₦airaland Forum

Soso990240:
Sweetness of the toto don carry this one go
But on a normal note, ur body tend to be relaxed after ejaculation.. so, he is on d right track

After releasing, the man or woman or both may sleep

Rtk5:
My brother, you're right on point, the parent are even over struggling. Do you know anytime she packs and go to her parent's place if i don't go to beg them amd her to come back, she would forever remain there?

I once did that wrong move. We are divorced now. When such occurs and you are clearly not in the fault, never go to beg a woman or her family.

godfatherx:
Is it the paper certificate you want to marry?
Do you have a job for her now that requires her certificate?
What's the essence of being a graduate if you can't correctly express yourself? I read your story and I understand the "grammar", for me, that's communication, but for your "perfect" educational background requirement, the blunders are unacceptable.
If you a graduate writes like this, you need to lower your standard. That girl is just perfect for you.

Thanks

bestme:
Hello, nairalanders in the house, pls I need your sincere advice in this matter.

I have known this lady I really want to marry for over 2 years now. Though our friendship have been a casual one. The issue is she told me she is a graduate and then i visited her house over 2 years back I met her mom and she asked me where I came from- my tribe and if I am a graduate and told her my tribe and yes I am graduate.

She said she wants her daughter to marry a graduate because she has done her best to train her school. It was of recent we started a serious marriage relationship and I told my pastor and we both met with pastor already.

It Is now she told me that she did not graduate that she was unable to pay school fees, though she went up to 500level and did I.T but her parents only paid 100 and 200 level school fees. She said she has no result/certificate. I told her am honestly disappointed for hiding this from me ever since and she said it is because I have not really made my intentions know to her.

One of the reasons I like her was being a graduate and I have not dreamt of marrying a non graduate.

Pls your sincere advice.

Who school help? Who graduate help? Marry her if you like her and leave graduate issue. There are graduates worse than none graduates.

dwilliams:
Exactly.. Those tiles are all 60 by 60.. it will cost her almost 3m to 4m for the interior tiles alone and another 1.5m to 2m for the outside tiles... 60 by 60 sells for 5200 for a carton with just 4 pieces most of those guys criticizing her are either using old prices or have never built a house


Modified: Those tiles are worth more than my initial estimate... i recently did my Fathers 3 bedroom house in the village for almost 700k... i bought the tiles myself so no issue of cheating here... in her case 60 by 60 was used all through except for the outside walls

We actually built two flats in the village this year and I know how much was spent. It was close to 12m. And I was in charge although I didn't go to the market. I do sometimes get alternative quotations and I understand how expensive things are except you are not going for quality.

zedegit:
Women that build their house before marriage, will like their husband to join them and won't fail to remind you that they built the house and will kick you out if you misbehave.

How can a man marry a lady that actually have such money and misbehave? It's the lady that would misbehave and he won't say anything. To avoid that, don't marry a lady wealthier than you.

dwilliams:
How much you take do decking? And how much you take do your parafet... your roofing before the installation in Gerrard roofing sheet... that house go near 80m .. 25m na just normal average upstairs e go give you

Thanks o for the clarification. The pillars alone in the house, the same size of pillars at the gate, fence. The tiles all are expensive.

debedebe:
Her real name is vivian tonte okoro, she was my dad former tenant at ikeja, which we both live together in same compound, She's a nice lady, former girlfriend to Larry okoro.

At least, someone knew her when she was struggling to be a nice lady. If people think it's easy to be a lady, they should go and build a similar structure. Even some of us struggling hard, don't have such as an asset.

olayiwola72:
Oga this house no fit pass 90 million

Okay, thanks. At least higher than someone who said he built a similar building with 25m and it's almost completed. I wonder whether na different country him dey.

gentleman82:
Lies that building there is not worth more than 20million

Don't say what you don't know, with low quality material, that building is worth around N100million. With very high quality, it can be up to the amount claimed.

Akwamkpuruamu:
I actually thought of relocating to pH with my family by Jan, but all these soot reviews have sent cold shivers down my spine. I can't trade the health of my little geh for money. Enugu my plan B, fully activated. I don too stay for Owerri

The fact is, it's not safe to live in such a place. Bayelsa also have it due to illegal kerosene makers.

chatinent:
But ishi ukwu, she was not getting married naw. She was only engaged! Many reasons I will never advise my enemy to join the NA. Of course she knew the rules. When has engagement turned her into a wife! What if they planned to wait until after three years? But I see some US soldiers display such affections and they are loved. What should be done to the soldiers videoing too? Aren't they as guilty as her...unprofessionally taking pictures? Or is another oga who wanted to shine congo angry that a potential teagirl has been lost to a “bloody civilian” corper? Una never tire to dey use personnels?

Why una like to kill person joy and only remember rules and regulations on good matters with so much zeal and a yearn to doom it? Was there not rules of engagement during the Lekki night?

Engagement is qualification for marriage. At the point of engagement, it's best not to cancel a future marriage.

benuejosh:
The kind of joy that will make the wigs in our life fly off, may we encounter it before this year runs out.

Congratulations to her.

Amen. She was ecstatic, over joyed!

starbuck:
Sterling Bank



Biko, does UBA have mobile app

Yes, they have the old and new one both on play store.

FalseProphet1:
Uba is terrible, if your network is bad don't even bother opening it cos it won't load, it doesn't automatically update your account balance, to successfully complete a transfer is another work of its own cos it would keep telling you unable to complete, you have to keep trying and trying until it goes.

UBA made me download carbon and kuda on my phone cos they were almost frustrating my life with their slow app.

But enaira from CBN is the worse...that one if your money hang and they debit you, just forget about that money cos you can't go to CBN to complain.

This I have seen.

Sorry for your experience. Kindly download the new UBA mobile app, sign up, use it and update your feedback.

Best regards,

Maj196:
I think GTBank's GTWorld mobile app has the best and appealing UI for customers. Which one do you think is the best?

UBA mobile app new is the best.

habsydiamond:
Uncle the best way of bringing peace to ur home is by gaining ur position back as the head of the family.... When women are put in such position they can't handle it cos they were not made to be so.. That's for married couples oo.. Try getting a job or go into business that will give u an edge over her... With that u will have ur home back... If not oga u never see anything ooo...

Fact. Even men that earn less than half of their wives salary have less say at home, not to talk of you not putting anything on the table.

taylor89:
Good evening all I’m gonna make this very brief plz I need help

Someone stole my phone this morning and within 3hrs i opened my bank app only to realize they’ve taken over 180k from my account with the bank description of “intrabank charges”

I called UBA immediately and still went to their branch they got my account frozen with the account where the money was transferred to because it’s also a UBA account

I’ve written the letter they asked me to write and they said they’ll get back to me within 5 working days


Now since there’s a valid recipient account where the money was transferred to is there no way I can catch the culprit with help of the police? My iPhone 11promax of barely 6months gone with money

I had to call MTN too to block my SIM

Please is it possible to get the person tracked and arrested

Modes please move to front page Lemme know my next action thanks

NB: both my account and fraudsters account where he sent the money to has been frozen by UBA because we use same bank

It's likely an insider fraud/thief. If you have not done ussd, the thief would require your atm card number, atm pin and account number. If he wants to reset your ussd pin he would require your account number, atm pin etc.

saintgp:
This must b the lai mohammed of ASUU.

Uniben professors as I was told back den (2015) were ending #500,000 and above.

Public/civil servants/politicians are in the habit of lying about their salaries.
Know this and know peace.

Not true please. Around 2018, Doctor was around 250 and prof HOD was around 330. It's only VC in a federal university that earn about a million or more. Librarian, Bursar earn around 500

JosephXavier:
Two weeks ago, I received a text message from one loan app telling me that my neighbour us a criminal and a fraud bla bla bla...

They said I should report him to police if I come in contact with him and I will be rewarded

Infact, when I got home, I met him at the gate and I showed him the message


These are the kind of embarrassment Nigerians face from the loan apps

But in the other hand, some Nigerians are not good repaying

We should not forget that these are people businesses and they have staffs understand their payroll

If you know, you can't pay back, to avoid embarrassment, just look for a friend that you can borrow from

Borrow money from a friend if you can't pay back? Please don't look for a friend o.

The man is nagging with 3 children and a meager salary in 2021. What does he expect?

misterme:
And I am very very angry. Gas I used to buy 2800, then 3k, 4k, and 5k. Suddenly it jumped to 7500 and now (today) 9250 in Port Harcourt. I am very very angry. Let no one here disturb me with nonsense news about Buhari and his nonsense South Africa Trade fair and nonsense. No cross me today o. I fit beat person

The gas finished yesterday. I told my wife that yesterday that I will buy the gas today because I needed to get to work and somehow raise money to augment what I have to be able to buy the gas. I told her to use the kerosene stove that yesterday and this morning. Guess her reply? She said she can't use kerosene even for a day. That even her Mum in the village does not use kerosene stove. She said a few other unprintable things.
For the sake of my 3 children I still had to buy the gas today.

I had not eaten in my house for a month now. The reason is that she said that they money I gave her for upkeep in October was not enough (I give her 62.5% of my monthly salary every month for our home upkeep). As a result she refused to give me food from around the middle of the month when she said the money had finished. She cooked for herself and the children (possibly from her own salary). When I gave her upkeep money for this month I told her not bother keeping food for me so that the money will go far enough. That's where we are till now. I have no intention of ever eating her food until she acknowledges that she was wrong and apologizes.

Now I know this WON'T happen. She will rather die than admit she's wrong or apologize. This is why I know that the mistake of a marriage is heading for the rocks and I am ready for it. Nonsense and ingredients. I have endured this nonsense for 15 years. I am done. Anything whe won happen tomorrow, make e happen today.

For a woman that has given you 3 kids, wrong approach.

AmericanDad:
Hey guys, I just found out my colleague at work iv been sleeping with is pregnant. We were'nt dating tho we were just having fun together. We both came into the organization the same time and we earn very well like well above 500k per month. I'm 33 and she's 28. Shes having double mind about it and thinking of abortion but I told her No. Her reason is what will our colleagues say and how her family will react to her being pregnant out of wedlock.

The issue is she's from calabar and I'm from anambra. I'm the only son of my parents. Iv not told my folks yet but they definately would prefer me to marry an igbo girl. Also guys, we have started talking marriage plans but now that she's pregnant can the church wed us? or should I just do Traditional and court then after the baby is born I do white wedding Time is ticking oo.

Please marry her.

Skyfornia:
Disjointed story

Thanks. Directionless. What does he want from Nairaland?

baralatie:
It is not the brother that is the problem the op is thinking of reconnecting the network to his lost and found girlfriend with benefit o

That's selfish of him. Truth is when we love a girl, we should let her know on time before we lose them.

meetme01:
The guy upon seeing the picture and hearing of her status became jealous..

That's the truth. He realized he made a mistake not making the first move. But it's too late for him.

DSC7:
Well if she doesn't open up no one will know... Except me and her.....

If only she can cope without feeling guilty...

Guilty? That's none of your business. God would forgive everyone so don't stop this interesting relationship.

DSC7:
She is not the promiscuous type....

Do you suggest i find means of connecting with her so as to let her know who she is about getting married to?

Bro i just dey confused...

Stay away from the two of them. My final advice.

DSC7:
Normally we are done...

I just dey imagine the shock from both party if i show for the wedding...

If need be, give an excuse for not being at the wedding. Also realize that for your brother to love her, there's something good in her. Let them be.

NevetsIbot:


But just be quiet about it. It’s been a long time since y’all had anything to do with eachother. She didn’t to anything bad by choosing to have sxx with you.. I mean, you both agreed to have mutual sxx.and that period is over.

Unless she has an history of hoeing that you know of. Leave them be.

Your turn don pass... no spoil another person garri with your sand

Truth be told, even if she has a bad history, she may be a changed person. Let's learn to let sleeping dogs lie.

Myzubby:
Let them marry
After the marriage it will be an interesting story for both of you .

Make sure you are the type of person your brother can trust with his wife otherwise if your brother becomes aware your past relationship with her he may feel insecure .

And hope your relationship with her was not romantic
Thank you

How can you ask members of the opposite sex that were together for years didn't have a romantic relationship? Even people that go to camp for weeks find love even though they may not marry. And Yes, it would be romantic.

DSC7:
I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....


Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

Please delete this post and let them enjoy their lives.