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NwanyiAwkaetiti:
This is a new one.... Maybe you guys should use protection then give him a protein smoothie after the exercise. If you in Nigeria just give him kunu aya for one week and see him expand.

Babe, that kunu aya and dates plus coconut is something else. I haven't given to any guy so I don't know what it feels like but I prepare it at home. It makes me feel so so good.

OfficialDad:
Okay. He is fvcking your friend or someone you know. Don't worry, let's deal with him... Let's cheat on him too..

You fall my hand @new daddy. Chai! I was praising you in my other post say you be world best dad.

I'm not so sure about this answer but I think if I truly love him and he makes me happy. Why not?


*Modified*
Some kind hearted guys just made me understand that men that smoke (cigarettes, weed et al) beat their wives. Honestly, my idea of being with a smoker was solely based on the fact that it entailed only cigarette. I never would get into a situation that will put me in the underbelly of sadness.

Forgive my oversight. Thanks guys for letting me know.

Mabpaine:
what i'm trying to figure out is Do you mean He wont be able to have a good relationship? Cos i believe everyone gets better by learning. Its not about changing him, its about teaching him. Especially since you know his weakness. Anyways i guess U opted out cos you were not ready to make compromises nor deal wiv dat aspect of him. Sorry for trolling U tho. I notice U r a very logical person which i admire bout u buh U seem to av less emotion (u probably view it as a weakness). Just my assumption. In all, i admire ur personality

I think she is a very mature girl. It takes a lot not to spew trash about an ex. Back to your suggestion on her "teaching" him. I'm not very sure you can babysit anybody's brain neither can you change them. If you compromise, in the end, you get hurt.

Just let it be.


For me, my ex?

I won't exchange him for anything. I only wish him the very best.

This is why I never visit a guy at home or allow any guy visit me. If we are hanging out somewhere, let it be at a public spot.

I no dey for cheri k'am bia!

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
She'll definitely leave you for the one that will make her smile and not cry no matter how small it is.

Rotfl.

Rukkydelta:
A 19years old guy can pregnant a Lady .But seriously op how do you relate with him as a lover? cos I personally see anyone older than me with 10years and above as a uncle.
Hope you are not in love with the money though, everybody is different and I guess you ain't comfortable with the age difference like you were you couldn't have asked this question. I will advise you to do what's on your mind and sincerely check yourself well if this man goes broke with nothing to fall back on financially will you still like him and be attracted to him?
And please if you decided to go ahead with the marriage plans get something doing so that you won't be find in a situation were you will be treated less a human cos you are totally dependent on someone. People do change

Oghenerukevwe, shocking thing is that I like guys that are a bit older than me. Say 8-12 years gap. It's good. The good ones pet their women ( I don't mean in monetary terms). Like, you can behave like a baby and feel safe in his arms.

lalanice:
how much time? Dude probably needs forever. But if she can wait then sure

I understand, sis. I get where she is coming from. True. It's better to confront it so that she can get closure.

It is well.

I legit had to modify my post when I read the COMPLETE story. The guy played the girl like ping pong. He got married to another lady. OMG! Humans sha.

Get a taser or a bottle of pepper spray

kullozone:
You should've uploaded a photo of the dishwashing liquid soap on your profile na! Abi na your face people go take wash plates? A sample of your product would be nice... Or you fit picmix your face and the soap.

Just seeing this! Thank you. Yeah, I will do that in my next picture. I did a mild survey and I noticed people hardly look at products, they just peep and port to the next post. Something has to be there that wouldn't look so boring, not like my face is fine sef.

Lexusgs430:
Lol....... Did you consider using a catheter?

Hells nah!

Stanzascop:
well,the truth still is that,I drove her to her parents,cos she said she had an interview the following week. See,I must tell you,my wife has been caught up in very compromising situations in the past,I always forgave her. She is very domineering and her parents cant even correct her.
I have noticed this on several occasions.
The last time,I was there to see her before all these,I asked her why she wouldnt come back to ogba where we live,her response was that she wasnt coming back to Ogba,infact I should get a new house on the island,preferably lekki phase 1, I said to her,the tenancy at our house in ogba runs for another 16 Months,so nothing can be done about changing that till after the 16/months,She only said ,she has told me what she wants.
And that was the end,her father and mother were right there and said nothing.
So ,you see I have learnt from their security man that she goes out till late at night and all that.
But,I need to get solid proof,before I can take that on.
Contracted P.I.s to handle that last week,because I need prove to divorce her without any complications if it comes to that.
I have never in all my dating life seen such irrational display from a woman.
I am not anxious for anything,I only want to ensure I can have good grounds to walk away,and not relinquish or share any of my assets as settlements in the eventual divorce proceedings.

I am really, really sorry to hear this. Somethings are meant to break if they aren't strong enough.


If you feel it isn't worth the stress, do what suits you.

Mrsimplexvi:
who ask u?

Haba! Have you no compassion? Can't you see the boy dozed off? Why am I even replying you?


Have a happy Sunday.

That child is like a toddler. Poor baby!

ladiesreject:
Hahaha .
The part where you said he called you a "chicken" really got me laughing.

But thank God for your type, hope to meet someone like you soon.

Cos 9ja girls mata tire me

B

Oga, na so the thing tire me that day. I felt so so ashamed of myself. It is well though.

My bro's gf told me that Africans over there don't like themselves. Na wah

Lifeofpolice1:
Name:
Indomie Vs Tea


I can't cope with the level of hungry in my stomach so as a wise guy I rush inside kitchen and prepare this for myself. Very delicious that my neighbors can't withstand..

How many of una have try this type of meal before

If YES like if NO share

#Billionairelifestyle #C.E.O MINDSET

Honestly, I haven't had this type of meal before. I will try it out but I don't like tea and bread. Enjoy!

ladiesreject:
Everything is not about money, true, but everything about a Nigerian girl is about money. Nigerian girls are the only set of people that will never love you because you're a human being, it's about what they get. So it's either they are loving you because of your money (most times) or they are loving you cos of your academic qualifications. SMH for 9ja girls

I wonder why you would say same thing. I fell in love with a guy recently. I loved him truly. The God I serve knows I didn't love him because of his money. I may not have much neither can I buy myself the Moon on a stick but I am thankful. I hustle very, very well.

Now, I noticed this guy has no respect for me whatsoever. He has so much pride in him. He called me a "chicken" just because I told him I was worried about him. I told myself that I was going to end everything because I couldn't see the reason why he would disrespect me.

This guy will go somewhere tomorrow and start ranting about Nigerian girls when he knows deep down that he messed up.

Long story short, there are exceptions to every rule. Thank you.

easzypeaszy:
u cnt compare Lagos or Abuja make-ups to dat of Suleja or Kebbi..And i feel she did a very, i mean execelent job..i love it...Tnx too bro

Awwww. Respect Sir. Correct man. Don't let naysayers tell you crap. You guys rock!

OfficialDad:

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Fatherhood comes with a lot of stress, thinking and emotions. The future becomes unpredictable, even though you seem to be in control.

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I remembered how everything happened, I traveled far away from her, weeks before i embarked on my journey, she informed me about her plan to go for a pregnancy test, deep down within me, I knew she was pregnant.

It was Tuesday, 2016, I can't remember the month, she called me, and spoke to me in a very sad tone, she was scared telling me about the pregnancy. She felt disappointed because she was thinking she failed me. Baby, I'm pregnant, she said to me , and went further trying to explain . I interrupted her, and congratulated us for the baby .

I didn't get that, she said to me, so I had to repeat myself, Honey, congratulations for giving me a baby .

I could feel her joy and happiness from the phone, let me call my parents and tell them about it?, she Inquired from me .


3months into the journey, I had to work directly from home, so i could look after her, and help manage her stress, mood and emotions.

She showed me pepper. She ate almost everything we came across, and her mood can easily swing AF . come and see her getting angry at me eh!, I will just be laughing grin , at the same time feeling so sorry for her...

But, I enjoyed the whole process, and I could never forget the pain, stress and trauma she endured.. Even the joy on my face when she asked the doctors to usher me in while she was about to put to bed.. , she said to me, please stay with me, I'm fragile , only you can comfort me. Tears almost finished me, but i did not allow it. I watched her, shout, cry, scream and fight in the process of giving birth to my son. She would look at me with tears running down her eyes, and she would say nothing..

Memories buried within.

Fatherhood is beautiful.

Kindly share your stories too.

Awww @Op...Na man you be. This story gave me collywobbles! I love to hear about love stories!

Congratulations to you and yours.

Stanzascop:
I am have been married for five years now.
Recently,precisely August,2017 My wife and I had some disagreements,and she left Our home to her parents.
To cut the story short,I tried to get her to come back home,but she wouldnt.
Anyway,I let her be.
From last year August till as recent as last week,she hasnt called or sent any sms.
I have been the one who tries to reach out to her,even when I call she wouldnt pick my calls.
But last week,I noticed a missed whatsapp video call from her,and nothing else.
Now,Am thinking if I should accept her back,as its been over 8 months now.
Please sincere and valuable advice will be appreciated. Thanks

What did you do to her, Oga? Women don't just move back to their parents houses. If you must know, many parents will refuse to house their married daughters for two weeks talk more of eight months.

I trust my parents, if I carry my things to their house after a week when I get married, they will ask me "When are you going back to meet your husband".

You have selected what to say. Why did she leave your house?

easzypeaszy:
They said distance relationship is like a moving car with no steering wheel...more in a scientific way...Distance relationship is a Scaler quantity...We bless the name of God for a successful one..the distance between us self is like... hmmmmmm, i cant even say...but sha we still balling.

Congratulations! May God bless your union. Distance Relationship works if only both parties are willing to commit. The both of you have tried.

Jamie90:


That is pure fuckkery.

What did a man of 40 see in a girl of 21 year old.

Except, of course, if he looks 30 and you look 25.


I personally think the age gap is too much.


If he looks like a 40yr old and you dare get married to him, people will see it as a sign of desperation.


Besides, if he does wrong, how can you correct someone whom by standards, you should be calling BROS

"What will people say?" This statement is the bane of humanity.

predmine20:
I am 21 years old and I am in a relationship with a 40 years old man.
He says he is ready to settle down any moment from now.

I am happy with that because we love each other.
Do you think the age difference is too much?

Will it affect me or my partner?

Hello dear,
Does he love you? Care about you? Are you emotionally stable enough to start having babies? Your partner, does he use his age as an avenue to scold you and treat you like a child? Have you noticed any obsessive-controlling streak in him?

Personally, I don't see anything wrong in this kind of relationship. If you love him and he feels thesame way about you. Carry go.

To all of you saying she is dating the man because of money? Why are you all fond of saying that? People fall in love because they are in LOVE. Everything isn't about money, or giving money in exchange for favors.

Op. All the best.

Waist trainer that I bought some years back that almost suffocated my bladders. I was urinating every 15minutes. My ribs were on fire. I ditched it after three days.

MrMoney007:
killer!
please don't listen to this killer, you'd be dead in less than an hour, your brain will get frozen, body goes into a shock, death follows.

I'm sure he is joking. No one will try this

ITbomb:
There's this practice I've found very effective ie holding your breath

When you hold your breath, everything about you seems to come to a standstill and you feel your body being lifted while anticipating the next rush of air.
Even when I experience an embarrassing erection, all I do is hold my breath and my body refocus

Wow!! Thank you! I just got in from a health center. I thought I developed a bp! Apparently, I'm hypochondriac! Thank you . I'd definitely try this. I've been stressed alot recently.

motherfucker:
huh... I felt i was talking too much or being boastful lol. that was why. pardon me lol.

Hells nah! I just couldn't quote you. You weren't being boastful, trust me. I've been concocting soap formula all day, I barely got a breather. Apologies! Thank you for inspiring me today.


You can take down your email addy

motherfucker:
oh okay. I just saw your PM.

Yeah. That was before I saw an alternative means(here) to quote you.

You shouldn't have taken that message off. It was inspirational. I planned to quote you in the morning by God's grace when they lift the ban.

motherfucker:
See image.

Hi dear, if you see this. mods said I spammed romance section and it got me banned. Lol. I can't quote there. That's why you haven't seen me reply your mention.