₦airaland Forum

Oksman:
The question we need to ask ourselves is what was her offence? It's not possible that such treatment could be meted out to her without a reason ( Not justifying the ejection) the OP failed to tell us why she was treated that way. It's not possible that she was a good person and nobody is willing to take her in in the entire family.

so someone has to be a 'good person' or else she gets locked out of her home. Naso

Donsammy77:
This is never IGBO culture please. No tradition in IGBO land allows a widow to forfeit her husband property for relatives, let’s investigate properly and find out what happened.

women do not inherit property in Igbo culture, this includes female children of the deceased.

Cyntie55:
Some family members can be so brutal, you shouldn't blame her. And besides it's not proper for you to sell your husband's sweat just like that.

na craze dem dey take cure craze, she won't gain anything from crying up and down at the end the family will take the house, do whatever nonsense with it and they ll still be after her life

Crenzywilliams:
She no go burst the padlock enter house, when the in-laws show for morning, she go use police follow them up, begin find way to sell off the house sharply to avoid future wahala.
I just buried my dad this March, he died in December, when his family said they were coming to lockup the doors, I told them whoever tried it will have to face my matchet, and during the burial, they made things difficult for me, trying to steal his properties, they can steal the ones they know, but if them reach my house, na their death them de find.

dem dey mu.mu for that side na, them lock door she dey sleep for outside to look for sympathy. House wey she suppose sell japa within 24 hours.

Cyntie55:
Hmm, Sir. You need to see how frustrated this woman is right now. I know it's clearly on inheritance, but it's not that easy for the woman o. She's going through alot right now.

Her late husband was in a partnership business with a company, he owns 4 trucks, his family members have succeeded in hijacking the 4 trucks away from the woman and her children (this happened November last year). The man died October last year, just in the space of a month, they took his trucks.

Now, they're planning to collect the house he was building. The woman is really frustrated. I hope she win this case o.

It was 2 weeks ago this woman was crying as she was explaining to my dad. My heart melted. My dad and other people are really behind to make sure she win this case.

I hate to say this but I'm beginning to think women from that side are raised to be weak, can't she sell the house and move far away from those people instead of running from pillar to post, why didn't she sell the trucks before they came to collect it instead if crying up and down.

arthurwillia:
But humanly why will you want to collect a dead man property from his wife and children? Like why will a tribe set up such a useless tradition, it’s barbaric man! Na wa o

the woman was bought like a slave, female children do not inherit property in that tribe

elonmuskbaby:
Chaiiii

Women have documents for every property you acquire and involve lawyers.this one is another victim of ignorance of not her wicked in-laws Will be doing their vacation in prison.by the way where are the widows parents and siblings

you think they won't rather kill her than go to prison. In some cultures where women are bought and paid for like slaves this kind of thing is almost inevitable.

In my former workplace
Staff to supervisor: I want to go and buy food Ma
Supervisor: Common go and sit down!
God Abeg

Lovelink1991:
Did you know how they got there? Did you know the fire both of dem went through to make it a peaceful coexistence

not through violence, but like I said you don't need to succumb to my ideology.

Lovelink1991:
If you name one I will succumb to your ideology

My parents sis, there is no form of domestic violence in my parents marriage, but you do not need to succumb to my ideology.

Lovelink1991:
If at the instance of any abuse one will leave, my dear there won't be marriage because their is no marriage that is abusively free

ok, endure abuse then because you think there is no marriage devoid of domestic violence

Vulcanheph:
This is so horrible... The people might not really mean it in that way but it's still Racist.

there's no other explanation for this, they meant to be racist

jimcaddy:
Like why do we still do this in Africa? Under the guise of tradition Abi.

one if the reasons why domestic violence is a thing is because the woman was paid for like a slave

Charly68:
I beg to disagree.. a man must pay his dues to his inlaws according to tradition of her tribe .. it is traditional rights not a slavery matter .. don't get things mixed up..

it is what it is unfortunately, the bride price thing is just another form of slavery, which is why women are forced to drink the water used to bath her dead husband in some cultures, as per the woman was bought and paid for like a slave.

Kingozymandias:
Police supplies weapons to kidnappers ? Oh my goodness . I just hope there is a plausible explanation for this weapons in the hands of kidnappers..

weapons could have been stolen during attack on police officers and stations

Charly68:
YOU think say marriage na easy thing...It is what makes you a man. Go and pay and take home your wife..

Go and pay and take home your slave. If you pay to collect a human being that person is a slave.

I have heard this story since I was a kid

Marinog:
With all the empty houses in Nigeria, why don't Landlords reduce rent and get tenants in?

And why is it that more property developers dont agree to rent to own schemes?

I can answer the first question, some tenants can be troublesome imagine someone charging you to court on top your own house.

Then do not worry, there are foreigners living and working in Nigeria, just don't go out alone or without your boyfriend, make sure your family also know where you are.

Do not go into depression because of loan app. Are you the only one owing? Even Nigeria sef dey owe so you have no reason to give your self any unnecessary headache over an illegal loan app. Those apps you mentioned are illegal, they cannot arrest you it's just an empty threat, so relax and work hard to live your life.
Normal normal the number one rule is After they have sent defamatory messages to your contacts then you no need pay them again.
Number two, never borrow from another app to pay them.

pocohantas:
Is your head okay? The thread is right here on Nairaland and redpillers told him he did the right thing. Shebi they have left him?

What exactly goes on in your heads when you lock your wife out? Once you lock a woman out, she stops seeing that place as a home!

I can't even begin to imagine Like the wife is a squatter that could just be locked out?

I have read your previous posts and I concluded that it will take divine intervention for a sane woman to stay married to you. Marriage isn't for everybody bro.

Am I the only one who thinks this war is meaningless and unnecessary?

The rule is : After the defamation, thou shalt not pay

I guess it's fungal
Try Sivoderm
Ketoconazole tablet and cream you ll get these at a pharmacy

dustmalik:
And how did he have access to your phones, to the extent of calling your contacts?

I'm not sure you ll understand this, she would bully the staff into it, if you prove stubborn just know you are ready to have problems in that work place cos she and her cohorts would gang up against you and ofcourse the MD will believe the supervisor and a few other staff against you. They might even set the person up for stealing sef. See ehn things dey happen.

No be you go tell me as I go wear my dress

These employers think they are God! My former place of work the supervisor would bully the staff, call her boyfriend and bill him and the innocent boy would be forced to drop something even if na 2k. I saved my kid brother's number as 'My (his name) and this mumu supervisor still called him to confirm if he was really my brother or my boyfriend. Supervisor o not even my employer.

Should muslim women even work in the force?
This is a honest question

The only reason I ll consider leaving a private school for a government school is finances.

E be things o

MhizElla:
Can I apply for Masters Programme in Uniabuja without a Credit pass in Maths?
This issue has been a source of concern and has caused me to postpone my plans to apply.

NB: I graduated with a 2:1 at Bachelor's Level

Please, those with experience, advice me.

how did you gain admission for bachelor's program without a credit pass in mathematics?