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Religion / Re: Why Don't Those Sick People At The Door In Crusade Receive Healings by SmileDance(f): 10:39am On Apr 03, 2022
They don't have faith yet they came to the crusade. Issokay

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Religion / Re: Have You Ever Fallen Under Anointing? by SmileDance(f): 9:44am On Apr 03, 2022
Brandonx:
Which Anointing grin Years Ago I went to a church with one lady as the pastor was praying and laying hands on people it got to her turn and she started laughing, the pastor said demons were controlling her and she laughed so hard grin I couldn’t resist so I joined in the laugher grin Omo see prayers and deliverance section.
It was a very funny experience.

I can relate bro, when the pinch you you dare not ask them to stop molesting else they ll say it's the demon that is crying.

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Religion / Re: Have You Ever Fallen Under Anointing? by SmileDance(f): 9:42am On Apr 03, 2022
I ll share my experience in a CAC church.
I was staying with my uncle and that time and his wife hated me but I was too naive to know. Every Sunday the pastor or any of their yeye ministers would lay hand of me and pinch me in such a way that survival instinct would instantly tell me to just scream and fall down if that's what I have to do for the pastor to stop molesting me. I also believe there are people who are being paid or bullied just to act like they fell under the anointing.

I didn't say falling under anointing doesn't exist o I'm just saying my own.

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Investment / Re: Appreciation After Disbursement by SmileDance(f): 5:18am On Apr 03, 2022
After their high interest rates, agent still dey ask for appreciation. Nigerians are too entitled

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Phones / Re: My Phone Is No Longer Seeing My Mtn Sim by SmileDance(f): 2:12pm On Apr 02, 2022
It has happened to me recently too, my NIN was complete infact it was a new welcome back sim, I just had to go do another welcome back at MTN outlet, I guess the SIM is damaged
Education / Re: Why Parents Should Stop Enrolling Their Child To School Too Early. by SmileDance(f): 1:15pm On Apr 02, 2022
lilyheaven:

Child bearing age, is supposed to be a time a mother will be at home taking care of her baby, while the father that signed to be a husband and father should work hard and provide financial support for his family.
But no, they will still except a woman to carry pregnancy and work, give birth, three months , you are expected to return to work, yet this woman is living with a husband.
Society generally doesn’t appreciate women, neither is our government doing anything to help motherhood . It’s painful.
the woman is still living as a squatter in her husband's house, cos in this part of the world a married woman is just a squatter that can get kicked out or locked outside If she doesn't 'behave' . God Abeg

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Education / Re: Why Parents Should Stop Enrolling Their Child To School Too Early. by SmileDance(f): 1:13pm On Apr 02, 2022
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Education / Re: Why Parents Should Stop Enrolling Their Child To School Too Early. by SmileDance(f): 12:44pm On Apr 02, 2022
safarigirl:


Yes

The fire that is her office

If she did not resume 3 months after birth, she would have lost her job. She had to return to work.

Nobody will tell you this part about motherhood and child care, but if it is to ask women "What do you bring to the table?" It is easy.

Some people would say she should have forfeited the job, but this brings up the capability of her husband, because most men are unable to be sole providers for their families today no

and if she leaves the job to take care of her child and depend on her husband, they will still say she brings nothing to the table. Women don suffer o

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Education / Re: Why Parents Should Stop Enrolling Their Child To School Too Early. by SmileDance(f): 12:43pm On Apr 02, 2022
safarigirl:


Yes

The fire that is her office

If she did not resume 3 months after birth, she would have lost her job. She had to return to work.

Nobody will tell you this part about motherhood and child care, but if it is to ask women "What do you bring to the table?" It is easy.

Some people would say she should have forfeited the job, but this brings up the capability of her husband, because most men are unable to be sole providers for their families today

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Family / Re: What Do You Think Make People Not To Talk About Their Issues? by SmileDance(f): 7:36pm On Apr 01, 2022
She said her pastor's wife will help her. Don't be surprised to find out it's her 'church' people that gave her a spiritual message to wait till now.

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Romance / Re: I'm So Sad, My Close Friend Is Laying False Accusations On My Cousin And I by SmileDance(f): 7:16pm On Apr 01, 2022
If you ask me, just move on. Some things happen that we don't really need to look for answers to, if you trust your cousin then don't bother, at this stage of my life false accusations no longer move me, instead I thank my stars that it's only a false accusation and not that someone set me up. Me wey dem set up for theft and witchcraft in such a way that I can't even explain how I survived it nko? OP, forget it and move on.

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Family / Re: Scary Things That Happen In Marriage by SmileDance(f): 4:03pm On Mar 31, 2022
Different strokes for different folks, things people endure just to stay married. But then the woman must have noticed some of these things about the man but she ignored
Crime / Re: Body Of Missing 24-year-old Man Found In Uncompleted Building In Delta (Graphic) by SmileDance(f): 8:41pm On Mar 29, 2022
DryMouth:
Rip bro!

Nobody would shout justice for the man but if its a woman that was killed now, the would social media would be barking like a mad dog.

if it was a 24 year old lady they will say she was greedy and followed yahoo boys, frustrated people will always find a way to blame the victim.

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Family / Re: Anambra Widow Sleeps Outside After She Was Thrown Out Of Her Home By Relatives by SmileDance(f): 10:45pm On Mar 27, 2022
Oksman:


The question we need to ask ourselves is what was her offence? It's not possible that such treatment could be meted out to her without a reason ( Not justifying the ejection) the OP failed to tell us why she was treated that way. It's not possible that she was a good person and nobody is willing to take her in in the entire family.
so someone has to be a 'good person' or else she gets locked out of her home. Naso
Family / Re: Anambra Widow Sleeps Outside After She Was Thrown Out Of Her Home By Relatives by SmileDance(f): 10:43pm On Mar 27, 2022
Donsammy77:
This is never IGBO culture please. No tradition in IGBO land allows a widow to forfeit her husband property for relatives, let’s investigate properly and find out what happened.
women do not inherit property in Igbo culture, this includes female children of the deceased.

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Family / Re: Anambra Widow Sleeps Outside After She Was Thrown Out Of Her Home By Relatives by SmileDance(f): 10:41pm On Mar 27, 2022
Cyntie55:
Some family members can be so brutal, you shouldn't blame her. And besides it's not proper for you to sell your husband's sweat just like that.
na craze dem dey take cure craze, she won't gain anything from crying up and down at the end the family will take the house, do whatever nonsense with it and they ll still be after her life
Family / Re: Anambra Widow Sleeps Outside After She Was Thrown Out Of Her Home By Relatives by SmileDance(f): 9:27pm On Mar 27, 2022
Crenzywilliams:
She no go burst the padlock enter house, when the in-laws show for morning, she go use police follow them up, begin find way to sell off the house sharply to avoid future wahala.
I just buried my dad this March, he died in December, when his family said they were coming to lockup the doors, I told them whoever tried it will have to face my matchet, and during the burial, they made things difficult for me, trying to steal his properties, they can steal the ones they know, but if them reach my house, na their death them de find.
dem dey mu.mu for that side na, them lock door she dey sleep for outside to look for sympathy. House wey she suppose sell japa within 24 hours.

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Family / Re: Anambra Widow Sleeps Outside After She Was Thrown Out Of Her Home By Relatives by SmileDance(f): 9:25pm On Mar 27, 2022
Cyntie55:
Hmm, Sir. You need to see how frustrated this woman is right now. I know it's clearly on inheritance, but it's not that easy for the woman o. She's going through alot right now.

Her late husband was in a partnership business with a company, he owns 4 trucks, his family members have succeeded in hijacking the 4 trucks away from the woman and her children (this happened November last year). The man died October last year, just in the space of a month, they took his trucks.

Now, they're planning to collect the house he was building. The woman is really frustrated. I hope she win this case o.

It was 2 weeks ago this woman was crying as she was explaining to my dad. My heart melted. My dad and other people are really behind to make sure she win this case.
I hate to say this but I'm beginning to think women from that side are raised to be weak, can't she sell the house and move far away from those people instead of running from pillar to post, why didn't she sell the trucks before they came to collect it instead if crying up and down.

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Family / Re: Anambra Widow Sleeps Outside After She Was Thrown Out Of Her Home By Relatives by SmileDance(f): 9:19pm On Mar 27, 2022
arthurwillia:
But humanly why will you want to collect a dead man property from his wife and children? Like why will a tribe set up such a useless tradition, it’s barbaric man! Na wa o
the woman was bought like a slave, female children do not inherit property in that tribe

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Family / Re: Anambra Widow Sleeps Outside After She Was Thrown Out Of Her Home By Relatives by SmileDance(f): 8:53pm On Mar 27, 2022
elonmuskbaby:
Chaiiii

Women have documents for every property you acquire and involve lawyers.this one is another victim of ignorance of not her wicked in-laws Will be doing their vacation in prison.by the way where are the widows parents and siblings
you think they won't rather kill her than go to prison. In some cultures where women are bought and paid for like slaves this kind of thing is almost inevitable.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How Do You Handle Being Shouted On At Work??? by SmileDance(f): 8:58pm On Mar 26, 2022
In my former workplace
Staff to supervisor: I want to go and buy food Ma
Supervisor: Common go and sit down!
God Abeg

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Politics / Re: A Man Using His Wife As A Punching Bag by SmileDance(f): 7:09pm On Mar 25, 2022
Lovelink1991:


Did you know how they got there? Did you know the fire both of dem went through to make it a peaceful coexistence
not through violence, but like I said you don't need to succumb to my ideology.
Politics / Re: A Man Using His Wife As A Punching Bag by SmileDance(f): 6:57pm On Mar 25, 2022
Lovelink1991:


If you name one I will succumb to your ideology
My parents sis, there is no form of domestic violence in my parents marriage, but you do not need to succumb to my ideology.
Politics / Re: A Man Using His Wife As A Punching Bag by SmileDance(f): 5:50pm On Mar 25, 2022
Lovelink1991:


If at the instance of any abuse one will leave, my dear there won't be marriage because their is no marriage that is abusively free
ok, endure abuse then because you think there is no marriage devoid of domestic violence
Culture / Re: Can You Figure Out What's Wrong With This Pic? Not For The Shallow Minded by SmileDance(f): 8:57pm On Mar 24, 2022
Vulcanheph:
This is so horrible... The people might not really mean it in that way but it's still Racist.
there's no other explanation for this, they meant to be racist
Family / Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by SmileDance(f): 8:44pm On Mar 22, 2022
jimcaddy:
Like why do we still do this in Africa? Under the guise of tradition Abi.
one if the reasons why domestic violence is a thing is because the woman was paid for like a slave
Family / Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by SmileDance(f): 12:55pm On Mar 22, 2022
Charly68:
I beg to disagree.. a man must pay his dues to his inlaws according to tradition of her tribe .. it is traditional rights not a slavery matter .. don't get things mixed up..
it is what it is unfortunately, the bride price thing is just another form of slavery, which is why women are forced to drink the water used to bath her dead husband in some cultures, as per the woman was bought and paid for like a slave.
Crime / Re: Ondo Kidnapped Cocoa Trader 'Kills' His Abductors After They Fell Asleep by SmileDance(f): 11:44am On Mar 22, 2022
Kingozymandias:
Police supplies weapons to kidnappers ? Oh my goodness . I just hope there is a plausible explanation for this weapons in the hands of kidnappers..
weapons could have been stolen during attack on police officers and stations
Family / Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by SmileDance(f): 9:13pm On Mar 21, 2022
Charly68:
YOU think say marriage na easy thing...It is what makes you a man. Go and pay and take home your wife..
Go and pay and take home your slave. If you pay to collect a human being that person is a slave.

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Crime / Re: Caterer Who Unknowingly Accepted A Contract To Cook Human Meat At An Event by SmileDance(f): 8:15pm On Mar 17, 2022
I have heard this story since I was a kid

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Investment / Re: How Come There Are So Many Empty Houses? Isnt Some Rent Better Than None? by SmileDance(f): 4:43pm On Mar 17, 2022
Marinog:
With all the empty houses in Nigeria, why don't Landlords reduce rent and get tenants in?

And why is it that more property developers dont agree to rent to own schemes?
I can answer the first question, some tenants can be troublesome imagine someone charging you to court on top your own house.
Travel / Re: How Dangerous Is It For A Foreigner To Visit Nigeria? by SmileDance(f): 6:01am On Mar 17, 2022
Then do not worry, there are foreigners living and working in Nigeria, just don't go out alone or without your boyfriend, make sure your family also know where you are.

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