₦airaland Forum

lilyqueen:
It's better she doesn't Proceed with the marriage to avoid future disaster.

although it's not an easy solution that you have prescribed but there is so much sense in it if she can't accept him that way which obviously I doubt if she could accept him as gay..

PrincessAnna:
Stick to your sexuality, report him to police. let him cool off in jail.

I think that may be a more difficult option to report the person she has loved for almost two years of relationship to the police... Anyway anything is possible...

Estharfabian:
It stands to Reason..



But let 'em be Responsible for 'emselves.
that should be A stepping stone.

you may be right dear....

Estharfabian:
Stop jailing 'em?



So, they'd be able to Comeout of their shells?

ok dear... You may be right but don't you think letting them come out publicly in a religious country like Nigeria will make those gays/lesbians as a point of target by terrorists/religious extremists...

makydebbie:
yea..he is gay..and he does not want to change..the marriage will lead to a divorce "if"...they get married..

I agree with you, it may most likely lead to unhappiness and possibly divorce... The girl in question also said she is the type that loves attention so much...

Estharfabian:
This would keep happening...




Homosexuals Marrying Straight people. You Ain't seen Nothing yet.
14Yrs imprisonment huh? Issokay!

interesting... So what do you think is the solution

vizkiz:
This is another reason why you should "test drive" before marriage...Forget what your pastor old you in church. This generation is messier than the former.

many will support you while others will be against this school of thought... Anyway...like they say, different strokes for different folks

ForeverYoung197:
If I were his wife, I will embraced his sexual orientation. Since he doesn't want to change. Acceptance is the only key to survive in this messy situation besides, she needs to understands him. They need to talk in details if they want divorce or they will keep it as it is with respect.

I like your point dear but they are not yet married...

makydebbie:
its hard...but she cant remain like dat she has to leave!

you mean since she is not married to him yet?

falconey:
hmmmmm what a predicament for her.... women need this rod of ours.

funny but you are very right... Every wife deserves her husband's rod...

In the course of counselling and speaking to singles and married, I was overwhelmed by the situation of a particular female which she confessed to me... She just found out three months to her wedding that her fiance is gay.... Points to Note as she told me... She is a virgin... , on two occasions at least her fiance has entered the bathroom when she is naked to pick something and he left without making any moves... They are both Christians from a very popular church in Nigeria, I wouldn't mention the name..., he told her he can't change and he is not willing to go for counselling to his pastor about his condition... She told me out of their two years relationship, it's just three times she could remember him getting hard after much seduction from her... ( She literally used his hands to touch her vag.na, etc.... Please help a confused sister.... Also send me a PM about your current most challenging situation lets talk about it next weekend... Your identity will be protected...

knightnemesis:
As a man and husband, I know how it feels...

I can personally reward all contestants, but lying to a group of highly intelligent men??


Not possible... an Apology or disqualification, that's all...

why not produce pictures from her wedding to support your claim... If you don't know ask me I will tell you the truth...

Just save your marriage and respect yourself and get that machine if you can afford it.. at least there will be peace in your house... A woman can decide that in the next two weeks no body will be happy around the house...

This could be a hasty conclusion, it's actually not possible to know who he is texting from that position... It could even be a male friends... Except you found out from his phone...

Good for Nigerian football development

Anything that will bring about positive development in the Niger-Delta is Okay by me

She is doing beautifully well...

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naughtynaughty:
ok smellyanus

yea... Hoping to be hearing from you as often as you can..

Good

naughtynaughty:
yes I am
I roff u sweet Anus

wow... I am a honest person so I will be honest with you... I like you very well... And I enjoy the name you call me more than the name of my moniker...

HateU2:
Hmmmm, daats heavy.
I have a frrnd here, a very good one oo but we started abusing each other so Tey I smtyms don't come on line bcox of him.

hmmmm strange world... I remember I was also yabbed/abused by my ex girl friend's friend the first day we met in pressence of my ex... Being a gentle guy I never replied her ... After almost an hour of my pressence there and I politely told them I was leaving, she came to me and held me to tell me not to be offended that she was joking... I was just smiling... God forgive me, that wasn't the only girl I had something close while still dating my ex, she has two kids now from her husband and we are still good friends / cousins... Did I mention cousins? Yes we found out later that we were related so we had to stop those stuffs... How we found out is a story for another day... God have mercy...

naughtynaughty:
hi sweet anus

you must be the most romantic person on nairaland.... That name sounds sexxy.... Hateu2 your bestie wants to scatter my head with sweet words when I havent broken my fast... (not a Muslim o)...

Sometimes hatred is the first step to love....

The way to my heart is respect and truth.... As for that old saying, it's not entirely true but it's important... The man that eats outside will be tired someday and he may need a well prepared meal from his wife... His stomach department should solely be the responsibility of his wife... A woman should as much as possible not give room for another woman to continuously cook for her husband if not she she shouldn't complain when she loses him... This one has nothing to do with jazz/love portion... Note: everything I wrote above is more connected to a Nigerian marriage/relationship....

Happy birthday dear... Wishing you many more fruitful years....

KingCheezyPuff:
°The time I slipped down the school bus steps as Primary school girl

oh sorry dear...

Iluvsweetsex:
I love wearing trousers and I don't put on pants unless during my period lol. I was going out in a hurry and I 4got to zip up, a guy stopped me and told me my zip was opened. I was like, many ppl would ve seen enough

Lol... Very funny...