₦airaland Forum

tonte:
well somebody has 2 start askin questions here',,imagine mii readin ma ass off last semester and still got stained with an "F'' and some of ma paternal et maternal brothers and he sisters are just chillin with some of the most sophisiticated weapons in d world gettin settled,,, am sure i have missed ma calling in life, that calling am sure was to b a militant!!!!! God help mii

sistawoman:
I don't understand how the wife does not know. She has met the wife only once I fear his wife is going to come after her. The wife is older in her 40's but are Nigerian women like that. Will the wife come after my girlfriend if she finds out? Or because her husbands papers are at risk will she sit by and allow this woman to sleep with her man?

sistawoman:
I agree that her self esteem is shot.  She has been in one bad relationship after another and along came this man, who took her out a few times and next thing i know they are sleeping together and now she says he wont let her see anyone else, I think that takes a lot of guts for him to say that and for her to agree to that.

How do i help her to see this is bad and she needs to stop this shit?  He is feeding her all kinds of shit about how much he loves her but he is still referring to the other wife as his wife even when he talks to others like me and my husband.  She does not understand the language and my husband tells me everything, or most things they say to each other.

I just don't understand how she could put up with this?  The men will say to her you are so kind to _____ and he likes how kind  you are, thanks for all your help.  This should be a clue when the 3 years are up she is done for.

Lady J:
what planet r u from?

KarmaMod:
Please pass along the same asinine message to your daughters, smooth

No point in anyone taking your words seriously anymore. Apparently you are Nairaland's jester placed here by Seun.

spikedcylinder:
@ whitelexi,
So how many men do you know that stick around when their wives have "failed"??

Gamine:
i don't kiss! don't u geddit!!!!

Queenisha:
I'm getting sick of all these Nigerian male bashing threads and I'm not even a man.
Haba!
My dad is a good man and my mom is still his best friend till date.
I m  married  to a man that I have no regrets marrying and yes he is Nigerian

Being a dog is not a trait unique to Nigerians
There are dogs in every race,religion and ethnicity
Don't the other women bear any responsibility in these affairs?
As long as she was not raped, the mistress is just as guilty as the man

but honestly if my man told me a woman was bearing a kid for him,that's it,I'm gone
I could forgve the fact that he cheated[b] if it's a one time thing[/b], he's human but cheating unprotected is unforgivable.

Tufiakwa!!
I won't be with someone who may also be attempting to muder me with his private part

@ poster,your aunt ought to get herself tested for STD's right away.
this is not just a crying case

Gamine:
im not going Offtopiking with you.

Gamine:
So thats what you have been trying to say all this while.

Thank You ooh, im Comfy in my selfcontained apartment

Gamine:
Its about the quote,

and people's opinion about it.

its actually from a tv series im currently watching

ibkaye:

Pataki:
Relatively true though. If there are women with beauty and brains, its very very rare.

Gamine:
If it makes you sleep better in your cardboard box

keep fooling yourself.

Gamine:
If it makes you look better in the[b] looking glass[/b]

i be retard

Gamine:
oh my days

Gamine:
Well if it was actually me in Q

it may hurt

plus, it coming from YOU.

Id hurt much worse if i was to watch evry Anne hathaways movie

Gamine: