OMOJOHN001: I have been Dating this babe for the past three years and it has not been so easy funding the relationship and other expenses, but God do come through and I still do achieve lots each year.
But this year have been so worse on her own part, because as for me my income still comes on a steady but I felt I need more money to do lots of things at the moment.
Since January this year, I have be the one Financing this babe, To an extent that each week I will ask her to go withdraw money and prepare what she will eat throughout that week, But to my surprise her family will join her in consuming the dish before mid week, atimes Wednesday, a times Thursday, and She will start crying again of not having anything to eat, They do not have anything in the house, No gas, no oil, no garri and all sort of Nonsense...
Her family is just to broke, She has a single mother, though her dad is dead. RIP to him,he was responsible while on earth.
She has been loyal, good and supportive to me the best way she can, I don't even have sex with her on regular bases, Reason is that I am on a course in UniIlorin presently and she stays in Ile-Ife so the distance is another issue, but we still see at least whenever we feel like.
Guy's, I am planning of getting a car this year and start a new life in another state, all my effort have been stagnant a bit because of this babe, She does not just have #5 on her own, She's not working because there is no work in ile ife that can fetch her above 12k, unless she wan add olosho to it though and the only work there is Filling station attendant and Hotel work couple with part time olosho.
Ordinary weaving of hair, I will carry it, Every Penney she has spent this year is my money,
Her mom too, lacks maturity. Imagine her having the gut's to demand me for meney as in-law few weeks ago that she's sick, though I sent her little cash sha, but I decided that same day will be the last day she will hear from me, as I have a plan that very day to break up with her daughter this month and I have choosing today.
Guy's I love this babe and I really want the best for her, For the past three years most of her friends have try to convince her that I will break up her heart and Jilt her, But she was adamant and keep believing I will not, seriously I didn't have such thought in my plans for her.
But with her level of reachedness and Level of needs and Demand and I deserve better, I am moving on with my life, My pastor said something in church today as per fathers day... HE SAID PRAY NOT TO MARRY INTO A FAMILY WHEREBY YOU WILL START FIGHTING ANOTHER SPIRITUAL BATTLE OF POVERTY AND BROKENESS. .
I felt so down, cuz the prayer is the definition of my babe's Family. local man is tired, But the only fear and my concern is (How she will be mocked and laugh at among her mates that told her this prophecy before, This babe so much love me and she will cry hell today,).
I am feeling guilty, How will she cope without having an helper, No Father and Mom is useless. She will have no choice than to start fucking dicks up and down to survive, that's certain, and she knows it.
PLEASE HOW CAN I STOP FEELING GUILTY, because she's really put all her hope in me and my plan us to help her with a shop once I am through with my course,but Omo the billing no be here oooo, I will still send her money today to prepare this week food and her family will devour everything again before Wednesday.
What's the best way to approach this issue. Help a brother.
Dump the leech because you'll never ever grow. Every woman needs to earn. Work hard legitimately and earn money.
Everything should have a limit. How will you grow if you're acting like this? Even Father Christmas' do not give gifts all-year round - just one season!
Ogbeni, wise up!
I'm a woman and I will tell you the truth.
Permit to say this, she's wicked and lazy and entitled. And the day she sees a richer guy, her mom would be the first person to tell her to dump you.
Call her, speak to her, and tell her that you want her to start a business/side hustle, if she develops cold feet, let her go.
There are a thousand and one legit jobs out there..
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Lessons to learn 1)Don’t Use the name of God as a blackmailing tool to get Funds 2)Greed is detest by God almighty 3)EJIKE MBAKA has nursed Hatred and anger for mr Peter OBI for four years now just for refusing to give him money Hatred and bitterness are not Godly Watch it before you disgrace yourself 4)It’s always good to leave vengeance for God cos he sure knows how to fight for people OBI never faught MBAKA for once and for doing that God has been fighting his battles 5)People are beginning to Know God for real cos all we have been doing for decades are knowing his prophets just to be established and forget that the reason for religion is for man to know God but men has risen to the position of God here on earth and that is becoming so clear everyday
6)the time we have to work out our salvation in this country we have spent it praying and praying And now the youth are done with prayers all we need now is action and anybody that want to stand in the line of that must have questions to answer
SARSCoV2: Peter Obi`s supporters always looking hungry. You can barely find a healthy person in his support base.
The people in the video need food and not Peter Obi!
Just as at yesterday, It was drunkards that were campaigning at the bar.
Wonders shall never end!
You're dumb. The hungry looking fellows are the epitome of what an average Nigerian who is being dealt with looks like. Their looks are real, raw, and rational.
I'd be worried, very worried if his ilks looked fat and flourishing.
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The bolded is simply the basic reason why it seems men don't get a lot of attention from their wives when children begin to come. What I don't understand is why they don't understand this. You are a parent(I assume) you know how demanding it is to look after babies and toddlers and you are whining?
It's very simple you want more attention make life easier for her.
Most times the who/what gets the lack of attention is the husband, some will use him as the opportunity cost. She's not a super hero she can't quench.
House-must be well made clean, food, all chores done etc etc Work- you must earn abi Children - must be taken care of.
After these simple things above, she's simply tired and the husband is the one that can actually do some of the things himself.
Basically husband's make life easier for your wives, pikin is crying you can't serve yourself food . Wives don't form superhero o, if you can afford to get a house cleaner, get someone to wash clothes, buy machine, outsource what you can, dont go and quench. Get help.
You go from 6 am - 7pm in this our Lagos, stress will almost kill you and you don't have any source of help, don't kill your self oo. Ehen. This is the simple reason lots of wives are looking older than their husband's, it's not about age most of the times it's about stress.
Please don't tell me hes working to bring the money home, the wife is also working too abeg.
The above is for a normal infidelity free marriage, once cheating enters for most if not all women all bets are off.
The OP could as well opened his thread without referencing her thread, I don't understand what the Chochocho is about.
100% sense. So much truth.
I know someone whose husband told her to go and prepare food for him 6 days after she had a Caesarean Section. 6 days!
Some women look older than their husbands because of stress and lack of proper rest.
DenreleDave: I still don't get.. Are men built to work and not enjoy?
My first instance: A very popular nairalander loves to show her kids all time which is not bad but she doesn't even mention her husband..... What baffles me most is this statement; "my money is for me and my kids"...
Does it Mean a wife cannot even treat her husband well too?
I guess this is the main reason some men ignore their wife and kids to enjoy their lives... They know that most kids grow to love their mother..
I don't blame such men.... But I don't hope to have such a wife that have the mentality of my kids and I ALONE?
2ndly, I feel most women are not happy in their marriage which is why all they live for is their kids.. The only reason why most ladies are still under the same roof is because of the kids and their lack of financial resources to stand alone... Most are just having sex, doing mommy and daddy bcoz of the kids but the true essence of marriage between has long dissappeared...
If not, in my own perception, a happily married woman should be proud of her husband. She should happily treat her husband well. She should say wonderful things about her husband.
Marriage dey fear me walahi....
The bond between a mother and a child cannot be broken, even God knew that, and that's why He created every pregnant woman with an umbilical cord.
It doesn't mean that wives love their children more than their husbands, it's just nature.
My 3 month old baby may need my attention, love, and care because he/she can clearly not take care of him/herself but my husband can and will.
Second, motherhood is alot. And Nigerian men are in the habit of over stressing their wives. When a mother has tended to her kids, cleaned the house, shopped at the market, and done the laundry, she has little time left for her man. My sister once told me that she stopped having a full night's sleep the day she became a mother.
Third, you expect me to love a man that cheats or will cheat over my dearly beloved child that I nurtured in my body and brought into this world?
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TheNiceGuy: I'm very sure if an Imam is caught on camera with orange peeling knife inside mosque, all of us here laughing, hailing and abetting this Pastor would do the opposite. They will result to Insult upon insult to his religion and even our Creator.
A thread about a man with knife inside mosque graced the to yesterday, our reactions were not like this.
This is crude Hypocrisy
Holy ghost fire burn that your stupid mouth there. How many times have you heard that Christians went into a mosque to attack Muslims?
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Mr Jollof, for years has been known as a political prostitute, a sycophant, and a vacillator.
For any price, he can be bought. The highest paymaster gets short term loyalty from him.
Permit me to say this, I don't know the exact reason you're living a sugar free lifestyle, but....
We should not allow these doctors demonize sugar. There's nothing wrong with taking sugar (except for some medical cases). However, take in moderate proportion.
These people keep demonizing our food. My point is eat your food as medicine. Even excess water intake is bad. It is called Water Intoxication but that does not stop us from drinking water daily as it is required for life activities.
...lemme stop here.
Happy Sunday all
Awwwwwww. Thanks so much for your kind words but the decision to go sugar-free was 100% made by me. Not only did I go sugar-free, but I also went bread/pastry -free and beef free, and it's been almost 2 months. It was entirely for health purposes.
I feel really good so far and it's one of the best decisions I've made. But, I'll surely go back to these foods IF my body craves them, albeit slowly and in small quantities.
Add to that, I spent an hour on your profile at midnight. I was beyond shook and hooked. All your food, I mean all of them look appetizing and sumptuous!
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. Wives don't form superhero o, if you can afford to get a house cleaner, get someone to wash clothes, buy machine, outsource what you can, dont go and quench. Get help. 
