ProphetJeroboam: Then somebody mentioned Genghis Khan to argue his point and also the fact that he had hundreds of wives like that’s just giving me more points or did he conquer those lands to fvck the women’s husband instead. .
Fvck the husbands hahaha Guy your sarcasm knows no bound , I'm enjoying it ...... continue
Benee1000: Don't be too overt or direct with women if sex is your aim of associating with them. You can't just tell a lady that you want to have sex with her and she will just accept. Even when they show you the brightest greenlight you can think of, many will reject a direct approach. It's called anti slut defense. They don't want to be seen as cheap, Even when they are. Next time be more convert but confidently convey your intentions with 1) eye contact: there's a way you'd look into a lady's eyes and she'd know you desire her. Say any nonsense you want, but confidently convey that desire through intense eye contact, and she will understand. They read eyes, don't know how they do it,but they do. Sensing that desire through your eyes turns them on, even the ones not initially into you. When you sence the shyness and incoherence in her speech, the metal is hot. Get a private place to strike.
2) relate everything you discuss with her to sex . make any discussion sexual e.g. ask her how she will feel if....., If she has experienced.... if she would like to experience.... etc. Emphasize words like long, hard, pound, deep, wet, in any discussion. since you work in a pharmacy, innocently discuss things relating to pregnancy prevention techniques like pull out method, if they enjoy condoms or raw, sex styles best for slim or chubby ladies etc. Just covertly create sexual impressions in her head through witty jokes. Make her know that she can be comfortably sexual with you and you nothing wrong in it. If she's smiling, laughing, and starts to communicate with sexual meanings to whatever thing you guys are discussing, the metal is already hot, just look for a private place to strike. And please don't disappoint, strike well and hard.
3) touch her sexually in a non sexual manner to stimulate her sexually: this is quite advanced but if done right with confidence, it's always a hit. For example, while suddenly holding up her face with one hand, look into her eyes and pretend like you're removing something from her hair with your other hand. even if nothing is in her hair, just do it, and touch behind her ear down to her neck while adjusting her hair. If she responds like she's been shocked with mild electrical current or she bends her head towards the hand in contact with her neck, her clit just received a signal. If you repeat this technique (removing something that may or may not be there and touching her in the process) or you continuously tickle her in these places like between the inner thighs close to her knees, inner arms, and her waist and she doesn't overtly object, be ready to finish the job
Another way you could touch a woman sexually in a non sexual way is to hold her hands while on stroll and casually but tactically try to brush your elbow against her boobs. Don't act shocked or apologize when you do this except she seriously complains. If she doesn't complain, repeat it as many times as you can, and in no time, she'd be the one to hold your arm against her boobs. When she does this, it means the metal is already hot bro, just get a place to do the needful and don't disappoint your ancestors
ubunja: you can call it BS but it's really about sex. We all know "sex sells" and the best way to describe anything that's appealing is say "it's sexy" - be it a car or a shoe or a suit. Sex is really central to human existence. But I'm not on this point,, my point is Even the guy who says he's doing it purely for wealth will still use that wealth to buy the latest car he knows the babes like, he'll still wear the trending fashions that catch the females eye, he'll still choose to drink at the swankiest places he knows the hottest women go to, he'll still get that haircut ladies are talking about, he'll still stay at that suburb women are highly rating, and on social media he'll display his achievements and value more the praise of women than the praise of men, and that money he has so painfully accumulated he'll happily spend on women than men, so at the end of the day who are we fooling? Was the whole effort for men or women? Because even the men whose respect a man is supposedly chasing, the same men he'll never give a ride in his car, only women.
Even with the MGTOW movement, men are "walking away" not just from women, but from Society in general. Men who have been betrayed by women ironically choose to give up altogether on society not just women. What does that tell you? What is it really about? Money or women?
If a war breaks out today in your country let me tell you the bravest fighters will be married men with families,, and do you know who won't give a fucc and will go smoke cigars and watch everything burn? INCELS. Those guys who can't even get one woman won't even bother fighting for anything.
As for your statement: Infact, sex has been proved times again to limit how far a purpose driven individual can go and achieve in his lifetime.
You can't talk down on sex and still subscribe to Alpha Fuccs Beta Bucks because Alpha is about sex. And talking about avoiding sex so as to achieve is really taking yourself out of the game altogether. You can't be an Alpha to women if you're not being sexual with women. Because an Alpha in the Alpha Fuccs sense is a SEXUAL ALPHA - no matter how much you guys don't want to hear it.
Let's go back a little... The sex instinct is primitive but it's the source of everything. that same primal instinct you're throwing shade at, is why YOU are here. You are a product of it. And get this, EVERYTHING YOU SEE AROUND YOU is also the product of the sex instinct. THAT IS WHY SOME OF THE GREATEST INVENTORS HAVE BEEN VIRGINS. But not because sex would have slowed them down,, but because of something called Sexual Transmutation. This is an important topic in the No Fap Community. It's basically being able to channel your sex urges to creative use. To simplify,, if you're very h0rńy instead of looking for sex, work on your novel, painting etc and you'll find your creativity has increased. That's sexual transmutation. It's why men achieve more when they go through a period of 100% totally ignoring women and focusing on their grind - all that pent up desire becomes the fuel that brings success.. But it's not the total abstinence from sex that brings success as you are implying,, but the REDIRECTING OF THE SEX URGE TO CREATIVE USE.
What makes an Alpha? Definitely not the respect of men. The respect of men DOES NOT make anyone Alpha in the Alpha Fuccs sense. And Alpha Fuccs is not about getting money and business success, it's getting women. Now listen,,, WOMEN ARE THE ONES WHO DECIDE WHICH MAN IS ALPHA. I don't remember us talking about this before. So I'll point everyone to this video by Alan Roger Currie on the subject. This is an extension of Chosen. It is women who determine which category any man falls under, beta or alpha. Watch the video: ARC's definition of "Alpha Male" & "Beta Male".....
posty56: you are doing so many wrong things, stop masturbating, don't even think of patronising ashawo that one na the worst,it seems you are lacking self control, that's what you need right now, get your priorities straight, sex is something you are supposed to do once in while or month, no they waste your life force.
Pukkalolo: If you're in a company of a girl and she's acting like good Angelic girl that doesn't like sex, then that basically means you exhibiting nice guy or simp qualifies around her...
emmaodet: Waooooooooooo I like this example you used. Using business/investment to explain your point. You are really right bro. Passive income is better than active income anytime, anyday.
on another note Passive income = redpill...the truth that shall set you free (financially)
Active income = bluepill... what society recommends .Work and work to make another man's dream a reality.
Guys,if you still find yourself in the bluepilled state , strive hard to break from it. If you think your active income is sufficient for one life time,trust me there are layers to this shit. You haven't reached your limit at all.
You can see the redpill does have dimensions not just sexually. Cheers
Winnerly: Hot report from the field. Spanking new!!
Met a chick on Sunday afternoon at shoprite, she was leaving and so i approached her. As is typical with them, she gave me the usual up and down stare which they somehow think we never get to observe. Once you stare me up and down, i don’t care who you are, i immediately rate you low in my books and even strike you out in my head in extreme cases.
Long story short, she ended up giving me her number. I called later in the night and she didn’t pick but replied with an sms saying “text me”. I found it to be foul, i mean who the Bleep are you lol. I tried again the next say, same shit. She earned herself a delete immediately.
As a fresh guy with over 90% success rate in approaching but less than 30% conversion to sex rate, i met another one in my estate. Again, the usual stare which i somehow always seem to pass in flying colours but always leaves a bitter taste in my mouth without fail. I mean, I’d like to think I’m more than my accessories?
Long story short, collected her number and she ended in my crib on saturday afternoon. We saw movies, played, pillow fights and all with plenty ass spanking etc.
Then something hit me, this is same ish i did with Nkechi and Susan before her and etc. It was as though i was moving back in time all over again. I’ve seen this movie alot of times. It’s gonna end in sex i know, i can already tell. Then i became sad after she left.
How could I of all people fall for the trap of a routine life. I need to do and be better.
Back to my hiatus from cold approach.
When we say cold approaching affects your frame,simps were rioting.
pansophist: Dieting is more about discipline, you must defeat your taste, that's a big task because most of us unknowingly are addicted to sugar, which is as addictive as cocaine. Also, sugar is not necessarily the white powder you pour inside the tea, but it is in white bread, beer, grains, legumes, tubers, practically most foods. This is why people just get fat even if according to them, they are eating healthy. If you see young folks in their 20's, they are generally slimmer but get rounder, doughy, and heavy as they grow older, and it's because sugar accumulates, losing the sweet youthful looks every one of us has.
For me, I eat more animal products, than grains, except vegetables. There is no sugar in animals products, but virtually everything that grows from the ground (except vegetables) contains sugar somehow. So instead of a plate of rice with two-piece of meat, it should be a plate of meat with few amount of rice. This is how I keep fit without trying, and it has become automatic that I do not think about it anymore. Of course, do not go monk mode, you can enjoy beer and other stuff, or else your body will protest and you just lose track and go binging on unhealthy stuff, so bribe your body once a while, but maximumly not more than 20% of your food intake.
Then such eating habits will complement your training regime. Don't count calories, just work in accordance with your body. Eat when hungry, eat healthily, eat more proteins and fats (animals products usually contain fats or nuts), sleep well, and drink a lot of water. Keep it simple, it's a game of consistency, and more of how long can you hold, or make it a lifestyle. If you stay on it long enough, it should become a lifestyle and you will have almost superhuman strength.
Bro, this practice is for mesomorphs and endomorphs. Don't leave out ectomorphs, someone might find it insightful.
Raalsalghul: Anybody that wants to talk about women is free to, but stop shutting people that wants to discuss tangential concepts like fitness, skill acquisition, investment ideas, careers, travel etc.
I like you bro but you're being stubborn. Here is for what it is , discussing about sexuality, relationship and all that.
If you're so keen on discussing about other topics, create a thread and tag it with redpillers.
We will oblige you , I for one will be interested.
Mychive: I don't want to completely lose myself and start simping for her, that's why I stopped chatting her after trying to find out what went wrong with her and what brought the sudden change and she gave some reasons - excuses.
Same thing stopped me from letting us meet when I travelled to where she schools and she was aware and even made plans for how she'd come to see me. I dodged it somehow because I wonder why my ex would still want to see me. To discuss what and what? And I didn't want to appear desperate , so I dodged. I've been entering the same city over and over without bothering her about my presence and she knows I come around.
I'm just feeling like giving her a chance next week because I'd still be here next week - at least to know why she was willing to meet up the other past weeks I came around and I didn't late let the meet up happen till I left.
I've got other babes though, only that she was my favourite amongst them all all through and she knows this fact.
You're suffering from oneitis my brother. Go for absolution. Fullstop!!!!
hopefulLandlord: Black's turn will never come. the only way it can possibly come is if some disease comes and only affects and kills all other races except blacks
It'll come, it might not be grand but the difference would be clear af
CaveAdullam: At least, the modern day man is more realistic in regards to his problem, he still tries to strive above all odds. And as for the modern day woman, she wants to live freely as a bird and also will want a man in the long run who will not question her exuberances, past live, lack of good character, arrogance and series of stupid mistakes: very unrealistic!
ubunja: can a man be 100% masculine, and a woman 100% feminine? I don't think that's possible. The genders will always exist on a spectrum of masculine/feminine balance,, with alphas more masculine than feminine and stay-at-home women more feminine than masculine. But both genders will always carry both energies,, just in different concentrations and ratios. I'm saying this because there are jobs that don't kill a lot of women's femininity, jobs like Nursing. Which happen to nurture women's nurturing nature. And women's nurturing nature is part of their femininity.
I get your point now. Even some social work might seem condusive for a woman. I was addressing the matter from a general perspective.
Lordcassy: I am highly disappointed some men still regard other men that do not want their wife to work as Insecure...Jesus talk about a low value guy...
Ubanja do not mind them.. If you do not want your wife not to work, that is perfectly okay, as far as you are a high value guy and you give her kids to keep her busy...Having kids is important here...you can't have just one child and expect her not to get bored
If you want your wife to work, then you have to posses a very strong frame, she has to see you as the prize and you have to be a high value man...because if you just a normal guy and your wife is constantly working with high value guys, guess what she is going to bring home in low quantity...nagging and disrespect and you can not demand 100% feminity from her and fully assert your will...
If she must work like I tell my friend...let her work for you...open a business for yourself and let go work there for commission...
If you want to open a boutique for your girlfriend like an idiot...do not...open a boutique for yourself and let her work there, let the staff respect her...if she mess up...collect your resources back...
This is the REDPILL
You made good points bro but not all situation will fall under the umbrella you put it.
If your wife got a high paying job she's into, would she jump ship and come work under you?
ubunja: so what's the way forward,, how do we reconcile femininity with working women.
In cases like these, there are no absolute. This is where individual effort comes into play you know, fighting against your very nature to be a better person even though people don't really change. Suppressing one's nature is easier said than done.
For us guys,we live fighting our polygamous nature. For women, it's their hypergamy.
There always has to be a balance and this is it, we can't eat our cake and still have it.
Working class female = masculine Stay at home female = feminine
It is what it is ,we all just gotta choose our poison wisely and live with it
Bro, that's one way to game a woman. She won't be able to find peace of mind, the fact that you're able to move on as fast as flash and even get to date someone close to her will leave a dent in her psyche .
I tried something like this,told her I liked one of her friends,she should recommend one for me. her response "They're not into black guys,they only do Asians".