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Many Men dont hate single mums, we just dont love you enough to have you in our lives.

You are better off dealing with the father of your child. And see if we providing support and helping single mothers, then what benefit does the single young girl have for not having a child.

It just too much drama dealing with a single mother. I wish you well from Afar.

Women need to understand that regardless of how well read and rich you are. You derive your value from how Men value you and not other way around.

I once argued with a friend that I feel weddings should.not be celebrated. Because you just never know what will happen despite it all.

Maybe not enter a union that will take from us rather tha add to us.

Ikjosh04:
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Well said! but for clarity sake, anyone that has gotten several refusal from those countries don't be despair, still shoot your shot provided you have the right documents and you use a knowledgeable agent.

I have read severally in this thread(2017) upward when people got their visa with multiple refusals from Canada and the USA.

Yes, you right. Thanks for emphasizing that. If you ever get rejected by any of these countries it only means you should cross all ts' and dot all is' on subsequent application. They are very objective ,once u meet the requirements no sentiment they approve.

Good luck everyone. I just like to see other african brothers win.

Oreoluwamipo:
Hi guys , good morning and happy weekend .. Can anyone recommend a college in Australia that doesn't require agent for processing for post graduate studies.
I await your response , God bless you.

None.

They all want you to use an agent. As they cant be bothered with dealing with all the hustle. That's the mistake many of us do, in trying to cut cost we fail to get the information needed.

Admission is the easy part, the main is the VISA. and once one of these countries USA, Canada, Uk , Australia has denied you VISA once , it becomes a red flag for subsequent Visa processing.

Take time and visit the school website you want. They all have approved agents there u can contact. Take it from there. I used BCIE then, and before I even paid any fee. They requested I bring all my documents to evaluate my chances. When they saw that it was ok, they requested i proceed to pay 150k processing fee.

Good luck.

LikeAking:
Why will women bring a house maid into their homes in this modern world.

Its the fault of the ladies.

It.makes me wonder if women are designed to WORK WORK WORK.

Every adult including the husband should be responsible for what he has done, however the further time a woman spends in the workplace, the increased risk of domestic issues.

Sometimes it's even sexual molestation of the children even by some fathers, house helps etc.

Also, I think a lot of women lose their feminine mystic the higher they go up the corporate ladder.

All in all. I think the biggest challenge of the modern woman is how to balance her domestic responsibility @ home and still not be a lazy woman. Adding value to herself, family and society.

The husband is still responsible for his actions.

At what point did the govt. Have so much control over our marital life.

Did Adam and eve have a marriage certificate?

If this is true, I think this is one of the many problems of being wealthy.

For a man that would probably not be alive in 50 years, why build such a mansion. For what, for who?

A.house that will be sold in his 3rd,4th or so generation.

It's not what you leave to your children that matters but what you leave in them.

Good luck.

Dtruthspeaker:
If you had the vagina, surely you would not be saying this, after all, you, the man, have the advantage in a marriage put together by others, other than you!

Well said. I am not a woman, and I dont think I can speak forn them. I am just wondering if this free will to marry anyone you choose has worked for our generation overall. If it has, then why is there a high rate of divorce.


Hmnnn...do men really have the advantage in marriage ?

That's would be an intresting debate.

There is.nothing wrong with it. Infact it still thrives in the Middle east, India. Northern nigeria.

The problems in relationships these days exploded geometrically when women became more educated and independent which is not entirely a bad thing but it comes with a price. Not all women will have it all.

This boy meet gurl to some degree has not worked with increasing divorce. There are many stories in the bible where marriages were arranged and worked just fine.

Part of the problem of Nigeria is the North. With all that is going on there, you will expect they should be leading protest against the govt to draw attention to the insurgency, insecurity. lack of education, poor healthcare.

They are satisfied with the status quo and believe its thier destiny.

This is why I think we should separate from the north. We both want different things.

I don't support violence o.... but all these things no dey shake me again. Women are quick to seek sympathy without telling what she did wrong to warrant such

No be who first report case for police station dey win case.

I remember that blue eyed woman in kwara state that claimed her husband abandoned her because of her blue eyes. We all know how it ended.

But Men, please once a lady is not adding value to your life. Cut it, no need for violence , be matured and focus on your grind.

Isha113:
thank you. what's sol list please?

Skilled occupation list. You can also use Google to check. Before I came to Australia, I read nairaland for all fora in Australia for weeks, I even enter India fora on migrating to Australia.

I know it's not easy, but try and do the work.

Many agents dont even know what's happening here. Theirs is just to give you admission and help with Visa application and collect commision from university.

Some Women trying so hard to be like Men.

Sometimes ehn... all these Pre wedding pictures, wedding ceremony no dey shake me again.

All marriages start out like that, very few last till the end.

We ought to be celebrating 20yrs, 40yrs and 50yrs anniversary. No be wedding

GOTVee:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, i somehow love Muslims and Islamic tenets.

Feminists and Muslim women don't go together. They know their place and flourish in it.

trix1:
Thank you,
how long ago did you pay? which account number did you fill in the the Form A? I ask because the bank insists that it must be the school account, and not a third-party account. I understand from the bank that these are very recent policy changes.

Different university bro... paid in Sept 2019.

trix1:
Good morning everyone.
I'm having some challenges with payment of fees.
Deakin University only does online payments.
And to pay from Nigerian banks, you need to put in an account number when filling the Form A.
I contacted the agent and they advised using Western Union. However the banks I have visited are saying they only receive western union, they don't send.
Can someone please advise.
Thanks

Call the school. They often have alternatives, many Nigerian students study in deakin and they must have paid somehow.

I used form A and it was seamless.

Danny6552:
PS. I don't know if plumbing in Australia is the same as the one in Nigeria ..

I am not a plumber oo. But man many hand work guys here are very ok as long as you know your craft. Why don't you go to their immigration website. See of plumbing is there and take it from there especially if you have years of experience and can prove it.

Good luck.

This is an interesting discuss.

A job to a Man is a lot more important than it is for a woman. He gets his fulfillment from it.

A family to a woman is a lot more important than it is for a Man. She gets her fulfillment from it.

Life has changed and evolved. It will get worse guys and as world population increases and resources thin out. Men will be pushed further to the brink.

Life is getting harder for Men, Relationships are getting tougher for women.

I asked a friend once, if women are really designed to work like they do. To avoid alot of competition, Men could go into fields with less women. Engineering, military, Doctor (not nursing), Trade skills, Agriculture.

Women are slow to claim equal rights in these fields.

I think the society will suffer from the abnormally, I remember in university then
Scholarships were given to the top female students, leaving out the men who were even better than them.

But its life, we dont complain. We move.

With what is happening in the world today as per marriages.

Should couples be overly joyous and celebrating marriages, i am sure this couple here had a lit wedding same with many others in NIgeria because you never never really know how it would turn out regardless of how sure you are.

Is it not even beter to loud 20yrs anniversry, 30 yrs anniversy after your love for each other has been tested and tired.

Inside Life.

[quote author=Ade3131 post=94253176]The actors no sabi buy or build house.... They usually leave those types of accomplishments for their female counterpart... LoL

True....

I thought as much. The.actors dont known where they sell houses. Make these actresses they show their male counterpart the way.

Congrats.


But wait o, the actors no dey buy/ build house? I see only the actresses most times.

Origin:
They most definitely are not.


These soldiers risk their lives their beings for our safety with little or no weapons....



Remember it is their ogas that should provide strategy and provide weapons to win the war.

I respect that. Infact nothing should be more honourable than a man who puts his life on the line. Maybe I should direct my message to the TOP military guys. Should they not be bothered that their men are dieing everyday and act somehow.

Arent they seeing the decay in the country ? How many soldiers can send thier kids to good schools and good healthcare.

Rather than eat and dine with the politicians they should be a catalyst for change since impeachment is almost impossible. This will put government officials on their toes that despite being a democracy, the military can change things if they fail.

I see they all strong, and all. Of what is is the strength if you cant stand for the people you are willing to die to protect. Look at the fulani herdsman crisis....

E weak me.

This is Sad.

But unfortunately this would not be the last to happen. The north breeds violence and anarchy, the government and its people dont frown at such.

How many fulani herdsman has been prosecuted for their wrong doing ? Instead we want to build them RUGA farm settlement all across Nigeria.

Should the northerns not be in the front when it comes to protesting against all these. They are comfortable with what they experiencing.

The earlier the rest of Nigeria dissolve the marriage the better. Nigeria will never be great with Northern Nigeria in it.

It's that simple.

With the world in so much chaos die to covid.

Are you in any way disappointed in herbal medcine not being able to help or provide a cure for not just covid but a plethora of other diseases i.e cancer, diabetes, kidney failure and many others.

Bit they are quick to sell sex empowerment drugs to make you last over 1 hour during sex, and generally sex related enhancement.

Or am I over exaggerating their this and not recognizing their positive impact ?

@ Op : please post this to front page, let's hear from Nigerians.

@ Moderator

If you can post this to the front page, please do. Just to get insight from other Nigerians. You can delete if the government uses this as an excuse agaisnt nairaland. I dont want trouble for you.

In a free country, this would not be an issue.

Sometimes, I sit in my balcony asking questions that is hard to answer.

See what happens in Mali, the military peacefully taking over a government that was failing. Why cant our military do the same but with good intention.

The police and Military are equally being hit by a poor economy, they die daily in the hands of boko haram and many other issues.

Has democracy really worked for us or how much longer should we wait for it to begin to work? Can they be the ultimate yardstick for peacefully removing a failing govt, not with the intention to be president and corrupt like Abacha but the intention to respond to save the country they live and die to protect.

In other climate, the present govt. Would have been impeached. But we know that's almost impossible here, the military alone can do that but with corruption so ripe in the land, they could be corrupted which should not be.

How do we explain a nation fighting boko haram for almost 10 years without success and keep killing your men. This should have been enough to anger the Top military officers. I believe strongly Boko haram would not survive had a military govt. Been in power. Because it looks all political to me.

It's hard to think of a young Nigerian aspiring to joining the military.

They are quick to attack civilians without power but slow to attack a failing government.

Just thinking#

Iyoocartel:
Iyooooooo cartel

If you want peace of mind in this country as a young well to do man don't ever settle for one lady,Marry like 2 or 3 with different concubines and watch them stress themselves out to please you and win your heart. Most Nigerian woken are suffering from low self esteem. They hate competition and always do everything possible to come out victorious among their fellow women.

I tell young Men. Focus on your hustle, and be on your purpose. Success is irresistible to women, just like beauty is to men.

Let's even think about it. Is polygamy really practicable as in 1 man 1 wife. If this was how the world started we no for reach 7.7 billion on world population now.

Anywuaz, FFK take life easy. Who hears about Dimeji Bankole. The former house speaker, he went under the radar chop life.

hustla:
Hi

I have a funny question

For the Griffith thats expensive, with MSc at around 32500 / year

If i get the entire 32500 before coming in for 1 year, will it be easy to get the other 32500 while working there? That means I have like 1 year headstart

It depends on how tough you are. Some people raise that money during vacation. But covid has changed things but with God man you can do it.

Okolie1986:
Greetings house, I was refused visa application last week. If I reapply for visa, what are my chances of getting a visa grant?


Am 32 years old, is it possible for me to go for apprenticeship certificate course in Australia?

Your age is not the issue, a friend got his Visa @ 35. For Masters. That's why I often recommend using an agent. Even before my agent collected money from me they looked at all my documents and saw that i had a really good chance. .

But guys Australia is a little tough at the moment. The covid has put most international students in a hard place. So think am well.

Isha113:
Good day everyone, I really need your assistance .
I've tried searching for threads but it's confusing to me.
I will like to apply for a bachelor's degree in physiotherapy but because I already have a bachelor's degree in botany, I'm not eligible to apply. can you please suggest graduate entry programs for me in any health course. location has to be in Queensland or close to Brisbane.
I Will appreciate your help

I have a bachelor's degree in botany and I graduated in 2018
I'm interested in any health course

thanks in advance

Before you choose a course. Spend time on the SOL list and see. Most healthcare courses are good. Maybe you should consider social work. Nursing.....


They pay good and easy to get PR.