Nyascobar1414:


And when they are rich.. They will never be loyal to one cooch!e...

And that's fine too, if it makes them happy. Their life, their money, their D!

It is a crime for broke boys to have an erection.

Get yo ass up and work!!!

Mikeeytools:
Your mate are heading key positions in Nigeria. Be here thinking of movies.

Being a film critic is such a highly revered position.

descarado:
Laziness and lack of control.

They don't have reason.
30 minutes in your room with good eating habit is all you need.

They will come here to compare themselves with women that are passing through body and hormonal changes.
Some birth control pills will just make you add weight unnecessarily not to talk of stress of keeping a home.

If you can't gym, eat and drink responsibly.

Very true. I went back to working out and I do skipping everyday. I feel and look alot better.

Christ Jesus.

Jmichael1:
Good day my fellow nairalanders.
please I'm not good in writting, abeg make una pardon me. I just want to go straight to the point.

i'm michael,the first child of my parents(all boys)as a 1st son,i took 90% of my dad character of wish i don't like 70% of them but i can't stop acting like him, I behave exactly like him in almost every thing.

I have tried all i could to stop bt no way...
Please want do u guys suggest for me to do?
i don't want to live the kind of life my dad lived.

please i need your advice...

See a therapist and break the link...

franchasofficia:
Just 580k and your husband is bleating already ? Abeg nne go back to your Pastor, your husband need prayers for financial breakthrough first before your family wahala can come in. Your husband is still struggling financially, he needs some break to stand not because the 580k is too much.



Dear Nigerian men, 580k as bride price is not too much oh, abeg na somebody train that chick u wan marry so lol. 580k should be for knocking at the door self to know if my daughter is around

Weird flex but go off.

Owologbo:

The wife no go see her parents sef, unless I permitted her.

What if she gives birth? Who will do Omugwo for her?

Promotions:
If you have good in laws and have the money to help them that's fine, I see nothing big about it but on the contrary if you don't have or don't wish to help that's still fine cos you owe no man a dime, every man should make their money and take care of their family.

Good in-laws or not, it is highly unfair. Is the brother not a man like her husband? Why cannot he not hustle? I detest lazy people with every drop of blood in me.

guru03:
Hello Professional Health workers in the house, Mt two year old son who is learning to talk is stammering, please I need help on that. Moderator please post it to front page.

I don't think it's that deep. He will outgrow it. Please, allow him be a baby and develop as he should.

PeaceJoyLove:


Your father has anger issue just like many dads out there.

I see nothing wrong that you went to take your own phone cos he crossed his boundary first. But I wont tell you to disrespect him. Taking your phone isnt disrespecting him like how ppl are saying. Remember that most of these ppl are like him.

Anyway, if you can feed yourself, stay away from him. Move away. Do not listen to your step mom. Go and start fending for yourself.

Guy, no matter how bad your relationship is with your dad, when you are successful, he will accept you. So, keep off for now so that he wont injure you. Imagine he has sent you to 6 ft below, could you have written this epistle? And no one is telling him how violent he is.

Guy, leave home....block their numbers and face your life. At the right time, you will go see him again. This is my advice.

Goodluck!

God bless you for this.

SHINJA:



Shut up abeg dey yarn trash . even Bible talk say mk parents no provoke dem pikin...

Which kind papa go dey insult him late wife and dey call her pikin bastard,want even kill am..

God bless you! You're the only person who has written something sensible. From this write up, you can see that the Op sounds so scared and sounds like someone who is constantly being abused emotionally by his father.

Add to that, the Op is 27 years old, abi my eye dey pain me?

I feel so bad

damilarea2:




Meanwhile, Me i cant sleep without cuddling, I must sha play with up and down.. Even if we are not in good terms, I must still cuddle at night before I can sleep. We can now continue our malice next day..

Whenever we are having issues and she leaves the room for me.. I will be having nightmares

Loool. Woman wrapper. Cuddling is so much fun but my man shouldn't dare come near me when I'm Mad!!!

Uniquetani1:
She should ask him if he still loves her.
Na so divorce process dey start.



But I will like a separate room with my husband, I don't like disturb

I don't think it's a big deal. Maybe he wants his space. It will also make them value their time together. But sleeping and waking up together fosters bonding.

donbenie:
After they murdered her?
Conspiracy Theorist..
Where you there when she was murdered?

Hmmmm. Okay.

DoveXlover:
Hmm you are right.
Hollywood is more than meets the eyes.

It's everywhere, my dear.

On this note,never let anyone get a hold of your hair or touch your head unnecessarily.

DoveXlover:
Hmmm well you might be right but the timing is just strange.
Like after 60 years.

Hair holds energy.
Hair strands are very potent especially for Voodoo and that's why familial spirits, warlocks, and the rest jump with glee whenever they get a strand of their enemies hair.

blazingblender:
My friend go and sit down
Your girlfriend is the one who doesn't deserve you sef
You are having phobia travelling on Nigeria road
Asif the country you live in you guys fly around..
Secondly I believe the abroad you are even talking about may be one of this closeby African countries like Cotonou
Si if you don't come back home where do u wanna retire??
Or you think we living here are asshol*$?

Loool

Chibabe005:
This woman will make you wonder and come to accept how difficult and stupid some men are.. what do they really want? They say they want a woman who'll stay with them through thick and thin, Mary edochie did just that. She wasn't barren, gave this mofo three bouncing boys and a beautiful daughter! Yet this idiot went not only for this hippopotamus but a divorcee with two children already.

Wow! She's a divorcee?

StilmaVsBorn2w:


What will hard, they kill me?

Your problem is that you're too hard-headed and difficult to mold and fold.

If you want to keep your son and maintain a decent relationship with his mother's family, better go and marry her corpse.

Don't even argue with them because you're already causing a rift.

Your stubbornness is very evident. With the way you disrespected your mom, one would think that you'd stand by your late ex - in life and death.

Add to that, you're hoarding the information of her tribe, why?

You've suddenly become a Messiah of tribes who cares more about two warring factions than losing his son to a grieving family.

If you truly love your son and you loved his mother, you'll go all out .....

snookcg:
Lots of marriages are like this lately and I don't know why yet but i am guessing this female Facebook pages where they share different stories are largely contributing to it or maybe I am just tripping. Wahala wey social media go cause ehn, internet nor go fit solve am.

I hate to agree but I thinks this is the truth. Social media has done more harm than good.

Sominablack:
Thanks all for the advice, I appreciate. But as it is now, am no longer interested in the relationship any longer, how can I do with my daughter of 7years that's the only issue bothering me now, cos I dont want her to influence her negatively.

Cc:
Lalasticlala
Mynd44
Obinoscopy
Etc.

Wow! I'm so scared of this thing called marriage.

habsydiamond:
naija babes can do horrible things for money outside the shores of this country... I saw a video of an Arabian pooping in the mouth of one Nigerian babe.. She was lying down naked with poop all over her face and mouth.

Jesus Christ of Nazareth

I've missed Ibadan soooo much. Wow

Aonkuuse:
Stephanie Seember Terungwa Edward Achado: Missing Female Corps Member Found Dead, Her Vital Parts Removed (Graphic Photos)




Source: https://salemgists.com/missing-female-corps-member-stephanie-se-ember-terungwa-found-dead-her-private-organs-removed/

Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/7099650/corper-stephanie-terungwa-missing-abuja

My God! This stunning girl gone like that? God saves us.

descarado:
Hmm.

Hope the 1st wife is not a stay at home.
When women start putting themselves first before any other person, nobody will take them for a ride.

This comment.

Peter Obi

dynicks:
APRIL goons can I see your hands in the air!!....
Omo see plenty hands!!...opor!!

Kwaku the Traveller comes to mind!!......ahead ahead!!

Yasssss!!!

Mooh247:


Open relationship is understandable but open marriage?! Really so in their marital vows at the church and registry they agreed to infidelity...

I strongly doubt this

Perhaps they might be swingers couple, or their sex life is open to 3 some and the rest, but open marriage in Nigeria, by a Nigerian man?!

They had an open marriage, sir.

Add to that, you'd be surprised at the number of couples who have opened their marriages over the years. They're plenty but Nigerians/Africans are naturally hypocrites and would rather latch on their religiosity than talk about their curiosity.

People do THINGS behind closed doors.

Mooh247:




You cheated on your husband on a continental tv show watched by millions of people.... It would take discipline and self control for her husband not to be tempted to slap the shit out of her face when they meet

To rub salt on the husband's injury, she wasn't even remorseful, she was conducting interviews and press engagement justifying her infidelity

In old African customary laws, punishment of adultery is death

In Sharia law it is 100 lashes of cane with one year of banishment

In US it is a valid bases for dissolution of marriage, and the husband can still get compensation

However in Nigeria, the reward of Adultery is endorsement deal, celebrity status, praise by fellow feminist, free insult on the husband calling him SIMP , abuser, 2min weak man


.

They had an open marriage. Confirm this fact/hard truth from people who knew them before she went into the house

Gaggii:
I just put this here may be I could get some relief.

I don't want to share it with anyone because it's a family issue, since am anonymous here

I told my wife to do family planning after our second child, she refused claiming she is not a kid and knows how to prevent herself.

Now she is pregnant and will not terminate it.

My head one bust, been thinking how to survive this economy with 3kids, while earning a salary less than 100k.

She has her niece leaving with us and my own nephew also leaving with us.

Contraceptives take a toll on a woman's body! Why not practice withdrawal method?

oshorstan:
I have experienced the power of God via his presence. I notice it during worship, praise and prayer.. especially when I am listening to Paul Wilbur. I have gotten my healing via God's hands. There is God ohhhh. We know say Church done spoil, but God never change

Oh God! You just said my mind. I grew up listening to Paul Wilbur. God is good