there is no excuse for lying, now ur man can never trust you again. and how can u date 4 guyz in the same area. look, dnt try getting him back, cos this relationship will never last.

though family and friends are important, i dont think they issue of who you want to spent the rest of your life with should be based on their feeling.

that said, i will say there is time for everything under the sun, and if you think its time for you to be married and there is a good opportunity open ,

then i say its your time. jump on it, forget what your bf is saying, promised made by a man when he is down cant be counted on.

googles:

[size=13pt]from xperience o av learnt not to fall in love at all but incase of incasity, i will do with my head that way i can think, my heart can be manipulated

but my big head mba. . . . . [/size]

see wat i meant when i talked bout the metal doors.

@post. your head, dats the best way to fall in love, cos besides avoiding getting hurt, its the only true path to lasting love.

an unmarried woman is supposed to be a virgin and the reason for wearing white during the wedding to depict purity. but i think things have changed in modern times and true purity is in the heart, not in a dress, besides alot of people are trying other colours to add glamour to their day. if you want to use an acara for you gown, why not, at least we are Africans. and i dont think any pastor will stop you from getting married. blive me if you do it and its appealing to pipu, it cld be the new trend in weddings.

nofin wrong in dat, if she is n need and u got the means, why not. and u dnt have to do cos u expect something in return. all this preaching of love thy neighbour as thy self, seems to be falling on deaf ears.

its possible she must be thanking her stars that u u didnt insert your disc, as her friends may have confirmed u a papi -water 2. 

criously, u shld be wiv someone that can add value to ur life, not subtract. i thin this girl is a good one and someone u need in ur life. u must understand her earlier frustrations, there were prolly things u were not ready to drop at the time and she cldnt live with. now she has seen dat ''u dnt have to wait for maga to pay b4 u survive'' she is seeing the need to get back to you.

it takes a lot of love and patience to try and change some bad aspect of a person. its obvious she loves you, some other decent ladies wont even stay when they know u smoke, scam, and involved in cultism. i will advise you give it a shot, this woman seems the one to transform you to a better man.

parislomo:

it is murder! it is murder!! It is BLOODSHED!!

[color=#770077]"before I formed you in the womb I knew you. . . "[/color]

i swear i was just gonna say this. we seem to have the same kinda mind.

abortion is murder, like paris said, God has known u even before u were conceived by ur parents. even b4 they came 2geder.

face ur studies for now, this is not time to make life promises, besides things may change later and wat u want in the future maybe diff from wat u want now.

very bad, if for nothing, for ur health.

MzDarkSkin:

Well first and foremost let me introduce myself before I rant. Yes I am a newbie here. I actually found about this site while looking up relations between Africans (from the continent) and African descendants. Unfortunately I came across BULL. I've read posts about "why are nigerian men dating jamaican women?", "why dont nigerian men in the UK get along with Jamaican women?" I've seen some of the most pathetic posts about "Jamo women smoke weed (90 percent of them)", "Jamo women wear blue. black, lime green, yellow, blonde weave", "Jamo women will cut off your male anatomy" etc. Complete, utter RUBBISH. Let me just say I come here with NO disrespect intended, as I am a black woman therefore of the African vine that you all born on the land or to parents who were. I have dated African men and I adore them. I will also have you all know I am the product of a Jamaican mother and an African American father. What I read burned my soul because I was raised by a Jamaican women with so much dignity, respect and pride that it has rubbed off on me. The disrespect is MAJOR! I could not believe a people who claim to be the "super powers of Africa" and intelligent would say such vile, and disgusting stereotypical junk that has plaqued ALL black people. I do NOT appreciate the slander what so ever. I have NEVER worn blonde, lime green, pink, purple, blue, yellow etc weave, I do not find it cute nor will I ever. As for SOME of my Jamaican sisters? to each his own. Every orchard has its spoiled apples, Africans should know this first hand as African ppl are by far the most stereotyped humans on the planet.

Futhermore this issue between some of you rude and envious Nigerian women and Jamaican women is childish and pitiful. If a Nigerian MAN, not child, not boy but MAN, should decide that he will like to wed, bed or even get to know a Caribbean/Jamaican woman, so be it. This anomousity is rediculous. To the fool who claimed that 90 percent of my sisters smoked weed let me ask you this there are nearly 3.5 million Jamaican ppl on my island, to every man there is about 4 women, so let me ask you this "you really want me to believe that you have actually spoken to/met millions of Jamaican women to be sure that 90 percent of us smoke weed?" you are but a fool. You are ignorant and should be ashamed of yourself. Nigerian women who dislike us GET OVER YOURSELVES! Every African man I have dated has exclaimed/declared they will nolonger date African women because apparently you all are "dramatic and over the top not to mention loud". Sure SOME of you may be but I am woman enough to know that some do not speak for all, futhermore I am also woman enough to tell them that African woman birthed you so you cannot turn your back on them. I am a fair person and a proud college bound HARD WORKING Jamaican woman. If you want to know why is it Nigerian/African men like us, ask yourselves "what is wrong with us to make them stray?"; that statement alone by now has spawned fire inside of some of you because you are biased but I could careless.

The reason Africa and other black nations cannot thrive is foolishness such as this. This ethnocentric, tribalistic crap has despoiled us of years and chances of elevation generation after generation! Is My Jamaican blood enough to make me not a good choice for an African man? or is it my character that should be questioned? Ask yourself that. Someone said "isnt there other Caribbean women? why Jamos?" I guess as if to say we are the bottom of the pit and should be overlooked. Let me explain this clear so that I am not to repeat myself: Jamaican women are WOMEN. We are not extraterrestial beings we are not inbetween the sexes we are WOMEN; and like ALL women we range from mild mannered to extreme ignorance. Like ALL women you have (excuse my language) "Ladies" and "b.tches" (again pls excuse me). If you go to Trinidad same story. Barbados? same story. Colombia? Same. America? Same. Africa? You fill in the blank. We are more than worth it after all we are also of African descent which regardless of how you all feel connects us. The only division between us that should be evident is the Atlantic Ocean nothing more. Grow up and educate yourselves on the tribes that make up Jamaica: Igbo and Yoruba are among the many f.y.i.

To my Nigerian brothers and sisters who understand me, bless up and respect. I look forward to conversing with you all and getting to know Nigerian culture and history to all else grow up!, AND FAST.

now this is a real post from a jamaican woman, u just cant ignore them , you just have to R.E.S.P.E.C.T them.

no big deal, girls love it, did it once to an ex at ring road benin, kissed for close to 10 secs, everyone was watching and whistling, blive me she started loving me differently from dat day.

googles:

[size=13pt]i caught my boyfriend right on top of a girl grinding her and guess wat he told me "she seduced me i tried to ignore her but she forced me" [/size]but i saw him on top of her looking very well "unforced"

u must really feel hurt. no wonder u have the metal doors around ur heart.


@post, she said her family was gonna be hosting a meeting and so she will be busy all weekend. meanwhile she was in abuja with a sugar daddy. ow i found out is a story for another day.

benincitys:

THEY ALL MAKE SENSE TO ME , I LIKE THIS 2.
,Materialistic girl
-usually is good looking and well dressed
-is looking very well outside but inside it is a bunch of money hungry
taker
-she is looking all the time after boys which are staying very well
with their wallet
-she expects that a man should finance her entire life just because she
is biologically female
-she is very friendly, nice at the beginning but after some time you'll
see that no matter how much you give her, she wants more
-she is greed personified
-she is interested only in what she wants and not others feelings
-stay away from this kind of girl because she will dumped you after she
spend all your money

Angry girl
-she is the type of the girl which sees life like a battle
-anything what is happening or is told to her is seen as a insult at
her address
-has also a bad opinion about man, sees only the wrong sides of a man
-she is always upset and angry
-usually she likes to take out of context everything what is said to
her and to interpret the words like she wants
-you don't have any future with her, she has a simmering anger at men
which can explode at any moment

10x for breaking the lengthy post down a bit. i think the girls in group 13 shld be avoided.

and i see alot of em on NL. xpecially one Y.

b4 i read thru ur post, she wld have run off with someone else. sorry i'll stick to my moves, no time!

Feraz:

How LASU take pass uniben

hahahahaha, who drop this joke abeg!

Mrs INEC, ow can we vote without seeing canditates. i suspect rigging here. paste the pishurs jor!

if i avoid 13 types of women, then who will be left to date.

bleeping gay promoter!

there shld be no arguement on this one, everyone know the ibo girls play hardest.

i think schools like uniben, OAU, UI, UNILAG, UNN, need to sit up. its really a shame that unilorin is been rated above these schools. they are all just living on past glory. i saw it coming b4 i left uiben. they used to be a great school, but blive me now, its a learning field for prostitutes, cultist and thieves. there is hardly any academic learning going on there.

but still GREATEST UNIBEN!!!!!!!!!!

and someone was complaining why didnt a nigerian university come top ten in the lastest ranking.

abeg come and see a nigerian student here, talking alot of nonsense.

virign! virgin!! virgin!! u peeps are begining to make this thing sound like a religion.

and now i am on d thread, ow can u prove i'm not VIRGIN.