₦airaland Forum

wizzzmike:
dude what's ur beef....you can take ur best empty universities...we'll full up our universities with Nigerians and make billions from you guys lol.

Out of everyone making positive comments, you had to pick that guy. Means you are like him.

Benjaminbassey1:
you never believe that girls can be funny abi, wait until in gets to u, it will come a time girls will use rape to extort money from men, they will be like'' give me money or else I will accuse u of rape. they made law without considering the oda gender..

Will you be silent there? The law on rape establishes a very high threshold. I bet you cannot answer if I ask you what the elements of rape are which must be proved before a court.

Now a young lady stabbed her attacker and the prosecutor plus the judge agree that she acted in self defense, and you in your own wisdom, sit in your house and log on the internet to say all sorts.

I pity you. You need sense desperately.

sweetnonsense:
How can we sure he actually intended to rape her... Or this is just a ploy to go Scot free of murder... Well, only God knows all

What could make a 15 year old to murder her father's 51 year old friend?

You disgust me.

Minjim:
I didn't think what I stated needed more clarity but since you can't comprehend it
Here is it...
Don't leave in the midst of issues, people will say, that's why you left.

Listen Mr. Man:

Your narration of why you stayed at your school is justifiable on the basis of providing leadership in the absence of established hierarchy.

Saying that people should not leave because people will say this or that has no place in the corporate world. So what if people say that you left because of the issues?

Bottom line remains there is no parallel between your situation and hers.

Minjim:
This resignation is bad timing regardless of the reason she gave

I remember when a worker was electrocuted at a school that I was the head teacher. Before that time, I had planned to resign but I had to jettisoned it because:
The owner of the school, out of fear stopped coming.
Most teachers were afraid too that the man's family might storm the school to cause trouble.
The school needed leadership then. I had to see through that session because of that

There is no similarity between your situation and that of the bank.

Subduer:
Jennifer Blanke, Chief Economist of the World Economic Forum ... born into a POLISH-JEWISH family
1.These Jews owned the Trans- Atlantic slave trade from behind the scenes.
2.Judah Benjamin & his allies engineered & sponsored the American civil war.
3.Wall Street Jews created Communism in Russia, & engineered the 1st World War to dethrone the Czar of Russia, & the Kaizer Wilhelm of Germany.
4. Many influential Jews in the Wall Street ARE furiously anti-Trump.
5. Same Jews control Franco-phone Africans from France, & Nigeria through England.
6. And now wants to include Nigeria in their Eco currency to be printed & controlled from France's Ministry of Finance.
7. That means direct enslavement of Africans, right in Africa, in this 21st century.

Nonsense

This president of a man does not know the meaning of primordial.

Lol.

ifytrik:
Just 2years in prison for raping an 8years old girl, are we really punishing or encouraging rapist in this country? Why not pull out his dick, insert enought pepper in it mouth, use toothpick filled with peper to finger the mouth of his dick then sentence him to 30years inpreasment

This is a travesty of justice. Two years for the rape of a minor?? That judge needs to be investigated/fired and stripped of benefits.

People just love to do and overdo in this country. Get arrested under what law?

myboy2111:
Lie...
Collin Powell

Read again and see if any of the positions you highlighted are the same as the one he has been confirmed for.

cruxgemmata:
What u see at first may not be same as mine

The subject of that headline is RAPE.

That caught my attention, and I admit not reading all thru coz of rape cases getting attention nowadays.

So even after admitting my mistake, u still could come up with that comment.

Clap 4ursef, u r a champion.

Yes because it was equally annoying that you obviously thought speaking was more important than listening. As result of yours and others comments like yours, we have the first page filled with irrelevant comments that detract from the discussion. I think this goes beyond admitting you made a mistake to asking yourself why you really did not sit down and read the write up. Why is talking more important than listening to understand?

cruxgemmata:
When i say we should shoot them in the head when caught.

One idiot was telling me killing is a sin and instead we should castrate them.

When a castrated person bcomes frustrated. This is what happens, they use all manner of equipment to abuse girls because they are angry dey couldn't feel d urge on the dick anymore.

When a castrated person bcoms frustrated on sex matter. Dey become serial killers by using sticks to rape females. Some wil go as far as kidnapping a male and female and force dem to have sex in his presence for amusement

Any guilty party found, DO THIS

Modified
Didnt read to the point of knowin its a female raping another female. Now i know after some1 pointed that out.
I don tire dey read all these cases, na why.
I just want any guilty party shot in the head irrespective of gender

So even the headline could not clue you in that housemaids must be female? You need sense.

Onyi22:
This is the type of guy am praying for, not those ones that soak garri in the morning, afternoon n night then come online to type rubbish wit their free MB from M T N...
Dating a broke ass guy all in the name of Love is scam,
ladies pls don't settled for a frustrated broke ass guy all in the name of ''things will get better.. ''
Dump his ugly ass immediately u find someone more richer, wealthier, famous than him...
We have many depressed n frustrated ones on this forum

See your mattress and you are here talking about broke... my dear even if you somehow manage to meet a man of Benzema's caliber you know he won't even notice you.

Let's start from our local ballers sef, has any approached you? Okay what of yahoo boys?

Can you see the picture?

Na broke boy you need o

nencounter10:
Sorry not all offences are bailable.

I am not a lawyer but I believe murder is one of them

Don't give legal advice if you're not a lawyer. You do not even know who you are attempting to correct.

What is obtainable in Nigeria is not what is obtainable in every other country because every country's criminal justice administration system is based on their own peculiar criminal law. Now, obviously, in the US bail is available for murder.

Even in most countries where murder and other capital offenses are treated differently, it is not generally that bail is not available, but rather, bail is not available as of right, and is instead subordinated to the discretion of the judge.

WoundedLamb:
I don't pay attention to conspiracies.

Thanks for your input though.

Lol. There is a difference between fact and "conspiracy" but do feel free to do you.

WoundedLamb:
True. I wish our boys would emulate the likes of Philip Emeagwali too and stop running around Nairaland looking for girl related threads.

Nice one.

Most of them are already emulating him. You may not realize that Phil is a fraud.

FlordFlorez:
I said it. Their legal system supports and believes policemen. I hope this wouldn't anger the protesters to do more damages.

Bail is a right.

Golan007:
Even worse for the forum.

The minute you loss your credibility is the moment you lose members.

Nope. Nairaland will continue to grow because people generally come here for the sense of community not news.

cynosuree:
Good morning. This issue has been bothering me for a long time, and I feel like it's too sensitive to ask for second opinions from people I know so I figured I'd maybe ask some strangers on the internet.

I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now and he's everything I ever wanted in a man. Physically, he's gorgeous, and he also loves me alot. He's kind, he's patient, communicates effectively and all. You know, all the good stuff.

But here's the problem, he cannot hold a conversation beyond "what are you doing" , "what did you eat" (and all that boring stuff) to save his life. I'm not even talking about intellectual conversations like quantum theory or anything, normal conversations about stuff that's happening around the world or around us. Anytime we try to, it usually fails spectacularly. He either ends up missing the ENTIRE point and saying something totally unrelated, or he just waits for me to say what I think so he can go "Yeeaaaa that's true" , leaving me really pissed.


He has absolutely NOTHING intelligent to contribute to any serious conversation, and this hurts me alot because it is a HUGE turn off and I'm slowly losing interest in him. It's a very tricky situation because he does/did well academically, he graduated with very good grades but that's about it...nothing more. I didn't notice it at first - before we started dating, or I would never have dated him because it is a deal breaker for me.

I have considered telling him but I don't exactly know how to approach the conversation without being rude/insensitive, I know telling him would really hurt him and I don't want that. I've also thought about learning how to live with it, because no one is perfect right? Maybe I'm asking for too much?

The latter option is what I've been doing and it's gradually killing me. I fear that I'll fall out of love completely with him and end up hating myself for ruining a good thing, because he's a really good guy .

I'd like to know what you think

Buy books for him. If he improves then fine, if not, leave. Love is not a do or die affair at least not before marriage.

Lawnray:
I wouldn't believe it if i someone told me. Its a deadly mistake. if there is a way, u should sue them for some millions

But you believe it because someone told you online?

OritaIbadan:
Alright just thinking as a father is it the best

As a father who will firing her help her life?

Juliusmalema:
Noted.

But Benin is a Yoruba Kingdom.

Why bringing them to Asaba comparison.

Why not compare it with Osun, Ogun, Ekiti, ondo or any other Yoruba states.

Are you okay? Benin is Benin.... E dey as e be, no affiliation.

miketayo:
Aiye aiye isn't that wat pirates say on ship

aye aye (pronounced "I" ) is different from aiye aiye (ahyay).

But let's assume that yes, that is what pirates say.

Then what?

Cherez:
I understand your stupidity and I strongly believe you're under 24 or so
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/amp/world-africa-52488922
Woke Soyinka started the deadliest cult "Aye fraternity" aka . But foetus like you wouldn't know what these organisations back then stood for; fighting for students' rights and justice

Soyinka did not start aye. He started the Pyrates which remains a registered association till this day.

Jolson:
These guys turned our youths to what they have become today....killing and maiming themselves.

They really didn't

NaijaRoyalty:
https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2020/06/05/un-to-announce-new-state-carved-out-of-nigeria-cameroon-july-10/

Young fellow the link you are posting here is a 404. Meaning they have rushed to delete the content.

Jolson:
That report didn't come from a blog. It came from a reputable media outfit...daily independent

It of course came from a blog and cannot be found on a single major international outlet.

Those of us who know how international law works said it since.

Never happened!

edoairways:
That is not true. By the time you add visa fee, hostel accommodation, international passport, air ticket and tuition fees, you would have spent more

It was a slight exaggeration but I maintain this is enough to get you out of Nigeria especially if your plan is to go out and work while you study.

Definitely you can study in China for less even without the side hustle.

Money that can comfortably educate one in a European country or China.

The first instance was in boarding school. There was a rule that time that you couldn't enter the dining hall without your own plate. In those days we would take like two ceramic plates from home but within a week or two our plates would either be stolen, broken, or otherwise unavailable.

Well, my friends taught me how to scavenge. Once dining time is over, you rush into the hall and try to find leftover food. If you're fast enough you may find barely touched food, otherwise you have to settle for partially eaten food. An I'm talking swallow not just rice.

The things I ate were things my mother would never ever have imagined or tolerated. Things that I never would have eaten before boarding school.

Before then I was an exceptionally slow eater, and could take hours to eat but boarding school made me an absolutely rapid eater.

Then when I first started working I trained myself to be able to enjoy bread and water. It paid off later when i was in between jobs.

LesbianBoy:
See in this life just hustle, when you are successful everyone will want to associate with you even if you dey misbehave!

If ighalo had not signed for Man United would they have called him back

Even at the time of his leaving they were already looking for ways to keep him.