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Saliman22:
Good morning my wonderful family, I had an issue with my girl 2015 which I open a thread here in romance section, we settled early this year,.

Lemme go straight to the point, I work with micro finance bank which I don't normally have time, my girl is on her IT at ministry of health in my state, what happened yesterday shocked me, my church is having a youth conference currently going on now in Anambra state, for the past two weeks now I'm in the village, she don't normally go to her IT place telling me that there are on malaria program which she don't considered it useful according to her.

What happen yesterday I'm still in shocked right now that is like I'm dreaming which I'm not.
It was past 11pm at night that my girl woke up and shout dear dear and I asked her what happen, then she narrated how she had a dream and I was killed in the dream, I was like what is going on because someone warned me about this month that I should be careful, so I went outside immediately with my Bible and olive oil for prayers. I was in the middle of the compound praying and I asked her to wait for me and she said she cannot wait, that she feared standing alone at night, my compound has a very big gate o, now she went inside my last born room and I was still praying.

Some spirit entered me and I stopped half way and to my surprise ever when I stop she couldn't come out and I waited small and it wasn't up to 2mins she came outside and asked me to wait for her and I didn't wait, she followed me, when I came to the house, I didn't talk to her for some minute and she asked me what the problem is and I explained to her that she should stop that thing that is going on with my last born. She said she's surprised that I could think about this kind of a thing and she's not stupid to have make love with my brother, I told her immediately that I want to make love to her and she said until we finished our discussion and I objected and go straight there and put my hand, behold she was extra wet, so at this point I went inside my last born room and called him to come and the boy followed me.

I now asked him to knell down and he did, at this point I brought out a cable and asked him to tell me why she make love to my woman, at this point my girl knell down and started crying, both of them confess that I did it twice. I now asked my girl the reason she did this even when she knew I was praying, she didn't give me a concrete answer.

So this things has been going on under my roof and I have spent my hard earned money for my brother and her.

Pls I need your advice. Pls what can I do, this morning I have called her aunty to inform her, and she said I should meet her on Saturday.

Pls help me brother and sisters.
I need help Pls.

So your girlfriend was asleep in your bed, she had a bad dream, you then went outside for prayer with your bible and anointing oil, then afterwards you demanded to make love to your girlfriend.

So you got up from sin and went to pray, then returned back straight into sin.

Are you not mad already?

you need 12 clues to tell?

Evaberry:
After enjoying her buttocks and hips

sucking everywhere dry, it's that time your eyes opened abi..

we keep telling men to look beyond facials

we keep telling them beauty fades

we keep telling them to hook that babe who isn't a bambi

but no they won't hear, they will rather go for the one that will give them different positions on the bed, the 1 with the pretty face and the hourglass figure, the one who cares more about her skin than goals later they will come around and start complaining.

sense fall on all useless men out there

If you think about it, that is what we majorly need from women.

Your goals will not put food on the table, i will still do that. Women scarcely have good advice to give a man since usually they tend to marry up, so the man is usually wiser and more knowledgeable. So your good character and serious mindedness may make you a great friend but friendship can be obtained easily whereas sex is restricted to marriage, provided one is a faithful man.

Good character is nice but we only live once and we deserve to have great sex with a beautiful woman. Even if her beauty fades, the memories won't!

Benekruku:
Bro! Please with due respect, Google will guide u.

Just as I expected. Silly homosexual dont quote me when you have nothing to say!

Benekruku:
OMG!

Do you know since when Nigerians have been doing music with international acts?

You mentioned Oliver Twist, does that song make him a Legend? That's a seasonal song. It's dead as of date.

A song broke the internet doesn't mean the artiste is a Legend.

Like u mixing being a star and a Legend.

Before Dbanj which true Nigerian artist has done a collabo with a major international act?

Benekruku:
Le what?

Remind me of one song that makes him one?


You don't know what it takes to be a legend in music!

You don't have to like Dbanj but that guy is in fact a legend.

He was the one who really opened the door to Nigerian artist collaborating with major international artists and I would say he I the first truly Nigerian artist whose music gained mainstream acceptance globally.

You may not like him, and I don't particularly like him but Oliver twist broke the internet. He is a legend.

Good girls are everywhere unless you want to pretend to be blind.

Look at your church choir very well...there are good girls there. God for midweek bible study, you will find a lot of good girls there.

God girls are everywhere. Maybe you just dont find them attractive coz they may not go out of their way to braid, put on make up, etc.

IamAirforce1:
Most good girls find good guys boring and won't take them serious .

They often cheat on the good guys with a bad guy they find interesting.

I get many girls wey dey relate with me berra.

A good girl that cheats on her bf...
What makes her good??

DJHANDSOME:
By the way, how much is uniuyo school fees for law students ? I wanna know .




if i confront her, she go deny with seriousNess and vex oooo . I don't know how i can get some evidence against her. I dey vex

Wish i could break a rock on your head! Your leech of a girlfriend is bleeding your granny dry and instead of you to dump her asap, you are looking for evidence to confront her... so that what will happen? She'll cry, confess, say she needed the money, and you continue your little relationship?

Oooh... really, really wish i could crack a rock on your skull!

Ronaldo too has got to get smart... He should challenge Usain Bolt to a novelty race

Or

The 20 reputedly fastest footballers on the planet can come together and race each other in a tournament style

time to think outside the box

EniolaEwa:
Good morning....I just got out of school so I applied for a job pending when I will go for service, I applied somewhere and they told me I can only be given a contract position, I need to know what a contract staff mean and the advantage and the disadvantage....I'm waiting thanks

Simply means you will not be employed on a permanent basis, and you will probably be offered something like a 6 month renewable contract.

Usually, contract workers are not very well remunerated, and can be fired relatively easily. They are also not entitled to any of the regular benefits of full-time workers.i.e, if there is free lunch, 13th month, bonuses and stuff, you likely won't be a beneficiary.

jidemoh:
I am so dissapointed in the moderator, what Nigerians needed to know is about the rot in the Police and not the travail of one man. It's common knowledge that policemen deployed to banks collect weekly allowances.

Part of the problem is that most civilians do not know what is legal and illegal. It is perfectly legal for a policeman seconded to a bank to collect an allowance from them, while the bank should also pay for their services.

Mcowubaba:
Ogbeni, firstly I never said police don't deserve extra rewards or commendation.

We all deserve extra rewards in our works of life.
Even the woman that fries Akara in your Junction deserves extra rewards

I don't really know about you, but my work is very delicate and hazardous, any little mistake will spell doom for me and the Public.

I'm not also a normal citizen, I don't relax at home or work in a very friendly environment.
I work in an environment where people die daily/weekly, I see tears, depression and frustration on a regular basis, but I'm not whining about it, that's the life I choose.

Policemen choose to also put their lifes on the line, the weren't FORCED, that's the Job description.

Anytime, the are not comfortable with this or the feel the are not getting enough REWARDS, they can either request for more through engagements with the Government (which the did before) or better still they can resign and go find work in more lucrative environments like Shell, Chevron etc

Emotional blackmail don't work on me, nobody work easy.
Dr Stella Ameyo Adadavoh died in the course of protecting Citizens of Nigeria from Ebola.

I work in a very similar situation, I put my life in the line too..
I must not carry Ak-47 to do that

I even work more than most Nigerian Policemen, I studied more, I trained more, Infact, I deserve more than them.... And I earn more than most of them legally

That is the point. You may say your work is hazardous, and yes i would agree with you but the point is generally doctors are well remunerated for their services. My dad is one, and he employs others so i can speak with some authority here.

The level of risk is also vastly different. Medical risks can and should be mitigated by following basic precautions. In police work, once you have that uniform on, you become an automatic target for instant death.

holocron:
Hey! I dont know if u are a police officer, but...No one is against paying the police for special services etc, but it should be official, recorded, and into the police accounts as part of the internally generated revenue for better police funding instead of being corruptly embezzled by the police hierarchy. Thats all. The way it is handled now the rank and file is the worst hit and their bosses gobbling up the loot. Lets root out corruption. Its a cancer. Even the informal tolls police collect at road blocks can be regularized and documented. The funds would be used for the development of the police.

I'm nothing close to being a police officer but I admire the profession. It deserves respect and my point was not to defend the obvious corruption but just to say that yes they deserve decent remuneration.

Mcowubaba:
No,
We all have Jobs, the weren't forced or coerced to Join the Nigerian Police Force.
The are paid monthly salary and allowances depending on their respective ranks by the Federal government.

The 7k we paid them was just extra money for staying around us, we paid their boss 200k!!

7k a week for 4 policeman, that's 7*4=28K
28K * 4 weeks= 112k.
112k + 200k= 312,000
Thats the money we paid for Police services in a month
We also fed this policemen: morning, afternoon and Night
We also bought fuel Into their hilux, every 2 days, fuel of 3-5K on average.

So Oga, what exactly are you talking about?

Make we bankrupt ourselves because say we need extra Police services, after all no be their work, isn't it why the are paid by the Federal Government

You say the risk their lifes for 1K, as if they are normal civilians, forgetting their Job is to risk their lifes in terms of security, for the Populace
Stop the emotional blackmail

I'm a medical professional, I sometimes come across very infectious dxs nd delicate situations, I also risk my life, so Kilode?

And I'm not paid like most Nigerian Senators who do nothing

This is a very callous and selfish post. In one breath you say police are not normal citizens then in the next breath you say they should not be given extra rewards.

If you know that they are truly not normal, and that they take on extra risks, then surely it is inequitable to believe that they deserve no extra reward?!

mercytripletz:
Dodo.
I wonder how everyone eats it without having nausea.
The smell is enough to make me puke.

I just knew someone would mention dodo...

@ topic, i have none but my elder brother can't stand eggs or anything with eggs in them including cake.

edit: actually i don't think i really like afang or ogbonno.

Should be an interesting battle between Kante and Gueye

YungJo207:
Ha ....you funny I swear, YouTube is your friend abeg go watch the match again....note my brother is a boxer so I follow up well.

That's the thing.no matter how much you watch you will never get it because you simply do not understand the sport.

YungJo207:
Beat him the second time you say? He couldn't even win by KO with Manny not to talk of beating him...you sure say you watch that fight at all?? Those that watch the match can testify say na God save Mayweather.

You have little understanding of boxing. Pacquiao barely touch Mayweather in that fight. The official punch count was something like 400 - 250 in favor of Mayweather. Meaning he landed almost double the amount of blows.

Angelica - Age Beeka

I don't even remember which girl i used this song to crush on but it was a powerful feeling... Still get the feeling when i remember the song

BedLam:
A subsidiary in South Africa doesnt mean it's a Suth African bank. Did you even read what you posted ? The parent company ( the owners of the subsidiary ? Is English. Now you should ask yourself if you are okay.

You too shallow now to read my last line. Did I tell you South Africa began with Mandela? Go and read!

"In 1987 Standard Chartered sold its remaining 39% interest in Standard Bank leaving it as purely South African owned for the first time. The severing of ties saw Standard Bank going into competition with Standard Chartered Bank in Africa while it also established representative offices overseas. To better reflect the group’s structure as a unified banking and financial services organisation, the name Standard Bank Investment Corporation was changed to Standard Bank Group Limited in June 2002."

Like i said before, are you okay?

BedLam:
None of them is a South African Bank! Standard chartered is English and has been in existence before Mandela was born!

Such an odd comment.

First off you seem to imply that to you, The birth of Nelson Mandela is also the birth of South Africa... You okay?

Anyway, do enlighten yourself:

http://www.standardbank.com/pages/StandardBankGroup/web/History.html

not surprised...yet when the slightest incident occurs in South Africa, they start clamoring for sanctions against South African firms, not knowing Nigeria's economy would be the biggest loser.

lol.

What is the big deal with cooking? I learnt to cook Egusi, stew and yam pottage within 30 minutes from basic instructions (without watching it being done), and they all turned out great at the first/second try, which was without any supervision.

So ladies if you can't prepare some basic Nigerian meals to a decent standard, please examine your character well.

As for my fellow men, please stop placing cooking skills on a pedestal. Cooking is not a difficult task and should not be a criterion for marriage. Everyone should know how to cook and cook well. It's a basic life skill, not a marriage skill for women.

hohia:
Uk Govt has a guideline for Safeguarding. Seeing an abuse and not reporting it makes you an accomplice. Be it Domestic violence, Sexual abuse, financial exploitation, etc.

How could a mother witness such treatment on her baby and not cry out even to her husband in Nigeria. Not fair on the poor child. I don't think they deserve to see the child.

Check out the nature of injuries. The Baby must have been smashed with an object. These are not even smacking or beating type of injuries. They are not also normal areas children hurt themselves during play. These are naturally protected areas of the body. Again the UK authority has a duty of care to protect children and vulnerable people including women who are victims of domestic violence and rape. Nigeria has no place for such. In Nigeria these are norms...........

Read the post i quoted and read my post again.

delishpot:
Yeye ,
They will beg and cry to be given a chance to prove their live only to end up killing the poor victim in the end. They should not release that child to them if they truly hurt him that bad intentionally. They think it is Nigeria where parents beat their kids like Muslims beat their slaves in this present day and the law would look the other way? They think UK has ignorant fools like Nigeria does? Fools that will say spare the rod and spoil the child. Educated illiterates who would support a father killing his son after finding out that his son was abused by a gay man? Thunder fire anyone that supports such barbaric acts on kids. May someone kidnapp you all and beat the living day lights out of you all.

The dad I pity.

There was no evidence of abuse from the mother. Try to read first

Nice

ecoeco:
...

B4 you all start coming here to blame the husband

It doesn't make sense 4 d husband to call her 4 settlement nd den kill her nd leave her private parts jst like dat

This is wat actually happened

Husband : calls wife into the room
Wife: enters room(with facial expression of anger)

Husband : pls let us settle this matter i am sorry
Wife: thats wat u always say nd den u do it again useless man

Husband : i said i am sorry(looking a bit angry)
Wife : see ur mate ar living in 3 bedroom flat comfortably... But all u do is starve me nd d children in dis ur 1 room nd go around pursuing women with ur truck

Husband : (slaps wife)
Wife : (screams)terkaa You will kill me today(rushes to the door, locks it, puts d key in her bra)

Husband : you are very stupid
Wife : comes close to husband nd starts fighting him

They hand wrestle for bit...

Husband: (trying to avoid her blow)
Wide: (seeing she's not inflicting enough pain, bites him on the hand deep)

Husband : ahhhh ( angrily starts beating up wife)

Wife : you will kill me today (breaks free frm husband, rushes to the cupboard, brings out a hammer)

Husband : lucy don't try me o lucy
Wife: throws hammer at husband nd misses

Husband : rushes towards wife
Wife: (seeing husband drawing close rushes to pick up an axe)

Husband : (seeing wife picking up axe, grabs her collects the axe pushes her to the floor)
Wife : (stands up, rushes to the other end of the room nd picks up the second axe)

( Survival status kicks 4 both parties nd @ dis point anybdy can kill anybdy out of survival instincts)

Husband : hits wife first.... Sees his mistake.... Escapes frm the window

Underlining assumption :
1. The husband couldn't hav called her nd locked d door immediately

2. The husband couldn't hav used 2 axes nd a hammer jst to kill one woman

3 It has been proven that the female starts every domestic fight either by their words or action during conversation

4 99% of wat causes a quarrel btw a couple is either s*x related or money related

5. 99% of men will slap a woman who calls dem "useless ' or compares them to" their mates"

6. Since it's a 1 room apartment objects like axe nd hammer will be close @ any point in time


#Eco99#

It could have happened this way but no matter how you look at it, the man is guilty.

Even if the lady locked the door and put the key in her bra, why didn't he jump out of the window as he eventually did?

In court this will not hold up at all. Survival instincts will only kick in momentarily (or until immediate danger subsides). Once he had overpowered the woman, he could have extracted the key and let himself out, or at any point collect all the weapons from her and throw them outside.

The circumstantial evidence also points to the fact that the woman ran away and refused to go back to the house, indicating that she was most likely afraid for her life and safety. Based on the assumption that the average Nigerian woman would rather tolerate a lot of things than give up her matrimonial home, we can strongly infer that whatever made her leave the home must have been serious.

Further, witness testimony indicates that the couple frequently must have scuffled and so, since the woman was the one who ran away, we can also infer that she must have been coming off worse in these scuffles.

Again, i put it to you that the woman's historical behavior i.e running away from the home, portrays her as someone who was fearful of her husband, and not one who would lock herself in with him.

Finally, there is enough evidence to suggest that the accused actually intended to kill the woman. The couple lived in a one bedroom apartment, with two kids. We can therefore safely infer that the apartment may have been choked up since it would have to contain the belongings of at least four different people. It therefore sounds very odd that they would have found the space to keep two axes within their bedroom! This indicates that the accused may actually have stashed those weapons in the room, with the intention of using them on his wife.

for what??

are they not making enough profits??

these guys are pure profiteers!

Geonigga:
Victor Moses weekly pay is not proportionate to his services in the club even some defenders received higher pay than him..

Moreover, his fellow wingback Marcos Alonso is earning significantly more than him, despite being the same age.

Ignyte:
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