime. The wall is so brutal to the unlucky ones that fail to secure a simp to commit to them before they hit it.

CsRockefeller:
Lol. Nothing is wrong with me. Okay?

Martinez39s:
I edited the first paragraph of that post in case an error sent the wrong. Nevertheless, thanks.

CaveAdullam:
LoL.

Monogamy, polygamy and promiscuity has undergone scrutinized scientific study.

It's not a matter of men's or women's interest. It is the results I'm sharing. It is the result that truly matters on a large scale and the effects of every of our actions. Personally, I don't believe in karma, an innocent man can suffer for the mistake or crime of another - life's reality.

I'm neither against polygamy or male's promiscuity. But if you check the results, monogamy is a better option. We can't have our cake and eat it. Life is a trade-off, you must break eggs if you want to taste omelettes.

We shouldn't only consider our sexual interests per se but the other domino effects, the unintended consequences. Pretending or playing blind will not stop reality. Or, the effects of every actions.

Thanks.

CsRockefeller:
How do you handle a situation where you have been in talking stage with a colleague in different departments. Had some romantic chats, and a botched romantic date, still a virgin and a high flier. Just to suddenly find out today that the same colleague has been promoted to Head of Accounts. In my Dept I'm not even top 3.

Reason I've been foot dragging on a relationship has been because of our status as colleagues and she being in a relatively top position than me prior to now.

Now the die is cast and I don't even know what to do anymore.

Note: 2 young staff are married to themselves here where I work. Heard they met themselves here before getting married.

How do you guys think I should handle this situation?

blinking001:
Naija girls are terrible

CaveAdullam:
Without further ado:

DAY 91, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Learn to separate chaffs from wheats.

Calibrator:
Comprehensive ability on this forum is something else, people read to argue not to understand whatever they are reading.

Hotspotbro:
So that their song was for naught?

ProphetJeroboam:
Been a long time I saw Blac Chyna on the news. The wall must be giving her hell codedly. Sad

Calibrator:
Comprehensive ability is a luxury not accorded to everybody.


Have a nice day!

Calibrator:
Sometimes both offline and online, I like to lean back when in the midst of like-minded or supposedly like-minded people and read the room.


While Redpill is said to be amoral, there are still some binding tenets which mustn't be violated else the supposed violator can't lay claim to be a practising Redpiller, you can have all the knowledge in the world but it is useless if you don't have the mettle to apply it practically.


Some of us here either don't know what we are here for or know but don't care about following the guidelines of the Redpill.

For example, about the 12k data discussed on Sunday: How can you be a supposed patriarch and you want a female to pay for your date and later you will want her to revert to her traditional role of submissiveness? Anyone who knows how the female psyche works knows they are not built to respect such men. You either take charge all the time or you are never in charge at all. You have to play your traditional role to bring out her feminine traditional side unless of course, you want two captains in your relationSHIP.


And for those who take the Redpill only to turn to a gigolo, sugar boy or a walking didlo for the female folks, I want you to show me an example of an instance where a woman who has something worthwhile going on in her life has ever respected a guy for his sexual prowess alone, they might be attracted to you initially but after seeing that is all there is to you, zero ambitions, zero prospects, the level of disrespect you are going to have to be dealing with will make you contemplate suicide if you don't quit the union.


And lastly, the less said about our militancy unit, the better

Kellzzyy:
Loads of bluepilled bullshit.
We don't need this here.

CaveAdullam:
DAY 88, REDPILL 2022

Genuine desire hides no secret; she will cross boundaries for you.

Authority: Stay chosen.

Junnior:
She has alopecia. Chris shouldn't have made that joke of her bald head.
Regardless, Will should have kept his cool instead of ruining the show.
The truth is any man in that position would feel annoyed. You can't just laugh off an offensive insult at your woman when she's with you. If you do that, she won't feel safe when with you. This is understandable. (I am saying this without being judgemental of Jada).
However, Will's actions stemmed from a place of emotional weakness, not strength.
Going all the way to slap Chris on stage and shouting "keep my wifes name out your fvcking mouth" was an emotional outburst that isn't commendable of a man.
His wife sat there calm, while he was getting all worked up and emotional. Not up to an hour later when he won an award and was giving a speech, he started crying and trying to justify his actions. He even said, "the things you do for love", while teary eyed, obviously referring to the slap. ...
I feel sorry for him though.
He needs thorough therapy.

Martinez39s:
We are not talking about fùcks here (I presume the guy was looking for something serious). If it were about fùcks then it's even worse, because the guy didn't run his game well and he made so many mistakes. Of course, when it comes to fùcks, high standard before fùcking is for simps and betas.

angelfallz:
The bolded,
Well you are being polite with that line. If it were me, I would use the line; I'm the one taking you out on a date and I would choose were it would be.
Anyway, I can't date such type of lady. I prefer simple ladies. My idea of a first date is not to go to any restaurant to eat. Neither is going to a cinema.

CsRockefeller:
Went on a Date with this Doctor after so much chats on Twitter. Hot looking too I must confess.

The Problem
She had told me before hand she wants to have the date @ Ocean Basket, so I obliged. On getting there, I found out that the Restaurant isn't the conventional Rice and Chicken restaurant. The prices on the menu are so not smiling.

I only had 12k for both of us. We managed to squeeze through the meal, but I couldn't do so for the drinks. Had to start explaining myself to her. She was like I had the whole week to prepare for the date, but it's not an issue.

We began eating and sincerely, both of us weren't feeling it. The conversation was mainly one sided from my end. She apologized for making a fuss about it earlier.

The date came to an end and I saw her off to a Bolt. Only to get home and find out that she has blocked me.

Sincerely I feel very bad. Really looked forward for a great friendship, and that 12k was very dear to me.

DarkCaesar:
Just surprised bro cos this is someone that drains him of the little he has now she’s kind of footing some little bills and all…….kinda act all nice, turn to prayer warrior all of a sudden and my guy now tells me she’s a changed person

DarkCaesar:
My friend gf left him and followed another dude who broke her heart, now she’s back with my guy and they doing Romeo and Juliet again, is it that she has learnt her lessons or she’s yet to find a better option……..my guy is currently pussywhipped and has fallen head over heels In love again, same girl that made him cried like a baby every night two years ago when she left him. I just don’t understand the girl’s mindset or something
Maybe she’s wiser now or just back cos she’s got no better options

PrimadonnaO:
1. They don't have money to marry.

2. Most women have raised their standards, so some men are not finding it easy getting the kind of women they want.

3. Too many women have taken the "highway" so wife material aren't in abundance anymore


4. Some people have become "woke" and uninterested in marriage since they can simply cohabit, or have baby mamas.

5. Finally, some men are genuinely scared. With all the bad marriage stories louder than the good ones.

SandraIkuboR:
They are probably scared of the expenses that comes with it

Smartb0y:
Deep

CaveAdullam:
Even the groom in Matthew's parable of the 5 wise virgins + 5 foolish virgins choose the five wise virgins with EXTRA OIL. And dumped the other 5 virgins. Virgins o, virgins for that matter, he dumped them because no OIL.

"Awon" feminists + repentant h0es + wh0res that are neither virgins and even owing Saudi
Arabia OIL will not let us hear word and drink water in peace.

Fvcking a dry woman is one hell of an experience.

Buhahahawawaahahahaha.

Smartb0y and Jeshal, "una see wetin I dey see so".

Winnerly:

sajmark:
Do you think she holds you in high regards also?
Ans: NO

Do you really think that SHE will ever be in a women's thread, snitching on and calling other women names for/ because of you?
Ans: NO

I edited his name to avoid further derailing of the thread, but What he did shatters the bro code into a lot of pieces.
What he did is actually beyond SIMPing.

JESHAL:
Never invest in a woman. If you are going to spend on her, she must give you something that's worth more or the same as the money you are going to give her and I am not talking about sex.

ubunja:
And just like that, the game changes.....

The power of women over reproduction slowly dwindles. No more trapping the western man through pregnancy.

Let's watch and see how the drama unfolds.