 Literature › Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by SoapQueen(f): 3:59pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
raumdeuter:
This is the right response I expect from a woman who isn't interested. You respond instantly to decline. either say no or push him away
You are a woman, how many seconds will it take you to feel hands in your blouse, into your bra(that is usually tight) and squeeze for a few seconds.
If that happened its either you are unconscious or you somehow didn't totally object until it got beyond a certain point
You havent told me about the pay disparity, will you offer above what a bread seller agrees to sell her wares? It wasn't about any pay. It was based on gender. They both got into E! at same time. They manned the same activities, it took her more than a decade by mere happenstance to know that the difference in salaries was much. 1 Like |
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| Literature › Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by SoapQueen(f): 3:45pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
raumdeuter:
This is Bullshiiit
If I come to you and say I want to sleep with you, Do you realize you have the right to decline right? There is something like proposition and there is something called declining. Every girl knows this and stop making it sound like girls are dumb and have to take every proposition thrown at them
Of the men who have approached you for sex in your life, did you agree to sleep with everyone of them?
And the pay disparity, there is something called negotiation in every instance of business. If I offer you 200 and you accept, then the next person I offer him 200 and he declines insisting on 2M. Then dont blame me or him for knowing his worth and insisting on it
If you agree to 200, Do you expect me to give you more?
If you want to buy bread and offer N100 and the seller accepts, should I blame you for not offering N10,000 Let's paint a picture. You are someone who is well known in the business "world" and I happen to respect you a lot. In the bid to expand my soap business, I ask for a meet, because I believe you will be of help( not financial). If I visit you and you try to touch me, I SHOULD SLAP YOU VERY WELL, but because of your of your social standing and maybe age, I will tell you to stop in a calm manner, pick my bags and walk away. Now, did I sleep with him? No! Did I decline? Yes. Did I walk away? Yes. Did he abuse me? Yes. Must I show violence? No Sexual abuse no matter how little is abuse. If you touched my neck is a suggestive manner without my consent, it is an abuse. 1 Like |
| Literature › Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by SoapQueen(f): 3:29pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
MrBrownJay1:
ARRANT NONSENSE!!!
there are NO Pressure...if you cant say NO because you want to achieve whatever rubbish, then so be it,,, but if a man eye you then say NO, and if he insists then find ways to make him stop (the right way or the crazy way) but dont come here and justify this rubbish!
all them women who were abused by Weisntein etc did so because they are DELUDED...and went ahead to sleep with this man to get a role. they did NOT have to sleep with him, they did so because he was a powerful man in Hollywood who promise to put them in their next movies...the deluded ones slept with him, the proper ones with skills TURNED HIM DOWN! same thing that happens evryday with people who are trying to cut corners by sleeping their way to the top where their lack of skills couldnt get them. Who told you she didn't turn him down? Who told you we don't turn them down? No one is trying to cut corners here. Stop it. Not all women sleep to their way to the pedestal . It is so saddening and heartbreaking that after you have worked so hard for something, you see a man giving you conditions before your dreams can be brought to fruition. I'm done with the way men treat women. This gender disparity is so so unfair. Imagine E! network paying two members of staff who play same role different salaries, why? Because she is a woman. She got paid less. I anticipated this, as usual, the woman always takes the blame. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Literature › Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by SoapQueen(f): 3:16pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
MrBrownJay1:
so the man got his hand under your SHIRT and BRA, and you didnt think to say no or push his hand away as it was getting closer to your body?!?!?! how can a hand even "slip" under a shirt, or better yet a damn bra?! no wonder this demon had the audacity to try, if you couldnt even stop him when he was aiming for the breast... and then to make matters even worse, instead of giving this man a piece of your mind as to what happened, you still care about this book deal and downplay this abuse?!?!? no wonder there so many Weinstein bastards in this world
as much as what he did is wrong,this lady should certainly take some of the blame for this nonsense! Keep quiet there, my friend. When I was in Final year, a professor started putting his eyes on me. I was worried to death because this man had the power to halt my education. Do you know the pressure women go through? Did you read the stories of those women that was abused by that director in Hollywood? To my story, I Bought a fake wedding ring and was always dodging him. I started praying. Thankfully, we embarked on a long strike and when we resumed, the man fell sick and couldn't come to school anymore.. |
| Literature › Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by SoapQueen(f): 3:09pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
Hmmm. Where are the men o?
You guys you should come and defend your brother.
Yeye man.
Until the lion learns to write, every story will glorify the hunter.
This lady is too calm, too collected. Too much! 5 Likes |
| Politics › Re: Photos Of The Stolen Mace Being Returned To The National Assembly By Police by SoapQueen(f): 1:46pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
They are acting like they found the "Holy Grail" |
| Romance › Re: Why My Wife Will Never Go For Yoga Classes (See Shocking Photo) by SoapQueen(f): 1:37pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
Hmmmm...
Yoga(Finger)...
Yoga is good though but this one, na wah.
What kinda fat bellied man does yoga by the way? |
| Romance › Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by SoapQueen(f): 1:34pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
GeeWire:
Pardon any typos, incorrect grammars and all, I'm lobotomized as I write.
I was brought up from a Godly home. I couldn't hurt a fly. I lost my dad in 2013 and my mom wasn't financially capable to fend for me and my siblings. Everyone in the family abandoned us, from my dad's siblings to his cousins, including those he helped when he was alive.
I began to struggle in skul because of insuficient funds. I was very intelligent. I was the best in my class but I had to drop out because I couldn't cope anymore, I couldn't read and understand with an empty stomach.
When I dropped out I met this cute girl on an old chatting site (name witheld, clue: a South African owner dating site) and we got talking and we started dating in few weeks. I loved her so much that I could slap my mom to be with her.
One day she asked me to send her airtime lol me that was jobless and broke, so she told me how can I be broke and claim I have a girl friend. This inspired me and I started doing business same month and the first transaction I made 5k ( jeeeez 5k was like a million dollars to me then) and then some days after I made 20k in one day NOTE: IT WAS LEGIT NO FRAUD WHATSOEVER. I started growing financially and my girlfriend was very proud of me and vowed she will be with me for ever.
I started supporting my mom and siblings once in a while and then I entrolled in a university and single handedly paid my school fees and everything. I was sending my girlfriend about 10-20k every week for upkeep. I paid her hostel school fees from year 1 till year 4, she attended a private University so the fees was expensive but I did it for love. because of her I stopped taking care of my family, I abandoned them because she encourage me to do so indirectly. My mom cried bitterly several times and would tell me I am dating a witch but I'll yell at her and quarrel with my mom.
I tried to have sex with her severally but she told me she was a virgin and she will not have sex till she's married, wow this made me more in love with her so she used that as a weapon to keep me. I never cheated on her and I promised to marry her as a matter of fact I engage her.
Fast forward to 2016 we lodged in a Hotel just to chill and in the mid night my spirit said I should check her fone and read her whatsapp messages. Oh goddamn what I saw almost made me run mad. She was cheating on me with a guy that is richer than me. Dey even had sex damn I felt like killing her but I kept my cool and when she woke up I told her and we broke up for good. But damn I had spent millions on this bi*ch but I let her go.
I was traumatized, I felt like killing myself but what kept me alive was same year I had a contract with some west African countries and millions of Naira was coming in. Funnily enough same time we broke up I made couple millions from the contract and became a baller. I couldn't stay at home because I wasn't mentally fit due to what happened so I had to lodge in a Hotel and I spent heavily carrying different Girls, I could have sex with 4 Girls in a day, I started drinking and doing all sorts of things Although I was making more money from my contracts... I lodged in the hotel for up to 1 year without any investment, I did so just to keep myself busy and not do something stupid like taking my life. The contract crushed and money gone....
I was left with nothing and with shame I went back home and my mom and siblings embraced me and welcomed me back home and I narated all that happened. And the government changed the system of everything, I tried and tried but couldn't do anything to generate money from the west Africa countries. My mom started taking care of me.
I met one of the guys I helped when I was financially buoyant. Good news he had made money online and I asked him how he did it and he taught me all and I started and become a boss but this time with wisdom of Solomon. I have given my life to Christ, I now take care of my mom and siblings and God and been with me..
Now I am financially OK but I can never love again, I hate Girls. I wonder if I'll ever get married. I just dispise Girls. And for the first time I have not had sex for months.
I tried as much as possible to cut the story short. I can never love again sha... God did it and I am now bigger than my ex gf's bf, wiser and living my dreams. Glory be to God.
Lalasticlala mynd44 Seun...
Push this to the front page let them know why we young rich n*ggas remain single even with all the cash. Where is that my heeled shoe make I use am take hit your head first? See, don't be responsible for any girl's upkeep. Don't! How can you forget your mom? Your mom that carried you in her womb for nine months because of a woman like her! I never see man wey go make me forget my papa o. If I hear. I'd end on this note, I am sorry for your pains. So sorry. God is in control. Sometimes, we don't deserve things that happens to us. A very brilliant lawyer in Delta state once told me that "Life isn't black and white as we expect it to be, sometimes, Karma isn't a Bi**h". You will be fine. |
| Romance › Re: Alarming Increase In Prostitution - Especially On Social Media by SoapQueen(f): 1:26pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
BlackPantherxXx:
Ladies & Gents,
This is not to castigate anyone. It is just my way of sharing my experiences dating online.
I am an old school guy and in the past, winning the heart of a woman meant love poems, pouring sugar into her ears with sweet words, giving her thoughtful gifts, etc.
But these days especially on social media platforms and dating websites such as Instamessage and Badoo, this is like the standard conversation:
Guy: Hi, I am Guy, i would like to get to know you much better.
Gal: Send me recharge card...it is 15k short time, 30k all night. (na gold dey dia?  )
This happens like 95% of the time.... It's really alarming that most of our ladies in the tertiary have resorted to prostitution to make ends meet.
I would NEVER support prostitution because i believe it's mostly due to laziness and there's always a better alternative.
YES, we know most of the guys online just want to have intercourse, BUT won't we both enjoy it? Why must I be charged for it?
Guys out there, better pray to God, otherwise the fairly used you thought you have, might have 1000 Ds/day on the odometer.
Just guess what the D in RED stands for 
This is an original piece from King Tchalla, a resident of Wakanda It takes two to tango (and tangle). Why do you attract girls that do "short time"? Instead of you guys to be on the look out for calm headed girls, you will decide to hunt for slay queens with idi nla. See that thread on black girls with big boobs..Una wan die there. Later you will start complaining. |
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| Romance › Re: . by SoapQueen(f): 11:48am On Apr 19, 2018 |
grossintel:
Really? An is here you want to ask me. Yes, I don't have anyone yet. I will contact you when we are ready so you can get in touch with her. Doesn't matter. Business. |
| Romance › Re: . by SoapQueen(f): 10:36am On Apr 19, 2018 |
grossintel:
Okay, we've been dating for a year now. And so far everything is going well and we have no issues at all. We plan on get married this year, no fixed dates yet but we are working towards it. We are both burn on January. On 9th January, she was with me at home and that day was my birthday, even though I'm not the type that celebrate birthdays I really appreciate gifts from anyone no matter how small I don't care. The drama started when I noticed she forgot that day was my birthday, I was getting calls from friends and family wishing me happy birthday but she didn't say anything. Not until it was evening when my Lil brother called and she over heard him saying "happy birthday bro" then she started saying she's sorry that she forgot my birthday and I couldn't just believe it. I was soo angry, and I just can't forget it even though I have forgiven her. But I never got any gift at all from her, her excuse is that she has no money. I spent over 200k last December on shopping and other stuff and most of it was spent on her and my mom. Now she's back to school, and expecting me to take care of her as usual. Her birthday is coming up on 31st of January , and I keep remembering it every single day, I really want to forget her birthday too but I can't. This little issue is causing me heart breaks inside, so many things are going on through my mind as how someone who cares about me so much can forget an important day of my life. Why are ladies like this? You want us to care for you, love you, respect you and provide for you. But when we do you take us for granted. The only way I might probably forget the whole thing is to pretend I forgot her own birthday too but, I'm just confused right now.
Mods please don't move this to front page, I just need a few advices from matured minds please. And please no one should insult my lady, if you can't comment without insults please don't comment at all, and I appreciate you for coming. Quick one! My sister said to ask if you'd still be needing her decor services for your event. |
| Politics › Re: Fayose Reacts To President Buhari Saying That Nigerian Youths Don't Like To Work by SoapQueen(f): 7:30am On Apr 19, 2018 |
They say "Dogs love bone". Not true, dogs don't like bones, is just that no one is willing to give them meat.
Buhari, I hope this answers your senseless comments.
btw
Those guys that stole the mace, they made me so ashamed. Everyone is laughing at Delta state. |
| Celebrities › Re: Chigozie Atuanya Wearing Fake Designer Shirt. Fans React by SoapQueen(f): 7:08am On Apr 19, 2018 |
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T: 08177415259. 08137855767 I think Zurich...I have written articles on more than hundred towns in Europe. The only thing I know about Berlin is the Berlin wall. I will look up Zurich asap. Modified; It is in Berlin! Just checked. |
| Celebrities › Re: Chigozie Atuanya Wearing Fake Designer Shirt. Fans React by SoapQueen(f): 7:08am On Apr 19, 2018 |
Officialshikane too? |
| Romance › Re: What's The craziest Thing Someone Has Ever Done For You Out Of Love? by SoapQueen(f): 5:24am On Apr 19, 2018 |
DavidEsq:
So u didn't read that part of the scriptures that says "don't be unequally yoked with an unbeliever abi  You didn't read the part of the Scriptures that said it is wrong to commit formication, abi? |
| Politics › Re: Faces Of The Senate's Mace Thieves On The Run (Photo) by SoapQueen(f): 11:19pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
hustler86:
You're so cute and reserved.... Everything you see ain't always what they seem, but thank you. |
| Romance › Re: What's The craziest Thing Someone Has Ever Done For You Out Of Love? by SoapQueen(f): 11:09pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
Perfectnumber6:
. Believe me I've gotten nothing against the Muslim guys dating my Christian girls, but sorry to say some of them are infidels, one was saying that whenever he sleeps with a Christian girl he has performed jihad or whatever that it good to sleep with christian girls and make them feel unworthy can you beat that. I mean truth be told some of them are so wayward and useless. So believe me dear I always tell my christian sisters to desist from them. Don't believe everything you hear. He was like my best friend ever.We didn't end things because of religion, we did because of something else. This was years ago. Not recently. If you must know, he didn't force me to convert. I have always had this notion of raising kids in unity. |
| Romance › Re: What's The craziest Thing Someone Has Ever Done For You Out Of Love? by SoapQueen(f): 11:06pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
CarlosTheJackal:
Converting to Islam because of love? This is Akuko iberibe Your slurs and innuendos mean nothing to me. |
| Romance › Re: What's The craziest Thing Someone Has Ever Done For You Out Of Love? by SoapQueen(f): 10:49pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
Perfectnumber6:
. My apologies, but you should have just taken his religion na since you loved him so much you know. I believe in one God, the father Almighty, the creator of Heaven and Earth and in Jesus Christ, his only begotten son . |
| Romance › Re: What's The craziest Thing Someone Has Ever Done For You Out Of Love? by SoapQueen(f): 10:37pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
Perfectnumber6:
. Lols so you've allowed a Muslim guy to eat and clean mouth hmmmm . Never say something as disrespectful as this to me ever again. |
| Romance › Re: "Women Have More Opportunities To Cheat Than Men, Men Shouldn't Blame Devil" by SoapQueen(f): 10:36pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
obonujoker:
In this immoral world?? yes that lady is strong... Okay, thank you! I will see myself as strong henceforth. |
| Romance › Re: Share Your Heartbreak Story Here by SoapQueen(f): 10:35pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
americanson:
Oh great. I thought as much too. I hope to see him someday and give him a big brotherly hug. much respect. No dey cry again o. but how come your handle is very recent if you have known young for so long? Did you change moniker? I registered my first nairaland account, 1,January, 2011.. |
| Romance › Re: "Women Have More Opportunities To Cheat Than Men, Men Shouldn't Blame Devil" by SoapQueen(f): 10:03pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
BadBradley:
All these Warri slum rats who swapped their school pen for random dicks will not even be ashamed to display their gutter breeding and illiteracy on social media.
Illiterate Baldheaded emo-bitch quoting me without even pretending to debunk laid down facts. I could easily understand why you could easily talk to women the way you like. Nope. I am proudly from Warri, na dere I die put. But you are wrong,I graduated with good grades from a very good university. My problem has never been dicks, give me stuffs like calculating the saponification value of soaps or citing references Havard or APA style. That is what gives me "orgazzms" Baldheaded? Lol. I got full head of hair. Why yo mad at me, sis? Need a tampon for yo running mouth? |
| Health › Re: . by SoapQueen(f): 9:26pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
AlvanT:
For years now I keep having this suicidal thoughts and I think I'm losing my grip. I don't know how to keep fighting it and for how long more...
I have gone for MRI scan and discovered I have a concussion probably as a result of a head trauma I had when I was a kid,but I do not think that might be the cause. I've suffered depressioned severally and have gotten over it.I'm thinking I may have bipolar disorder,hopefully not cos if I do I may as well die now cos I don't have money to treat it.lol Get a puppy..You have a concussion from years ago? I hope you are alright. |
| Romance › Re: What's The craziest Thing Someone Has Ever Done For You Out Of Love? by SoapQueen(f): 9:23pm On Apr 18, 2018*. Modified: 7:43am On Apr 19, 2018 |
I've done so many things for love.
Life though.
I'm willing to do more because love is worth it. |
| Romance › Re: "Women Have More Opportunities To Cheat Than Men, Men Shouldn't Blame Devil" by SoapQueen(f): 9:20pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
BadBradley:
Women aren't programmed biologically to cheat. That's unless they have been damaged and altered somewhere in their formative years.
The hormone oxytocin bounds a woman to one sexual partner and that hormone is rendered ineffective by testosterone in males.
If women are to cheat like men, the paternity of the entire world would be in dispute. That's why you all evolved to be biologically limited to really cheat.
Don't mistake admiration or loyalty for love in women. If words were all it takes to bed a woman, then I wonder why you people don't marry poets.
Only males are equipped to reproduce children back-to-back. Women have to wait their cylce of pregnancy, childbirth and lactation before being ready again.
Women are born loyal except they get distorted by early rape in childhood or some other sexual trauma.
Only true unadulterated virgins know this.
N.B Don't insult me though, your first post delineated you as just hanging barely on the fringes of civility. Let's keep it civil. Who is this one talking hormones? Abeg, commot here with your bad character. |
| Romance › Re: "Women Have More Opportunities To Cheat Than Men, Men Shouldn't Blame Devil" by SoapQueen(f): 9:19pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
obonujoker:
Very correct.... Any lady who doesn't cheat is great and very strong..... I have never, ever, ever cheated in a relationship. Even when I'm single, I still do not mess myself up. Does it mean I'm strong? What the hell is strong? Why do you classify sexual discipline as being strong? Shouldn't it be that way? |
| Politics › Re: Faces Of The Senate's Mace Thieves On The Run (Photo) by SoapQueen(f): 9:14pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
Bigii:
Lol 
The kind rain wey beat me and my Kakki for my PU eh... Reach my house by 3am nearly die of cold in Enugu that year. Guy, you know the matter... The first election, we went to Akili Ogidi, crossed the river Niger with one witch looking wooden boat..Na only God go save me and my mugu-ness sha.. I finished the elections and was admitted at the hospital. |
| Politics › Re: Faces Of The Senate's Mace Thieves On The Run (Photo) by SoapQueen(f): 9:12pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
lightness77:
why would anyone slap someone as pretty as you? Ayam not understanding Okay nau. They punch some girls eyes, see whipping with cutlass. |
